Comments on: Make a Gemini man tell the truth http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:02:09 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Scarlett http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html/comment-page-2#comment-55060 Scarlett Thu, 12 Nov 2009 18:30:41 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/make-a-gemini-man-tell-the-truth/#comment-55060 Recently, i was dating a Gemini man... I'm a libra myself. I found him to be pretty much a typical Gemini, especially with the lying factor! I think he often told me what he thought i wanted to hear... A constant people pleaser! But rapidly he came on a bit too strong, and scared me off with his constant affection and adoration.. Now i don't normally think those emotions are bad, obviously, but i just felt a little suffocated. Also, despite the idea that Gemini's are intelligent, i felt i analysed things mentally a little too much for him to keep up... We couldn't connect on a deeper mental level like my previous Aquarius boyfriend. Recently, i was dating a Gemini man… I’m a libra myself. I found him to be pretty much a typical Gemini, especially with the lying factor! I think he often told me what he thought i wanted to hear… A constant people pleaser! But rapidly he came on a bit too strong, and scared me off with his constant affection and adoration.. Now i don’t normally think those emotions are bad, obviously, but i just felt a little suffocated. Also, despite the idea that Gemini’s are intelligent, i felt i analysed things mentally a little too much for him to keep up… We couldn’t connect on a deeper mental level like my previous Aquarius boyfriend.

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html/comment-page-2#comment-52299 LibraLady Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:47:49 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/make-a-gemini-man-tell-the-truth/#comment-52299 Alan are you a Gemini man? If so have you ever been involved with a Libra? Libra and Gemini are suposed to be compatible but I usually see Aqua/Gem or Aqu/Lib or Aqua/Aqua or Lib/Lib How come I dont meet very many Libra Gemini couples? Alan
are you a Gemini man? If so have you ever been involved with a Libra? Libra and Gemini are suposed to be compatible but I usually see Aqua/Gem or Aqu/Lib or Aqua/Aqua or Lib/Lib
How come I dont meet very many Libra Gemini couples?

]]> By: Alan http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html/comment-page-2#comment-50799 Alan Wed, 30 Sep 2009 06:06:55 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/make-a-gemini-man-tell-the-truth/#comment-50799 The thing about coming on strong and then vanishing is that it leaves both parties disappointed and unfulfilled--not necessarily to an equal degree, but it does affect both because, in theory, both are looking for the "right" one. So how do you quickly figure out if you and another have long-term compatibility? I've read a ton of articles and books on the subject of compatibility and I think the best I've seen is Hayden Dane's brief e-book, "I Have One Question," available at www.haydendane.com. Dane suggests, and argues convincingly, that the key to true long-term compatibility is admiration. Yeah, admiration. He describes a conversation to have that will allow you to determine if the admiration necessary for long-term compatibility exists between you and another. Since reading his book, I have that conversation on the very first date. If the answers I give and get are promising, then no one vanishes because we both understand from the conversation that we're well matched; if the answers aren't promising, then it never gets to the "hot and vanish" stage. The thing about coming on strong and then vanishing is that it leaves both parties disappointed and unfulfilled–not necessarily to an equal degree, but it does affect both because, in theory, both are looking for the “right” one. So how do you quickly figure out if you and another have long-term compatibility? I’ve read a ton of articles and books on the subject of compatibility and I think the best I’ve seen is Hayden Dane’s brief e-book, “I Have One Question,” available at http://www.haydendane.com. Dane suggests, and argues convincingly, that the key to true long-term compatibility is admiration. Yeah, admiration. He describes a conversation to have that will allow you to determine if the admiration necessary for long-term compatibility exists between you and another. Since reading his book, I have that conversation on the very first date. If the answers I give and get are promising, then no one vanishes because we both understand from the conversation that we’re well matched; if the answers aren’t promising, then it never gets to the “hot and vanish” stage.

]]> By: Funtazy http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html/comment-page-2#comment-50752 Funtazy Tue, 29 Sep 2009 20:51:07 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/make-a-gemini-man-tell-the-truth/#comment-50752 Hmm... I can all tell you stories about Geminis and Aqua bois!!! lol... Gemini man talked about moving together and even learned my language within only few weeks and all in just 2 weeks... i was so scared and told him to slowdown.. i dont kow he cooled off i guess, than something i did or said made him being distant to me, and then i figured out he is too young to see that we women are only humans like them! with mistakes and failures... i didnt fit his ideal candidate that he made up in his head once he saw me and wanted me... but lies? no he never lied to me... i thought it could be wonderful with him... i really was about to fall in love. the aqua guy though.... oh man this story is looooong!!! and gets longer each week.... this guy i was really ready to marry and all... but well... he lied whenever he opened his mouth! .... i couldnt see me chasing after a man when i wanted to see me as a mother of my child, taking really good care of them and being a good mother... so no time to waste, i moved on! Aqua men.... they are amazing romantic-wise... i have never had such a sweet talker in my life... a man that you can really fall for when he starts sweet talking... be careful and watch out, i am definetely on my toes with him...even though i still miss him and our big love we shared. Oh I am Pisces woman with rising Scorpio! Hmm… I can all tell you stories about Geminis and Aqua bois!!! lol…
Gemini man talked about moving together and even learned my language within only few weeks and all in just 2 weeks… i was so scared and told him to slowdown.. i dont kow he cooled off i guess, than something i did or said made him being distant to me, and then i figured out he is too young to see that we women are only humans like them! with mistakes and failures… i didnt fit his ideal candidate that he made up in his head once he saw me and wanted me… but lies? no he never lied to me… i thought it could be wonderful with him… i really was about to fall in love.
the aqua guy though…. oh man this story is looooong!!! and gets longer each week…. this guy i was really ready to marry and all… but well… he lied whenever he opened his mouth! …. i couldnt see me chasing after a man when i wanted to see me as a mother of my child, taking really good care of them and being a good mother… so no time to waste, i moved on!
Aqua men…. they are amazing romantic-wise… i have never had such a sweet talker in my life… a man that you can really fall for when he starts sweet talking… be careful and watch out, i am definetely on my toes with him…even though i still miss him and our big love we shared. Oh I am Pisces woman with rising Scorpio!

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html/comment-page-2#comment-50539 LibraLady Mon, 28 Sep 2009 15:50:18 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/make-a-gemini-man-tell-the-truth/#comment-50539 Oh you mean those kind of lies, LOL I've had that problem with most guys, even Aquarius guys, they want so bad to impress you :) Its kind of cute, its also fun to catch them in a lie, of course maybe I shouldn't have done that, guys run away after you show them your onto their game :) As far as the feedom thing, Im in love with an Aqua guy, who was the one that brought up the marriage thing, everything "Oh your my soul mate. your the one" bla bla bla.... I gave him his space, just like everyone advises me to, havent seen him for 3 months now.... I hate it when guys come on all heavy, then vanish. Oh you mean those kind of lies, LOL
I’ve had that problem with most guys, even Aquarius guys, they want so bad to impress you :) Its kind of cute, its also fun to catch them in a lie, of course maybe I shouldn’t have done that, guys run away after you show them your onto their game :)
As far as the feedom thing, Im in love with an Aqua guy, who was the one that brought up the marriage thing, everything “Oh your my soul mate. your the one” bla bla bla…. I gave him his space, just like everyone advises me to, havent seen him for 3 months now…. I hate it when guys come on all heavy, then vanish.

]]> By: AquarianMan http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html/comment-page-2#comment-50062 AquarianMan Thu, 24 Sep 2009 12:57:36 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/make-a-gemini-man-tell-the-truth/#comment-50062 I've been with a gemini for about three years now... all the boy does is lie! Whether it's about work, a friendship back home, a mutual friend of ours, or hell... just to lie! He makes up stories to try and make himself seem more interesting to me, but doesn't realize it only makes me disgusted. As far as the "likes things in two's" comment, he likes things in twos,threes, fours, twenties... I consider ours an open relationship, however, I never do anything. I give him the freedom to do whatever he wants, hoping that he will eventually settle down. Ugh... anyone else have this problem? I’ve been with a gemini for about three years now… all the boy does is lie! Whether it’s about work, a friendship back home, a mutual friend of ours, or hell… just to lie! He makes up stories to try and make himself seem more interesting to me, but doesn’t realize it only makes me disgusted. As far as the “likes things in two’s” comment, he likes things in twos,threes, fours, twenties… I consider ours an open relationship, however, I never do anything. I give him the freedom to do whatever he wants, hoping that he will eventually settle down. Ugh… anyone else have this problem?

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html/comment-page-2#comment-49112 LibraLady Fri, 18 Sep 2009 18:29:37 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/make-a-gemini-man-tell-the-truth/#comment-49112 I had a Gemini BF in highschool and he never lied to me, not even once. We dated for months and then he kissed me, for me it felt like I was kissing a brother. I told him which was a huge mistake then told him that he was a great friend. I think about him sometimes 20 yrs later and I remember his smile. He was like a brother for me, I miss my brother :) With Gemini there doesn't even need to be any physical chemistry, they're just wonderful people. My Gemini friends were always fun and smart. As far as honesty,He never lied to me :) I had a Gemini BF in highschool and he never lied to me, not even once. We dated for months and then he kissed me, for me it felt like I was kissing a brother. I told him which was a huge mistake then told him that he was a great friend. I think about him sometimes 20 yrs later and I remember his smile.
He was like a brother for me, I miss my brother :)
With Gemini there doesn’t even need to be any physical chemistry, they’re just wonderful people. My Gemini friends were always fun and smart. As far as honesty,He never lied to me :)

]]> By: SagiLady http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html/comment-page-1#comment-46773 SagiLady Fri, 28 Aug 2009 19:35:51 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/make-a-gemini-man-tell-the-truth/#comment-46773 I have been with a Gemini Man for several years now. I am a Sagittarius woman. We have broken up and returned to the relationship now two times (first time I left, second time He left) over the course of 6 1/2. I will admit it has been challenging. 1. simply because we enjoy our freedoms and don't want to be tied down. 2. Because we bore easily. 3. We don't compromise our beliefs. Those are not bendable or negotiable. For these exact reasons mentioned, explains why we are still together and/or keep returning to one another. He is a bad liar. I am a truth seeker. But, I have gotten behind many of the lies told only to discover that there was a reason behind the lie, and point blank, I probably would have lied too, to protect one's emotions and prevent hurt. I have caught him in a few lies, but he never once denied them to me. He's always fessed up and told me the truth and why. We keep busy alot, and both travel alot for work. This helps. I can't stand routine, everyday is different. He has two children (previous marriage) as do I. We balance that well, and share the same beliefs and agree on most issues concerning our children. We also critic and offer advice to one another on the issues of our raising our children. We've had our fights, disagreements and fair share of separations over the years, but I believe until this day, the only reason why we stick together is because we've known eachother since we were young teens. We were friends. Kissing cousins if you will. We've seen eachother grow up, get married, have children, suffer through divorces...etc. It wasn't until after all of this that one thing led to another and hence, now we've been in a relationship. I will agree that Gemini men are very hard to understand and can sometimes be very detached. I've seen it with my own eyes. They have to trust you 1000000% before they expose who they really are to you, and I believe that was the toughest part. I have my life, he has his and we have "ours" and we both enjoy it that way! What the future holds? who knows. I have no interest in marrying again. What I will say is that the love is there and is reciprocated. Has it been worth it? I will say YES!! He is all the excitement, intelligence, and mysteriousness I crave in my life! Luck to you all =) Sagi Lady I have been with a Gemini Man for several years now. I am a Sagittarius woman. We have broken up and returned to the relationship now two times (first time I left, second time He left) over the course of 6 1/2. I will admit it has been challenging. 1. simply because we enjoy our freedoms and don’t want to be tied down. 2. Because we bore easily. 3. We don’t compromise our beliefs. Those are not bendable or negotiable. For these exact reasons mentioned, explains why we are still together and/or keep returning to one another. He is a bad liar. I am a truth seeker. But, I have gotten behind many of the lies told only to discover that there was a reason behind the lie, and point blank, I probably would have lied too, to protect one’s emotions and prevent hurt. I have caught him in a few lies, but he never once denied them to me. He’s always fessed up and told me the truth and why.

We keep busy alot, and both travel alot for work. This helps. I can’t stand routine, everyday is different. He has two children (previous marriage) as do I. We balance that well, and share the same beliefs and agree on most issues concerning our children. We also critic and offer advice to one another on the issues of our raising our children.

We’ve had our fights, disagreements and fair share of separations over the years, but I believe until this day, the only reason why we stick together is because we’ve known eachother since we were young teens. We were friends. Kissing cousins if you will. We’ve seen eachother grow up, get married, have children, suffer through divorces…etc. It wasn’t until after all of this that one thing led to another and hence, now we’ve been in a relationship. I will agree that Gemini men are very hard to understand and can sometimes be very detached. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. They have to trust you 1000000% before they expose who they really are to you, and I believe that was the toughest part. I have my life, he has his and we have “ours” and we both enjoy it that way! What the future holds? who knows. I have no interest in marrying again. What I will say is that the love is there and is reciprocated. Has it been worth it? I will say YES!! He is all the excitement, intelligence, and mysteriousness I crave in my life! Luck to you all =)

Sagi Lady

]]> By: xlissx http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html/comment-page-1#comment-44852 xlissx Thu, 13 Aug 2009 04:26:04 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/make-a-gemini-man-tell-the-truth/#comment-44852 Hmm...i'm a Gemini girl and i admit, i do lie a lot. but....it's probably because i want the person i'm lying to to be happy. that doesn't make sense but that's how it is in my head. i have these two friends who don't really like each other, and i'm friends with the other one, [taurus] more. so we were hanging out at the carnival and i knew the [taurus] one was unhappy cuz of the other one. so i made a plan to ditch her and it worked...but i didn't really want to hurt anyone. well it's the way Geminis think its pretty complicated. ok sooo I tell the Taurus I hate the other one. But the other one [sorry, i don't know her sign], is really interesting and i want to be friends with her so i keep her around, but i can tell Taurus hates that i'm lying so i wanted to show her that i'm more loyal to her than the other one. but i wasn't really thinking about the other's feelings at the time, and just focusing on one person's happiness. [or more like the whole group, the rest of them hate her] well anyway, Geminis's f'in CRAZY!!! they like creating drama when they're bored, and making people think things that aren't true [like me] just to see how they would react or something. i only like drama when i cause it though, and under control but don't seem like it. like this one time, i wanted to break up with this guy but i was kinda avoiding it and didn't wanna do it so i asked my friend to make this big scene about him cheating on me [which is true but i don't really care i wanted to break up cuz he's clingy. stupid cancer.] and then she told me in front of him that yeah blah blah blah so i was like is this true?!? then ran away pretending to cry. LOOOL it was fun!!!! then his friends started yelling at me saying it wasn't true and i ran away, took out a bottle of fake tears and squeezed it on my face, came back and started saying things like 'leave me alone!!!' 'he cheated on me!!!' annnd then....they set this thing to get us back together and even though i didn't want to...i still did and everyone was happy...cept my friends cuz they knew the truth they don't like it when i lie i'm working on that. i guess it's just that i like putting on a show...for my audience. maybe like a stand up comedian, he wants to make people laugh but might hurt someone and doesn't realize it because making a lot people happy is more important than one person's feelings. but i'm not that insensitive, we Geminis have loads of personalities. My bestest friend is a Scorpio, and I'm truthful with her about EVERYTHING [but not the mean things, nope, like how those pants are all wrong] So if your being hurt by a Gemini, you're just not that important enough. Hmm…i’m a Gemini girl and i admit, i do lie a lot. but….it’s probably because i want the person i’m lying to to be happy. that doesn’t make sense but that’s how it is in my head.
i have these two friends who don’t really like each other, and i’m friends with the other one, [taurus] more. so we were hanging out at the carnival and i knew the [taurus] one was unhappy cuz of the other one. so i made a plan to ditch her and it worked…but i didn’t really want to hurt anyone. well it’s the way Geminis think its pretty complicated.
ok sooo
I tell the Taurus I hate the other one. But the other one [sorry, i don't know her sign], is really interesting and i want to be friends with her so i keep her around, but i can tell Taurus hates that i’m lying so i wanted to show her that i’m more loyal to her than the other one. but i wasn’t really thinking about the other’s feelings at the time, and just focusing on one person’s happiness. [or more like the whole group, the rest of them hate her]
well anyway, Geminis’s f’in CRAZY!!! they like creating drama when they’re bored, and making people think things that aren’t true [like me] just to see how they would react or something. i only like drama when i cause it though, and under control but don’t seem like it. like this one time, i wanted to break up with this guy but i was kinda avoiding it and didn’t wanna do it so i asked my friend to make this big scene about him cheating on me [which is true but i don't really care i wanted to break up cuz he's clingy. stupid cancer.] and then she told me in front of him that yeah blah blah blah so i was like is this true?!? then ran away pretending to cry. LOOOL it was fun!!!! then his friends started yelling at me saying it wasn’t true and i ran away, took out a bottle of fake tears and squeezed it on my face, came back and started saying things like ‘leave me alone!!!’ ‘he cheated on me!!!’
annnd then….they set this thing to get us back together and even though i didn’t want to…i still did and everyone was happy…cept my friends cuz they knew the truth they don’t like it when i lie i’m working on that.
i guess it’s just that i like putting on a show…for my audience. maybe like a stand up comedian, he wants to make people laugh but might hurt someone and doesn’t realize it because making a lot people happy is more important than one person’s feelings.
but i’m not that insensitive, we Geminis have loads of personalities.
My bestest friend is a Scorpio, and I’m truthful with her about EVERYTHING [but not the mean things, nope, like how those pants are all wrong]
So if your being hurt by a Gemini, you’re just not that important enough.

]]> By: zoey http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/make-gemini-man-tell-truth.html/comment-page-1#comment-44431 zoey Mon, 10 Aug 2009 15:20:08 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/18/make-a-gemini-man-tell-the-truth/#comment-44431 Well, I am a pisces, and I am nothing like what my sign says. I meant a Gemini man that I was and still am dating. He lies ALL the time. I just ignore him. I have also learned to keep him interested, is to be smart. I love smart men, and also I play hardball games with him. It drives him crazy wanting to see me. But, thank god I don't love him. haaaa. Well, I am a pisces, and I am nothing like what my sign says. I meant a Gemini man that I was and still am dating. He lies ALL the time. I just ignore him. I have also learned to keep him interested, is to be smart. I love smart men, and also I play hardball games with him. It drives him crazy wanting to see me. But, thank god I don’t love him. haaaa.

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