When he came back, I didn’t notice him at all. He was too shy(!) to even speak to me, it took him TWO YEARS to even get the nerve! He was trying to find a good ice breaker. when he found out i was obsessed with music just like he, he began to open up. That was 5 years ago and our friendship continues to grow strong. Now, we’re talking about taking it to the next level, as much as this agonizes my poor libra man (he’s quite impulsive, i’m not!) because 2 years ago, we could have had a sexual relationship, but i wasn’t ready (and suffered the disappointment as being a friend while he had a girlfriend, realizing my feelings for him were much more than friendly!)

He’s a typical libra (with libra rising in his chart), but as much as I hear flak about other libras, he keeps his flirtations to a minimum (only acts out at parties) and is always honest with me (tho I have to do some prodding when he decides to ‘omit’ certain things because he can’t bring himself to lie). Because he’s friendly with everyone and too pretty to boot, i can see how previous girlfriends freak out and think he’s cheating or gay because he’s so flirty, but it’s just kicks for him, to be sexual without the act.

As much as I want a ‘big show’ come Valentine’s Day (you know we taureans like good food and good lighting), I might just surprise him next week after we’re going to a music concert since that’s more of his taste. Formal dinners are nice, but my poor libra is too hyper to keep still, so a rock and roll party is much of his style. He’s been hinting at marriage, so who knows, I’ll get a ring out the deal (yay), a public proposal in front of our friends (as much as a public display of affection or public anything freaks me out).

I wish every one luck on their endeavors and keep in mind, astrology isn’t just everything! Other factors and influences shape a person too.

I do have a lot of Taurean traits, (grounded, graceful, sensual, earthy, practical, I love money, nature and the arts, I have strong opinions on a few things, mostly involving ethics and right vs. wrong) – HOWEVER – I tend to be indecisive, am bored easily, and need variety, never want to eat the same thing two days in a row for instance – I guess that’s the ADD winning out over astrology! (My Cancer dad could get the same order at the same restaurant every day of his life – even sit at the same table – ugh!)

I was married to a Taurus – yawwwwnnn. Basically roommates. I went with a Pisces for many years – awesome, but in denial and unrealistic, and when they decide to swim away- poof they are gone- without explanation; his feelings shut off like a light switch. That’s so “un”Taurean – we brood over a relationship for years and feel things very deeply. Anyway…

Now I’m a dating a Libra who is so obsessed with me- it’s nice- but geeeez! It’s a little much! He never stops talking, I’m starting to dread phone calls, other than that I like him. How do I get him to just take it down a notch with all the adoration? A little is wonderful, but this is almost embarassing and makes me uncomfortable.
Ideas?

To win the heart of a Libran one must be loving, romantic, appreciative of the Arts, and not over critical without room for objective neutrality from time to time (emphasis on “from time to time”). We are also generally positive people, so negativity all the time can be a deterrent. That being said my longest relationship was with a pessimistic Scorpio, and I loved her and never ran away. I am sociable, but can also be reclusive, and would be happy with a supposed homebody Taurean. I’m attracted to Taurean women because they are not only beautiful, but grounded, reliable, and generally have strong moral values. Even though I’m supposedly good with Aquarius, Gemini, and Sagittarius, I can’t stand their infidelity, and emotional-detachment.