How does a Leo girl win over a Capricorn man?
January 31, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
A reader asks:
how does a leo girl win over (or win-back) a capricorn man. i am in love with him but he made many mistakes and i overreacted because im a leo and now i fear his opinion of me is forever damaged. how can i burrow into his heart like he did mine or more importantly, why am i so drawn to such a cold person?
Your Capricorn burrowed into your heart because he’s a patient digger. He’ll work tirelessly to get what he wants. I’m sure once he got into your heart, he soaked in the heat for which his cold bones yearned. Yet what are you willing to do to reach his heart? If Cap had to burrow to reach a Leo’s heart, you’ll probably need an hydraulic hammer to break through the rock that covers his.
I have a feeling that Cap felt your overreaction was improper, or immature, and that he wishes you’d respond like a grown-up. “Working” your smile may not be enough. Capricorn will respect you when you act like dignified royalty instead of a petulant child — both are equal expressions of the Leo archetype, but carrying yourself like a Queen will more likely gain his respect.
Addendum
Why are you drawn to such a cold person? There is no hot without cold. If you are the Sun, radiating warmth to the solar system, then Capricorn is Saturn, cold and defensive, shielding himself from galactic visitors with his protective rings.
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wow…i def needed to read all these! I’ve known my male cappie for 10 months and i had been in a relationship with another guy. But when i met him, it was instant attraction. so when the other relationship ended, i asked him out and he said yes! and we had been seeing each other for 6 months and he is utterly the sexiest man i’ve ever dated…not in looks but his mind, his confidence, and his personality exudes so much power that it draws me to him like a fly to a fire. but when i asked him to have a relationship with me, he got so offended and stated that all he wants is a good time and wants me to accept that. so i pushed him away after that and made no time for him. but then he kept asking me out. and it is def flattering because he’s never chased me like that. but he refuses to have a relationship. he’s so scared of the word. he is so distant, reserve, and guarded. he’s def not like any other guy i’ve dated who would shower me with attention and love. i feel like i’m dating a wall. all my friends want me to leave him but for the first time in my life, a LEO like me who’s so proud and vain cannot bear the thought of leaving him. i would rather be a fool than never have him in my life. but what love isn’t foolish?
im a leo girl who dated a capricorn man for a year and a half b4 i stopped letting him cheat on me and etc. not pick up his phone for a whole day i finally let him go when he so called go a girl preganant the girls he would cheat with knew i was his lady in the end he called me and said she was faking cause she wanted him but leos we are so much better than that the best way to win the capricorn man over is let him go cause now he calls more than ever he wants me more and now its me time i really love him but its too late and his problem is he missed out now i have been dating another cappi not on purpose but i dont know i love there swagg its the way we can talk and chill and just enjoy life with a cappi man i think hes the one but only time will tell i told him about my x and he says f*** him he missed out and he says everything about me is perfect let the bad capricorn men go they will come back when they she you on your grown stats lol hit up on myspace leo ladies bowleg_zone3@ yahoo.com
The best way to win over those cold hearted capricorn men is let them go and build our money up and focus on another man my capricorn man was a cheater in 2008 he cheated and i never really held all that against him because i was so in love so i stayed with him till i started getting more money and the same girl from the first time called me and said she was preganant by my man that was the last straw and these girls knew i was with him but didnt care when i stopped talking and calling he than knew i was serious than thats when my phone started ringing than i got popups he calls me more now than ever but i found another man whose a capricorn man not on purpose but because i like him and he seems different and he stays telling me how beautiful i am and how he dont like being away from me he calls everyday and all my free time is on the phone with my cappi man or with him but only time will tell when we leo ladies start treating them cold they realizes so stop pickin up for them
my cappi man and i was together for four 1/2 yrs and he left to work on a car at his dads house for 3months and he kept saying he missed me and the house but in april he started changing talking so cold to me and stopped buying me things altogether then 2wks came by and he broke up wit me bringing up the past that i cheated on him in the beginning of the relationship its been 3months since then and he hasn’t came home or talked to me he just asks if i got a job yet and when i ask if we gonna get together again he says he doesn’t know or that he’s done but he looks so sad he says he’s happy now and he doesn’t love me anymore or doesn’t miss me but we were together so long i just wanna know does he really mean all that or even still love me if so why ignore me or say all that he said he was tryin to get his life together but he stays wit his dad again and been splurging on items like jewelry and tattoos i waited for him to come and still waitin but i haven’t attempted to go over there or bother him on his email for almost a month now so im scared that he might not chase me or talk to me he says he’s still thinkin and need space but its been almost 4months since he talked to me im a leo and im in love still with this man but he acts like i never exisited to him will he ever try being friends or regret anything if we were together so long and he did love me at one point
I to am a fellow leoian and I am with a capricorn man I truly love him things were going great in the beginning and know it changed and its like it happened overnight. I confronted him about it u know how we leos are, and he had the nerve to tell me Iam boxing him in hes not used to it etc,etc, and maybe we should just take a break now that was a banger to me because this topic never came up before and he gets his break he go on trips stay out with friend and I never once complained but it was like a smack to me in the face so I decided to let it be Im not gonna chase him and he was very suprised by my action of being noncholant about the whole topic.I feel like what Im doing isnt wrong because I was there for him when he had nothing so he can do whatever its all good.I do love him but Iam not gonna cling on to somene who doesn’t want it and all though it will bruise that Leo ego of mine because of fear of being rejected syndrome we tend to have I will be alright.
Wow, I am not the only injured Leo woman out here. Cap men ard so damn intriguing and complicated. Too much damn work sometimes but letting go is difficult. Their minds and swagger is so damn Sexy and you know we like the King of the pack. I am trying to let calls go to voicemail sometimes I argue with myself about not taking the call. Its a sad life for a prideful worthy Leo.
hmmm… I’m a Leo gal and I’ve been with my Capricorn male since 1994. We’ve had our ups and downs but he’s extremely committed to me. In fact, I’m the leo so you know I’m the flirty, always meeting new guys, always looking for greener grass type gal. I’m focusing on the fact that there is no greener grass than the grass in my own yard.
Maybe it is his past and how he was raised that makes him the extreme family man, but I certainly don’t want to trade up. He’s the man, and I’m his woman! The passion is what was lacking over the years, but we’ve been on fire the last few months and I know how to keep it going now…I couldn’t be happier.
Good luck in all your relationships.
Wow so many Leo ladies like myself falling in love with Cappy men. I thought I was just crazy when I fell for this Cappy man. I love that he is such a man, I want to be his woman, he is so classic, just the kind of man I love. He is pretty open, and we get along very well. I think he likes me, but it has been confusing.
I met this Cappy man in my first year College this year and I noticed he didn't talk to everyone much like I did. So I started to talk to him, about snowboarding, haha so random. And that is were it started. It progressed slowly to finally a group of friends from class went to a bar. And he told me I was hot and already thought he was very handsome. He drove me home and told me to pay him back for driving me home, a kiss on the cheek. School after that was fun, we talked more and more and became more friendly.
Now that is when I thought he liked me. By that point I was almost head over heels. He is so very kind to me all the time, if we are ever out together, he always drives me home. But never asked for a kiss, maybe becuase he was more sober than the bar night, haha. My friend of mine asked him if he would date me, and he said he wouldn't want to wreck me. I think he likes the kind, mature – ish girl was his type. Well that's what I thought. But none of the friendlyness ended. I am still loving him, in secret, I don't want to scare him.
It takes time to get a Cappy into as much as you are into him, I am figuring. In my heart I know he is worth it. Its just something about him that makes me lose my breathe and float. I just want to pamper him with my love. I haven't dated in months and I don't know how to, my last boyfriend was a just prime evil of a you man. But this Cappy, is just so cool and devenair like the heros in old 1930's movies my ideal kind of man, a man to take care in me <3
I think we would make a great coulpe, I just want to give him my love. I love listening to his stories and hearing about his family, and everything. Am I crazy?
Only problem, he likes to go out and party alot, and he told my friend to me he said he wasn't into anything serious, but when I asked him if he was just a belt notch kind of guy he said no. (belt notch kind of guy is a guy who wants to just get chicks to sex) I beleive him, but I want to be his belt buckle (pride and joy, not just another hole).
I feel I should just wait things out and not smother him, and let me grow on him. I don't know what to do, it's hard not to think about it. It makes it hard to see him because my stomach jumps and I don't want to show I am head over heels about him, because he might frieghten and I lose him forever.
Cappy men want long term? Wow I am a Leo girl and I think most Leo girls want long term. Cappy Guys get scared easy, how is a Leo girl to know if a Cappy guy wants her to ask him out?
I am afraid to ask out the Cappy man of my dreams because I dont want to get hurt and lose him forever.
Oh that is so the words for it, Cappy man is the King of the Pack!! So true! That's what I am feeling! It indeed is his swaggar and logical mind that makes Leo girl like me want to purrr.
I'm a less flirty kind of Leo. And the Cappy I am in love with has good family background, and family is important to me too. Family men are very attractive to me. But having the Bad Boy and Family Boy in one package, is my kryptonite!
Hey ladies im new here, but reading your stories i feel like i been here for years. this is such familiar territory my story is a little more complex though. I am also a leo gal, see i was with my cappy for 8 years he was my first everything i was only 13, but that didnt stop me from wanting him and if i want it i get it. however, that was where i went wrong. to make a LONG story short during those 8 years he cheated on me with numerous women including my mother and sisters even a cousin, and lord knows i wanted to kill him when i found out but my cancer moon in my 7th house couldn’t bring me to hurt anyone i onced told i love you!!! thats not all on april 21,2009 the loser hit me in the mouth with a pot a knocked 2 of my top teeth out mind you na im 20 and a leo with 2 teeth missing you know that didn’t sit well wit me. He’s incarcerated now begging for me to take him back. I told him i’d rather kill myself then to do that of course he thought i was playing. Then literally out of nowhere i meet another cappy man and god is he good to me even through my whole process of getting over the loser he’s been by my side. I guess what im trying to say is we leos love deep and unconditionally so just the thought of losing that to another man could be impossible for a cappy to deal with so be careful ladies some of them don’t have all they screws!!!!!!!! Peace
Why hello my fellow Leo Ladies! I found these stories while looking through google.. These posts kind of scare me!
I have been great great friends with a Capricorn man for almost 6 years now.
just ‘friends’ nothing more. the reason being is because of our age difference..
which is sad. I don’t necessarily agree with the basic hororscope love compatiblity for the two signs. The first time i had ever met him it was literally (or what felt like) love at first sight; i had never met someone for the first time and felt that way. It has only intensified over these long years.
We are both aware of our feelings towards eachother. We both agree if it was meant to be, it will be. Our relationship consists of drunk-dailing, phone conversations that last for hours on end.. and when we are together; its almost too intense! He was the first one to take initiative and tell me how he felt (while drunk) and not too long ago i let him know my side.. but we were both sober. I used to call him alot. I’ve learned over the years that you shouldn’t call a Capricorn man, he either wont answer, wont call you back at all, or he’ll “call you back in twenty”.. two hours later. So, i’ve just not called him.. at all. In fact; after i admitted my feelings for him back in December, he called me a week or two ago to see how i was doing, that was the first in months! We are currently both with other people.
But i just feel in my heart, maybe a womans intuition that this was meant to be almost? maybe it’s just me wanting what i dont have in my own personality.. im just so intrigued.. and let me tell you what he is the sexiest man i have ever seen! we have SO MUCH in common too.
oh! the girl he is currently with is just so not on his level of attractiveness! ugh! it makes me so mad.. i mean i hate to sound i guess like a typical “egotistical leo” but, we would be so great together, she is a Cancer by the way.
i feel like im secretly what he always wanted?