How can a Taurus woman impress a Libra man?
January 18, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
Taste … you’ve got it. In fact, you both got it. Although Taurus and Libra are incompatible by both element and modality†, they are both ruled by Venus, goddess of love and beauty. Libra has an aesthetic sense of balance and grace, whereas Taurus has a more sensual appreciation of art and the body. The Taurus woman may not be as cultivated as Libra, but surely she can transcend her vulgar leanings to meet him at the museum or a nice restaurant. If you’re eating out, don’t grunt. Taurus rules the throat, so it is all too easy to signal your pleasure with a lusty “hmmm!” — guttural noises will turn off Libra. And if you’re viewing a painting collection, it may require force of will to abstain from feeling the texture of the brushstrokes; Libra will chafe if you climb under the velvet ropes. Manners are all it takes! If you can act like a lady instead of the earth goddess you are, then how can Libra not be impressed?
†Taurus is fixed earth, Libra is cardinal air.
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I’m a Libra *woman* married to a Taurus man.
I do have Taurus Moon, so can relate somewhat to a Taurus woman’s feelings.
I’ve been in love with Libra men that were just wonderful, but I didnt like another flirty Libra who was indecisive (like me) all the time.
My Taursus is a lot less sociable than I–most of the social planning has to be done by me, if it’s to be done.
Also,I would prefer my husband to be more decisive–he is stubborn–but not decisive when I want him to be.
We aren’t the perfect couple but I’ve found we just have different problems than those couples who are very similar do.
We resepct each other, and give a little here, and a lot there.
And we learned not to hit below the belt-we don’t try to hurt–because show it or not, everyone feels hurt when their loved one puts them down.
I am a Taurus woman I recently ended a relationship with a Virgo. I have always read that this was the perfect match so not true! I met a Libra man about a week ago, we have been talking constantly on the phone for hours everyday.It seems we have this amazing connection but I’ve been reading on this blog about the chacacteristics of this sign and now I’m scared s***less. Any suggestions on how to impresss this libra man?
friends first! is the way to go.
If you are a Taurus woman, avoid Libray man. I posted elsewhere here about my 20 year relationship with Libra. More pain than pleasure.
I am married to a Libra. He is very classic Libra, handsome, nice voice, loves arts, dresses nicely, likes nice things, nice cars,smart, good with money, etc. etc. He’s also cold as ice 80% of the time. He started out really really hot for me and very affectionate. Lots of sex. His soul mate, etc. Different from anything I’d ever experienced. Not knowing my astrology and being relatively young at the time, I feel for it. talked about marriage, children early on. As time went on, he chilled considerably. After 5 years I was about to leave, didn’t tell him that, and suddenly he proposed marriage. Then couldn’t set a date, took months and time with a couples therapist to set a wedding date. We got married, he immediately turned cold and has stayed fairly cold for 15 years of marriage. Incredibly frustrating. No children and I blame it largely on his lack of sexual interest once we married. Knowing what I know now, I would run the other way. He’s a good husband overall, puts on a good game face and tells people we have a good marriage, but we don’t, not at all. Very selfish, I would say he is pretty much one of the most narcissistic people I know. Sorry if that disappoints anyone. I’ve often suspected that he has other women, but no proof of that.
I’m a Taurus woman seducing a Libra man this relationship is interesting first I pursued him. I met him through some mutual friends got his number and built up the courage to call him. He was shocked that I liked him and said I gave him no indiciation I liked him we end up talking untill four that morning. He drilled me asked me so many questions but never gave me any indication that he liked me, he says I caught him off guard and it was like he was trying to reason with himself about if he should talk to me. He asked me to send him some pictures ( libra’s live in their head) and I sent him so everyday after that night. So after a couple days of texting because he doesn’t like to talk on the phone alot. I asked him if he thought I was still off limits. Of course he was still trying to decided I told him to just go with the flow, he asked me what I was looking for and I told him friends with benefits. So we had sex which was good (not as good as sex with a Leo) but it was very sensual he’s a great kisser . After sex things got rocky it’s I started to see the other side of him sometimes he can be so sweet and then he can be alittle distant and cold. I learned the hard way to distinguish between the two Libra personalities , I started to get insecure because he never complimented me and never really told me or showed me he liked me I had doubts. I had this Leo chasing me but I was chasing the Libra (lol). So I asked him why he never called me pretty or cute this frustrated him I asked him if he was bored with me that pissed him off as well. So I told him I would never ask him another question since he was easily pissed off. He said that if he didn’t find me attractived or he if didn’t like me he wouldn’t talk to me. He says he doesn’t give compliments and I should know how I look if he likes something his approval is silence and if he doesn’t like it he would let me know. I’m like whatever so I tell him I think we need to just go our seperate ways know hard feelings but he want let me go says we just have a misunderstanding this has happen several times. Now I love that this Libra will not just let me go (unlike the Leo) he’s willing to fight and isn’t to proud to beg this was a major turnon for me. After our talk things have been gravey he complimented me told me I look good the sexual chemistry is off the charts and he’s opening up to me slowly but the more I get to know him the more I tend to loose interested in him.
i recently met a libra who is just downright gorgeous but i found out that he has a girlfriend. Im really interested in him but dont know what to do becuase he’s in a relationship. i dont wanna sound selfish but life’s too short and how do i make a move on a libra man thats in a relationship?
i have been in love with a Taurus girl 2 years ago but i got rejected in the first place. But deep in my heart i still like her and we work in the same place. should i keep continue on chasing her or keep it cold?
ok i am in love with a Libra man, i am a Taurus woman. things are fine but he is starting to show a lot of clinginess towards me and i’m not sure if it’s just a Libra characteristic or if he is just so head over heels for this bull mama!!!!
Wow no one has any information on libras lol where all the libra information bloggers . I am of course a bull . I do know we both come from venus . Im fix he’s cardinal bla bla . Were both artist like the finer things in life . Museums interior design . Money .and fine resturants . Love making evolves with two venus signs . We’ve been seeing eachother for almost 2 years come 09/21/09 . Nothing is set in stone cause I quarding my emotions . And taking it slow. We have separate lives which we adore and when we see eachother its fireworks . And new advice to keep thing s interesting im not as verbal as he is . Will this create a problem . He want to talk I want to text . I express my self better that way sometimes . Looking for a new spice to keep things tastey any info .
OMG! I HAD A SIMULAR SITUATION WITH A LIBRA AND A LEO, IM A TAURUS OF COURSE AND I LOVE IT! BUT I WAS DEALING WITH A LIBRA FOR 6YRS OF MY LIFE AND REGRET IT SO MUCH I FELL IN LOVE WIT THIS MAN BUT HE WAS A WOMANIZER HE HAS A GIRL FRIEND THAT SHE IS A SCORPIO HIS STILL WITH HER TO THIS DAY. BUT ANYWAYS HE CHEATED ON HER WITH ME FOR 6YRS AND IF I CALL HIM HE WOULD DO IT AGAIN. BUT HE WAS THE MOST UNCARRING AND A LIER. TO ME THE SEX WAS THE BEST AND I NEVER THOUGHT IT WOULD GET BETTER WITH ANY ONE ELSE. WELL A YR AGO I MET THIS MAN IT WAS CRAZY THE WAY WE MET BUT HIS A LEO WOW!!! THE SEX IS WONDERFUL I FORGOT THE 6 YRS WITH THE LIBRA OF 1 NIGHT WITH THE LEO THE SEX WAS OUT OF THIS WORLD I NEVER FELT SO LOVED AND SATISFY THE WAY I FELT WITH THIS MAN. THE LEO MAN IS MORE LOVEBLE AND CARING AND GIVES ME WHAT I NEED AND IS LOVE. BUT THERE IS A PROBLEM LEO ARE POSSESIVE AND SELFISH ABOUT THE OTHER ONE FEELINGS NOT ALL THE TIME BUT WHEN IT CAME TIME TO BE ALONE HE GAVE ME ALL THE ATTENTION AND LOVE THAT I NEED AT THAT AND TO THIS DAY IM STILL IN LOVE BEEN WITH BOTH IF I HAVE TO CHOOSE I RATHER ME WITH LEO BECAUSE OF THE COMMITMENT A LIBRA DOESN’T WANT TO COMMITE HE JUST WHATS SOMEONE THERE TO TAKE HIS [expletive deleted] AND THE SCORPIO THAT HE GOT TAKES IT BECAUSE SHE FEELS THAT SHE’S #1.. WHAT A SAD CASE
Patty , if he wasn’t single do you think it would worked out? . Im being honest things are casual between us. (And he’s single ). because I set it up that way . U know how libras are . I see at times he gets frustrated .because he wants more , duh its been almost two years lol. I am starting to think is it me . We both taurians so know how mute and moody and detached we can be at times . So ima keep it real. Im highly independant .intelligent . Have a beautiful home bla bla .cool career. I can say im gorgeous with out sounding vain .just to show I have no insecurities . People compare me to beyonce all the time no bs lol . Light eyes, carmel skin . Light brown weave lol with dark undertone base. big booty u name it . I have the complete urban girl package . He gorgeous etc etc .looks like will smith without the ears and probably 30 pounds heavier.same height . We both are one anothers idealistic partner . The sex is kellogs frosted flakes greattttt. Anyway he hinting to me that he wants to spend the night more come over watch tv. Bla bla bla . Cause I never allowed him to spend the night at my house im that detached emotionally by men . So I started to give in cause he stood the test of time. So it s time to evolve to the next level. But I feel recently he’s pulling away .being a indesisive libra now . Omg. Is it because im set in my ways with certain things being so black and white betwwen us . and emotionally . Its weird cause were not obligated to eachother at all. But always shared a since of responsibility 4 one another . I understand libras flightyness. So I know there’s time he just need to ” just be ” floating in air .and I feel the same give me my space and i’ll grow closer 2u. “That such a paradox statement “lol . But I think its time to let go . Not that he did anything wrong the behaviors the same like I said were both socially independant . But am I becomming stagnant ? because I don’t need validation from no guy .if I need one he’s in my back pocket so to speack. im thinking…… take a month of to re access the situation….. and on our two year casual anniversary which is 9/21/09 take it the next step or move on b4 his bday 4 days later . I think were both preventing possibly attracting future mates . I’ve been through a lot with men . So having him in my back pocket helped me keep men at arms length and heal . And when I needed my pipes cleaned he was the plummer .lol . Im ready for the next chapter of my life .with him or without . I’ve grown healed and self assured now .so im to the point where I don’t even need sex or need to use him for sex anymore . im ready to be completely single(without casual sex either )im mean [SINGLE) and start over fresh beginning january 2010 . I don’t want to get stuck like this he the perfect situation for a bull like me lol . But it time 4 something more intimate .and heart felt . I can say now I loved him . And he dosen’t know . But I think I saw all i needed 2c with him . Any info? Uve done six years !!!!
well im a taurus woman in a relationship with a taurus man. we have like the worst situation ever, we’re really young (college age) and we’re in different states). We were friends first…he claims he made the first mood and got me..but whatever. When we first established we liked each other he was constantly on me kinda clingy, i thought it was wierd but i liked it at the same time, so i started to act the same way. Now he acts a bit different. He’s emotional, so if i tell him i have a problem with the way things are going (like him acting different) he’ll feel bad but he’ll try to fix it. I love him and plan on being with him for a REALLY long time. Sometimes I do get a little scared that he could be cheating because he is very flirtacious and very attractive. But I see us working. We have problems but so does every couple. when i think about what i go through with himand what ive been through with other boys (taurs, aries, leo, virgo) i realize its NOTHING compared to what i’ve gone through with boys that live in the same state. So I’m willing to work this out, be in the same state soon, and be together hopefully forever. I know I sound young and naive, but if we fail it wont be because i wasnt optipimistic or didnt try.
Hey everyone, I’m a male Libran and have been attracted to many Taurean women in my life. I understand that a few of you have been hurt by the flirtatiousness of Librans in the past–however the emotional coldness is a fallacy. I have been guilty of flirting myself, however I only do it when I’m single, and would never cheat on someone who I am in love with and committed to. And my affection never wavers in a long-term relationship, no matter how many years we have been together.
To win the heart of a Libran one must be loving, romantic, appreciative of the Arts, and not over critical without room for objective neutrality from time to time (emphasis on “from time to time”). We are also generally positive people, so negativity all the time can be a deterrent. That being said my longest relationship was with a pessimistic Scorpio, and I loved her and never ran away. I am sociable, but can also be reclusive, and would be happy with a supposed homebody Taurean. I’m attracted to Taurean women because they are not only beautiful, but grounded, reliable, and generally have strong moral values. Even though I’m supposedly good with Aquarius, Gemini, and Sagittarius, I can’t stand their infidelity, and emotional-detachment.
From a Taurus woman who’s had LTRs with: Leo (fun but not good with bills), Pisces (fun but too dreamy and in denial), Taurus (borrrring), and just started dating a Libra Man (verbose!).
I do have a lot of Taurean traits, (grounded, graceful, sensual, earthy, practical, I love money, nature and the arts, I have strong opinions on a few things, mostly involving ethics and right vs. wrong) – HOWEVER – I tend to be indecisive, am bored easily, and need variety, never want to eat the same thing two days in a row for instance – I guess that’s the ADD winning out over astrology! (My Cancer dad could get the same order at the same restaurant every day of his life – even sit at the same table – ugh!)
I was married to a Taurus – yawwwwnnn. Basically roommates. I went with a Pisces for many years – awesome, but in denial and unrealistic, and when they decide to swim away- poof they are gone- without explanation; his feelings shut off like a light switch. That’s so “un”Taurean – we brood over a relationship for years and feel things very deeply. Anyway…
Now I’m a dating a Libra who is so obsessed with me- it’s nice- but geeeez! It’s a little much! He never stops talking, I’m starting to dread phone calls, other than that I like him. How do I get him to just take it down a notch with all the adoration? A little is wonderful, but this is almost embarassing and makes me uncomfortable.
Ideas?