What Virgo men find sexy about Cancer women
December 11, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
QUIZ
Which pie will turn on a Virgo man?
- Vegan apple pie made with wheat-free crust, unsaturated oil and agave nectar.
- The kind of pie you’d get at Applebee’s.
Who’s gonna cook it?
- A Cancer woman.
- Virgo’s Mama.
OK, part 2 was a trick question.
A Virgo man values purity, so if a Cancer woman wants to appeal to him, she’s gotta live out the perfect mother archetype to a T. Although nothing turns a woman on like watching her husband vacuum, this will work for a Virgo man as well.
Caution: Virgo men are more self-critical than they are critical of others, and it’s likely that Mom harped on him as a youth. It can be a challenge for a Cancer woman to do the cooking-and-cleaning bit without also, well, being a Cancer. The Virgo man may take her moodiness personally, and sometimes she just might be crabby enough to pinch him. Then he will criticize her cooking and point out the creases in the shirts she pressed for him, and before you know it she’ll be sulking and he’ll be harping, and, as the formula goes:
WATER (Cancer) + EARTH (Virgo) = MUD.
Comment below: Are you a Virgo man? What about Cancer women turns you on?
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Sounds like the date went well Virgo/cap! It was very “slow going” for me and my Virgo gentleman too. We are both rather reserved. But now we have been together steady for over a year and feel much more comfortable with each other! I appreciate his gentle,patient, kind traits and he seems to enjoy my caring ways. We are two peas in a pod! Most Cancers and Virgos seem to have a deep connection. Keep me posted on how things progress;)
hello everyone i am a virgo guy 20 yrs old and honestly
i dnt know how to begin but i’ll try! see i dnt really
have a problem so its not a solution i am looking for
but some things related ofcourse to my ‘close friend’
whose a cancerian has kept me confused to such an
extent that i just want y’ll to make sense of
everything i am about to say!! when we first met we got
along quite well we were in the same class you see,
however one day i spoke rudely to her on the phone and
she got deeply upset and broke our friendship we both
went our waqyz and then after a year and half she calls
to wish me on my bday soon we started off where we left
and got along much better she calls me her close friend
and sayz that i am very caring person! just so that
y’ll know we never dated or anything we never had
anybody else you know just one she called as usual and
she spoke how she wanted a boyfriend and shes never had
one and her two sisters already have one i told her the
same about me she was shocked she said i shud have had
at a gf. Now i dnt remember what happened first but she
sent this msg and asked me to say whatever i had wanted
to say to her but cudnt say it was a forwarded friendly
msg which she sent only to one another person… so i
said some stuff and told how we never really got a
chance to hangout much so she reeplied fine we will go
some place she wanted to go to some adventurous place
which i found weird so i suggested a go karting
place…. and so we met after 5 months from the first
phone call she had changed a lot and she looked really
good when we got into the back seat i sat first and she
sat a little away from me which i found odd we went t
the place and talked a lot both of us were a little
uncomfortable i had said lets go to some other place
like mayb a mall or something but she didnt like the
idea i mean wasnt her meeting me a good enuf reason?!
okay so it went about just ok not what i had expected
and we went toa bus stop she lives some 45 min away!
the bus was jampacked iand she wasnt ready to get in
somehow she went i hated the fact that she had to go
this way in late evening and she took around an hour to
reach her home! i came to know that when i called as i
reached home, we didnt talk for the next week! i wanted
to but i thought she wud call then we started talkin
back again it was college we met during our vacations i
told her we wud get to come to that place only after
another 6 months which she misunderstood as alwayz! i
wanted to meet her during coll too but never said that!
coll ended it had been 6 months and rain hadnt started
yet and yet i didnt meet her! she told me how she kept
giving me hints to meet up! and then she said hoe
embarrased she was! i am damn sure she never gave any
hints! so now i felt like an idiot all the time wasted
and still i dint say anything about meeting up one day
i called her, rains had started i tols her how i felt
like meeting her and shud not have taken such a long
time it had been 14 dayz since vac started i said i cud
have met her few times by now yet i didnt i had been
thinking a lot and even got a fever when i had called
her! we still havent met she considers me very caring a
close friend but i dnt know where i satnd with her what
am i too her i take a lot of interest in her i do
understand her but she doesnt understand me she told me
then what was the problem then she cud provide the
solution but i didnt need a solution she just didnt
understand i was telling about her! nothing made sense!
once she said how she lives in her own imaginary world
during the go kart she got a call frm her friend and
she smiled and said to whoever it was that she will
tell later how it went! i relly need to know what she
thinks of me but you know the problem is that i cant
live with her and cant live without her that day when
we were together it didnt feel that good but wjhen we a
re not together i feel like being with her i think so
much abt the place to meet how convenient it shud be
for her she lives far away you know but i never
actually end up doin anything just think and thats it!
she still doent have a bf and she has been proposed by
atleast 10 guys since her 10th grade! she never told
this i came to know that from her friend 2 yrs back!
whats to be done? whats all this about? why cant things
be simple?! it like i know what to be done the solution
of my problem i end up doing nothing and yet like an
idiot i ahve reasons for this too!
theres some more i cudnt explain properly anybody
please reply!
i’ve met a super nice virgo fellow and feel so happy!!!! i’m cancer and keep reading great things about our futur 2gether……….
Cancer-Virgo A Cancer couldn’t ask for more than the thoughtful, considerate Virgo. Virgos are happy because they know that the Cancer needs their love and service. Cancers are happy because this mate is reliable, practical, and someone they can always count on. This is a most harmonious combination. The steady Virgo is the perfect antidote for the tendencies Cancer may have to lose harmony through moodiness.
I’ve never really known many cancers in my life, save two ladies. I never dated either one since I always seem to be drawn to many other signs instead and I never felt inclined enough to pursue them. However, I’ll tell you that I found both of them extremely sexy right off the bat.
Why? Cancer ladies seem to have a very soft, feminine touch to them yet at the same time they are strong determined people in the core. It definitely has to be that ultra feminine nurturing type of personality that is so mature yet at the same time they love to laugh and have fun. Having known and been with quite a few Gemini’s, Cancers have the same “spunk” in them but it’s not as wild and out of control (which is why I’ve constantly broken it off with ‘dem Gems). They also seem to know what they want which is very attractive.
I’m not sure if this is a trait of Cancer or just the genes of the two I know but their voices are incredibly sweet as well. It makes me wanna have a taste. They have an inexplicable grace and demeanor and give me a feeling like they have an artistic mind (they aren’t necessarily actual artists) but you can tell that they have quite an imagination behind them and I definitely find that sexy.
Now writing this, I’m wondering why I never pursued any of them. Maybe I’ll call both of them right now and have a little cancer-virgo sandwich. Haha. For real though, even though I find myself ultimately super attracted to Pisces, Libras, Geminis and Aries (weird for a Virgo right?) there’s an unseen force that stirs my emotions up when I’m around a Cancer. Their whole persona has the ability to crack my hard shell and unleash the beast.
HAHA. UNLEASH THE FURY!
That’s my take.
I find Cancer women extremely sexy, fun, and niave. They are very motherly and something that I secretly seek in a woman. They really do know how to take care of my Virgo needs as a man.
it’s nice to c virgo men compliment cancer women on here!!lol they can work and for ppl looking for real,true,romance as well as an long-lasting relationship these are the two signs that can pull it off!!my ex is a virgo but we’re really still into each other he has a gemini rising which keeps me second guessing at times abt what he says or do.i’am ultra feminine lol has a soft winy voice,very caring and look young in the face and small!!lol i’m fun and can be a party-girl,shy,goal-oriented,intelligent,kind,he always tell me he like the way i talk to him,he loves how i talk and my voice,he always looks at my hands and hold them or even kiss them hahaha i love these men!!i’ll say some weird crazy things and he’ll tell me ur wild!!and laugh about it.he always tell me i’m so beautiful lol kisses my feet,massage my back,txts me often.
recently we were together at a little gathering and he was flirting with other girls weird he brought me there!!! i was wondering what for? later that evening he had been drinking and he kept telling me “why are you mad at me” i was mad,but i never showed it. while his friends were in the car he kept trying to kiss me,telling me “i love you” and asked me “if i still like him” and he then told me an ex of his told him i was dating another guy who happens to be a good friend of mine and he’s a VIRGO!! ALSO MY FRIEND EVEN TELLS ME I’M THE KIND OF WOMAN HE WOULD WANT.HE SHOWED ME THE MSG SHE SENT AND ALL.I WAS SHOCKED!! THEN OUT OF THE BLEW HE SAID TO ME “BABY WHEN I HEARD YOU WERE DATING SOMEONE ELSE I WAS REALLY HURT” WOW! and his friend called to check on him and he says to him “i really love this girl”
SO IDK.. I STILL CARE FOR HIM N LIKE HIM N WONDERING IF THESE R SIGNS THAT HE STILL WANT TO BE WITH ME?I’M PRAYING N HOPING HE GIVE [US] ANOTHER CHANCE.IDK IF IT’S ALL GAME OR NOT BECAUSE A LOT OF WOMEN SAYS VIRGO MEN ARE GOOD AND QUICK LIARS AND WE’VE NEVER HAD SEX.I BELIEVE HIM BUT WHY DID HE HAVE TO BE DRUNK TO EXPRESS HOW HE FEELS?
SWEETNSEXYCANCER,
Why did he have to be drunk to express his feeling for you. Maybe it made him comfortable enough to do so. I know I can get very expressive when I have been drinking, more so than when I am sober. I seem not to worry about the anxiety of rejection also.
@virgo/cap ever since that night he have yet to mention anything he told me,he doesn’t really call.he only send txt msgs and sometimes he send them all day,then once or twice a day,or not at all for a week or so…like this gets annoying to me really.i’ve heard you guys like ur space…..so i don’t really call him,last week he called me and the first thing he says is ” you cannot call me?” i said it back to him!!and he told me he had to do something and to call him later,he constantly tells me to call him back instead of calling me back.why? is he testing me? should i call him?
SWEETNSEXYCANCER
All I can say is when I am into someone. I call them and send them messages all the time. If I feel she is just a friend and will always be just a friend, then I am more likely to just send messages from time to time. Sounds like he is stringing you along. Just my take on it.
IN RESPONSE TO virgo_guy20:
I am a Cancer girl and the biggest problem with you Virgo men is you never get a hint! You like to please but to please a Cancer girl! You have to be her knight in shining armor! When she hesitated at the bus stop she probably didnt want the date to end! When you suggested go-karting she loved it! Then when you asked to do boring virgo things like the mall….wtf? Thats not fun we need excitement! Just be yourself and try not to worry about what she is thinking you poor virgos will never understand us. Be secure and masculine! Which im sure you naturally are and she will stick around! Let her know exactly how you feel! Because she probably wont do it first (besides the hints) Sounds like she likes you to me but you are moving to SLOW (as usual)! Take the first steps to call her! Dont wait for her call…because Cancer women love to see themselves as the Princess in the tower to be saved and entertained all at the same time! I’ll tell you what I tell my Virgo man! “You be the boss and I will follow!” Even though we put up a little Cancer fight! ; )
After reading this…everyone just remember Virgos dont understand HINTS the way Cnacers do! Virgo men also tend to be very insecure in relationships! The theme seems to be i like her; she likes me but then everyone is asking questions about how the other feels! If virgo/Cancer are not straight-forward it wont work.
Well my virgo/story goes like this:
My mother is a virgo…she irritates the living hell out of me with her clinginess, nurturing/possesiveness and incessant worrying! But these are all the things that made her great for a Cancer girl1 I was always the one to read her friends and there intentions! I was always the STRONG one! While she gave her everything to everyone! In my teen years I had a crush on two virgos that lasted until some sexual act about 10 years later! I was disappointed by the sex and everything that followed! I always end up annoyed and confined with virgos!
Two weeks ago I went on vacation and met another virgo man! I was very flighty around him and acted as if I had no idea he liked me!(Like my MOTHER) (I knew I’m a Cancer)! We have been talking every since the first day of my trip! I think the key with this combo is for both parties to completely express themselves! We actually have to take time and listen to each other because I speak no spanish and he speaks English well but can’t fly off the handle because he has to think of the words! Ithink they def have staying power as long as the Cancer tells him how freaking great he is all the time! We tend to be scared to open up Cancer’s but these are def. the men to do it with as long as they show you something in return!
my Virgo is so awesome! He can be shy and reserved, but overall he is wonderful.I am a cancer and he knows what I need. He cooks for me,lavishes me with attention. I feel like a Princess! I wish he’d express his emotions more….but overall he’s a diamond in the rough:)
IN RESPONSE TO 69BABI!
i read your reply and i understand the insecure and tell her what you feel issues you spoke about but you know what although i hate to generalise but virgos need to know where they stand! we want a girl of our own level she knows that i care for her and try knowing as much about her because its necessary for us ppl to know everything! i think only virgo guys try finding out and understand the person as DEEPLY as possible thats our way of showing our interest! otherwise we dnt care a damn about anyone! i like her a lot bcoz theres something about her i wont find in other girls and of course she makes me feel needed which i love a lot!! we talk deeply we are more into conversations and she doesnt understand my views a lot of times! and she admits that too! thats a small minus there but not a big deal iwant her to be comfortable with me i want her to show me that i am different frm otheres in her actions and words why did she sit so far from me that day?! bcoz she wasnt thinking of me as anything more than a frnd*hate the just frnds tag!* we not only want to be the firs guy on her list but also want to be the only guy on the list and that she needs to show in her actions more eye contact and be more understanding of our little quirks*which i admit arent little* the last time we spoke on the phone i let gave some of my own hints…. i let her know i wanted to meet her and felt bad and later how things werent good with me cuz i didnt feel like things were in my control too whch she said what do youmean by control oh dnt make me laugh…. wrong reply!! what i mean was i didnt know where i stood with her whether we were headed to any where was there anything that would happen eventually btwn us, now dnt get me wrong but we need to have control we need to know everyhting! confusion hurts us!! we need clarity which in this case i wasnt getting from her! i am not gonna say i love you so fast but that doesnt mean it cant be shown in actions! i still dnt know where i stand i know my problems btw i mean its simple it to shut up stop thinking and analysing and just forget all the details and organizing of meeting up and just bloody meet her!! to me its just meeting her thats imp sure we were in the same class 2 yrs back but now it different now if i meet it will be my 2nd time!*yeah sucks to be me!* things will get more clear once i meet her… hope its not uncomfortable again and i hope she loses her *shell* when we meet cuz shes more free on phone than in person! if shes not feeling right then i dnt feel right!
* she told me since its raining we wont be able to meet up, she said this some few dayz before her bday….. and then she goes to meet her girlfriends during those days!! why send such mixed signals! i hate it! she want s to be with me and yet she acts like this! she not the type who plays with ppl and thats why i cant understand why shes acting this way!
thx for replying
another thing we had this talk about propose and relationships i told her i dislike the gf and bf tags and propose is only when you want marry nothing else! she said that nobody she knows sayz i love you its i like you?!!!!!!! wtf love and like is different!! i asked her whether two friends like each other she was confused i told her friends like each other thats why they are friends!! otherwise why wud they even bother? oh and i got a chance to get back at her for not meeting me all this time… she said what if your frnd saw you with your gf*dnt have one* what would you say or introduce her as? well i said not as gf cuz i dnt like the tag then which one? i said those who know me wont ask me anything which will make me uncomfortable and yeah we some conversation in which she said she wudnt know if i am with some girl in her area to which i said how many times has she met me to guess anything about me on that front…. which made her say oh….but….. i mean……….
it was a her bday in june*a late hpy bday to all you guyz
i just want clarity and security of knowing that i am a lot to her than ANYBODY else thats it…. then only will i say those 3 words to her…. its not only you guys who hate rejection and take it personally!!
virgo_guy20:
We love tags! Just tell her you like her and want to be her bf! Go to her when you want to meet her! Treat her like a Princess! You probably scared her off with the no label thing! You confused the hell out of her! If we like someone we want the label! If you want date her or see where it will go before you make her your gf! Then SAY that! We cancer’s generally understand what you guys mean when you spit it out already! Don’t drop hints because virgos don’t do that well! (Sorry, perfectionists) I find virgo men are extremely vague when it comes to women!
On the flip side my virgo now, said ” I love you” the third day we hung out! It scaed me so DON’t do that! But at least I knew exactly where we stood! He asked me to be his gf, and I accepted! And we live over a thousand miles apart! I haven’t even thought of another man! SO there is hope hun! Just be confident!
One of the virgos I mentioned said the same thing, “I don’t like labels…i want to be single right now!” But also wanted to be the only man in my life! WTF? to that! You are confused yourself so don’t expect her to understand you! She sat so far because you put your foot in your mouth with the “no labels” thing! We want to be someone’s “friend” “gf” or “wife”! It sounds good when we talk to our friends! Just call and say that you really like her! YOU catch the bus 45mins to her house! Take her on a date! We like excitement and intimacy all at the same time! Take her to do something she has never done! But don’t tell her exactly what you are doing! Just remember virgo…you dont always have to be talking to her to get to know her! If you talk on the phone often, when you see her she is ready for you to deliver a nice night out! But definitely don’t make her catch that bus again! Because we want to be courted and taken care of! Don’t ever ask her to pay or come up with ideas! Because we don’t really want to! Just come up with a good solid day of fun! Carnivals (its the season), Even sporting events (tho she probably seems like she would hate it), Nature (without to many bugs)! Tell her what type of clothes to wear, sneakers heals dress pants long short, etc.! And pick her up! That should work! Hey you can always run it past me! And don’t do what virgos do which annoys us….”are you okay?” every five minutes! We are fine even if we’re pouting! ; ) If we’re not you’ll be the first to know! Because we’ll say I’m ready to go! Just call her up and ask her on a date! Then tell her you want to try to make her your GF! Good luck!
P.s. – How old are you? How old is she? Where do you live? Do you drive?
69BABI!
pray for me!
hey thx for replying :0 i am gonna do something hope it works
to 69BABI!
well i called her yesterday! yeah i know i should have rather met her but it was raining heavily and i didnt want to wait! a lot happened yesterday! its 10am now and i spoke to her for an hour yesterday till around 11:30pm…. her resonse was… well quite weird definitely not what expected….. i am not feeling bad but neither am i feeling good! hope you will tell me and make sense of what i am about to say!
ohk first thing first we both are 20…. i am gonna be 20 in few months….. we live in india and i can drive but i wont get a car so thats that! ummm ohk so i called her up we spoke for the 2nd time yesterday and i spoke a lot of stuff she was watching some dumb tv show at the same time and it took me a long time to make her switch it off her parents and sisters were asleep so i felt this was a good time…. but i still felt like the situation wasnt right it could have been better you know i wanted to say it then but somehow didnt feel like so i went on prolonging the talks. she was scared her parents somebody woulkd wake up and they have a very wong view of her when she speaks on the phone so i had a hard time making her feel ok*lihts were roff and yet she felt they were awake!* cudnt say something so imp when she was pre occupied this way!! so yeah she put off the tv and things were pretty calm and stuff then i went for it… i had sent her a msg oh how the worst regret isnt doing something wrong but not doing the right things we could have done i asked her about it later and she said yeah i know what you meant*?!* she thought i was talkin about my drawing n paintings which i hold very close to my heart this is what i told her- theres something i wanted to tell you you know things arent feeling great right now things could have been so much better it feels kinds unstable things are gonna change in some time but not long from now whatever restrictions i am feeling now will change sooner like you know how art is imp to me but i havent been able to do stuff the way i want havent done enuf and i really ant things to be at a particular level which isnt the case now and well college is gonna start soon and i have got to and i am gonna study hard this time for sure since our family is gonna shift to a bigger apartment i’ll finally get my own room and all the family problems are gonna reduce and i will feel much less restricted then…. so this is what i wanted to say that some time from now when i am gonna feel much better n stable and get to do what i want to do then i want you to be my…. and i paused it was really tough i felt really hollow from the inside i mean i have never gone the whole way you know never! she kept saying whaat? but she didnt sound angry or sad or something of that sort so we changed the topic and then i brought it back again and i told her then i want you to be my girlfriend…….. her reaction?! OH SHIIIT!! wtf? i didnt expect that we both went silent and then i said yes my girlfriend and she said ok theres still time now i’l tell you then…. there was nothing to say i said again yeah not right now when things feel better from now but not too long….. and i said so we will talk later! she said yeah and then said goodnight fairly nicely i mean not angey confused but slight warmly and lil bit jsut lil bit caringly or mayb i am hallucinnating! but thats it…… we are gonna remain friends atlest for sure but i really cant understand what happened…… i know you might say not on the phone! and why did you say all that unstable and feeling better from now thing wtf?! but i had to have everything cleared! and i really felt a lot for her! i didnt say i like you and i care for you mayb when she calls thens omehow i will say that…… waiting for her msg or call….. surely she she cudnt have spoken with her friends yesterday she’s gonna be doing that a lot today!! tell me what am i supposed to make of this? and btw i really like her and care for her i can definitely say that i kile the person even though she has all this insecurities… i infact had to tell her mood changes were really nice*she was kinda unhappy then kinda* i habe different moods and thats how i make such varied art what thought and mood i have then is what that matters i said the same abt her mood changes how she might be talented and she cud do the sma estuff or try writing she said ths for the try but she doesnt have any talents?! but still i like her she mayb really beautiful but i like her as a person more and it has nothing to do with taking any kinda advantages of her…. most guys and just plain idiots they respect the person and i really felt i was the one for her………. i have said a lot hop you understand why! btw iam not a big talker… c blueskillz on deviant thats me…. not that worried about diclosing my identity coz i havent put my real pic or address its just for you too know why i said what i said!
thx in advance……
so im a cancer born june 26 and my love interest was born august 29. Is there any male virgos on here/ or at least someone who knows a virgo born on august 29. If so wat do u think they find attrative and wat draws them to cancers born at the end of june. Also if there are any cancers reading this that was born on june 26 please give my incite on wat to expect from a virgo man, being this is the first one i ever considered dating.
IM IN A 3 WEEKS RELATIONSHIP WITH A VIRGO MAN AND IM LOOKING FORWARD HOW IS IT GONNA TURN OUT CAUSE I HEARD VIRGO AND CANCERIANS ARE THE PERFECT MATCH.
Cancer and Virgo:
This is a sexually compatible pairing that produces sex, love and possibly marriage. Cancer is a water sign and Virgo is an earth sign. These two friends will bond for life on a sexual, spiritual and romantic level.
They will be both friends and lovers and find one another physically alluring and sensual. They might even remind each other of someone they had a crush on long ago. Virgo is supposed to be the virgin, but Cancer will laugh when they hear this. Virgo will be highly sensual in bed and Cancer will be elated. Cancer has been looking for you, Virgo. There is an element of surprise when these two signs merge in a relationship. There are also surprises and mysteries for both parties in this association. Cancer and Virgo are considered “lucky” when together. Cancer rewards Virgo loyalty and together they can build a home and a family.
They will remain lifelong friends if the sexual relationship ends. Children will enter the picture eventually over time.
Hey.I’ve been in a relationship with a virgo male for 3 weeks and then he broke up with me because he thought we were rushing and should remain friends and let the bond grow.we been hanging out like we were together still and he would tell me how much he miss me and love me.he told me hew wanted to be with me but he can’t right now….idk why!we recently got into an altercation.he sent me a cold txt msg and started being rude and mean to me,so i called him to talk it out and he wouldn’t answer but he kept txting his life away.i told him i’ll leave him alone and he said “good” and he told my sister he never want to c me or talk to me again, so i’ve been ignoring him.out of no where hes send me a msg saying “i’m sorry”with a sad face.and he been saying how life isn’t going great for him…does he still like me? or have feelings for me? advice please!!lol and some of your experience. should i contact him and c if he’s okay and try to be there for him or give it time?
stay away from this guy lovly. he seems confused with not nowing what he really wants. maybe he will lern to treat u better if you keep him at arms length for awhile!!!! loll
Virgo and Taurus to me are the bloody sam species. They back out when obstacles start to surface in the relationship. Worst is Taurus, the one who is extremely slow in showing his unhappiness or displeases, ending the relationship sour.
=(
God I love Virgo men
we remained friends though but I will ALWAYS date virgo men.
I’m a cancer (5th july) and the day I met him it was all very very slow moving. He didn’t know what he wanted and wouldn’t TELL me or communicate which drove me barmy trying 2 decipher mixed messages so please just spell it out what you want from a cancer cos virgo’s are slow at doing this and we want an answer there and then!!
we also want a label and my virgo man didn’t want to give it to me…I wanted to date him officially but he was so dancey prancey about the subject and could only get a solid answer after I cooked him dinner, he seemed to love my cooking
he then told me he wanted us to date and I was like YES FINALLY THE WORK PAID OFF cos normally I probably wouldn’t have waited, I want to be cared and cuddled and I want it then (clingyness and neediness of a cancer, oh yes) but after time we did fade away. He criticised me too much with the way I did things and I got moody at him and snapped back which drew him away
such amazing lovers in the bedroom and out and such chemistry
hang out in cancers, virgos are worth it!!!!
I’ve always been drawn to virgos, but it takes so long to get close to them.
ugh, come one earth people.
I’m still feeling the connection with a Virgo (Taurus rising) man 30 years later. I am a Cancer sun/Libra moon with emphasis on the Libra (still watery to some degree – I am female after all!)
We had to go our separate ways on occassion to solidify some lessons left to be understood (IMO). But such is life & it has allowed ourselves to become an enigma at this point. The things I’ve shared with him, I didn’t even come close to sharing with either of my 2 ex-husbands. I wouldn’t trade this Virgo/Taurus man for anything or anyone. Ever. He & I have a very long history & here we are, circled back around to being in each other’s lives for the last 2 years. It has never been better & time as well as maturity has effected that to our greater good.
@jane
Your Virgo guy sounds a lot like mine. I was with an aqaurius for 17 yrs(ughh) then met my Virgo. He is the most considerate, kind, gentle fellow I’ve ever known! He takes the time to actually listen to me, w hich is something I never experienced with the ex husband. We share such a deep, devoted connection( words do not give it justice.) I am the first lady my Virgo has ever lived with, and I hear Virgos are very picky. They want QUALITY not quanity. So needless to say I’m very flattered.;)
Im a cancer female getting to know a very nice virgo man. Reading a few of these posts I gotta say that virgo men dont seem to get that they are dealing with cancers. who are quiet shy and it generally takes a big to get us out of those shells that we have. A virgo can sure do it if they are sweet sincere and dont play games. You as a virgo have to go with your gut think less act more and use your brain. Less disappearing tricks and more hi how are yous.
For myself being involved with virgos i have noticed that they have a heart of gold, very sweet men but they disappear too fast for a long time and come back as nothing has happened. Im not sure if you are clueless but this action pulls at cancer emotional strings which are sensitive. Spending time with virgos is phenomenal relaxing and magnetic. When you guys leave its like someone took a rock and threw it at our hearts. It hurts it leaves cancers confused. We think “had a nice time seemed to go well, maybe i cant read situations as well as I thought”. In the end the cancer will pull away and try to remove the chains that bind the heart to the virgo.
you have to know what you want and communicate that. cancers dont require much just truth no games. You play games and well its game over.
Why do you virgos play games with cancers? do you not realize how raw we are under that shell? When we lt you in you rip us apart in a way.
Here’s my story: I have known my virgo for many years. He was a hard one to snag. I always felt a deep, magical connection between us but he took our relationship so slowwwwwwwwwww. We parted ways and he came back to me after 6 months. We both were going through difficult times and I felt like he was a “guardian angel” to come back and rescue me! We have been living together for almost a year. Most of the time he is gentle, considerate and kind. But when I become upset he changes into Mister COLD AS ICE!! He withdraws and says very critical, hurtful things. Overall, I am happy with my Virgo but why????? do they turn so cold. Is this a typical virgo trait?
oh, and I also want to know if Virgos dislike expressing emotions. My virgo does not say I love you. (although he loves to cook for me & cuddle:) I need some advice!
So I’ve been dating my Virgo for about a year now. From the moment I met him I knew that he was the one for me. I’m the typical emotional Cancer. This man calms me like no one else can. When he’s around he makes everything okay. There’s nothing to worry about because he’s there. When I start going through an emotional rampage, he talks me through it and makes everything better. He’s so patient with me, and I love it! He’s also one of the most honest people I’ve ever known. He’d rather tell me the truth knowing it will hurt my feelings than lie or keep something from me. Yeah, intially I’m hurt, but knowing that he cared enough to tell me the truth makes up for it. He’s taught me not to react right away to things. Now I can control myself long enough to really think about the situation and figure out if my initial feelings were an overreaction. There are times when we both get confused about our feelings though. He goes his way, I go mine, and after a couple of days we end of missing each other so much that it’s all forgotten. And the sex? Believe me when I say this… I was married to a Scorpio for eight years… The sex with a Virgo is just as good if not better! It’s definitely a relationship where you feel safe and secure, but at the same it keeps you on your toes!
I totally agree cangirl! I too am a cancer dating a Virgo. He is absolutely wonderful. Honest, kind, great cook. passionate, etc,etc. We quarrel sometimes(because I’m so damn moody) lol But he is teaching me to be more grounded. He amazes me….. hardworking & goodhearted too. Was with an aquarius for 12 years and we mixed like oil and water. lol It’s SO nice to have found my perfect match. I feel so lucky:)
Im a Cancer girl and he’s a Virgo boy. He lives in England (and is older by 3 and a half years), me in Wales. He keeps telling me that he loves me and this just makes my heart swell but then other days I don’t feel like we get along, I’m a pretty hyper and as my friends say – plain crazy and I don’t think he takes to that to well. I don’t want this to be a ‘distance makes the heart grow fonder’ relationship.
Im about to meet a Virgo guy, what should I expect?
Virgo in a Nutshell:
Virgo exists in the mind, everything is inside. To the world, Virgo presents a calm and collected exterior but on the inside, nervous uncontrolled intensity in the mind, trying to figure things out, how to improve everything, analyzing and thinking. Virgo can tire itself out without even moving! Virgo has a constant drive to improve and perfect, this can lead to extreme pickiness and finickiest. They are pure, their motives are honest never malicious and they want to accomplish something.
I agree with Cancer Lady. Great summation.
I broke up with my Virgo approximately a month ago because his Piscean ascendant kept getting in our way. Too much feeling and too little maturity for my peace to handle….but I miss a lot about him.
I am a Cancer and my boys a Virgo. We love each other soooo much and understand each others needs. We have somthing special and I think that some things are ment to be regardles of your star sign. What is ment for you will not pass you by.
my virgo ex,who’s now my boyfriend again after 9 months.i’ve been patient with him.we’ve recently got into it and i told him I’m tired of being nice to him and putting up with his indecisiveness,good-bye.two days later i get an email saying “i love,and i’m sorry if i ever hurt you,i’m going to make it up to you.and he says he’s serious,he asked if i was single…i told him yes he asked if i wanted to be i said no…he replies “well you’re not any more,i want to be with you. for real,can we be together again”
i told him i wanted to be with him also.
Why would it take a virgo male so long to get back with an ex?
Are they serious in what they say….i love you,or i want to be with you?
What could he possibly mean by “he’s going to make it up to me?
Do they put a lot of effort into a relationship the 2nd time?does it last longer?
Wonder if any virgo guys or any virgoans can help me out here
To cut a long story short- tis about a long lost love. we don’t have a relationship now but we did go out for 3 years in 1998- we were each other’s first and greatest love. It was the most profound experience i ever had (and i’d say for him too)…it ended terribly-mainly his fault.-though we were both too young and immature to handle such huge emotions. In fact he broke my heart and we cut contact. we never discussed anything-it was simply a messy breakup and we had lots of unresolved issues that we just never talked out. we just stopped talking and that was it. I very slowly got over it and we didn’t see each other again until 3 years later (2005) when we bumped into each other by accident. and it seemed while i was fine, he was a bit of a mess- not over me at all. He was apologetic, so nice to me and caring, explained he was young and immature and thats why things went wrong. we tried to get through the past in order to remain friends. What ended up happening was we got a bit attached- familiarity and old feelings were still there even on my part- though it was him who called me every day, sent me poems, lovely texts at 3am- he was totally besotted…but i was never over how much he hurt me and of course i had the satisfaction that he was still somewhat pining after all those years so i felt ‘finally, now he’s hurting after all i’ve been through’- i was too stubborn and too confused to even consider being anything more than friends because i had moved on (maybe i hadn’t -i don’t know) and could never forgive him for the past. and besides i promised myself NEVER to let him inside my heart-even though i was kinda de nying my natural feelings. however, i think at the time he really felt more and wanted more because he was ready. Anyway he felt attached and emotional and clearly hadn’t gotten over me properly and seeing me after 3 years must have made him feel that he could repair old mistakes and try to make something work between us. I stopped speaking to him because we couldn’t be just friends. He took it really badly and we never spoke properly again. Since then (mid 2005) i have bumped into him a handful of times. i thought I would have met someone by now who would make my relationship with him feel inferior- the truth is i haven’t. everytime ive seen him ive felt a connection-he really udnerstands me liek noone else and vice versa…and i cant explain it and i wish it wasnty true-but there’s soemthing with em and him-like we’re in our own world. and ive found myself, now at 30, really sentimental and wondering about him- whether he feels the same for me-whetehr ther’e’s anything there-whether there’s potential (the truth is our relationship was amazing BUT when he changed it turned awful- we both hurt each other a lot by the end- he especially really hurt me and i think even cheated on me) so it was far from perfect. we are older and more mature now and when we speak/see each other which has been ocne a year- it’s ALWAYS there-that feeling and i think he feels it too. I guess i feel like im thinking of my past and those feelings and us and wondering if he’s right for me and if there is anything there. I’m very confused by the whole thing…we first went out a decade ago, we broke up 8 years ago and we last conversed and were attached 5 years ago now…but yet there’s something and it’s not going away from my heart or mind. I feel like we’re kindred spirits-ive always felt that but i feel like ive blocked it out thinkign id meet someone better-i felt like i had lots of time to meet someone and it;d happen…but it hasn’t yet. maybe it’s because im on my own and being sentimental i dont know. what i do know is we’ve always really just been at ease with each other and held each other in high regard. whenever we see each other (the last time was a year ago) i feel like i go back in time and im 18 years old again because it’s always the same…i feel even to this day i know him better than anyone in the world and yet we’re NOT friends. I also know he’s the only man i’ve loved 150%. After him. i never really gave myself fully to anyone.I have no idea if he’s with someone now or anything-we don’t talk much anymore (a few text messages now and then only) and we’re hardly friends. after the events of 5 years ago, i think he really did just get over me. he probably felt i led him on…the truth is i just felt i wouldnt be able to forgive myself if i even considered being with him after everything- i was too scared, felt a whole bunch of things, but convinced myself that he;s not right for me and there’s someone else better. 5 years later and im thinkign maybe not? Just yesterday i sent him a message asking whether he could meet for a coffee because it’d be nice to see him (because if im honest i dont know if i want a relationship with him- but there’s soemthing driving me). he hasnt replied yet and usually he does reply…but im sure he’s shocked because we’ve never met up on our own since the day we split. I guess my question is- do you think its possible that after all this he and i are right for eachj other-is it possible for a virgo to still have this years on and after so mcuh drama and hurt? I just need advice on all this because thinking too much is actually starting to hurt me- too many memories…very difficult to describe in an email how profound we were- it was the most special thing ive ever had…when we first met at 18 we both genuinely thought we would be with each till the end of time- and that we’d get married in the future. our parents knew etc. and when it ended i was the one that hurt really badly (i think his hurt was delayed) because it was like a dream had collapsed. i have no idea why years on im thinkign about it so much again…its like i even must have blocked it out more than i realised- because clearly its unresolved 8 years later.and its making me so sad…not knowing if he’s the one or not, if he’s right for me or not, and most of all not knowing how he feels for me but also thinking he feels the same because its not possible that i feel this connection alone!even the WAY he talks to me is EXACTLY like 8 years ago and onwards…its just indescribable…
oh and im a cancer!!
I have been seeing nothing but cancer women on here I hope a virgo man can respond or least soemone who has the same problem.I know a male virgo for over 15 years. We are so close he calls me his sister and I call him my brother. But I had always had a crush on him since day 1 that I met him, but under our circumstances (I was with his EX Best friend) we never looked at each other in that way. But now I am no longer with that guy and they are no longer best friends we both have been having I think having an attraction for one another. And during the breakup I was going through he and I both was frowned upon because we were still really close friends. Now lately, He has been hinting that he has been having constant dreams about me but we never got into what the dreams were about – I always tell him to keep his dreams to himself…and I know that my feelings for him, but I try to look at them as being because I admire him so much and because I am single now he is the closest to me so it would be natural to feel like I like him. Plus he has always been a lady hopper so that made me feel less attracted to him but the first time he fell in love I saw that he was 100% dedicated to her even with her out of town for long periods at a time, and I mean 100% dedicated – he didnt’ even talk to women on the phone or even look another woman’s way (i saw this with my own eyes). And it turned me on. So I started to do my research and I saw that Cancer women and Virgo me are compatiable realtionship and sexually…made me even more turned on. To see what he was trying to do for this woman, the way he talked to her and about her… But now I have noticed he has distanced himslef from me and then I found about the dreams. Is he avoiding me because he doesn’t want to overstep those boundries? Should I be doing the same? And if it was truely meant to be what do I do to get his attention? Should I be the one that voice the obvious and let it be.
hi. I am a cancer girl and I have a huuuuuuuge crush on this awesome Virgo guy but he is in a relationship and I think they’ve been together for a few years. But we are young so it’s not like they will get married… Right? Virgos are supposed to take relationships really seriously and everything I know so am I just getting my hopes up for nothing? He seems like he likes me but maybe he’s just like that with everyone.. Anyone have some advice for me? I could really use it
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virgo_guy20 says:
I wondered what ever happened with you guys!!! I hope u just spit it out. I just read wat u said to her and I was never more confused in my life. ” I like you so much love spending time with and could definately see you as my gf wen I feel the time is right.” Period….n they call cancers long winded.
Update on my Cancer-Virgo LDR: He ended up way to clingy and controlling evn from far away. I HAD to end it… still love my mom…who is with a cancer now btw…off and on for about 3 years!
Wow I really like all your conversations here.
I think I like this Virgo guy….I don’t know why but maybe i think we share a lot when we talks