How to keep the interest of a Leo man
January 23, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
If you keep paying attention to your Leo man, he ought to stay interested. He just wants an adoring audience. His ruling planet is the Sun, and imagine how our star would feel if no planets revolved around it? What’s the point of all that gravitational pull if you can’t draw anything into your field? Why emit all that warmth if there are no bodies to benefit from its fire?
You see, the Sun wants to shine its light upon you, but only if you promise to keep orbiting. You should have enough momentum to not get sucked into its flames and burned alive, but not be so big and powerful that you’re a competing star.
If you can master that, he’ll love you even if you’re demoted.
Comment below: How do you keep your Leo man interested?
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“Hi Im a Leo Female and Ive started seeing another Leo Male , it is weird to say the least, he asked me out for a couple of months but I kept putting him off, as I got the feeling he was a bit of a player, then I decided to give him a chance and we have been seeing each other for about two months now but only once a week, I can deffinatley tell that we are both leo’s and that we are made up very similar inside as we are both so bl00dy stubborn, we don’t like to give in to each other and don’t like to give too much attention to either one or be the first one to talk about problems or issues, but I have found benefits too, because we are so alike we both respect each others need for independance and each others pride and how easy it can be hurt, I get the feeling that he may still be a bit of a player but we have agreed not to sleep with others so all I have said in a nice way is that I would only have to find out the once and it would be his loss, and I think he respects that. However I feel now that I may be starting to get feelings for him, but I would never in a million years dream of admitting it to him, I will wait for him to say something first, and I think this maybe where our problems will start as I think he will do exactly the same, with how he feels and in progressing with the relationship, so we may not move forward and stay in stale mate, I just wondered what other people thought, and if anyone had any ideas? How long does it normally take before you decided to be a couple? Thanks”
Oh my goodness, I’m going through a similar thing. I’m a Leo female dating a Leo and sometimes it feels amazing how we get each other and we love to have FUN with each other and seem to want the same things out of life. But it is also a battle of wills. We met 6 months ago, but only started seeing each other long distance (same state different cities) about 2 months ago. That definitely changes the dating situation, because we have to plan trips etc to visit each other, but I have noticed the battle of the wills coming out big time in regards to calling/emailing each other. I waited a week for him to call one time and then I finally broke down and called him and he said in a sweet voice “How come you never call me anymore?” WTF, and I said playfully “how come YOU never call ME anymore” and he said “Maybe I should” and I said playfully again “yes, if you know what’s good for you”. And to be honest, that tactic is working right now – with a Leo, be confident and assertive, but also playful and sweet and kind of funny and lighthearted. As a Leo woman, I guess it’s a little easier because I know how sensitive we Leos are. It’s hard to figure out how much space is too much space because, as a Leo, we want our independence to roam free, but also want to be adored. Usually I wait for him to make a move, and then reciprocate so he knows I’m interested, then back off again. It is a game, but I think any men wants that challenge so he can win the beautiful prize, YOU!
Can an Aries girl and a Leo man work? Any opinions, suggestions on that?
hi….m a gemini female..vry much in love with a leo man..till date he is ma gud frnd..jst wanna ask ..will dat b ok if i propose to him first..??
I am a virgo and I am dating a leo male…When we 1st laid eyes on eachother it was immediate attraction of personality and physical being but what I find so difficult about a leo man is he is just so complicating in a weird way..He will txt me on my cellphone and tell me to call him instead of picking up his phone and simply calling me and when I ramdomly txt him it takes about 30mins or higher for him to reply to my txt..I just can’t figure him out and the virgo always have a keen sense of figuring people out,so for that matter I get really irritated..I can’t think of anyone I’ve met in the past that I like being around more than this guy,it’s just the self confidence and proudness that draw me to him and I’m so surprised at myself because I normally hate people like that..The one question I have is how the hell do you go about overlooking the bad of a leo man and focusing on their good traits because it’s just so hard to do concidering me not understanding his personality switches..”HELP” because I really don’t want this person out of my life no time soon but I am a virgo so I know soon enough that I’m gonna loose those virgo traits on him and it’s not gonna be pretty lmao!!!!
Virgo
A leo guy is a real charmer, Ive met a few. How to overlook a guys bad traits and focuss on his good traits, I would make a list for myself, weigh out the good the bad and like everyone, the ugly….. I bet you’ll see more beautiful then bad if you really look at the picture, If he really cares for you, you are soooo lucky, Leo guys are very romantic
DOnt hide all your virgo traits, I think virgo women are cool people, if there are just little things that you would want him to change then talk about it with him, dont hurt his pride though, We all have bad breath in the morning,noone is perfect….It sounds like he really cares about you but is a bit clumsy about it, guys are so cute, they dont talk like us, Ive heard some really insulting woirds that were actually meant as a compliment…..Teach him about “you” what you like, while letting him know what you “like” about him. MAybe thats all he needs, “I really like this about you, your really good at this…. but what do you mean by that?” Diplomacy….. Tact
Be romantic…..
Most men behave like that
I am a cancer woman dating a LEO man. Yes I know we don’t mix from the beginning because our signs, but he is very much attracted to me as I am to him. He is very stubborn and does not like to be told what to do, rather he appreciates if u lightly tell him how to do it next time.he doesn’t like anyone expecting anything from him.he doesn’t like crazy(I made that mistake in the beginning)so yes he doesn’t text much. But he does appreciate when I send him smiley faces-i kno childish, but they are not just lions, they are kittens too at times.I get so frustrated tho because I require more attention and adoration then he is willing to give.ugh!!! Sex is great between us. We both like the same things and he surprised me when he brought out toys the first time we had sex. I still smile when I think of that night.he doesn’t spend too much time with me because he says he’s busy but wen he does its much appreciated.and he tells me all the time that he misses me wen I’m not around.and he is very possessive when it comes to my vagina. He doesn’t want me sleeping with anyone else, but yet he doesn’t want a relationship with me yet?! So this confuses me. I’ve known him since july of this year. Only been dating for about a month now, but I swear I’m falling for him…please comment if this helped you or if u got any advice.
I’m an aquarius female and i’ve been with a leo male for 4 years! It’s been great and as long as i’m pumping out the attention, he’s pumping out the love so we’re both happy together.
Im a leo woman who recently broke up with a leo man,…and the funny thing is, ….it was one of the fun-ist relationships I have ever had. To have someone connect with you ever so effortlessly,…sometimes it felt like we were brothers and sisters…but you know how leo’s are…when we get stubborn our roars get louder.
Then its crazy because I bump into leo’s all the time,…Im a leo magnet. lol. Its like we almost have this primal wilderness instinct thing going. I think leo’s love the idea of being with another leo,….as long as the two can learn how to agree to disagree and learn how to compliment each other in every level,…this combination is one of the best in the zodiac world. It actually can and does work!
Natalia White
Ive never met any Leo/Leo Couples. I used to wonder why… Leo’s are fun people so I guess it would make sense to see a few together
Leos to get a leo man basically worhips them and feed them attion
@Cassidy:
RUN GIRL, RUUUN!
first of all, he doesn’t want you to sleep with other men but he doesn’t want you as his girlfriend either. have you talked about this? is he allowed to sleep with other women?
it is said that when a man is possessive with a woman this is a good sign.most men, and leos, alas, are specialists at conning women into believing into the good part of the story-just because he wants your vagina all for himself doesn’t mean he cares for you.
on the other hand leos are super jealous. try flirting with someone, discreetly, and don’t make it appear as you’d want him to know about it. this will set him on fire, and if he confronts you, say ambiguous things in the beginning. if he insists, deny it. see what happens afterwards and if he doesn’t bugde, then dump him. if he moves a little, don’t try it again unless as a spice- to freshen up the atmosphere and show him what he might miss.
don’t fall for him. he’s a master at finding decoys for what he wants. he wants to make you believe he’s into you by playing the possession card when he just wants you to be on speed dial. i don’t know too many things about your relationship and i am definitely not an expert but from what you’re saying, it kinda rings a huuuge bell. i had almost the same story with a leo.
the more shiz you put up the more he will disrespect you and prove himself to rule so much just because you become, in his eyes, his commodity, at his discretion. if a man doesn’t want you as a girlfriend then don’t invest anything in the story, you will most probably end up with a broken heart. i’ve been there, done that. it was UGLY.
lol @ Leo/Leo couple. leo men are narcissistic so there must be something about themselves that they can see in a leo woman
this is amazing. i am having a difficult time with a pisces man myself but what i’m reading here, overall, is so LEO, screams leo! the worst is i’ve had a story with a man like that and i see him in every message posted here….
ladies. i think it’s time to boot these fukers and stand up for ourselves a little….leo men make me sick, with their constant childish pride, egoism and need to be sucked up to. i get a head ache only when remembering my story. it was devastating back then, now it’s infuriating. i mean i’m sure we’re all gorgeous and all, why would any of us have to put up with an arrogant and bitchy leo? maybe it’s just me and my scars talking, taking into consideration i’m still having troubles with a man, but…for a LEO? god! i’m off those and my personal advice is to run as fast as you can at the first sign of leo-ness!
I’m a virgo woman who’s 100% in love with a leo man. But I’m worried that he won’t feel the same way. I told him how I felt. But he gaurds his emotions & thoughts. Is there a way to get him to come out that sheild he puts up? He is not an ordinary person, he makes music and is talented in a lot of areas. He’s very special to me. He has two children and a current girl. I wouldn’t break any1 up who genuinely has love for each other. but things happen…
Also, he has his qwirks about him but I can look pass them. I just would like for him to open up more. He likes to make grand appearances(being a performer it must come naturally) in everyrthing he does. That’s what makes me love him so much. He has a energy that gives you a sense of welcome and serenity. Can you tell I’m so into him?!