How to get an Aries man to forgive you

January 4, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner  


It shouldn’t be that hard. The Aries man drops things quickly if they bore him, and is not one to dwell in the past. Aries is in the ever-present NOW, engaged with whatever inspires him at this moment. It is almost as if he has no history. So why should he hold on to grudges? Most likely, he will express a burst of anger (or even rage), and then just let it go.

If an Aries man has trouble forgiving, it could be that he has the Moon or Mars in fixed signs (especially Leo or Scorpio). Every man is complex, and his Sun expresses only one (albeit important) part of his personality.

Many Aries men have Mercury and/or Venus in Pisces, the most forgiving of signs. He might be a warrior-martyr, initially feeling irritated and then believing he deserved to be a victim of your errant behavior. Then you can forgive him!

Comment below: Have you had difficulty being forgiven by an Aries man?



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39 Responses to “How to get an Aries man to forgive you”
  1. florence says:

    I am a Cancer female who recently had a strange relationship with an Ares Man. We met and immedialty became involved there was a connection like one I have never had before. I have always had relationship with Scorpio men. This Ares man adored me and we even spoke about a future together. Our relationship went on for about 4-5 months. the problem was he was fearful about getting in a realitonship although we were in one and I have a temper. I finally got exhausted with his over analysis and said a few unkind things and he vanished. He knows I am working on this anger thing and have improved and never in my life has someone just refused to communicate with me at all. I find it disturbing, even if we are not commited or even dating I value my friends and to be banished by someone is painful and confusing. I have tried contacting him but he made it evident he did not want me to bother him. There is no other women and we live a few hours away. We spoke on the phone 4-5 times a day until our break-up 3 weeks ago. He considers himself very spiritual and on earth to teach love….All my other boyfriends always stay close to me and I am not the type people want out of their lives. What can I do? Is there anything I can do? I am surprised I even care since he has acted like a spoiled child and did not have much to offer me but I cared about him. We are in our mid-fourties and he is acting like a 13 year old boy. I have not contacted him for a week since he has respondede so hatefully.
    Confused Cancerian

  2. anonymous says:

    Sounds like he’s got a lot of planets in Scorpio with all the analysis and the way he just cut you off at the end.

    Sun in Aries explains why he did it so abruptly, without a second thought. Aries is impulsive and does things on instinct, like a child.

    Scorpio never goes back to cross a bridge he’s blown up.

    His pride could be especially fierce with a Leo Moon and the endless analysis could stem from a Virgo ascendant.

    At any rate, he is not your average Aries and “strange” is a good word for your relationship. He feels he is on earth to teach love but he’s got a strange way of going about it to be sure.

    Cancer and Aries often start off like a house on fire but it seldom lasts, according to various sources.

  3. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    Victoria, this sounds like you. How many identities do you have?

  4. victoria says:

    go away, I’m in a bad mood ;)

  5. florence says:

    Thank you for your comments. I just looked at his chart and Surprise his riseing sign is Cancer! Mine is Sag. And his moon is in Virgo. I wrote him an apolgy for saying unkind words (ok so I said Slumming wasn’t good for me…and we should not try to get out of our status..I admit not nice) I was hurt…no excuse but I am working on my temper. He didn’t graduate from highschool and I went to an Ivy League, but honestly I loved his ingenunity and musical talent along with his other qualites…I really gave him an awful lot of support and help…he did not even respond to my truly heartfelt apology just asking to be friends. Well that is the last time I try…I am clear and if he needs to banish people then he has some issues. One of those individuals who refuses to acknowledge they have Any Anger…but use passive agressiveness and withholding to get back at you. Next time some guy mentions Karma or any New-age Donahue type verbage I am outta there! Give me a Manly hunter capitalistic Scorpio Anytime! they might sting you..but ooooh it feels good at least you know you have been Stung!

  6. in the mood says:

    Aha, that oh-so-sensitive Cancer rising explains it then. Cancer is good at clamming it up under the sand when pissed. They don’t really cut you off (so he could be back) but are famous for the passive-aggressive circuitous perpetual motion dance.

    1: having a circular or winding course [a circuitous route]
    2: not being forthright or direct in language or action [a circuitous explanation]

    Have you ever watched a crab scuttle away when threatened? They never run straight because they can’t. It’s the way God made them ;)

    Your Sagittarius rising spoke her mind, short on tact but high on truth, and he crabbed out. So what? You need a man who’s in your league Florence– “slumming it” is only fun when the birds are of the same feather.

  7. cancer rising says:

    sorry Jeff that was the crab in me

    so we all have various identities with 10 planets 12 houses and umpteen asteroids flying around that belt, and this sun is a tad twisted on the cusp ;)

  8. Victoria says:

    The fastest way to get any man to forgive you? Stage a surprise seduction with the best lingerie your money can buy. Then disappear off the face of the planet.

    He won’t be able to find you fast enough. In the interim you have time to think about whether you have time for all this funny business or if it is just too much work!

    Sometimes unforgiven ain’t so bad ;)

  9. notypicalvirgo says:

    I am a Virgo woman 9/69 dating an Aries male 4/70. We met and the chemistry was amazing. Not just physically but spiritually. We connected on a level unbeknownst to me prior to meeting this man. We spent all the time we could together and when we couldn’t we spoke on the phone several times a day at length. One weekend he wanted me to meet his son. We all spent an afternoon together…it was great! We kissed goodbye and he disappeared. He refused to speak to me. I have no idea what I did, said, or anything. When I have asked he won’t tell me. He won’t speak to me on the phone…only in text and email. He told me a few days ago that he missed me and that he cared…when I try to take that conversation further he retreats…no text or email. I don’t know how to get through. I miss him so much. HELP!

  10. LaMonica says:

    I’m a libra born October 12 my ex is Aries born March 22. I ended with him and then realized I made a huge mistake I want him back. At first he wouldn’t even talk to me, I’ve since spoke with him breifly on the phone about a gift I brought him which he said he would except. How can I win his heart back again?

  11. Anonymous says:

    l am a Sag woman and who was dating a Aries man and its amazing how when we first man l thought l had found the man who will marry me. after a two year live in relationship we can hardly stand each other as l am an outgoing artist and he is a business man who thinks arts is for low down people,he never attends artists functions and l feel bad especialy when all my friends will be with their man.Recently he beat the hell out me when l came on TV kissing with another guy in a scene.he somehow strongly believed l was dating the guy and came home at 12 midnight drunk, slamed the doors and kicked everything on his sight and the following morning he packed a few clothes and left without saying a word.
    He hasnt come back or contacted me in anywhere after that and not that l want him back in my life but l realy feel incomplete and l am spending everyday seated at home browsing the net l dont have an ego for anything now.l feel it would have been more better if we seperated completely as now l dont know where he is and what he is thinking.
    l would never date an Aries for the next ten years at least

  12. Avonia says:

    I had began dating an Aries man in April of this year. There was instant chemistry on every level imaginable. We had known each other since the 4th grade but never in a million years thought that we would ever get together. We had both been in an unfullfilling relationship and had children with a mate that had been unfaithful so when we found each other we were in heaven. We talk to each other on the phone evey chance we got, and made plans to do something every other weekend. We even took a trip to gether during his week long vacation. During the fifth month things started to die down due to hectic schedules, he wrecked his car and didn’t have consistant transportation, not to mention I had been under a great deal of stress with trying to buy a a house. We started to see each other less and less over the course of maybe three weeks. I decided to get a second job and he was not happy about that AT ALL! From then on he seemed to kind of give up. . . but I didn’t give it much thought mainly b/c I thought we were meant for each other and he understood that my life was truly hectic at that time. When I finally set time aside to take my children to the fair I asked if him and his daughter wanted to join thinking that would be fun. I didn’t know what to think when he told me that him ad his daughter’s mother were going to take her together. I just hung up on him and cooled off for a day. I emailed him the next day and asked if they were getting back together and if so to let me know. He sent and email back with so much attitude blaming me for our demise and breakig it off. . . I was mad at first and just didn’t respond then attempted to reach out. . . but the more i tried the more he with drew. Said that the convos we had were redundant. . . I’ve sent many emails as well as myspace messages. I posted pictures of us and tagged him in them stating how much I missed what we had and he removed me as his friend! I am so hurt! Was it that serious that he had to completely shut me out of his life? I’m going nuts with out him. . . I miss him so bad it hurts! What in the world should I do? I have tried everything from emails, calling, sending him flowers ( OMG I sent a man flowers, LOL) . . . You name it I tried it! Tell me what to do to get him back?

  13. aries gal says:

    girlies though I am an aries..truth be told, aries man are extremely irritating. With all my encounter with the aries male (romantic & romantic), it has been mortifying. They are stubborn, immature and self-centered. Never date a aries man as he only spells trouble.

  14. Anonymous says:

    Jesus, these comments sound just like my experiance with an aries dude. Unbriddled love, affection, and openness, constant talks about how we were meant to be together, and then one cross word from me when he does something horrible and beyond the pale, and that’s it, he’s on the hunt for the next relationship. Crazy. He really was like a kid — maybe that’s why it’s so hard to get over him.

  15. moonchild says:

    Hi everyone, I have enjoyed reading all of these posts because they make me feel much, much better. Long story short, I am in my early 40s but look much younger. I was in a very lonely marriage and this younger Aries man just appeared out of no where at my workplace. We were stationed at the same location. I couldn’t take my eyes off him and it seemed he was watching me as well. finally he just came up and said I was very beautiful and I was literally shaking when he came near me.

    He asked for my number and I told him i was married. I even showed him my wedding photo etc. This guy took me completely by surprise, I was so intrigued by him. I said I would take his email address and that was it…but that we could possibly be e-pals.

    After 3 separations with my husband, this guy showed up at my most vulnerable time, trying to patch up my marriage. I ended up emailing him just to say hello and he sent me photos and told me his life story…it was quite a tragic one (it was all true).

    About a month later of emailing, we met for coffee. He brought me a gift and I felt like a teenager. I couldn’t believe what i was doing. It was like I was hypnotized by him. Unfortunately we ended up being intimate (not all the way) and we became addicted to one another.

    He calls my cell privately and he has a tendency to hang up or not answer the phone if I have pissed him off. He behaves so childishly. And over the last year, little by little he is chipping away at my self esteem saying that this or that turned him off.

    My best friend said I should take counselling because once he turns his phone off, all I do is cry. It’s a terribly abusive relationship now.

    I am a Cancerian (and soooo emotional and sensitive). He’s an Arien with Venus and Mars in Aries….his temper is volatile and the least little thing can set him off.

    We do not have ’sex’ per say….but we always have to play by his rules.

    It’s ruining my life and I’m so depressed.

    So the last straw was we met for coffee after work 3 days ago and he brought me to show me a mannequin of the perfect woman and said this is how is ex-girlfriend looked. I felt my heart drop. he has described her beauty countless times and that was it. I left the coffee shop and went outside and cried…I thought, ‘what the hell am i doing here?’ I have a husband, it might not be perfect but these mind games are too much and I feel like crap.

    So i came back and he said i was too sensitive. He apologised but I knew he was pissed off at my sadness. That night when i tried to call him, he hung up on me and now his phone is off.

    So i finally took the big step to write him a long email saying that i could no longer tolerate this childish, abusive behaviour and that my self esteem was being destroyed by his comparing me to this other woman.

    I hear that Aries men love the soft, gentle female women like us Cancerians and I am a true Cancerian thru and thru.

    I know he doesn’t check his email often but i wonder how his reaction will be.

    I really want to end this for good, patch up my marriage and never see him again, because he is like a drug I cannot get enough of but i know that it will kill me in the end.

    So now i am turning off my cell all the time and am just waiting to see if he replies at all. I’ve been so accomodating for one year now and this will be the first time I’ve said adios to him ‘for good’…..

    Did i do the right thing?? I think I did…..

    Thanks for listening.

    moonchild

  16. MoonWoman says:

    Moonchild,
    that sounds really, really awful. I don’t care how much you care about this guy – just read your own post – you gonna let someone walk all over you like that? Get some counseling and get your life in order. With or without you husband – but MOST definitely without that guy – it’s just gonna be more and more heartache. Just GET OUT NOW.

    I just dated my first Aries man. It was aweful (how it ended up). Self centered, controlling and childish… he pushed my buttons…I did something in return and after 4 months and being in a band together…he says he will “run” from me if he sees me on the street. I have tried my best to smooth things over and just be friends enuf to be civil, share our friends and keep the band going – but he is smoking mad and can’t seem to get beyond it. I’ve done everything I can and I believe, for the first time in my 45 years, I will have someone on the planet who hates me and vice versa. There is nothing else I can do but try to move on at this point…

  17. Leena says:

    Ladies,
    I am reading your emails and feeling re-assured of what i am doing at the moment. This Aries man appeared in my life out of the blue as well and started his strategic campaigne of conquiring my heart. I am a capricorn girl! Which means we can be cold minded and we know how to keep our emotions locked out when needed. So, the Aries man was offered only a “fling” fun relationship with no strings attached by me. And boy, you should have seen his face. I am a very hot looking and confident person and i guess hearing that proposel from me kinda hurt him bad. But, he took his chance. And of course, the next week he completely disappeared. (which I anticipated)I was patient and waiting for his next move. After a week, he gave me this sheepish call which i responded as nothing’d happened and i was extremely happy with my life and i didnt even notice that he disappeared. Boy, he was angry! I was cracking up seeing his face. I kinda like him very much but he doesnt have to know that so that it doesnt get in his head. I know it sounds terrible, but it seems like a good way of teaching lessons to the childish and irresponsible Aries man!

  18. ARIES MALE says:

    LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, its not that we are self centered or childish! The Aries Male has a deep infatuation with the idea of being in LOVE! We want that fairy tale love and we will do what ever it takes to achieve that. We give so much of ourselves unselfishly and we want our mates to feel like they are the only thing that matters on this planet, because to us the woman we are in love with is heavens bliss in human form! BUT she must posses the same zeal for love and return that passion 10 fold because if we feel our efforts have been in vain then it is goodbye!!! When you give so much of yourself to someone and love so hard it’s almost impossible to be a friend with someone who’s eyes you saw every time the sun shined or who’s touch you felt with every raindrop!! a Aries male cannot stand to see his past love recieving mediocore love from a future mate so all ties must be cut..

  19. Tired Cancer says:

    I have to speak up to.
    I’m a cancer, 07/08/1986 and my relationship with my aries, 04/04/1987 is just about to crumble. Looking to move out on my own and just secretly saving up $$$ for it.
    He is so extremely confusing. He can be sweet sometimes. I can tell, though, that his devotion and love for me does not run very deep at all. I have given everything to him emotionally, financially, and he just continues to drain me. He also puts the $900 kitten I bought him, his mom and his computer before me in importance. I try and be a good girlfriend. I give him space. I also do typical nice girlfriend things. Cook for him, buy him small thoughtful presents when I’m out, don’t snoop in his stuff. However, he password locks his computer and phone and then hacks into my computer when I put a password on it so he can snoop through everything.
    He is extremely possessive and jealous! Makes jokes about killing any guy who touches me even though I have never cheated on him or anyone. The worse I have done is made a joke about hanging out and playing video games naked with a guy friend of mine. He FLIPPED! even though previously he has made sexual jokes with the girl pals in his life about loving them with his “whole penis” and taking care of them when they are sick.
    He also tends to only be sweet and caring when I’m upset or mad at him. It’s almost like an abusive relationship. He is cold and self-centered and I get upset and want to leave. He then smooths things over just enough to get me to stay. It seems he only puts in just enough effort to keep me hooked close as soon as I start to drift away.
    He also likes to push my buttons. On purpose I believe. He actually likes confrontation, which he has admitted.
    *sigh* To make matters worse, there is a very sweet warm Taurus boy who has been my soulmate for about 8 years now that keeps meeting up with me in random parts of life through fate of some kind.

  20. Kisher says:

    Tired Cancer,

    You said: “It’s almost like an abusive relationship” – It “IS” an abusive relationship. This guy will suck the life right out of you.

    He’s clearly a control freak and needs to grow up (I suspect this will never happen though)!

    Just out of curiosity, do you know what his Moon, Venus and Mars signs are?

    You sound like a lovely person, and you deserve better than that. If were you I’d loose this guy immediately…it will not get better.

    Good Luck to you!

    ARIES MALE,

    You said: “Aries male cannot stand to see his past love recieving mediocore love from a future mate so all ties must be cut.”

    There are exceptions. I was dating an Aries (Moon in Leo, Venus in Taurs, Mars in Leo) guy, we have now broken up and are both seeing other people. We still hang out together and are great friends! He does have a childlike manner about him, but that’s what I love about him, he’s great fun to be around!

  21. Arc says:

    Dear all, I have the similiar stituation..i need help to get an aries man back…
    http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AowK5sFO4Tp1DibR.gcwWsCzFQx.;_ylv=3?qid=20090706141336AAVzQsm

  22. alish says:

    I was chatting online with an aries man born on march 22nd. It was a prospective alliance. he wanted to take it slow.. but i was losing patience and sometime doubting his intentions. one day i just cracked some sarcastic jokes.. and he called it off saying i pissed him off big time. since then i am trying ot reach out to him. i have left many offlines for him, even mailed him but he hasnt responded. will he ever respond? I want him in my life. i never meant to annoy him

  23. Elena says:

    awww alish I hope your arian man reaches out to you babes i feel for you. Arians need their space and you just have to go along or u will lose them forever…I am also going out with an Arian male and i just have to bide my time in a corner until he decides he wants to see me again…very lopisded and inconsiderate I know but if you move to fast u stand to lose them entirely cause tthe time you spend with them make up for all the lost time in between

  24. anonymous says:

    i’m libra female, in love with an aries man who i had too much trouble with, we’ve been friends for almost 4 years, the first 2 years i liked him as a friends the following years i was mad about him, we broke up and this brought me to endless tears, i think about him a lot, in love madly, i dont know if he thinks about me or not, so desperate and i really want to forgive him but i couldnt ! please tell me what to do !

  25. scorp says:

    This dialogue has helped me tremendously. My story is similar. My aries man and I got into an arguement, something stupid that I started, because I didn’t like certain comments he was making, and yes it was my emotions (that time of the month)that escalated things for me to say in writing – don’t call me anymore. When I came back to retrieve the note, he had already read it, and asked me to leave, that he got the message loud and clear. All this after a steady year of intense relationship – I’m a scorpio, so I knew from the start this wasn’t the most compatible of signs. He won’t talk to me, return calls – nothing… It blows me away and I most of all need CLOSURE from this relationship. Are there any aries men out there that reconsider loosing a good thing / patnership? Or is it just an immediate cut off from all contact – that’s the aries man M.O.? If so, this behavior needs to be broadcast so women are aware going in – the pain is piercing. He has quite a few of his x girlfriends in his life, why am I any different? CLOSURE needed.

  26. anotherariesgirl says:

    i dunno if this is the same for aries men but as an aries, if you have done something to turn me off — it’s almost, if not always, goodbye.

    an ex was trying to win me back before, but he had bruised my heart so badly i cannot trust him no longer. in order to see if he really deserves my love back, i hinted he had to woo me back..from scratch. yep, from square one. but he gave up on me.

    like aries guy said, we are into a fairytale kind of romance…so if you want an aries man back, you have to set aside your pride and do not blame him. just ask for forgiveness like you mean it. if it’s really over, we won’t ever consider you as a friend. we will only take it into consideration if what you did is forgiveable.

  27. alish says:

    Its been more than 1.5 months and he hasnt come back.
    I have mailed him several times even messaged him. How can an aries just breakaway… dont they ever regret what they have done… Till day before yesterday he was regularly coming on the matrimonial site but yesterday he deleted his profile…(We had met on the matrimonial site) I dont think that he could have found his match overnight.. and thought of deleting his profile… Is this just another way of cutting me off completely…but why would anyone do that if they are looking for a life partner seriously

  28. Diva Sag says:

    Personally, Aries are controlling and the whole world got revolve around them. Them majority are players selfish and self centered truly. Men and women. They can screw you over and over but you better not do the same. Yes they are romantic lovers and like the fairy tale love etc. But when they start that abusive bull ish all that goes out the window. They can be obsessive and posessive. I will not ever date another aries. They can build you up and break you down real low. They make great friends but horrible lovers.

  29. Enjay says:

    Oh my gosh i cannot believe what i am reading!!!

    This is so true. I am a leo woman. And met this aries man a year ago. He was so obsessed by me. Said i was his soul mate. Spent thousands on an engagment ring. Twice – hot headedly he threw one away – then a few weeks later bought another.

    That was a while ago. Then i learnt i was pregnant. He wanted me to keep it. I had doubts but i did. later, i was in hospital bleeding. We had a fight after that. He shut me out of his life. Just like that. Cold. Wont speak to me. I am now 22 weeks pregnant. I am just planning my life without him.

    I wont fight for him – or with him… there is no point. I have just accepted its over. Am moving on with my life. Whether he contacts me again, i have no idea, i guess so. As we will have a daughter together. So its sad for her, that she will lose out.

    We had a beautiful fantastic relationship. We were so in love… But as an aries man may walk, so a leo woman has her pride. So I will continue to walk with my life.

    For me, i am faced to sell my house, give up a career i have spent many years building and will lose 40k sellng my house cheap to raise funds for our daughter.

    Maybe one day he will have a concience… maybe

    Oh btw — he met me and he said i was the woman of his dreams. That he wantedto marry me. He had never proposed to any woman before or even thought of it. His ex was a cancer. They had dated 7 years… he said that he had never had any intentions of marrying her – or staying with her for the rest of his life. She didnt know that.

    Good luck… but i think they are more trouble than they are worth. We did have a fairytale relationship. It was great.. and now its gone.

    I will be ok. I always am… i just feel for our daughter who will never see the great love that we had.

  30. alish says:

    Hii

    I have again got in touch with him. He has made another profile on the matrimonial site… but this time he is not aware of my profile… coz i approached him through a fake profile…..We chat and i am dropping hints off and on… but i am just wondering if he has any idea thats its me… or if he has he doesnt want to acknowledge it…? I am just wondering how would it turn out later when i would completely disclose my identity…… Will he think i have tried to deceive him… Is his ego too big to come back to me… I often wonder if he ever regrets breaking up with me

  31. alish says:

    yesterday it was over for ever… He broke up with me when he realized it was me…chatting with him all this while.. though he will never admit that he was liking me… I feel sad.. that just because of his ego.. he is not ready to give me a second chance…Its unfortunate indeed i honestly feel we would have been a great match… but just because of his ego and preconceived opinion… this will not happen… there is no point trying now… i will just have to learn to live without the idea of ever getting a chance to have him in my life…. sometimes there are no retakes in life…

  32. rose-swan says:

    This is all so true.. I had a few dates with the Aries guy, really good ones as said in aried-leo compatibility,but then I said something about we being different about few things, as a casual talk, and he took it as a ‘NO’ from me and apparently moved on..no calls etc..when I tried to contact to see whats wrong , he blamed everything on me.I got angry and said a few things harsh (which are true, but fact that I said ‘em) and now, y’day I have been threatened by him that since I have had my shot (?) , now he is gonna do something as its his turn..god knows what? I am not scared (being a leo), but curious..never had been threatened in my life before like this..that too for nothing..wierd..lol
    they love to fight more than they love to love I guess..no wonder they end up being single a lot of times more than any other sign.
    hope ya’all get over the aries ex and love urself and move on with a smile.
    I wont be dating another aries again :)

  33. sexy lady says:

    I am a libra girl and he is a aries guy. I told him that i will ignore, now he ignore me too. I whant to talk him again, what should I do to not make him run far away from me. I whant to adopt a friendly behaviour but I an not sure that will accept as I am not sure that he will whant to be lovers. So what should I say to him to be ok

  34. Barb Libra/Monkey says:

    Oh my god! It is such a sad world we live in! These poor creatures find life so scary they can’t communicate with the very people that could make them so very happy until the day they die. I have the same problem with an Aries man who is beautiful inside, but guards his feelings like fort Knox. When he is ready to talk, he is the sweetest person on this Earth…but he can switch to Hyde in a split second if I talk to another man…with NO intention of ANYTHING misgiving! They have such a terrible phobia of being second best and you can not even mention an ex to them. All I want to do is hold this man so tight and heal all his pain, but he has chosen to callously discard me like a piece of trash as though I have committed a huge crime for calling by his house uninvited to deliver poetry and letters of endearment. The saddest thing is, we are both very passionate people and both crave a long-term relationship with the right person, and astrologically are a perfect match…as someone said earlier, if they crave the long-term stuff, why throw it away so readily? It takes only a few minutes to talk things through and to find that your fears were unfounded from the start…you never had to fear losing your potential life partner. Not forgiving will create a cancer in your body…loving will give you quality of life…Without love, my life isn’t worth living.

  35. VirgoLady says:

    Virgo’s and Aries will never mix, its a known fact, as a matter of Fact no 1 mixes with Aries, not on this Earth!!!! MOVE ON PPL, MOVE ON!!! Its not worth it, i’ve dated 2 aries in my lifetime 1 of my Aries came back running for me and would come on my cuzzin job for 4 months asking for my number so 1 day my Big Cuzzin called me early in the morning aroung 8:00AM, telling me how my ex kept comming to her job bugging her for my number so she said that she would call me to get permission and told him i was in a relationship, he didin care 1 bit, so i told her ill call him i called him about 2weeks later, and we got and went to dinner, lame why didi i do that, Lame!!!! i never looked his way ever!!!! Now this April Aries i was in a relationship with is a true mutha f***a for real, u have to talk extraaa stupid to him , Ive found out that ARIES love for u to totally curse them out they love for u to talk veryyyy Harsh to them… Yo have to Talk to them like this, Yo wasup BI–ITCH WHAT THA f*** U GOT GOING ON!!! WITH YO STUPID ASS!!! THEY LOVE IT, THATS THA ONLY WAY U GET SUM ACT RIGHT OUT OF THEM!!!! REAL TALK … TRY IT SUM TIME IT TRULY WORKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  36. Barb Libra/Monkey says:

    virgo lady, it depends on the upbringing of the individual…the man I love is from a good family and respects ladies…not rough ones, so not all would appreciate that kinda talk(; He actually checked up on me today, and tailgated me, which actually made me feel really good inside(: I like that he is still interested and jealous, as it shows he cares still…and that’s all I want. I know he finds it very hard to express himself, as do I, and find him very much like myself in reality.

  37. VirgoLady says:

    Barb/Libra Monkey, I’am Talking about 2 Aries I dated and that may be true, The March Aries I dated came from a very good Household, stable, No Excuse, The April Aries came from a f***ed up Back ground but he had Both Parents in his hosuehold it just depends, I just think the April Aries is a f***ed up indiviual, flat out hes the 4 oldest out of 7 kids so maybe he didin get alot of attention and he didnt!!! I’m a Virgo and we dont have the Patients to go threw all that Bulls***, its eitha you Like us or You dont and we keep on pushin,s***, well hell i do anywayz!!!!

  38. VirgoLady says:

    Libra Monkey, I see ur a damn fool for this Aries to, Rough i’am Not”’ Weak you or!! The 2 Aries Men I dated Already new from the Gate what time it was when they Stepped to me, The Repect Level was never a Problem with me, none what so ever, Hun… Just know Aries is not the only Man out there, dont be stuck on Stupid!!!!

  39. VirgoLady says:

    Libra Monkey, You said the Key Word( The Man You Love) damn he dont love you back, only when its good for him ha, Luv stop settling for Less, damn it sound like that Aries got ur Mind Blown!!!! Poor Lady…

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