I think I like this Virgo guy….I don’t know why but maybe i think we share a lot when we talks

I wondered what ever happened with you guys!!! I hope u just spit it out. I just read wat u said to her and I was never more confused in my life. ” I like you so much love spending time with and could definately see you as my gf wen I feel the time is right.” Period….n they call cancers long winded.

Update on my Cancer-Virgo LDR: He ended up way to clingy and controlling evn from far away. I HAD to end it… still love my mom…who is with a cancer now btw…off and on for about 3 years!

To cut a long story short- tis about a long lost love. we don’t have a relationship now but we did go out for 3 years in 1998- we were each other’s first and greatest love. It was the most profound experience i ever had (and i’d say for him too)…it ended terribly-mainly his fault.-though we were both too young and immature to handle such huge emotions. In fact he broke my heart and we cut contact. we never discussed anything-it was simply a messy breakup and we had lots of unresolved issues that we just never talked out. we just stopped talking and that was it. I very slowly got over it and we didn’t see each other again until 3 years later (2005) when we bumped into each other by accident. and it seemed while i was fine, he was a bit of a mess- not over me at all. He was apologetic, so nice to me and caring, explained he was young and immature and thats why things went wrong. we tried to get through the past in order to remain friends. What ended up happening was we got a bit attached- familiarity and old feelings were still there even on my part- though it was him who called me every day, sent me poems, lovely texts at 3am- he was totally besotted…but i was never over how much he hurt me and of course i had the satisfaction that he was still somewhat pining after all those years so i felt ‘finally, now he’s hurting after all i’ve been through’- i was too stubborn and too confused to even consider being anything more than friends because i had moved on (maybe i hadn’t -i don’t know) and could never forgive him for the past. and besides i promised myself NEVER to let him inside my heart-even though i was kinda de nying my natural feelings. however, i think at the time he really felt more and wanted more because he was ready. Anyway he felt attached and emotional and clearly hadn’t gotten over me properly and seeing me after 3 years must have made him feel that he could repair old mistakes and try to make something work between us. I stopped speaking to him because we couldn’t be just friends. He took it really badly and we never spoke properly again. Since then (mid 2005) i have bumped into him a handful of times. i thought I would have met someone by now who would make my relationship with him feel inferior- the truth is i haven’t. everytime ive seen him ive felt a connection-he really udnerstands me liek noone else and vice versa…and i cant explain it and i wish it wasnty true-but there’s soemthing with em and him-like we’re in our own world. and ive found myself, now at 30, really sentimental and wondering about him- whether he feels the same for me-whetehr ther’e’s anything there-whether there’s potential (the truth is our relationship was amazing BUT when he changed it turned awful- we both hurt each other a lot by the end- he especially really hurt me and i think even cheated on me) so it was far from perfect. we are older and more mature now and when we speak/see each other which has been ocne a year- it’s ALWAYS there-that feeling and i think he feels it too. I guess i feel like im thinking of my past and those feelings and us and wondering if he’s right for me and if there is anything there. I’m very confused by the whole thing…we first went out a decade ago, we broke up 8 years ago and we last conversed and were attached 5 years ago now…but yet there’s something and it’s not going away from my heart or mind. I feel like we’re kindred spirits-ive always felt that but i feel like ive blocked it out thinkign id meet someone better-i felt like i had lots of time to meet someone and it;d happen…but it hasn’t yet. maybe it’s because im on my own and being sentimental i dont know. what i do know is we’ve always really just been at ease with each other and held each other in high regard. whenever we see each other (the last time was a year ago) i feel like i go back in time and im 18 years old again because it’s always the same…i feel even to this day i know him better than anyone in the world and yet we’re NOT friends. I also know he’s the only man i’ve loved 150%. After him. i never really gave myself fully to anyone.I have no idea if he’s with someone now or anything-we don’t talk much anymore (a few text messages now and then only) and we’re hardly friends. after the events of 5 years ago, i think he really did just get over me. he probably felt i led him on…the truth is i just felt i wouldnt be able to forgive myself if i even considered being with him after everything- i was too scared, felt a whole bunch of things, but convinced myself that he;s not right for me and there’s someone else better. 5 years later and im thinkign maybe not? Just yesterday i sent him a message asking whether he could meet for a coffee because it’d be nice to see him (because if im honest i dont know if i want a relationship with him- but there’s soemthing driving me). he hasnt replied yet and usually he does reply…but im sure he’s shocked because we’ve never met up on our own since the day we split. I guess my question is- do you think its possible that after all this he and i are right for eachj other-is it possible for a virgo to still have this years on and after so mcuh drama and hurt? I just need advice on all this because thinking too much is actually starting to hurt me- too many memories…very difficult to describe in an email how profound we were- it was the most special thing ive ever had…when we first met at 18 we both genuinely thought we would be with each till the end of time- and that we’d get married in the future. our parents knew etc. and when it ended i was the one that hurt really badly (i think his hurt was delayed) because it was like a dream had collapsed. i have no idea why years on im thinkign about it so much again…its like i even must have blocked it out more than i realised- because clearly its unresolved 8 years later.and its making me so sad…not knowing if he’s the one or not, if he’s right for me or not, and most of all not knowing how he feels for me but also thinking he feels the same because its not possible that i feel this connection alone!even the WAY he talks to me is EXACTLY like 8 years ago and onwards…its just indescribable…

Why would it take a virgo male so long to get back with an ex?

Are they serious in what they say….i love you,or i want to be with you?

What could he possibly mean by “he’s going to make it up to me?

Do they put a lot of effort into a relationship the 2nd time?does it last longer?

I broke up with my Virgo approximately a month ago because his Piscean ascendant kept getting in our way. Too much feeling and too little maturity for my peace to handle….but I miss a lot about him.