Comments on: Aries taking things slow

By: Barb Libra/Monkey

Barb Libra/Monkey — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 02:36:53 +0000

Okay, I figured the Aries I am still deeply in love with, even after a very callous rejection, has been deeply hurt in his past. It has to do with his deep brooding and how touchy he gets so quickly. He also gets aggressive with other staff where he works, not being one to show he cares. However, it appears he has Taurus influence, which is a good thing, except makes him VERY JEALOUS! I am a very social person and have worked with men a lot, and tend to have more male friends that female, and sleep with NONE of them! I noticed the last time we actually had a real conversation, initiated by him, he got jealous a few minutes later as I was talking to another guy about business, whilst he tended to his package inside. It was instant dismissal, no questions asked. Prior to that, he had been keeping eyes on me every time we were at the same venue, and would pass by and give a beautiful, soft smile, but NEVER acted on it. He is very romantic and loves deeply from what I can see. I was impatient and kept writing letters and sending txt…not often, but enough for him to tell me to delete his number on 2 occasions. All I want in this world is him, and to show him that there are women like me, who will NOT cheat on them, but he just needs to learn TRUST! I don’t care if we don’t have sex for as long as it takes for him to heal, but I really would love to be in his company and share his friendship and help soothe away any previous pain. It cuts so deeply and I don’t know if he will EVER speak to me again, but do know I will die if he doesn’t. I felt an instant link to this man when I first saw him, and still get butterflies when I think of him or see his car. Patience is the best virtue if you want them…I am just so sorry I was too impatient and want a second chance.

By: AriesLovah

AriesLovah — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 00:59:20 +0000

There are 2 reasons why an Aries will take it slow:
1- He’s either not into you that much OR
2- He’s been hurt in the past

Its up to you to figure out which applies.

By: kat

kat — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 22:58:48 +0000

aries men are just to damn difficult-whats the point why do women hang around for them.

By: Quorrah

Quorrah — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 19:22:07 +0000

Hey. Aries LOVES to chase so your comments are probably ok. Aries males tend to like innocence too, although people are who they are besides the astrology. I believe star signs to be an interesting basic guide, but they are not 100%. Good luck and have fun!

By: confused sara

confused sara — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 03:22:13 +0000

okay this aries guy tried to talk to me one time he was very charming, but i was very shy so i didnt say much. the next time i saw him he asked me if i knew his name, i smiled and shook my head no (but i actually did)and he turned his head and went back to doing what he was doing. But then i told him i was just kidding i knew his name. if i had left it at no would his feelings be hurt, would he feel like i regected him or didnt notice him he. Or would he take it as a challenge and want to persue me more ?? Can an aries man or someone whos delt with them please tell me how they think.

by the way his birthday is april 10, if it matters o and im a taurus with venus in aries and hes an aries with venus in aries

By: aries girl

aries girl — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 08:53:44 +0000

cas that aries has been very very hurt in the past and its their way of protecting themselves from being deeply hurt again. too gain their respect twards u show them appreciation and effection.

By: Beauty&TheBull

Beauty&TheBull — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 15:24:41 +0000

Hi, I’m an Aries with Venus in Taurus. I do take thing slow when its a matter of love/relationship. As I age I take it even slower and more cautious, but this doesn’t apply when it comes to physical relationship as its more a matter of pleasure and satisfaction.

By: Quorrah

Quorrah — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 08:20:23 +0000

Hi. I don’t understand this Aries. He wanted to take it slow. I’m a Scorpio. I was all over him–a lot. We never had a real physical relationship. I’m a bit peeved b/c he seems to have slept w/everybody except me. What gives? I miss him.

By: Nita

Nita — Wed, 27 May 2009 10:20:22 +0000

Here is a suggestion to all who are having problems with a Aries man, I am a Leo woman who knows how aries men operate from experience also I have a younger sister who is an aries. Aries men do not like clingy women they like the chase you have to let him pursue you, if he has you easily then he is not interested because you have taken away his chase. Maybe an Aries man is not right for you, if you constantly seek his attention he will run fast as he can. Just my two cents.

By: Starshine

Starshine — Tue, 12 May 2009 02:38:35 +0000

Hi,

I just ended this terrible going no where thing with a Capricorn a couple weeks ago. The same day I ended that, I was out with an Aries guy I have been working with for a while and who’s been flirting with me since the start of March. We went to a party and hung out after. Now a Pisces guy we’re both friends with was also at that party, and I’ve always found the Pisces cute and he was being really nice, but he asked me to go home with him and that was just too fast for me. So anyway after the party Aries and I end up getting food, and talking. I drive him home and he says he had a great time and leans in…for a hug. Recently we were at a party together and my guy friend who I came with came over and said “Aries has been staring at you this whole time.” But I didn’t want to go up to Aries because I had texted him a few days earlier and got nothing. However, I didn’t have to go to him he came straight to me as soon as he saw I wasn’t talking to anyone and as I was on my way to the Pisces from before. He explained away why he couldn’t text me and it was legitimate. Later that night he was super direct and just told me “I think you’re cute, and I’m really attracted to you. So I’d like to spend time with you is that ok?” I said yes of course, and he said “So do you want it to be a date or just hang out” I said he could pick, and he said “Well I’d like it to be a date.” So we’re set. But even then when he walked me out he hugged me…no kisses. I also figured out his Venus is in Taurus. So he’s intense when he’s watching me, flirting with me, and talking to me, but then when he has the chance to go for the kill he doesn’t take it. Still he planned a date so I guess its all good. Oh I’m a Cancer btw, with a moon in Sag. and Capricorn rising and my Venus is in Taurus as well…I wrote on here about a Cap. I was seeing, but that’s over, although we still run into each other and he gets so upset. I just act normal. I do sometimes wonder if I should go back…to the Capricorn that is…still I’m having fun with Aries.