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How can a Taurus woman impress a Libra man?
January 18, 2007 by 25 Comments
About Jeffrey KishnerJeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, Tarot.com and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at JeffreyKishner.com.
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I’m a Libra *woman* married to a Taurus man.
I do have Taurus Moon, so can relate somewhat to a Taurus woman’s feelings.
I’ve been in love with Libra men that were just wonderful, but I didnt like another flirty Libra who was indecisive (like me) all the time.
My Taursus is a lot less sociable than I–most of the social planning has to be done by me, if it’s to be done.
Also,I would prefer my husband to be more decisive–he is stubborn–but not decisive when I want him to be.
We aren’t the perfect couple but I’ve found we just have different problems than those couples who are very similar do.
We resepct each other, and give a little here, and a lot there.
And we learned not to hit below the belt-we don’t try to hurt–because show it or not, everyone feels hurt when their loved one puts them down.
I am a Taurus woman I recently ended a relationship with a Virgo. I have always read that this was the perfect match so not true! I met a Libra man about a week ago, we have been talking constantly on the phone for hours everyday.It seems we have this amazing connection but I’ve been reading on this blog about the chacacteristics of this sign and now I’m scared shitless. Any suggestions on how to impresss this libra man?
friends first! is the way to go.
If you are a Taurus woman, avoid Libray man. I posted elsewhere here about my 20 year relationship with Libra. More pain than pleasure.
I am married to a Libra. He is very classic Libra, handsome, nice voice, loves arts, dresses nicely, likes nice things, nice cars,smart, good with money, etc. etc. He’s also cold as ice 80% of the time. He started out really really hot for me and very affectionate. Lots of sex. His soul mate, etc. Different from anything I’d ever experienced. Not knowing my astrology and being relatively young at the time, I feel for it. talked about marriage, children early on. As time went on, he chilled considerably. After 5 years I was about to leave, didn’t tell him that, and suddenly he proposed marriage. Then couldn’t set a date, took months and time with a couples therapist to set a wedding date. We got married, he immediately turned cold and has stayed fairly cold for 15 years of marriage. Incredibly frustrating. No children and I blame it largely on his lack of sexual interest once we married. Knowing what I know now, I would run the other way. He’s a good husband overall, puts on a good game face and tells people we have a good marriage, but we don’t, not at all. Very selfish, I would say he is pretty much one of the most narcissistic people I know. Sorry if that disappoints anyone. I’ve often suspected that he has other women, but no proof of that.
I’m a Taurus woman seducing a Libra man this relationship is interesting first I pursued him. I met him through some mutual friends got his number and built up the courage to call him. He was shocked that I liked him and said I gave him no indiciation I liked him we end up talking untill four that morning. He drilled me asked me so many questions but never gave me any indication that he liked me, he says I caught him off guard and it was like he was trying to reason with himself about if he should talk to me. He asked me to send him some pictures ( libra’s live in their head) and I sent him so everyday after that night. So after a couple days of texting because he doesn’t like to talk on the phone alot. I asked him if he thought I was still off limits. Of course he was still trying to decided I told him to just go with the flow, he asked me what I was looking for and I told him friends with benefits. So we had sex which was good (not as good as sex with a Leo) but it was very sensual he’s a great kisser . After sex things got rocky it’s I started to see the other side of him sometimes he can be so sweet and then he can be alittle distant and cold. I learned the hard way to distinguish between the two Libra personalities , I started to get insecure because he never complimented me and never really told me or showed me he liked me I had doubts. I had this Leo chasing me but I was chasing the Libra (lol). So I asked him why he never called me pretty or cute this frustrated him I asked him if he was bored with me that pissed him off as well. So I told him I would never ask him another question since he was easily pissed off. He said that if he didn’t find me attractived or he if didn’t like me he wouldn’t talk to me. He says he doesn’t give compliments and I should know how I look if he likes something his approval is silence and if he doesn’t like it he would let me know. I’m like whatever so I tell him I think we need to just go our seperate ways know hard feelings but he want let me go says we just have a misunderstanding this has happen several times. Now I love that this Libra will not just let me go (unlike the Leo) he’s willing to fight and isn’t to proud to beg this was a major turnon for me. After our talk things have been gravey he complimented me told me I look good the sexual chemistry is off the charts and he’s opening up to me slowly but the more I get to know him the more I tend to loose interested in him.
i recently met a libra who is just downright gorgeous but i found out that he has a girlfriend. Im really interested in him but dont know what to do becuase he’s in a relationship. i dont wanna sound selfish but life’s too short and how do i make a move on a libra man thats in a relationship?
i have been in love with a Taurus girl 2 years ago but i got rejected in the first place. But deep in my heart i still like her and we work in the same place. should i keep continue on chasing her or keep it cold?
ok i am in love with a Libra man, i am a Taurus woman. things are fine but he is starting to show a lot of clinginess towards me and i’m not sure if it’s just a Libra characteristic or if he is just so head over heels for this bull mama!!!!
Wow no one has any information on libras lol where all the libra information bloggers . I am of course a bull . I do know we both come from venus . Im fix he’s cardinal bla bla . Were both artist like the finer things in life . Museums interior design . Money .and fine resturants . Love making evolves with two venus signs . We’ve been seeing eachother for almost 2 years come 09/21/09 . Nothing is set in stone cause I quarding my emotions . And taking it slow. We have separate lives which we adore and when we see eachother its fireworks . And new advice to keep thing s interesting im not as verbal as he is . Will this create a problem . He want to talk I want to text . I express my self better that way sometimes . Looking for a new spice to keep things tastey any info .
OMG! I HAD A SIMULAR SITUATION WITH A LIBRA AND A LEO, IM A TAURUS OF COURSE AND I LOVE IT! BUT I WAS DEALING WITH A LIBRA FOR 6YRS OF MY LIFE AND REGRET IT SO MUCH I FELL IN LOVE WIT THIS MAN BUT HE WAS A WOMANIZER HE HAS A GIRL FRIEND THAT SHE IS A SCORPIO HIS STILL WITH HER TO THIS DAY. BUT ANYWAYS HE CHEATED ON HER WITH ME FOR 6YRS AND IF I CALL HIM HE WOULD DO IT AGAIN. BUT HE WAS THE MOST UNCARRING AND A LIER. TO ME THE SEX WAS THE BEST AND I NEVER THOUGHT IT WOULD GET BETTER WITH ANY ONE ELSE. WELL A YR AGO I MET THIS MAN IT WAS CRAZY THE WAY WE MET BUT HIS A LEO WOW!!! THE SEX IS WONDERFUL I FORGOT THE 6 YRS WITH THE LIBRA OF 1 NIGHT WITH THE LEO THE SEX WAS OUT OF THIS WORLD I NEVER FELT SO LOVED AND SATISFY THE WAY I FELT WITH THIS MAN. THE LEO MAN IS MORE LOVEBLE AND CARING AND GIVES ME WHAT I NEED AND IS LOVE. BUT THERE IS A PROBLEM LEO ARE POSSESIVE AND SELFISH ABOUT THE OTHER ONE FEELINGS NOT ALL THE TIME BUT WHEN IT CAME TIME TO BE ALONE HE GAVE ME ALL THE ATTENTION AND LOVE THAT I NEED AT THAT AND TO THIS DAY IM STILL IN LOVE BEEN WITH BOTH IF I HAVE TO CHOOSE I RATHER ME WITH LEO BECAUSE OF THE COMMITMENT A LIBRA DOESN’T WANT TO COMMITE HE JUST WHATS SOMEONE THERE TO TAKE HIS [expletive deleted] AND THE SCORPIO THAT HE GOT TAKES IT BECAUSE SHE FEELS THAT SHE’S #1.. WHAT A SAD CASE
Patty , if he wasn’t single do you think it would worked out? . Im being honest things are casual between us. (And he’s single ). because I set it up that way . U know how libras are . I see at times he gets frustrated .because he wants more , duh its been almost two years lol. I am starting to think is it me . We both taurians so know how mute and moody and detached we can be at times . So ima keep it real. Im highly independant .intelligent . Have a beautiful home bla bla .cool career. I can say im gorgeous with out sounding vain .just to show I have no insecurities . People compare me to beyonce all the time no bs lol . Light eyes, carmel skin . Light brown weave lol with dark undertone base. big booty u name it . I have the complete urban girl package . He gorgeous etc etc .looks like will smith without the ears and probably 30 pounds heavier.same height . We both are one anothers idealistic partner . The sex is kellogs frosted flakes greattttt. Anyway he hinting to me that he wants to spend the night more come over watch tv. Bla bla bla . Cause I never allowed him to spend the night at my house im that detached emotionally by men . So I started to give in cause he stood the test of time. So it s time to evolve to the next level. But I feel recently he’s pulling away .being a indesisive libra now . Omg. Is it because im set in my ways with certain things being so black and white betwwen us . and emotionally . Its weird cause were not obligated to eachother at all. But always shared a since of responsibility 4 one another . I understand libras flightyness. So I know there’s time he just need to ” just be ” floating in air .and I feel the same give me my space and i’ll grow closer 2u. “That such a paradox statement “lol . But I think its time to let go . Not that he did anything wrong the behaviors the same like I said were both socially independant . But am I becomming stagnant ? because I don’t need validation from no guy .if I need one he’s in my back pocket so to speack. im thinking…… take a month of to re access the situation….. and on our two year casual anniversary which is 9/21/09 take it the next step or move on b4 his bday 4 days later . I think were both preventing possibly attracting future mates . I’ve been through a lot with men . So having him in my back pocket helped me keep men at arms length and heal . And when I needed my pipes cleaned he was the plummer .lol . Im ready for the next chapter of my life .with him or without . I’ve grown healed and self assured now .so im to the point where I don’t even need sex or need to use him for sex anymore . im ready to be completely single(without casual sex either )im mean [SINGLE) and start over fresh beginning january 2010 . I don’t want to get stuck like this he the perfect situation for a bull like me lol . But it time 4 something more intimate .and heart felt . I can say now I loved him . And he dosen’t know . But I think I saw all i needed 2c with him . Any info? Uve done six years !!!!
well im a taurus woman in a relationship with a taurus man. we have like the worst situation ever, we’re really young (college age) and we’re in different states). We were friends first…he claims he made the first mood and got me..but whatever. When we first established we liked each other he was constantly on me kinda clingy, i thought it was wierd but i liked it at the same time, so i started to act the same way. Now he acts a bit different. He’s emotional, so if i tell him i have a problem with the way things are going (like him acting different) he’ll feel bad but he’ll try to fix it. I love him and plan on being with him for a REALLY long time. Sometimes I do get a little scared that he could be cheating because he is very flirtacious and very attractive. But I see us working. We have problems but so does every couple. when i think about what i go through with himand what ive been through with other boys (taurs, aries, leo, virgo) i realize its NOTHING compared to what i’ve gone through with boys that live in the same state. So I’m willing to work this out, be in the same state soon, and be together hopefully forever. I know I sound young and naive, but if we fail it wont be because i wasnt optipimistic or didnt try.
Hey everyone, I’m a male Libran and have been attracted to many Taurean women in my life. I understand that a few of you have been hurt by the flirtatiousness of Librans in the past–however the emotional coldness is a fallacy. I have been guilty of flirting myself, however I only do it when I’m single, and would never cheat on someone who I am in love with and committed to. And my affection never wavers in a long-term relationship, no matter how many years we have been together.
To win the heart of a Libran one must be loving, romantic, appreciative of the Arts, and not over critical without room for objective neutrality from time to time (emphasis on “from time to time”). We are also generally positive people, so negativity all the time can be a deterrent. That being said my longest relationship was with a pessimistic Scorpio, and I loved her and never ran away. I am sociable, but can also be reclusive, and would be happy with a supposed homebody Taurean. I’m attracted to Taurean women because they are not only beautiful, but grounded, reliable, and generally have strong moral values. Even though I’m supposedly good with Aquarius, Gemini, and Sagittarius, I can’t stand their infidelity, and emotional-detachment.
From a Taurus woman who’s had LTRs with: Leo (fun but not good with bills), Pisces (fun but too dreamy and in denial), Taurus (borrrring), and just started dating a Libra Man (verbose!).
I do have a lot of Taurean traits, (grounded, graceful, sensual, earthy, practical, I love money, nature and the arts, I have strong opinions on a few things, mostly involving ethics and right vs. wrong) – HOWEVER – I tend to be indecisive, am bored easily, and need variety, never want to eat the same thing two days in a row for instance – I guess that’s the ADD winning out over astrology! (My Cancer dad could get the same order at the same restaurant every day of his life – even sit at the same table – ugh!)
I was married to a Taurus – yawwwwnnn. Basically roommates. I went with a Pisces for many years – awesome, but in denial and unrealistic, and when they decide to swim away- poof they are gone- without explanation; his feelings shut off like a light switch. That’s so “un”Taurean – we brood over a relationship for years and feel things very deeply. Anyway…
Now I’m a dating a Libra who is so obsessed with me- it’s nice- but geeeez! It’s a little much! He never stops talking, I’m starting to dread phone calls, other than that I like him. How do I get him to just take it down a notch with all the adoration? A little is wonderful, but this is almost embarassing and makes me uncomfortable.
Ideas?
Hello, I am a Taurus female with a Leo rising, and I first fell in love with my Libra guy five years ago when we met through a common friend. He was the first person I actually fell for, but me being at a young age in comparison to him (me being in my early 20′s and him being just 28) I was really clueless on how I should demonstrate that I actually did like him too, let alone make him realize I was in fact interested. Due to his flirtatious nature, which I do not condemn as flirting is allowed when you are single right? I felt really insecure to accept his flirting and so I watched helplessly him self hooking up with my best friend, who knew of my emotions towards him (some friend right?) … anw, the situation went on for two weeks between them, when he eventually asked me out after we started talking about relationships and emotional stuff. We went out, we hooked up but then even though I warned him that I don’t know how to behave towards him as he was my first ‘relationship’ he would disappear, not send a single message and I would feel lonely and neglected and in general not wanted by him. Eventually we would end up going to the same places and I would be the one to approach him to say ‘hi’ as he would not come close to me around his friends.. Really demeaning actually…The situation went on and on for months and I felt great emotional pain during that period.. Eventually he went back to study in another city and we would see each other only during the weekends after his request, and for the duration of certain hours (very late at night, as he seemed to be constantly busy). Eventually I found out that he one more girlfriend in the city that he studies to, and she in fact had no idea that he was in a relationship.. I got really upset, you can imagine, and I decided not to talk to him again.. It was time for me to finish my studies and due to certain circumstances I am now studying at the same university with him and we are in one of our courses together (lucky me..) he tried to start things again, with all the puppy eyes and sweet words, and me not being completely over him I fell for it (I know I am an idiot right?). And now we see each other, spend time in secret (not convenient for either of us, my parents after the entire fiasco with him cheating and hurting me, don’t want me having anything to do with him again, and people around here know me which makes it easy for my parents to find out). So here we are again, we see each other, we have moments of affection, where I can see that he is more emotional than he was towards me, five years back that is. But, the same situation and I do not know why, he sees me at the university or somewhere out and he does not even say ‘hi’ or a friendly smile. So I started not to talk to him or smile at him either… So where is the actual romantic sense, or their commitment, or even their appreciation? I come from a house of very strict values and for me I believe in the concept that a woman is a flower, if you do not water the flower or give it affection it will surely wither.. I don’t know if any of you wants to say something on my situation, but any comments are quite welcome
thank you x
I am Taurus woman now in love with a Libra man (He has moon in Cancer and Venus in Sagittarius while I have Libra moon and Venus in Gemini, besides, my north node conjunct his Ascendent in Capricorn.) I feel very close to him as if we had grown up together. Sometimes I feel loved by him but some other times I see he shows his caring to some others too. That may be the way he always is, but that somehow doesn’t make me feel special, and in doubt if he secretly has other girls due to his sweetness. Sometimes I found he turned cold and felt he was not telling me truth. We used to have arguement, and after the arguement, I always felt that was the end, and thought of moving on though it was hurt. One way or the other, he just turned the relationship back to normal, and I responded to it. It’s been nearly 2 years since I met him, let’s see time will tell if this relationship can can grow further.
I am a Taurus woman who was involved with a Libra. OMG I feel so dumb and played. He totally bamboozled me. He made all the moves, was super heavy on the charm. The first couple of months I thought he was awesome. We went everywhere together, movies, dinners, bowling with his friends. Brought me around the family, spent time with my kid whome I’ve never brought around another man and everything. Told me all the common bullcrap we women like to hear. I’m usually very guarded with my heart but he had me and I did sooooo much for him. I find out he is a player and pathalogical liar. He took me for tons of money and has disappeared. is now in a relationship with another chick and still has multiple relationships on the side. Freakin Dog!!! But not all of them are like that I’d hope. I should be thankful considering I learned he is a woman beater and much more. There should be a warning website for women to learn about a man before she goes there. Like a big a** picture and a discription of all his offenses against women. I’m just sayin I wish I’d known before hand.
Im a taurus woman I recently ran up on this Libra man form my past.I felt the passion throught he phone and the computer. We talked 3days in arow and I texet and he texet back,I haven’t heard anything from Him.Should I call it quits.Im in the Middle of going through a seperation from my husband.We use to be great friend sand we have rekindled our friends ship along with some deep buried feelings I have for him.I tell when my relationship go wrong he always show up and then when Im free he’s no where to be found.I take that as a sign we whsould find out good we would be together .But we both decided to wait until I move out. I have been in love with him since I was 13 and he was 14. I can’t stop talking about him or dreaming of him.He’s in Korea right about now.He’s stationed there. I don’t know what to do.I haven’t heard from him since Wednesday.He didn’t even call to say good bye.
A fellow taurus woman with a libra man. He’s talkative and very flirty, and honest to boot (sometimes too much!). I’m much more reserved, but my gemini rising helps a lot (so I’m good at telling stories at parties). Other aspects come into account, such as the rising, moon, mars/venus signs, and then where the person grew up, life experiences, etc come into play. It’s just so that my libra love happened to be the ‘boy next door’ so our early experiences are the same, it wasn’t until he moved away that his life took a different course.
When he came back, I didn’t notice him at all. He was too shy(!) to even speak to me, it took him TWO YEARS to even get the nerve! He was trying to find a good ice breaker. when he found out i was obsessed with music just like he, he began to open up. That was 5 years ago and our friendship continues to grow strong. Now, we’re talking about taking it to the next level, as much as this agonizes my poor libra man (he’s quite impulsive, i’m not!) because 2 years ago, we could have had a sexual relationship, but i wasn’t ready (and suffered the disappointment as being a friend while he had a girlfriend, realizing my feelings for him were much more than friendly!)
He’s a typical libra (with libra rising in his chart), but as much as I hear flak about other libras, he keeps his flirtations to a minimum (only acts out at parties) and is always honest with me (tho I have to do some prodding when he decides to ‘omit’ certain things because he can’t bring himself to lie). Because he’s friendly with everyone and too pretty to boot, i can see how previous girlfriends freak out and think he’s cheating or gay because he’s so flirty, but it’s just kicks for him, to be sexual without the act.
As much as I want a ‘big show’ come Valentine’s Day (you know we taureans like good food and good lighting), I might just surprise him next week after we’re going to a music concert since that’s more of his taste. Formal dinners are nice, but my poor libra is too hyper to keep still, so a rock and roll party is much of his style. He’s been hinting at marriage, so who knows, I’ll get a ring out the deal (yay), a public proposal in front of our friends (as much as a public display of affection or public anything freaks me out).
I wish every one luck on their endeavors and keep in mind, astrology isn’t just everything! Other factors and influences shape a person too.
I am a taurus woman dating a libra man. I can honestly say that the sex is “the best i ever had.” lol. He is a man that gives his all to me time, money, and companonship. But a libra man hates to be pushed into something and they hate to be chained down and question but if they do it to you they will say it is all about love. Lies a libra man is very insure, they may give their all and be a faithful mate but you must constantly assure them that you are the same. Another thing i learn is what attacts a libra man to a taurus woman is her strong independant side, charm, her beauty and her intellgents what can make them leave is routine and being bored.
I’m in a sexual relationship w/ a libra man and i’m a taurus woman, the sex just happened and was not planned, i have no regrets about it though… But i find myself kinda liking him and feels as though he likes me, but he has not said whether or not he wants to be n a relationship, he treats me like a gentleman should… And i don’t want to come @ him like i’m pushing too hard for something more… He’s really not even my traditional type, but i;m intrigued w/ him… Is this normal? Any advice someone please?
OMG! I am so dissappointed that we are not compatible because I know Im willing going on a bumpy ride! I met a lira man through a mutual friend and yes I slept with him right away! (im grown with two divorces under my belt I have no shame if i decide to sleep with a man quickly although its not my normal behavior) It was amazing! Again I say it was amazing! His affection was effortless and pleasing hell he was almost as good as me lol! long story short we shared a wonderful experience but my inner taurus walked away questioning what just happened. I am ruled by my heart and I by no means want a frivolos romp in the sheets with a man so I felt i may have made a mistake sleeping with him so fast when what got me there was the fact that he nearly emboded all that i was looking for in a man. He is smart sexy stylish independant no kids no felonies AND a wonderful sexual appetite! fourtunatly family affairs took my attention off the fact that he didnt call but when i did realize it it took much inner persuasion to make my stubborn heart to text him. he responded but not as quickly as i needed him to to be relieved. he called and was polite but left our future communication open to whenever im available give him a call… Now im new to libras but i do see after investigating that he is a little to nonchalant for me. I thrive on being persued and yes adored…to a certain degree, but its too late for reasoning because the bull already ‘likes’ him and you know how stubborn the bull is.. So im going to stretch the romantic muscle and dazzle him with all things taurean and post back with either another tragic heartbreak or one of the most shocking compatibilty upsets yet!
Taurus Ladies
For a Scorpio Rising girl like me, its intense enough to keep going forever……..
omg, its so easy to impress a Libra man, all you have to do is dress pretty, share your chocolate with him and tell him that you love looking into his eyes. They arn’t all jerks like my ex husband, the nice ones are sweet, they will do anything for you if they feel apreciated. They thing is to tell them what you like, Libra men like instructions, send one to a store to get milk and he will phone you, “what brand? what size jug? homoginized or 2%?” Once they know that you are sattisfied with their actions they can be so relaxed, when a Libra man is relaxed and content (it doesn’t take much) then he will try harder to please you. My ex husband was an @#$& if you know what I mean but even he did sweet little things, he would run me a bubble bath and put out chocolates for me in bed, he tried to be romantic, he would bring me tea while I was in the tub and wash my back, so even though there were times I wanted to kill him for our rotten relationship, when he did try to be sweet, he was fantastic. He loved to hear that he was doing something right, when he got feedback over things he worked harder. My grandfather was a Libra man to, when my grandmother was pregnant he would walk miles in the snow to get her an orange in the middle of the night because she just mentioned that she felt like one. He worshipped his lady, she didn’t deserve him (she was the rotten Libra in the marriage) but he always treated her like a queen, why? because she told him that he made her happy. Not all Libas are the same, but the thing thats most common in character is the feeling of “yes, I can please someone” If you love a Libra man, and he’s a good guy, just be romantic….they love romance.
I’m engaged to an Aqua that is Taurus Rising, OMG he is wonderful. I can see his Taurus side a lot, he is possesive and sweet and romantic….Taurus Rising guys put ownership on their lady, I don’t mind, I love him why not let him possess me right? LOL but he does it such a loving way, I never had such good loving before, I know his Taurus side has something to do with that.
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nonchalant, I hated my ex for that……..any guy that acts that way is not worth your time. There are other men, men who love deeply and put effort into a relationship. There has to be that effort or you’re just not worth it to them. I finally have that with my fiance, but I’m 40 yrs old, it took me this long to find the “one” I hope it doesn’t take you as long, some women are luckier, keep smiling…… mr. nonchalant is a loser. He will die alone one day, and woman after woman will walk in and out of his life in the meantime, idiot…….we eventually get what we deserve.
Amen to that. Libra people are cultured enough and follow certain manners that if not followed can easily turn them off. Although they would understand, that can certainly affect your chances with a Libra guy.