Comments on: What Virgo men find sexy about Cancer women

By: CANCERWOMAN20

CANCERWOMAN20 — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:56:31 +0000

my virgo ex,who’s now my boyfriend again after 9 months.i’ve been patient with him.we’ve recently got into it and i told him I’m tired of being nice to him and putting up with his indecisiveness,good-bye.two days later i get an email saying “i love,and i’m sorry if i ever hurt you,i’m going to make it up to you.and he says he’s serious,he asked if i was single…i told him yes he asked if i wanted to be i said no…he replies “well you’re not any more,i want to be with you. for real,can we be together again”
i told him i wanted to be with him also.

Why would it take a virgo male so long to get back with an ex?

Are they serious in what they say….i love you,or i want to be with you?

What could he possibly mean by “he’s going to make it up to me?

Do they put a lot of effort into a relationship the 2nd time?does it last longer?

By: Kdenynu

Kdenynu — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 06:44:14 +0000

I am a Cancer and my boys a Virgo. We love each other soooo much and understand each others needs. We have somthing special and I think that some things are ment to be regardles of your star sign. What is ment for you will not pass you by.

By: CancerSun

CancerSun — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 08:33:08 +0000

I agree with Cancer Lady. Great summation.

I broke up with my Virgo approximately a month ago because his Piscean ascendant kept getting in our way. Too much feeling and too little maturity for my peace to handle….but I miss a lot about him.

By: CancerLady

CancerLady — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 13:44:26 +0000

Virgo in a Nutshell:
Virgo exists in the mind, everything is inside. To the world, Virgo presents a calm and collected exterior but on the inside, nervous uncontrolled intensity in the mind, trying to figure things out, how to improve everything, analyzing and thinking. Virgo can tire itself out without even moving! Virgo has a constant drive to improve and perfect, this can lead to extreme pickiness and finickiest. They are pure, their motives are honest never malicious and they want to accomplish something.

By: CancerLadyBird

CancerLadyBird — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 10:19:29 +0000

Im about to meet a Virgo guy, what should I expect?

By: ConfusedCancerGirl

ConfusedCancerGirl — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 10:07:11 +0000

Im a Cancer girl and he’s a Virgo boy. He lives in England (and is older by 3 and a half years), me in Wales. He keeps telling me that he loves me and this just makes my heart swell but then other days I don’t feel like we get along, I’m a pretty hyper and as my friends say – plain crazy and I don’t think he takes to that to well. I don’t want this to be a ‘distance makes the heart grow fonder’ relationship.

By: Gwen

Gwen — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 14:35:58 +0000

I totally agree cangirl! I too am a cancer dating a Virgo. He is absolutely wonderful. Honest, kind, great cook. passionate, etc,etc. We quarrel sometimes(because I’m so damn moody) lol But he is teaching me to be more grounded. He amazes me….. hardworking & goodhearted too. Was with an aquarius for 12 years and we mixed like oil and water. lol It’s SO nice to have found my perfect match. I feel so lucky:)

By: CanGirl

CanGirl — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 23:50:20 +0000

So I’ve been dating my Virgo for about a year now. From the moment I met him I knew that he was the one for me. I’m the typical emotional Cancer. This man calms me like no one else can. When he’s around he makes everything okay. There’s nothing to worry about because he’s there. When I start going through an emotional rampage, he talks me through it and makes everything better. He’s so patient with me, and I love it! He’s also one of the most honest people I’ve ever known. He’d rather tell me the truth knowing it will hurt my feelings than lie or keep something from me. Yeah, intially I’m hurt, but knowing that he cared enough to tell me the truth makes up for it. He’s taught me not to react right away to things. Now I can control myself long enough to really think about the situation and figure out if my initial feelings were an overreaction. There are times when we both get confused about our feelings though. He goes his way, I go mine, and after a couple of days we end of missing each other so much that it’s all forgotten. And the sex? Believe me when I say this… I was married to a Scorpio for eight years… The sex with a Virgo is just as good if not better! It’s definitely a relationship where you feel safe and secure, but at the same it keeps you on your toes!

By: moon maiden

moon maiden — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 12:49:11 +0000

Here’s my story: I have known my virgo for many years. He was a hard one to snag. I always felt a deep, magical connection between us but he took our relationship so slowwwwwwwwwww. We parted ways and he came back to me after 6 months. We both were going through difficult times and I felt like he was a “guardian angel” to come back and rescue me! We have been living together for almost a year. Most of the time he is gentle, considerate and kind. But when I become upset he changes into Mister COLD AS ICE!! He withdraws and says very critical, hurtful things. Overall, I am happy with my Virgo but why????? do they turn so cold. Is this a typical virgo trait?
oh, and I also want to know if Virgos dislike expressing emotions. My virgo does not say I love you. (although he loves to cook for me & cuddle:) I need some advice!

By: VioletSmith

VioletSmith — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 23:38:25 +0000

Im a cancer female getting to know a very nice virgo man. Reading a few of these posts I gotta say that virgo men dont seem to get that they are dealing with cancers. who are quiet shy and it generally takes a big to get us out of those shells that we have. A virgo can sure do it if they are sweet sincere and dont play games. You as a virgo have to go with your gut think less act more and use your brain. Less disappearing tricks and more hi how are yous.

For myself being involved with virgos i have noticed that they have a heart of gold, very sweet men but they disappear too fast for a long time and come back as nothing has happened. Im not sure if you are clueless but this action pulls at cancer emotional strings which are sensitive. Spending time with virgos is phenomenal relaxing and magnetic. When you guys leave its like someone took a rock and threw it at our hearts. It hurts it leaves cancers confused. We think “had a nice time seemed to go well, maybe i cant read situations as well as I thought”. In the end the cancer will pull away and try to remove the chains that bind the heart to the virgo.

you have to know what you want and communicate that. cancers dont require much just truth no games. You play games and well its game over.

Why do you virgos play games with cancers? do you not realize how raw we are under that shell? When we lt you in you rip us apart in a way.