A reader asks:
how does a leo girl win over (or win-back) a capricorn man. i am in love with him but he made many mistakes and i overreacted because im a leo and now i fear his opinion of me is forever damaged. how can i burrow into his heart like he did mine or more importantly, why am i so drawn to such a cold person?
Your Capricorn burrowed into your heart because he’s a patient digger. He’ll work tirelessly to get what he wants. I’m sure once he got into your heart, he soaked in the heat for which his cold bones yearned. Yet what are you willing to do to reach his heart? If Cap had to burrow to reach a Leo’s heart, you’ll probably need an hydraulic hammer to break through the rock that covers his.
I have a feeling that Cap felt your overreaction was improper, or immature, and that he wishes you’d respond like a grown-up. “Working” your smile may not be enough. Capricorn will respect you when you act like dignified royalty instead of a petulant child — both are equal expressions of the Leo archetype, but carrying yourself like a Queen will more likely gain his respect.
Why are you drawn to such a cold person? There is no hot without cold. If you are the Sun, radiating warmth to the solar system, then Capricorn is Saturn, cold and defensive, shielding himself from galactic visitors with his protective rings.