How to know when a Scorpio doesn’t love you

ScorpioA Scorpio can be cruel to those he loves, so how do you know when he doesn’t love you?

Scorpios can be secretive and manipulative, but they can also be intensely intimate and devoted. Why would they bother hurting someone they didn’t care about? If a Scorpio is seething in resentment, he is still attached to the target of his anger. You can still be emotionally connected to someone without loving them, but if a Scorpio is going to let you in, he’s likely to “love” you in some way; he trusts you enough, after all, to give you access to his inner sanctum. Perhaps Scorpio is confusing “love” with “trust,” but any Water sign feels loving in a safe relationship.

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About Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at


  1. Same thing happen to me even though my ex scorpio new what i had been through and so had he,he promised to never hurt me or my children and had such a charm about him, he manipulated me and played mind games, cut me off for days, he was so open and caring at the start of the realtionship then just became cold he gives the impression their open honest and talk about their feelings but that can change in the blink of an eye, weather his cheating, putting his guard up so he doesnt get hurt or hurt u, whatever the reason they become so cold and distant quick as a flash..i realised to stop trying to analise him as it was destoying my soul, i new scoripos were like that as another ex was also a scorpio but i guess i fell for his charm once again. Never again. Theres liars even though they come Across as honest loyal men they are not they are secretive and selfish and will hurt u over and over! Im staying clear of scorpios for good. Its not worth the pain or distrespecting of yourself.

  2. Hi,
    I just wanted to thank you because although your advice was for another lady, I have been with a scorpio for along time like yourself, 23 years and going no where ever. Just games and stealing a woman’s precious years away! I felt so stupid realizing how long and thought I can’t just walk away. I can, just like you and all the women here should just go. This isn’t kind. Stringing people’s lives along knowing that they will never really commit to that lady is more than wrong!
    Anyway, I felt that your advice help me out and I wanted to say thanks.

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