What Virgo men find sexy about Cancer women

QUIZ

Which pie will turn on a Virgo man?

  1. Vegan apple pie made with wheat-free crust, unsaturated oil and agave nectar.
  2. The kind of pie you’d get at Applebee’s.

Who’s gonna cook it?

  1. A Cancer woman.
  2. Virgo’s Mama.

OK, part 2 was a trick question.

A Virgo man values purity, so if a Cancer woman wants to appeal to him, she’s gotta live out the perfect mother archetype to a T. Although nothing turns a woman on like watching her husband vacuum, this will work for a Virgo man as well.

Caution: Virgo men are more self-critical than they are critical of others, and it’s likely that Mom harped on him as a youth. It can be a challenge for a Cancer woman to do the cooking-and-cleaning bit without also, well, being a Cancer. The Virgo man may take her moodiness personally, and sometimes she just might be crabby enough to pinch him. Then he will criticize her cooking and point out the creases in the shirts she pressed for him, and before you know it she’ll be sulking and he’ll be harping, and, as the formula goes:

WATER (Cancer) + EARTH (Virgo) = MUD.

Comment below: Are you a Virgo man? What about Cancer women turns you on?

About Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, Tarot.com and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at JeffreyKishner.com.

Comments

  1. CancerLady says:

    AWESOME greg!!! Sounds like you’re totally in love:) I’m a cancer dating a virgo guy. He is amazing and we seem to be soulmates. I guess what they say about Virgo/Cancer compatibility is really true.

  2. cancer lady says:

    I think cancers and virgo make the best pair in terms of loyal, faithfulness and long lasting relationships. We’re attracted to one another physically and emotionally. Once my virgo man and I got comfy with each other and built a level of trust, the sex was amazing!
    I’ve noticed that some virgo men are not very expressive and good at communication. Virgo men need to be more expressive and they’ll get the best out of us cancer women when in comes to lovemaking, daily needs, emotionally, u name it, we give it! You just have to build a ground of security, honesty and communication.
    When we passed all those tests, we had the best lovemaking ever. We had different styles and we’d do it SO well. ;) the sex is certainly intense, with sparks flying all over. We just need to feel right about it! You just need to find the right partner and in most cases, we cancers are the perfect partners for virgos.
    Have fun! and don’t let go of your cancer partner virgo men! and vice versa! :D

  3. CancerLady says:

    Cancer Woman & Virgo Man
    This match is very good for you and can definitely lead to lasting love. You have a lot of things in common with the Virgo boy, like your love for order and routine. Security is very important to you and you will find that in this relationship. You also have good chemistry in the romance department. You will draw out the passionate side in each other that you both keep hidden away most of the time. Because your needs are similar, you respect what each other want from a relationship. You will feel fulfilled emotionally in this pairing and fights about either one of you flirting will be few. A good love match.

  4. Cancergal says:

    I am in love with a guy who is virgo. He is such a gentleman,kind,emotional. I just love everything about him. As a cancerian i know wht are my needs and he is always there to fullfill them. :)

  5. i have fallen for a virgo man and vice versa problem he has a partner and family ,he is so caring says all the right things and we are so good together its only been a mth but have liked each other for 6 yrs but only got togther now im single he said he has fallen in love with me but is unsure how i feel but i feel the same just dont want to be hurt but he,s making plans to leave his partner to move into his own place then be with me we talk everyday and when we are togther we dont want to leave each other we have spoke about family feelings everything he,s my soul mate and we are meant to be together im a cancer

  6. i have fallen for a virgo man and vice versa problem he has a partner and family ,he is so caring says all the right things and we are so good together its only been a mth but have liked each other for 6 yrs and he has always asked me out but only got togther now im single he said he is falling in love with me but is unsure how i feel, but i feel the same just dont want to be hurt but he,s making plans to leave his partner and said he hasnt loved her for long time but the children kept him there but now they are older we didnt set out to make this happen it was meant to be friends drink etc but things have happened it aint about sex because only been there twice we love to talk and have talked about just everything he is making plans to move into his own place then be with me we talk everyday and when we are togther we dont want to leave each other we have spoke about family feelings everything he,s my soul mate and we are meant to be together im a cancer can any virgo men enlighten me and is this real or is he using me cause i really dont think he is ?

  7. Cancerlady says:

    I’m married to a Virgo man whom I’ve known for about 14 years. I first met him when he was 16 years old (I’m 2 yrs older) and he was shy and didn’t tell me he was interested. I was later told by mutual friends. I didn’t even know he noticed me, although I did see him, he wasn’t my type at the time (I loved thugs). He was cute though. Anyway we talked on and off for about a year, but nothing came out of it….fast forward 10 yrs, we start back dating, get hot and heavy fast…I got pregant within 3 months of us being together and we were engaged within 9 months and married a year and 2 months after getting back together. He made me fall for him hard, and yes he changed….we both did…I don’t know if it was the marriage and kids or what…but he definitely is more confident (not as possessive) and less lovey dovey, which being a Cancer we love. He is more into raising the children right and keeping the house up and things like that. Which I can’t complain…I just wish he was more into me like he was when we first got back together 4 yrs ago. I would say he’s a nagger and complainer, but loves to clean and spend time with me and the kids…he is definitely a homebody like me…so unless he is at work 99% of the time we are all together..one big happy family. Our 3 yr wedding anniversary is coming up…guess I’ll have to drop some hints that I’m looking for some romance……..

  8. Cancerlady says:

    Lonely1 I don’t mean to judge you, but you must be a June Cancer (I’m a July one) to be even considering messing around w/ somebody who is involved with someone else, and their are children involved??? Please step away and let him leave his partner (if that is what he truly going to do) and then pursue a real relationship with him. Why share a man, when you don’t have to? If he really wants you, nothing will keep him from you.

  9. well cancer lady your right i am a june cancer, they are now separated and we are still taking it slowly because we have kids involved but i know in my heart that we are meant to be together and although there may be troubles ahead we will both see them through together iknow and feel this is going to be a god relationship thanx for your reply

  10. Cancergirl86 says:

    Im July Cancer and I was wondering which is good for us Cancer gals, Virgo or Scorpio?

  11. Hi,

    I am a cancer woman and he is a virgo man, he is about 5 years older than me. We have been chatting on the phone now for about 3 days… Well on day two he stated he love me… For me that seem a little impossible… but he is certain so he says. After reading about other virgo men, I must say, this is one is total different or opposite then the norm.. I mean he has no issues speaking or sharing his feelings. The question I have is should I keep on my guard and wait for the other side to come out? FYI, no we have yet to meet, we got each other information from a mutal friend who suggested we would be great for each other.. He lives in TX and I live in GA.. We have not been intimate in any fashion just been have great conversation. SO what is you guys take on this virgo man…

    Pam (6-29)
    Gary (9-7)

  12. Honestly I have gone out with 2 Virgo men, I’m a June cancer(6/30). They were quite different, one was born 9/10 and the other 9/15. I fell in love with the 9/10 guy, I loved everything about him and I still do, even if we no longer talk. I’ll always love him, he always made me happy and finds a way to always make me happy when he caused me the sadness. I still wonder what could’ve happened if we were still going out till this very day.

    Now for the 9/15 Virgo, he was such a horn dog..although I liked having sex with him, I didn’t like the fact he was talking dirty to me while doing it. He still likes me and wants me back but he was the one who broke it up. He had his chance too but missed it.

    Overall, I like having virgos around, but I love the company of taurus men, they intrigue me and keep my attention to them when were together, I’m more in sync with them then virgos even if I fell in love with one.

  13. I met my Virgo man almost 7 years ago. Our relationship started slow and grew to be incredible. However, before he met me he had gotten this girl pregnant.
    He came to me with tears in eyes the day the daughter was born.
    He told me it was killing him, but he had to go be a father to his little girl. That he had made a mistake by sleeping with a 20 years old girl. But he did and must be responsible. So he decided to leave me and be a fulltime father.

    Well about 2 weeks ago, I just happened to log into my yahoo IM and there he was. I reached out. We immediately fell back into place. We had a very long conversation about what happened, and that he’s never stopped loving me. That leaving me was the 2nd worst decision he had ever made.
    Needless to say, we are now in a committed relationship and talking marriage. I am so very happy.

    He is so comforting. As security is BIG for us Cancer gals. He provides me with that extra that I need. He calls during the day from work. Our lovemaking has always been incredible. He even said ‘you know, we have never had an argument’. In the almost year we were together we had NO issues.

    But this man truly completes me.

    I hate that he experienced birth already. But I’m also very very glad to know he is a stand up guy. And takes raising his daughter very serious.
    But my Virgo man truly is the yang to my yin. I’ve never experienced a relationship so pure. Where my clingyness and moodiness, he gets. Lol! We click on so my cylinders. This union is the greatest.

  14. 26june_cancer**hotlady says:

    Im a cancer lady born June. I dont koe , i didnt find any virgo guys attractive, i seen a lot of virgo guys kept chasing after me. Worst still is, my immediate boss, he’s virgo and he’s sucking my bloodd out..hated his critism on my work..BUT time after time..we both get along like how…we shared the same ideas and tots..I appreciated him, and he’s shown a bit-concern on me..hehe nothing happens than that. They are so-called fanatic in cleanliness, fussy, and bit humorous. I dont koe why they called it virgo men & cancer females a perfect match combination?
    But I always found Pisces, cancer, sagi guys very attractive..damn they are so hottt crazy for them eventually these stars drives my sexually intention high all the time…;)

  15. moon's pawn says:

    I tried to date a virgo, i think i sensed that we connect on some wierd level…
    I think his idea of perfection didn’t include me, and with out him saying a word i knew that i wasn’t matching up to the picture he had in his head.
    I am cancer, him virgo of course…
    my venus is virgo, my mars is virgo….his venus is libra (my rising sign and moon are libra)
    but his mars is sagittarius….
    We hit it off on an emotional plane, but my crabby ” can’t talk” got in the way, he couldn’t see past it…
    i didn’t fill the bill, it seemed as if i was just stupid to him, therefor not good enough.
    I really don’t get it, according to the planets, we were attracted to the same kind of person…
    I don’t get the reality either, and i don’t stop thinking about someone assuming that i am stupid, and so i still try to talk and prove i am not, which gets me nowhere.
    I don’t know if it is “him” that i can’t forget, or if it’s me trying to be perfect…
    I am cancer, i guess i think there is no one i can’t reach.

  16. cancergirl204 says:

    Hey hey… I need to talk to a virgo guy… I met a virgo guy over the holiday weekend and we were partying, got kinda drunk and decided 2 be bf/gf… we had a ot of fun but didn’t hook-up, only made out. I’m 10 years older than him and he said it didn’t matter… do you virgo guys care about that? Also the next day we woke up made out a little more then I left to get lunch w a guy friend, do you think that bothered him? I texted him the next day and told him I had a lot of fun and that I wanted to hang out again but do something mellow this time but he never responded and its been days… my q’s are… do you think he reallywanted to become bf\gf that quick or was it drunkeness? Also would he have still made out the next day sober if he didn’t like me? Should I call him or text again cuz I don’t appreciate no response after being so vulnerable to him by telling him how I really felt that night… help me out sweet virgo guys… I think you guys are rad. TY!

  17. cancergirl204 says:

    Hey you rad virgo guys… my q’s are… I partied w a virgo guy this w\e and he told me he wants to be my boyfriend… we were drinking but not wasted… I’m 10 years older than him (21\31) we didn’t have sex, just kissed w and the next day made out again but then I left w a guy buddy to eat lunch cuz he still wanted to sleep… I texted him later to tell him that I had a lot of fun with him and that I thought he was super funny and nice but I that I wanted to hang out again but got no response and its been days… was he full of **it saying he wanted to be my boyfriend just cuz he was drinking? Does our age difference bother him? Should I just call him cuz I want to see him again… What’s going on in his head?

  18. cancergirl204 says:

    Oops post the same thing twice I think…

  19. AquaTrainer says:

    um, all young guys want to bang an older chick lol and especially say they have one as a girlfriend. I wouldn’t invest too much into that. He was drinking and being flirty flirty.

  20. cancerlady626 says:

    HI everyone…I wanted to see if I could possibly get any imput from Virgo’s (esp the male Virgo). I first layed eyes on my Virgo 4 yrs ago at a club. To me he was the most gorgeous men I had ever laid eyes on. He ignored me completely in public, yet emailed me on a social network. Always calling me “sexy”. Well we had what I truly thought would be a one nite stand, yet he pursued me for a few months, then stopped calling. Exactly one yr later he called and asked for a reunion, which I went. It was just sex. Then one nite out of no where, he questioned me as to what I felt we had. I was hesitent to answer, so he blurted out, I think we have more, we have a connection. Things went well for a cpl of months, getting closer, then drama set in and the nastiness on both sides came out. Determined never to speak again we each went our seperate ways, that is until he reached out again months later. I havent always been available for him, which I knew annoyed him, but after all it is just sex. While he does ignore me out in public he is always found w/in 3 feet of me, always has his eyes on me. Well now he once again seems to be interested in my world outside the bedroom. He asked where I grow up, what HS I went to, where I was off to for the Easter holiday. And he actually helped me with a diliema I have had regarding a gf, giving me some insite. I will admit the sex with us is unreal, but I am a little confused by him now once again inquiring about me outside the bedroom. Yet when I leave he doesnt reach out at all, but I do know he is checking up on me. All in all this has been a sex thing for the last 3 yrs on and off…he loves when I tell him I love him, and he recently told me….Ok Virgo’s hit me….Is it at all possible for more? Or am I reading into things at times? When he looks into my eyes all I see is love reflecting back at me, is that crazy??? Thank you….

  21. So true about Virgo men. They may have been pampered by their moms while they were little, hence would be impossible for you to fill in that kind of affection.

  22. julycancer says:

    I’m dating a virgo man, I’m a july cancer. Not sure the honest difference. My virgo man isn’t super emotional. Calls me a sap all the time, but he’s getting mushy since being with me. I love him to pieces and def take care of him. He loves. My cooking, and loves it that I’m an amazing mom to my son from another past relationship. He loves my son as well. We started off as friends, then things grew. The sex is ungodly amazing, its earth shattering! But the best part is that he listens to me bitch and deals with my moodiness like no one else ever has! He’s the best bf I have ever had. And he understands me and makes me feel like a princess. As well as helping keep the great communication in our relationship. We rarely argue even though we have very different opinions on a lot of stuff. He’s very family oreineted, he’s by far the only guy I have truely loved. Like more then just being in love, so much deeper! He’s the best! And I am happy to say this is a well working cancer and vigo couple! And I hope to keep it that way!

  23. Redrenee says:

    So, I’m a July cancer. My husband is a July cancerian as well. When we met, it was like we automatically undestood each others needs. We’ve been together 13 years now, 8 married. We have 2 children but this man has a deeply dark moody side. When things don’t go his way, he’s upset about something he’s just ugly and intimidating and mean. The sex is boring, and I don’t feel connected to him anymore. I started a new job this year and I met this man. He intrigues me, makes me smile abd exudes a sense of calm I crave. With a group we had been out abd had drinks a couple of times. He’s was just cool, funny and down to earth. I discovered he was a Virgo 4 years younger than I am. The last time we hung out, he gave me an indecent proposal. Long story short, I accepted after much inquisition from me, he was still game. We have been intimate 3 times and has been amazing. We’ve hung out twice as friends and it was nice too. I’m at a cross road because I know what I’m doing is wrong on many levels. But I’ve tried to walk away from this man and I couldnt . He is intelligent, intriguing, funny responsible, calming and comforting. I don’t know if what’s going on between us is real. Btw He knows my marital situation. Does he respect me less because of it? Are Virgo men prone to messing with Married women? Why did he pursue me if Virgo men are so attracted to high morals. This relationship we have is certainly not morally correct. Any insight you can give me about this virgos behaviors would be helpful.

  24. Redrenee: I am also a married Cancer woman having an affair with a virgo man.
    Me and my husband ( Taurus ) have been together for 10 years and we have a daughter.
    Virgo is our neighbour, family friend. Yes, it is a crazy situation and I wish I’d never gotten into it…
    We were friends for years before he came on to me, confessing he is in love with me.
    He loves my daughter and is like a second dad to her… crazy I know.

    We started an affair and it turned out to be a roller-coaster. I seriously considered leaving my unhappy marriage for him.
    It’s true, Virgos are not very expressive or passionate. Sometimes, very rarely he let his guard down with me and those times were the best.
    He hurt me a lot, did the hot-cold, push-pull thing all the time, very confusing and could not figure him out.

    We called it quits and are now back to being friends, he is a nice person, but I wish he would move away and get on with his life.
    Even though we are very attracted to each-other and we have a connection and feel good around each-other, I don’t think we would work in the real life.

    He has many issues and so have I.
    He can be critical and harsh and cold and distant.

    I know he likes me, cause I am the motherly type, he says he wishes he had a mother like I am.
    He also finds me sexy, as I am pretty, long hair, feminine, curvy.
    Also he likes intelligent and interesting women and we connect on that level also.

    To think about it – he is probably the perfect guy for me, expect for couple of little things :)

    He has many issues ( depressive, alcoholic, dead-end job, mommy-issues ).
    And he is very insecure. And inconsisent and lazy. And selfish.

    So even if we connect on so many levels – emotional, physical, spiritual and intellectual, the reality of the every day life would get to us.
    After all, Cancers are practical and need security and stability.
    I don’t see that with my Virgo man.
    He is not very ambitious or hard-working and settles for less than what he could get.
    He is not a go-getter and gives up too easily.
    Cancer’s have a big heart but I don’t want to baby a guy or deal with somebody’s depression.
    Life is hard enough to make it even harder.

    I want to be there for him as a friend and support him in getting his life together.
    But only he can do it, nobody else can do it for him.

    I know other Virgo men also, who have showed interest in me. One is a coworker, also married.
    He has been trying to get me for over five years. But I refuse to start something with a married man, that crosses my limits. He is the supercontrollive type and I would not want to be with him and feel sorry for his wife ( Libra ).

    Cancer woman are not a bad choice for Virgo but I don’t see myself with one.
    I believe Cancer woman can bring out the emotional side from Virgo but Cancer needs a lot of patience to deal with the coldness and pulling away.

  25. curious757 says:

    @crabgirl,

    wow, this is like watching “Desperate Housewives,” or, “LA housewives” or something like that.
    First off, wow, sorry to hear about your unhappy marriage with your Taurus man and you had to go find it with a married man (Virgo) who is unhappily married with the Libra.
    :( :(

    I guess this site really shows me a lot of the “real world” out there, instead of hearing gossip with the family and the neighbors. I usually watch Dr. Phil and his unhappy marriages episodes and how to “fix” them. 95% of the time, they cannot be fixed. Poor Dr. Phil, he tries so hard. He’s a true Virgo who makes his energy potential. With having some virgo in my chart I understand how it is, wanting to “fix” people. My ex’s were the kind I wanted to “fix” which I now understand by making their charts and how I attracted them in the past.

  26. i.peep.your.game.hateration says:

    water+ earth= life and foilage. you’re such a #hater

  27. Me and my Virgo met up recently after 10 years. back then we had an attraction but never pursued it. i knew that he was engaged now, he didnt want to talk about their relationship. later he told me that they are experiencing problems and that he’s not sure how things will work out.
    we continued chatting on a friendly basis and then there was a change to more sexual contexts. after our first kiss, we started chatting more, daily. now, it seems that things are slowly but surely heading forward. and it feels like i am with someone with whom i can be myself all round…

    we have agreed that we are enjoying the ‘fun’. that we have ‘fun’ together. we seemed to be totally different towards each other now, than we did many years ago with both of us being more mature, confident and open.

    however, im scared to let on how i really feel.i know its wrong but i feel that if he is going to end up marrying his partner that i would want to enjoy him now. and no, i am actually a july cancer …. my morals are in the right place, i just could not say no to my curiosity…

    oh, and i am older than him by 5 yrs

    do i just walk away?

  28. Hi Silva,

    My dear girl you do know that “CURIOSITY” did kill the cat don’t you.???

    So it all boils down to how far you are willing to go and what you will end up with.???

    It sounds as though this guy may very well be looking for a last fling before he ties the
    knot, he sounds like a sleaze bag and not a very good catch but if you don’t want to
    throw him back and you “want to enjoy him now” go ahead and “ENJOY” whatever it
    is he has to offer, which must appeal to you otherwise you wouldn’t be questioning or
    considering it would you.???

    Walking away from something which is very tempting can be very hard to do but in the
    long run it saves you a lot of anguish and heartache should you get in too deep and
    find yourself caught up in a net of secrecy, lies and deceit which are very unstable
    foundations to base a relationship. If you are able to separate your emotions and not
    involve them whilst you are having “FUN and ENJOYING” each other go ahead, but
    you do not sound or come across as a girl whom is able to do that so I would say tread
    very carefully and look at the “WHOLE PICTURE” before you dive into the deep end of
    what appears to be a very murky ocean.

    Take care and be wise, Taurus.

  29. miss moody says:

    Ok… No offense k gals but i thought this blog was supposed to be What Virgo men find attractive about cancer women…. Basically i was looking to get some insight from a male Virgo perspective

  30. Hi Miss Moody

    I regret to tell you that we happen to be fresh out of Virgo Males for the
    time being so what you see is what you get but keep checking in and
    who knows one or two may drift by soon and give you the answers you
    are looking for.!!!

    Cheers and keep smiling. Taurus

  31. I’m a Virgo male whose known a Cancer woman for 5 years. I’m a year and a half older than she is, I’m 26 and her 24. We met a Chicken and Waffles spot back in 2008, and we instantly hit it off. We conversed everyday even when she went away to school in Texas. We almost did the long-distance relationship thing, but I wasn’t too trusting of that being that I’m in the Bay Area and she being way out there. Fast forward to this year, we started going to school together in my last year of my undergraduate studies, and it was a rocky time for me emotionally. My ex of two years an ambitious and driven Aries woman broke with me, because of my infidelity issues and the Cancer woman opened me up emotionally in a way that hasn’t happened in a long time. We had our fights of course, her being a hot head and having jealousy issues and being fearful that I would go back to my ex, and I being critical, mean, and somewhat distant emotionally because I was scared to open up after dealing with the break up between me and my ex. About 3 weeks ago, for the third time we went through each other’s phone saw some things we didn’t like and things took a turn for the worst in which resorted to us not talking at all right now. I’ve tried calling and texting her and have gotten no response. I know that she’s talking to someone or other dudes right now which hurts my soul deeply, because no matter how many fights we had and all the miscommunication and disrespectful things we did and said to each other, I realize that I love her so damn much it’s ridiculous and I want her back so bad! I miss her touch, her kiss, the way she would look at me, her funny conversation, I wish I listened more to her when she was hurt, etc. I know her family hates me for what I did to her and takes her side, but I can’t love nobody but her I truly believed that that was who God put on Earth for me and I’ll give her her space and let things simmer down, but I won’t stop in my pursuit to get her back, even if she’s acting a like a ***** right now towards me. I know I got to make things right with her even if all I end with up is a friendship with her, that’s fine by me.

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