Capricorns and freaky sex
January 26, 2007 by Jeffrey Kishner
I once heard in graduate school that many CEOs hire sex workers to dominate and humiliate them. Why? Because when you are in a position of extreme power, your psyche needs to compensate. If the Alpha Male never allows anyone to perceive weakness or vulnerability in him, the stress takes its toll. He needs to totally let go and express the part of himself that wants to be a baby or a slave or what-have-you … a totally helpless human being.
Power dynamics are often eroticized. Doctor-patient, boss-employee … the crossing of a boundary can be a turn-on. Playing out different roles in the bedroom (or hotel room, for married CEOs) is a cathartic way to explore vulnerabilities.
Capricorn symbolizes the heights, the pinnacle of career success. Cap works hard to get where he is, and may shut down parts of himself to get there. He overcompensates to make up for his youthful insecurities. All too often, anything considered weak gets pushed aside into the recesses of his psyche. However, these parts of himself don’t disappear. They need expression, and maybe it’s better to seek humilitiation in the confines of a motel than in the public realm. On the other hand, slow-moving planets passing over the highest point in our natal charts can sometimes expose our secrets to the world, making the personal public.
Talk about humiliation!
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hmmmm…..
Alright, apologize for the way you acted when you were high, to everybody. Also I advise you don’t smoke it again, he may be willing to forgive you this time, but not if you continue to do it. Hopefully this will help you.
@nada
well, like any the other man in the zodiac we like sluts….. we just dont like the girls we have “feelings” for to act like sluts.
it doesnt look good, it will take a miracle for him to change his mindset about u.
@ black goat: okay but i dont act slutty i am very conservative but unfortuantly i have bad behaviours liek acting liek aguy too loud to crazy to open too friendly like socializer u dont socialize that much…
@ curious cappy: i will and i actually already did :-$, although he is still seeign that stupid girl who is a two timer lover i hate her!!! i am trying to put ma cards right i will try my best to win this game cause i think he is worth it i knw he is confused he has feelings as u said but he doesn’t know how to deal wid it thats what i think i will try to be calm and too reserved that he initially starts to come to me and i will do this at the cocktail party while he will present his speech to the mayor or bath i will dress up as a lady and look so sophisticated charming him with ma Libra charms anywho i hope it will work i just ant him to be like wow!!cappies what do u think ? but i will not try to talk to him i will still ignore and be too quite that he hopefully emerges me ….
I still think you should talk to him some, but over all I guess your doing the right thing.
thanks, i hope it works cross fingers ^_^!okey dokeies
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nada
you smoke oh no thats not attractive to me.
yes but i now i seriously quiet =)
eh i am still struggling with this cappy guy i am now dating his best friend saggitarius and sadly thinking of the cappy guy he doesnt know we are dating nor the sag didnt know i had a thing with the cappy who is hs best friend and now i am just feeling hopeless becuase i know this would sound corny but i am ready to fall in love and make a commitment with the cappy guy although we rnt friends nor talking like the usual at the beggining when none of the sexual attraction happened anyways i just proved to the cappy that i can be a lady for one night i bought an elegance dress plus dressed up as a lady should be i think it worked becuz he didnt complimented me but he just asked me in the end if his tie looked good and i replied yea it does dats it…. ehh i hate feeling hopeless
i tred three guys and there not that good in a relationship! and for sum reason i miss my aries guy so much although he doesnt call me or anything -.- what a f***ed up love life!!! lol any suggestion..?
nada
y r u dating his friend?
Because i cannot help it, I want to be with someone -.- i know its sounds sad but okay that cappy guy didnt make a move on me ad didnt ask me out and i have strong feelings for him although it doesnt show and i am a type of a person if i see no movement i move to the other person who wants me u see my piont but frankly i like his friend but i dont feel thats what i want and oh that grl isnt dating him she is with his boyfriend which makes him now a loner -.- he spoke to me today asking whats that in my hand i told him its a water bottle then he said hmm i told hm we named it zataploo then he just zataploo and satyed for a while thnking then went back on his cooing stuff…man i wish i can have him
i really feel so sad that he doesnt know how much i need him ad want to be with him and i showed him no intesrt lately its been a month since halloween that night that i danced wid his friend …. what now ??….
nada
“sigh” I just got through with a similar situation with a libra woman, I don’t know how she truely felt about me, but I liked her a lot at first but my conscience kept telling me not to do it because I saw that she was very flirtatous towards other men so me being a cap I started ignore her to make her think that I didn’t care and to maintain self-control. She ignores me now to so I just gave on her just to maintain status quo as a compulsive loner. But that aside, my advice to you is to quit ignoring him and try to gain control of ur emotions and talk to him, small talk though take one little step at a time. Stay Strong
Mountain goat:
WOW!!! yea frankly speaking us libras LOVE to flirt and get ehm something sexually for sum reason maybe not all but thats what i herd from other libras and we like to know straightforward if you like us or not and i hate playing games its seriously tiring anywho i didnt know that u were same as my situation man i seriously feel bad how did things go for both of u now?? come on u must show her ur feelings in order for her to come to u and little tell u aa secret we seem all flirtatious and blah blah but when we fall inlove and like someone soooo MUCH!!! we will give u all our eenergy and heart add with it sum spice in life ^_^! we love being inlove and we love people who shows us there emotion but not o much :-/ or that wuld be cheesy i dont knw i dont like too much romance i am more passionate anyways yea thats my advice to u =) come on go for her! u only live once so take ur chances
anything is possible thats ma motto =)!
yeaa…. thats thing should i approach him and ask him how is he and stuff
but how will I approach him and grab his attention?????
btw he is always serious and his words are always sharp and he laughs ridiculously somtime plus he isnt that outgoing he is sometimes quite its like his eyes or brain does the talking but he looks around with his side eye plus he doesnt like to hurt anyone he does care. Are these features in a cappy man ? :S
Hmm… I think those are Capricorn features in general, if you ask me…
nada
Its too late to talk to her now, I’ve made up my mind and stopped talkin to her and once my mind is made up its made up period point blank, but this scorpio woman has taken notice of me so i’m talkin to her now I know I don’t have to worry her flirtin with anybody else
but wat university do u go to?
nada
as for ur approcah just catch him walkin by hiself and say hello and ask him how his day was, thats a very genuine approach be yourself though and don’t be too shy, BE YOURSELF! and most importantly DON’T GIVE UP IF HE IGNORES YOU OR GIVE YOU ONE WORD ANSWERS. That should get you ur capricorn man, No Thanks required
Mountain goat:
Oh! okay wow well Scorpios do get along with Capricorns and i might say they are quiet mysterious so thats very attractive and their personality is very unique I hope you find your true love mountain goat!
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The approach: Okay i will do my best!!!
i just hope he doesn’t get a hint that i like him 
i wanna be hard to get!:P THANKS mate btw i study at university of bath engineering he is studying business management,
nada
Wow Business Management that sounds like a Capricorn related profession. You want to play hard to get? oh I’m guessing that mental stimulation is a big turn on for you am I right?:)
nada
you have a good day and good luck
Mountain Goat
If your Libra flirts with other guys, it isn’t good. I know. I’ve done that to every guy I dated, except the one I’m with now. I love him so strong that I’ve lost the will to flirt. I honestly have no desire to, once I fell in love for real, that was it. I’ve NEVER cheated, but I always flirted. If she loved you enough, she wouldn’t flirt either. Its been 2 months now and I haven’t flirted, that’s the longest I’ve ever known without flirting since I was a baby LOL
I am yes in love again with another Capricorn guy, this is probably because my Venus falls in Capricorn and his falls in Aquarius, which is what i am…They say we arent compatible, but it is DEEP!! Yes, it is difficult dealing with his silence spells, it drives me mad….He thinks long term which i love, finally need some stability in my life, and a Capricorn male just might be the one to be able to tame me..SEX is ridiculous, i love him so much……..Funny thing about the whole love story is that we were Ju ior High school sweethearts, first kiss in the 7th grade,,,he moved to California and we split for 21 years……….Now we are back together and going very stong!!! I love him and i hope we last a long time….
I am a scorpion – I love my cappy – i understand him totaly !
Skerpioen-girl
Does your Capricorn share his feelings with you? I always wondered about Scorp/Cap relationships. I know both take serious tones in a relationship, does he ever get distant or is he the devoted type? I’m really curious about the two personality types, Scorpio’s being more open (surprising but true) and Capricorns being sensitive with a Scorpio, does this really happen, do you bring out the best in each other?
Mountian Goat
You want to know a secret, with a Libra Woman. it is NEVER too late for love… If you did have feelings for her, not mere lust then don’t you think it is worth it? She wasn’t cheating on you, she wasn’t with you yet…..Yes, we are little flirts, when we are with the wrong man but she wasn’t with you….think about that. The only way that it would be too late to be with her is if she was in total love with another or if you did something cruel to children or animals…Just remember, when we love you, we love you totally…. I would die for my child and he is the only one I would die for before my man….
don’t be a fool MG, if I suddenly lost the love I have right now I would die…If I’d never met him I would be miserable like I was…..You need a love, why not take advantage of the easiest heart in the world to win…She will teach you love like you’ve never had before
@libraLady
i havent been in a relationship with a scorpio woman, at least i cant remember, but every know and then i do run across one and it’s like we click. the coversations are usually long and deep. i rarely feel comfortable having serious conversations with people, especially when they are phoney.
but i feel comfortable around them and its easy for me to talk to them and of course that whole spiritual sex vibe thing be flying around.
i get along very well with scorpio women. the few scorpio dudes i do know get on my nerves, they’re to damn whiny and act a lil’ femine to me.
blakgoat
I think it would be a pretty deep relationship, a Scorpio guy would probably get along great with a Cap woman too, I think it would be a good match for you and a Scorpio woman, whinney? LOL I’ve met a lot of Scorpio men that complained openly, I kind of get why, being an open complainer myself…..but back to my point, I think a Goat and a Scorpion would make a solid couple
I am not sure about humiliation, but yes its true that when it comes to sexual things I want my partner to dominate me. I suppose I like the idea of playing with power in bed.
LibraLady
A fool you say I am, no not a fool but extremely distrusting, but how have you been and how was ur holiday?
Mountain Goat
Hi. I hope you’ve been well and your holiday was good. I spent a lot of time with my family and my guys family. It was nice. I’m sorry I called you a fool, I just feel bad when things end before something great happens…It could happen, I’m a Libra and I’m with a man that acts like a Cap and we get along so well that I wonder just how long we’ve actually known each other. In the beginning I pretended I didn’t care for him, I really didn’t want to after the last heart break but he kept trying to change my mind…Now I can’t stop thinking about him. Sometimes things can surprise you
LibraLady
Yeah my holiday was fine I spent the majority of it by myself, but I’m cool with that.
inspector of venus
I enjoy being dominated in the bedroom too. I spend my whole life being serious and bossy,(being a single mom) but when my guy and I are alone, I like him to take control LOL
He’s a kinky Aqua with venus in pisces so it is intersting……….:)He is so much fun to role play with….
Mountian Goat
I guess sometimes being alone can help you focuss on what you need… You do know that you have a soul mate out there, I know that you are aware, think she is going trough the same hell as you? Hey, thats what you’re doing. I get it now, you’re getting ready for her….good plan
libralady quote “I’m a Libra and I’m with a man that acts like a Cap ” what do you mean by ‘acts like a cap’?
i think you’ll find that most capricorns dont act like whatever capricorns are supposed to act like and many aqua’s are in fact quite …virgo or scorpio etc.
by the way my venus in capricorn AND 8th house and i have aqua mars!! too yet i still dont identify with this whole ‘wanting to be dominated thing or the freaky side ,i definetly think if a capricorn has planets in Sagittarius or aquarius or scorpio then they are far more likely to be kinky
.i know of a sun Sagittarius guy and he has venus aquarius and he’s into all sorts of kinky sh!t .. he likes it when girls urinate on him and he likes licking dirty boots amongst other such things
so as far as the capricorns go i think they need signs in more ‘freaky’ planets and houses in order to go over to the darker side.
kate
if the world was kind, every woman would have a guy lke mine…. 
What I meant is he acts fatherly with me at times…protective. He has a lot of traits from many signs, but found out he waa preemie that was meant to be born Pisces…I was a preemie too, I was meant to be Scorpio so that explains the weird dynamics of our relationship….He is also Taurus rising and he is a romantic too…basically I find a lot of great traits in him, way more good then bad..I like this man I love, very much
“if the world was kind, every woman would have a guy like mine…”
aaaaaaah that’s sweet.
LibraLady
Soul mate huh, naw I’m just a loner plain and simple.
Oh don’t worry, fate will knock on your door and shake your foundations….we are totally powerless to its timing….there you are minding your own buissiness, then BLAM…..right in the heart…..oh well
I finally get why my guy acts like a Cap at times, he has a Capricorn Moon.
I guess thats why he’s so down to earth for an Aquarian….I used to doubt the whole soul mate thing too, he was going through his doubts as well. We just met, it just happened, when it happens you will be shocked at the situation, I met the male version of myself, its weird but we are so much alike its frightening. There has to be a lady out there that is just “fed up” and thinking thats it, people are all idiots etc…. then she’ll find you, or you’ll find her
She’s probably grumpy too , but pretty
HAPPY BIRTHDAY you CAPRICORNS…..hope youre smiling
kind of a cool month to be born in……
You just described me and 5 other Capricorns I know…… I think we Cappies are grumpy in general though
thx for the B-Day shot out, even though mine’s was last month.
Capricorns are f**king hot! I want to have sex with a Capricorn male right now! (: I have Venus in Capricorn btw and I loveeeee Capricorns! (: