How to know when a Scorpio doesn’t love you
January 3, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
A Scorpio can be cruel to those he loves, so how do you know when he doesn’t love you?
Scorpios can be secretive and manipulative, but they can also be intensely intimate and devoted. Why would they bother hurting someone they didn’t care about? If a Scorpio is seething in resentment, he is still attached to the target of his anger. You can still be emotionally connected to someone without loving them, but if a Scorpio is going to let you in, he’s likely to “love” you in some way; he trusts you enough, after all, to give you access to his inner sanctum. Perhaps Scorpio is confusing “love” with “trust,” but any Water sign feels loving in a safe relationship.
Scorpio is the sign of sexual and financial intimacy. If he trusts you enough with his money, you best not betray him, or he will burn you to the ground. The same with sex — sleep around, and you might as well hire an emotional bodyguard.
So if a Scorpio doesn’t love you, does that mean that he won’t bother destroying you? If you’re in a relationship with a Scorpio man and he has fallen out of love, he may not try to actively hurt you. He may just put up a wall. It hurts when he’s taken away your key, but be grateful that all you’re getting is shut out. It could be much, much worse.
Comment below: How have you known when a Scorpio was no longer (or never) in love with you?
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Hey PHOENIX.
WHAT MY EX DID TO ME THAT HURTS ME? BECAUSE HE TELL ALL LIES ABOUT ME.ASKING A SPACE WHEN HE ALREADY DUMPED ME AND SAYING HE WILL GONNA FIND ME AND HE WAS JUST OUT OF LINE ACCUSING ME MUCH.THIS IS TOO MUCH DRAMA THAT I HATED FOR A MAN LIKE HIM AS A SCORPIO MAN.I AM CONFUSED .ALL I KNOW WAS TO CRY AND STRIKE BACK USING ALL MY NEGATIVE TRAITS TOWARDS HIM SAYING FINALLY THAT WE ARE OVER AND I AM DONE ENOUGH BUT STILL I HAVEN’T RECEIVE ANY ANSWERS FROM HIM.I WONDER WHY HE IS TOO RESENTFUL.WHY HE WAS TOO JEALOUS OF MY PAST LOVERS, SPECIALLY THE TRANSLATOR GUY OF EMBASSY OF JORDAN BECAUSE HE KNEW I WAS FELL IN LOVE THIS GUY. SO WHEN WE ARGUED HE ASKED ME TO LEAVE THEN SAYING OR I HAVE TO CALL YOUR EX TRANSLATOR BF TO INTERPRET ALL THOSE THINGS TO ME..I WAS SHOCK WHAT HE WAS SAYING. HE WAS THE FIRST ONE WHO ASKED ME WHOM I FELL IN LOVE WITH ALL THOSE PAST LOVERS I HAD.AND HE WAS JEALOUS? THEN I WOULD SAY HE WAS A STUPID TO ASK THOSE QUESTIONS.HE COUNTED ALL THE MONEY I SPENT WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER. I DIDN’T BETRYA HIS MONEY.I ASKED HIM FOR EVERYTHING THEN HE SAID OK..SO WHAT’S THE DEAL. HE WAS MAD AND TELLING ALL SARCASTIC WORD TO ME.HE WANTED ME TO FIGHT HIM, I SAID I WASN’T HIS SOLDIER.HE SAID GO BUY ME A FOOD. I REPLIED, OH WE GO OUT TOGETHER AND EAT. HE RESISTED SO I LET HIM KNOW THAT I WILL NEVER DO THAT..I WAS HUNGRY AND HE WAS HUNGRY TOO BUT I WANTED HIM TO BE WITH ME.NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION WAS,THEN HE SAID SO YOU HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH ME..I WAS JUST STARING AT HIM..BUT MY MIND WAS PLANNING TO LEAVE TOMORROW WHETHER PEACE OR UNPEACE.I CAN’T STAND ANYMORE MY EYES WERE FULL OF TEARS AND I JUST CAN’T IMAGINE AN ORDINARY U.S ARMY MADE ME CRY..BRAG HIMSELF AND DRAG MY STANDARD PROFILE.I HAVE TO RISE UP AND MAKE MYSELF GET OVER THOSE DRAMA HE MADE.THEN MORNING I DECIDED TO TALK TO HIM EVEN HE WAS STILL MAD JUST TO MAKE THINGS CLEAR.I ASKED HIM IF HE LOVES ME..THIS IS HIS ANSWER…I LOVE YOU FROM THE ONE NIGHT AND ONE DAY BUT NOW I KNOW YOU BETTER I DON’T KNOW. SO I CRIED SAYING THAT’S FINE BABY..I WILL LEAVE IF THAT’S WHAT YOU WANT JUST TO PROVE MY LOVE..WHEN I LEFT I KISSED HIM SAYING HONEY, I LOVE YOU AND WAS NEVER BEEN PLAYED WITH YOU FROM THE START.YOU ARE THE MAN I WANNA BE WITH FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE..BUT I CAN’T FORCE YOU TO LOVE ME WHEN YOU DON’T FEEL ANY WARM OF LOVE AT ALL.PHOENIX…REMEMBER IT WAS STRUGGLE FOR 3 DAYS ..HE DIDN’T EAT, NO BRUSHING HIS TEETH AND NO TAKING A BATH.THAT’S WHY I WAS FORCE TO LEAVE. OUR WEDDING WAS GONE..WHAT MAKES ME HURT IS THAT WHEN I LEFT HE SENT EMAIL HE GONNA FIND ME SOON. PHOENIX..I AM SORRY TO TELL YOU BUT I HAVE PAST THAT I DIDN’T WANT TO HAPPEN AGAIN.I DID LOVED MY EX SCORPIO MAN..BUT IF IT IS FULL OF DRAMA..THEN I KNOW IT HURTS ME MUCH BUT I HAVE TO LET IT GO…IT WAS HURT BECAUSE THE MAN WHO WAS TOO CLOSE IN MY HEART BECAME A STRANGER IN MY OWN SIGHT..THEN HE BLAMED ALL FOR ME. ALL HIS FRUSTRATIONS.WHY? TELL ME PHOENIX.YOU DUMPED THE LADY AND BLAMED ALL TO HER?
So sad update: ironicall two things have happened to both me and my scorpio that are causing us both to have to relocate. Hes work will be closing so hes relocating to his hometown to stay with his best friend until he gets on his feet. just days afterwards, my roomate cousin moved out 9due to being laid off) and i am unable to afford our place so i too am moving very soon to my hometown to stay with my father for a while until im back on my feet. It's been a struggle these past two years financially, as it has been for many people, and i'm now out of options.
@barbie – i know you're in a similar situation so i hope you still keep posting and let me know how the distance is working out for you two.
I told my scorpio that i too was being forced to go, that i guess life has other plans for us than the spot where in, which logically i know its the best move for both of us to get out of this place. Las Vegas is not a healthy environment for many people much less emotionally volatile people like me and my scorp. Its easy to get caught up in the maddness of it all and the sickness of so many hedonisitc ways around you. But even though i know this deep down, that we would both be better in a more sane environment, i've never had to end a relationship of any sort before it had reached its natural conclusion. I feel like there is so much we still had left to do with each other, so many things we never got around to doing and experiencing.
I told him last night i would miss him more than i care to – our talks, the unusal dynamic we had between us, the growth we experienced as people because of the other one and how all there would be left is a hole where all that used to be when finally part. He didn't reply. I text him a bit later saying i hope i didnt make him feel awkward by being so emotional. he replied "i have nothing to say". I told him i didn't know how to take that so i would just be quiet too but that i hoped that wouldnt be the last words we said to each other. he said it wont. i expressed that i was afraid we would never talk to each other again. he said he "doesnt usually expect much when people move away". i said altho im not good at keeping in touch i would try with him because he was more important to me than most but that i knew how it goes when you're here and they're there and he'll be hanging with other girls and its just how it goes. he only replied "uh hun".
So im hurt because it seems like he doesnt care either which way, almost as if i were nothing to him. but i know with him things are often not at all what they seem. its just so strange to me that just a few weeks ago he was yelling at me that he cares more about me than anyone else and wants to be in my life for a long time and be there for my daughter. but then turns around and tells me hes moving and now that im going in a seperate direction as well is just seeming apathetic. i wonder if all our intense emotional connections were just him getting caught up in the moment and wanting to play the part, wanting to do the drama, or if they were sincere. And if they were, what does he want to happen now. hes certainly not saying tho and i doubt he will.
i woke up in the middle of the night out of nowhere, just sat up as if somethiing woke me and i was paniced, even before i realized i was awake. i immediately texted him, still half asleep mentally, "where r u?" he immediately texted back why and was i meaning to text him or was i texting the guy i had told him about when he told about the girl he had dated briefly. i realized then that it bothered him far more than he was letting on if he jumped to that conclusion. this makes me think he does truely care for me but in what exact way i feel like i'll never know and never get the chance to find out.
im so emotionally distraught from all of this, ALL OF THIS, happening so suddenly. and truth be told, afraid of what the future has in store for me and us. i feel like we barely were able to keep it together when we lived down the street from each other, how on earth can we keep something there when we're going to be across the country from each other. It never came around full circle, we never really made it official, only this weird limbo stage. i dont know. im just so sad, so stressed, so broken hearted to not get the chance to see what could have been…and what my life is going to be like next.
@Marie $ The Countess,
My Heart goes out to both of you. its makes me sad that it might not be the same experience we all go thru with the Scorpio men but similar because of the sadness in the situation we each are, I really dont know if life is fair or not I just know that we get hurt and sometimes it can be difricult to deal with I do hope that all of us who have been hurt by a Scorpio or the situation we are in will only make us stronger and and we fine someone who really apreciates and loves us.
When I feel sad about my Ex-Scorpio men I listen to music, paint or draw it helps me deal with the pain I’m going thru. Theres this particular song that I love is call “Dont forget about me” by Macy Grey yes it sad by it brings me to reality and that sadness I feel for my Ex-Scorpio men is not that bad as days go by.
I hope my words help to ease the pain a little. All I know is that Scorpio Men are hard to forget. Why I have no Idea.its been 9 nine months since I last saw mind and my heart still aches for him.
@lovelylibra I totally agree with you on how you can still miss them. I haven't really talked to him since May any conversations with him after that he just wasn't the same person but i finally cut him out in August. It was painful to do but it really was the best option. All of you ladies just stay strong and do things just for you. I still cry and I still miss him because denying it won't do anything. Take Care all of you.
GOOD MORNING…AM AT OFFICE.
THANKS LIBRA LADY..IT’S JUST A PART OF OUR LIVES TO FEEL THE PAIN WHILE WE ARE STILL ALIVE. IT’S JUST BECAUSE WE FELL IN LOVE TO THE PERSON WHO DIDN’T EVEN APPRECIATES THAT LOVE. THEY MAYBE OVERWHELMED THE REALITY OF WHAT TRUE LOVE IS OR THEY MIGHT AFRAID THAT ONE DAY THEIR WOMAN WHOM THEY LOVE FOR THEIR LIVES WOULD FIND A MAN TO BE LOVE. WE CAN’T EVEN BLAME THEM. ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS TO UNDERSTAND THEM. ONE DAY OUR TEARS WILL NEVER BE SHED NOR THE PAIN WILL NEVER BE FEEL. GOD KNOWS WHAT’S THE BEST FOR US. WE HAVE ONLY DRAW OURSELVES TO GET CLOSER TO HIM AND EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE..DON’T BOTHER MANY THINGS WHEN YOU MISS HIM. YOU CAN SEND HIM AN EMAIL OR SEND HIM A MESSAGE THRU HIS MOBILE. IT’S ALL UP TO YOU JUST TO EXPRESS WHAT YOU FEEL. HOWEVER, IT MIGHT NOT BE A GOOD OPTIONS BECAUSE THE MORE YOU KEEP ON ATTACHED YOURSELF TO THAT MAN THE MORE YOU WILL FEEL FRUSTRATING IT WOULD BE..SINCE THEIR NATURE IS “MYSTERY” AS A SCORPIO WOMAN “WE ARE LONER”. WE CAN LIVE WITHOUT LOVE BECAUSE WE FOCUS A LOT TO OUR WORK. THE ONLY REASON WHERE WE CAN FIND PEACE.IF HE TRULY LOVES US..THEY WILL COMEBACK..IF NOT THEN WE HAVE TO MOVE ON AS HARD AS IT IS..BE STRONG. ALLOW GOD TO RULE YOUR LIFE . GOD KNOWS WHEN TO HAVE IT. JUST BE PATIENCE.GO OUT AND HAVE FUN AND WORK. LISTEN TO THE MUSIC LIGHTLY NOT EMOTIONALLY. THAT’S WHAT I DID BEFORE WHEN MY WEDDING WAS GONE. HURT THAT I CAN’T EVEN IMAGINE HOW I ENDED THE AGONY I WAS STRUGGLING. I AM HAPPY NOW AND MEN KEEP ON RUNNING ME…NO ONE CAN CAPTURE MY HEART AGAIN…BEAT THE LOVE!
MUCH LOVE,
MARIE
Hi countess- sorry its been awhile working threw some issues in life. As for your questions can we grow in love. I think we can to an extent. Like each convo and embrace brings us closer yet i cant stop the ability or possiblity that someone else could ome along whos brings things out natrually in him. As far as where does it leave you idk. I think maybe he needs to make up is mind this reminds me of one thing happening in my life now. I know a scorpio guy who wont admit that he likes this aqua girl. She's hopless for him and ttheyve been friends for years but everytime something happens or she hints she likes him or anyone says they should be together he ignores it and becomes odd. Ive asked him about it and he says somehthing like i dont want to ruin our freindship what if. Dont know why it reminded me of that but it leaces you wondering if i should wait and if hell ever want you like that. deosnt want anyone else to have you but somethings missing. THat isnt love but possession i think idk my mind is ohnestly still scattred from new events in my life but i promise ill think more on it. Later countess.
Scorpio in the shadows-It stll amazes me how much we seem to be alike my b day oct. 26 though. And your not disturbing me in the least bit. Alright so im just gonna give a basic of some things in our relationship in some of that feels all to familiar. When we first started to grow closer i told her there would be times where id grow cold and during these times she should just hold on to me no matter what i do. And sometimes i try to push he r off but after a few i see her still there and pull her to me. Then after awhile sometimesshe gets things out of me. We’ll be holding eachothre and shell start to talk whats bothering her and then ask about me and how she can help andsays things like well be together we’ll figure this out and i end up telling her. Last night actually and i admit this outloud. I let down my guard and felt sorry for showing weakness. I was crying in short she said it only made her love me more. So we held eachother and talked. As for control and things i think maybe in this case your the wiser and might haft to kinda teach him in a way. Like when he ask wahts wrong just say it lightly. Me and my scorpio woman actually sometimes write it down and we keep a journal together. Sometimes we’ll type eachother on facebook and jhave a convo. His walls will come down in time when you guys are togehter. In fact me and my scorpio are odd. Ive admitted im harsh sometimes and she says she doesnt get made ause she knows she gts annoying. Threw it all we hold eachother alot and sometimes say oting. Just play with eachothers hair or trace eachothers face and things. Idk if this helps in truth my thoughts have been tiring and depressing. Witch leads me to distraction. As for whats troubling him. My scorpio woman has a way of doing this to me that ive only recently notice. I think ill ask her how she does it. Shes a nov. scorpio as well. I’ll be back to help if ican. Sorry if this information is not helpful but ill come back to my thinking evuantually.
Scorpio in the shadows-It stll amazes me how much we seem to be alike my b day oct. 26 though. And your not disturbing me in the least bit. Alright so im just gonna give a basic of some things in our relationship in some of that feels all to familiar. When we first started to grow closer i told her there would be times where id grow cold and during these times she should just hold on to me no matter what i do. And sometimes i try to push he r off but after a few i see her still there and pull her to me. Then after awhile sometimesshe gets things out of me. We'll be holding eachothre and shell start to talk whats bothering her and then ask about me and how she can help andsays things like well be together we'll figure this out and i end up telling her. Last night actually and i admit this outloud.
I let down my guard and felt sorry for showing weakness. I was crying in short she said it only made her love me more. So we held eachother and talked. As for control and things i think maybe in this case your the wiser and might haft to kinda teach him in a way. Like when he ask wahts wrong just say it lightly. Me and my scorpio woman actually sometimes write it down and we keep a journal together. Sometimes we'll type eachother on facebook and jhave a convo. His walls will come down in time when you guys are togehter. In fact me and my scorpio are odd. Ive admitted im harsh sometimes and she says she doesnt get made ause she knows she gts annoying. Threw it all we hold eachother alot and sometimes say oting. Just play with eachothers hair or trace eachothers face and things. Idk if this helps in truth my thoughts have been tiring and depressing. Witch leads me to distraction. As for whats troubling him. My scorpio woman has a way of doing this to me that ive only recently notice. I think ill ask her how she does it. Shes a nov. scorpio as well. I'll be back to help if ican. Sorry if this information is not helpful but ill come back to my thinking evuantually.
Marie- i must admit im conflicted on God and all this talk of the good. SO much happens and has happened to people. I’m just annoyed for a God to almost seem like he’s ignoring us soetimes. There are lots of people yes God helps those who help themse;ves but if we help ourselves then whats the point of asking for help other then for a feeling of comfort and justification of the question we all as k witch is why? Why is it this way, why are you doing this. It amazes me how much we get sunk into things thought if we believe and have it i suppose the comfort of other blivers and someone else being out there would be helpful but almost feel like the kindness in peoples hearts are aquashed to die. The compassin lacking within ther lives because of there own wants and needs. And God why is there only two sides i wonder i am annoyed all over christanity it seems like you can tell humans have made this or is it this is God threw our eys. There areso many questions that i can only ask if and when i die and only if it even exists at all. Humans are s flawed and yet our Chosen God is almost human and we are dipicted in his image yet we are all so different. I cant help wondering What if heaven is only death and hell is what we live day to day in our minds with the insecurties of our emotionss the sadness and emptyness of our hearts and the thoughts of why as each day seems to be an indestinguishable blur and all the while you wonder how your even here at all. God imaginaery or the greatest epic ever made. An allgory designed to teach us lessons of what not to do and why we shouldnt do it. Something to restrict in our minds a rule a structure to Keep us all living civilly or what in our minds is civil.I cannot say it could all be random chance or maybe only we believe we are being help and itll work out for the good. We must believe theres a reason for this madness. We haft to. Otherwise what then. We feel alone uncombterable sad because the thought tht all this just happens in chaos. And we well we need structure. We need balance we are so temperalmental for creatuers for higher beings. That witch makes us unique also makes us strong but weak. Our emotions are even chaotic. I feel that i dont want to know the answer if God or even the devil is real for if i wer to know then what. Nothing would change short of the question answered one of many. Like why are some seeming to have light casted on them while others struggle day by day. Why do some need to be put threw more and why do alot die before time. Is it you created us but have lefft us to our own devices. And what is the dark one what is he if not created in your image why does he look so diferent. I know someone will prolly say because evil tranformed them because his becuase that but nietherside can conclude anything and so it is a circle maybe that is why dante put circles to describe hell. Maybe he was smarter then we beleive or a mere coincedence bt there are so many mere coincedences. I love logic and i am deeply into religion yet here i am agin with this affliction to my thoughts. My heart vs the mind my emotions versus thoughts. And agin it seem nothing mor the the struggle of myslef and my alter ego what if God is a represenitive of the Good in us and the devil our bad. While the good side is Good the bad side whispers things threw our conscinece and gives us new feelings to go against the good and if we are truley born from adam and eve then it wouldnt be people that they were refering to it’d haft to be some kind of micro orginism. Or something we all formed from to be true thus proving science is correct but science contradicts relgion so there it is again. So much defusing and refusing it is ike our own thought and emotions again that it seems a struggle. How can this be why is this, where is this place that is so great and can science not prove its existance and can relgion not prove its existance fake or real? If we get one life an this is none existant then amsad to hear this. Millions and billions have wastedthere lies or i wont say that they kept it aive with there lives for something they belieed in so strongly. So they have not wasted but still. For our comfort it exist for our own purpose of wanting soemthing higher so we feel justifycation in what we are doing. I must detest sometims yet my faith remains the same.
hi Phoenix,
Sometimes, we must to trust our loveones. We cannot live with all cruelty that binds in our hearts and fail to have faith either GOD or our partner.
So sad to know that loving scorpio is somewhat a painful ride. We can’t control them unless they make the first move. I wish I didn’t left him as he wanted me to do..but can’t look back the past. I was hurt. too much to bear.
Phoenix…how do I win him back despite of all pains, hurts, disrespecting and insults we uttered. tell me how? maybe he find someone now .I don’t know. you almost the same his birthday..so I guess you have the same nature and advice that maybe could help.
Marie
Marie- I’ll email you k.
Hi Marie!
I love the way you have that faith in God and how you trust him.
I would love to feel the same way and dont get me wrong I know he exist and his there but sometimes my faith dies…Its just that sometimes things happen in life that are very hard to understand and why are they alow in life? I'm not blameing God, but why do things happen tha thurt us so much???
I'm not sure if I am expressing myself right or not. Right now I;m so confuse. My ex-Scorpio man
called me this pass wednesday. He expalin what has happen all this time . But his call only distrube me, my emotions are all over the place I feel so sad, angry and betrayed by him! What his asking me just made it worst. I feel that I hate him so much! I'm so lost right now. All I know is that he never cared for me! GOD I want to have faith In him and I'm thankfull for everything he has given me….but why is life so cruel??????
Hi Libra lady.
Yes, I always run to GOD when I have problem because I know HE knows everything about me that even my hair are numbered..so is HE my father in heaven. I love GOD even I am a sinner for GOD didn’t look our sin but HE just wanted to see our hearts.HE knows how we tried much and harder just to please in his sight but since we are just human HE didn’t expect perfection for us.Have faith in GOD and Trust him with all your heart that only HIM can give you a happy life.Be patient and allow GOD to heal your broken heart that sometimes we don’t even know where to pick those pieces.Pray to GOD that if it is not scorpio man HE wants to give you then You would be happy for that because it is not HIS will..Don’t be a slave of your emotion or else nothing will come to your lives as pleasant as it is that GOD may give. GOD knows when to have it, in his own perfect timing and we should have to wait patiently.Remember, GOD loves those who are humble because HE sees what’s your heart’s desire.Be a good lady.We have nothing to do to a scorpio man who knows we are not the perfect one for them.WE must not insist ourselves to them because it’s just a miserable life it would be.The man who loves us much will do anything and everything for us even giving his own life..he didn’t say bad words for us ’cause he knows it hurts us and thus it will lead us to leave however, if the man didn’t love us..to easy to hurt our deep feelings.As I said loving a person is a self dying and a sleepless giving.. and libra lady…I love you as a person and my friend in this blog.I know you have a kind heart and I know how much you suffer with this scorpio man..Look at me when my wedding was lost.I cried all my pains to GOD..and I said myself “I will never be a slave of my emotion ” it must be a will to let go..
We can’t change the people as we wanted them to be.GOD can chnage the unchangeable and can move the immovable. Listen to GOD and ask HIM to guide you.HE is our father in heaven.Our parents is just an instrument to give us life here on earth..look what HE can made..HE give everything that man cannot give.ALL the beautiful things you see in your eyes it’s all coming from GOD.
All the success we get it coming from HIM not from us because we have no power to make things happen..
Move on and act as if the scorpio man never exist.Let him feel that he’s just fooling himself because he didn’t have trust and HE never have faith to your love towards him.Let him talk by himself and let him realized that he lost a lady who loves him deeply.Most scorpios will strike back just wait him to be around in his time.because for now, he defeated himself that is our dark side as a scorpio.So I hope you will understand him..stay on your toes.He will comeback. Be hopeful ang have patient..
Much love,
Marie
Phenix/scorpio,
Thanks for the advice… The basic info you gave me on your relationship is surprisingly similar to mine. Last night he sat me down and talked to me. He said he realized how he’s been acting and he was very sorry for it. I showed no anger and tried to keep my composure and listened. Just when I thought our problem was going to be solved…….it wasn’t. All he said was that “I’m sorry….but you don’t deserve me.” WTF? Is this a scorpio man’s way of playing games with my head and my heart? The years we spent building our love….and for him to just let it come crashing down like it was NOTHING! Like it was just a fling. I’ve become withdrawn ( as if that’s a surprise), and just plain confused.
I’ve asked him of the wrong I’ve done and said….but he said I did nothing wrong. Our love has had problems before….and it’s not our fault. Everywhere around us people object to us being together. I’m talkin about complete strangers. It may seem strange to you but I guess it’s because I’m not giving clear enough details. I’ve felt his “sting” before and I’ve felt it more than with anyone else. So much, as a matter of fact, that I can’t help but think ALL MEN are like that. I just lay in bed trying to recall anything I did wrong. I know we had a huge fight before he officially ended the relationship.
All his friends love me, so I don’t think they’d say anything bad about me. I’m on the verge of just giving up on him. BUT i want him to LISTEN. I want him to listen and take in what I have to say instead of pretending to (he’s never done that to me before but he’s done that to others.). My friend says he thinks i’m too good for him. Hence the “you don’t deserve me” part and him saying I did nothing wrong. But my friend’s a female cancer….I want to hear a male opinion on it.
I’m sorry…I’m just REALLY confused and annoyed by this whole situation. I hope all is going well with you. Thank you.