How to turn a Virgo man on
January 2, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
On the surface, Virgo is the sign of chastity. However, Virgo is no virgin. This sign relates to the archetype of the Sacred Prostitute, as well as the myth of Persephone and Demeter, in which Demeter’s daughter was raped and abducted by Hades, Lord of the Underworld.
Virgo is concerned with integrity, with keeping “clean.” Of course, when literalized this looks like obsessive-compulsive scrubbing and organizing. But in a deeper sense, Virgo wants his or her sexuality to be aligned with the intention to serve and be respectful of the body. This desire can manifest in a “master-slave” relationship, but the true Master is not the Dominatrix, but Goddess.
Virgo realizes that sexuality is a bridge to higher consciousness (Pisces), and that the body is a vessel of Spirit. With this in mind, it is easy to define what turns a Virgo off: any type of sex in which he feels that the bodies involved are not treated with the deepest respect. Being used, abused, shamed … a Virgo may fall into the dark recesses of sex, but it is these wounds that propel him towards a higher expression of his sexuality. Techniques that connect the two worlds are more important than those that impress for ego’s sake.
So dress as a schoolgirl if you want …
Comment below: How have you managed to turn a Virgo man on?
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I would wait till the end of the earth…take it slow? No problem. After reading the above, I will make sure I never date anyone else again!….lol Waiting for my man…He’s got Sun, Venus, Mars in Virgo and Cancer rising and moon…how sweet is THAT!
if a mans moon is in virgo does this apply at all?
How do you turn a Virgo on??
it shud be easy : i had a date with one recently, and we had an instant attraction, its hard to keep it though , think they play hard to get abit lol , id appreciate peoples feedback too :0)
Well, speaking aas a virgo woman in love with my virgo man…we don’t play hard to get. We are making sure whomever we’re sending time with is worth our time.
well…playing the innocent and naive really works with virgo men!! (just to mention that all my boyfriends were virgo)…but that only in the beginning. Then they expect that you learn quickly
hey yo yo , i dont understand them ( or men for that matter) ive played it cool, hes been on hols n business for 2wks and ive heard nothing, bit deflated by it all, whats a girl to do, i really like him :-S xx
Well, Well..
That’s easy..Played it slowed…little agressive in the middle….played it slowed to the end and Voila! Virgos like alot of fore play so fork it up!
hey to sign of freedom again.. what do you mean? at which stage ??
we never really got off the ground !!!
I DONT GET HIM ‘PERIOD’…i contacted him on his bday while he was away. it was fab, then nothing.. arghhhhhhhh MEN !!!….theres fore play, and foreplay, do u have to contact them all the time, Mr busyballs too busy to pick up the fone, what if hes met someone NEW. out of time too late
Sg,
Honestly, it sounds like he is not really that interested or he is trying to figure out his feelings. The Virgo I like is the same way but we always talk and he is always available to me. You should not have to contact him all the time, it should be a give and take situation. Keep busy if he likes you he will contact you. I found this article that might help you check it out. http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/419980/signs_that_say_hes_just_not_into_you_pg2.html?cat=41 (copy and paste the link)
hi thanks for the reply, i hear what ur sayin thats what i said earlier ive read a few books inc, that one !! so im not daft, if i dont hear, least i know, and can forget him. thanks for the reply though x
My Virgo best friend has turned into my Virgo best friend and boyfriend
He is amazing as a friend, and he is even more mind blowing as a boyfriend.
thats disgusting – He has a girlfriend , I have to say that is sad lame shallow and pathetic that you need to sleep with another womens man to feel sexy – I hope you learn to love yourself one day because until then NO ONE WIL LOVE YOU !!!
My Virgo and I have been dating for nearly 2 years. He is the BEST lover I’ve ever had!!! Very gentle and tender- luvs 2 cuddle. lol Tries to play shy but I’ve seen his sensual sign! MMMMMMM Was married to an Aquarius(i’m cancer) and we did not click at all. Terrible sex life! It’s SO nice to be appreciated for a change and made to feel like a desirable woman. VIRGOS ROCK;)
I just don’t get it? Every time I find myself attracted to a man, he turns out to be a virgo. I sleep with him after a period of time, because the sexual attraction between us is so thick, and the mental comfort is so strong. But, each and every time, poof, they disappear. Can some one please tell me, what the hell am I doing to the poor creatures, that they first: show interest, second: (after a few months) sleep with me (which is totally explosive and passionate), and third: disappear? I can understand if its a date and sexually conquer sought of situation, but, it only happens with the virgo men I meet. And they have been flocking to me like magnets, lately. Help!!!!! I need this horrid cycle to stop!
I think they are a total pain in the ass….and I have NO patience anymore
for someone that “always has to be the Victim” and is “Always Right about Everything”….
and the Criticism – forget it! It must be nice to SO PERFECT Virgos.
Pooor Virgo… Go cry to a Cancer, they’ll feel bad for you- and maybe believe you and
take you in…then you can “rescue” her and “fix her” and then resent her…
Savior/Victim……….It’s a BAD VIRGO PATTERN.
Aries/Taurus, I’m an Aries girl, too. I have a Virgo man. The Aries – Virgo attraction is easy to explain – they are both honest, intellectual signs. The problem is Aries are WAY to emotional for Virgos. A Virgo man sleeping with you is merely a sign that he likes you – they are just about the slowest moving folks about a relationship (trust me – we’ve been together for just over a year, but we still aren’t ‘dating’ officially). As much as you want to – and I know it’s hard! – you cannot start holding hands, kissing them all the time, or – God forbid – cuddling. But, you can’t be too aloof, either, because they need constant reassurance. Just check the body language – if he flinches and pulls away from some affectionate display, then cool it for a while. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you – trust me, if a Virgo man is finding ways to be around you, he likes you. Just test the waters every now and again and you’ll be fine. Once you get past the LOOONG process of them deciding if they should be with you – it’s the best!
Well, i dont think its worth a year of what ifs, i only got the first date stage, and he was touchy feely,and we kissed and that ina restaurant, but i let him down on the 2ned date because i was ill,. and he went @AWOL’ til i contacted him for his bday, oh the drama, i wudnt waste my years waiting for him, my mum and sister are the same, she dated her man for 14 yrs before they got married !!!..and she called the shots….Selfish people
Maybe I’m just being sensitive here, being a virgo and all, but keep in mind that we’re just as critical about ourselves as we are everyone else. Sometimes the lack of calling ect. might be fear of scaring YOU away and not just coolness. The lack of expression of feeling isn’t the same as lacking of feeling. Lol, my husband can tell when I’m pissed because I stop being critical and “politely tolerate” him. As for turning a virgo on, thats easy, intelligent conversation and a polished look will do it everytime.
I’m “friends” with a Virgo man. I must say that i have had the best and most amazing sex with this man…But it seems like I am the one who always calls him, he seems emotionally detached and he recently told me that I’m a very sensitive person and that he doesn’t want to hurt me. He moved to another state recently and I’m willing to wait to see what comes out of this. I think I messed up though because I wrote him a long letter pouring my heart out. Looking at all the comments about virgos I may have just scared the crap out of the poor man! I may have told him too much too soon…
We get along sooo great, the love making is incredible and he’s kind, intelligent and definitely one of a kind. When he comments on what I should do (exercise, clean my house,etc) I take it in good stride not as criticism, it means he cares. I always tell him that he’s a diamond in the rough.
On my part I need to not show so much emotion, clean my house (hahaha), be supportive and most importantly be patient… Very patient.
We shall see how this turns out. In the meantime I love my Virgo!!!
Oh my days, just got that last post as an email,and couldnt help but Laugh Out loud, and SAY Oh my god NOOOOOOOOOO!!!.. ‘Friends with Benefits’ Otherwise KNOWN as ‘ HAVE UR CAKE AND EAT IT !!.. come on Ladies, GET A GRIP !!!!!.. Sex is the bargaining COokie,and Shouldnt be given out LIGHTLY !!!. whats wrong with the world today? sex to buy/get his attention..lol.. I say find a NICE SINGLE MAN, No GAMES !!!!…. U need to Read a RULES BOOK !!! QUICK !!! xxx
I am dating a Virgo man and he is sensational in every way imaginable!! Sex is over the top, passion is equal and he is very attentive to me in every and respects me and is romantic, what else can you ask for!!! His body is over the top. I’m in total love with this beautiful man and feel lucky to have found such a great loving man, after such a bad divorce. I’m stoked!
I hear ya jeane….My virgo is beyond amazing too. gentle, thoughtful, kind….and our sex life…..DREAMY:) Was married for 17 years to a man that was cold & abusive. Never thought in a million years I would be treated like a Princess. My Dreams Have Come True!
@ Sg: “SEX IS THE BARGAIN!” I had an amazing time last night with a virgo guy (im a virgal
). We just clicked. I mean, we kissed, tickled, cuddled, and laughed all night while watchin a movie in bed. It was getting late and he was getting all hot and practically started beggin me to spend the night. But homeboy also just got out of a serious relationship and isnt “ready” for me.. well it turns out i can play that game too mister! I slept in my own bed last night. no regrets. until were official these legs are closed.
-btw it has been driving him insane. also ladies, dont cling! nobody likes that.