Make a Gemini man tell the truth
December 18, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
Are Geminis the liars of the zodiac? (Where else do we get the term “two-faced”?) Pisces is the sign of deception, but Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the god who invented lying. Gemini is a mutable sign, and can be slippery with words. He is a master mimic, adept at adapting. When I think of Gemini, I think of Sydney Bristow from Alias, the sexy spy who donned eight different costumes each episode. This is an agent who spoke something like 148 languages! Sydney’s deceit was always for a purpose, not out of defensiveness. Mercury is rather utilitarian, doing what he has to do to get what he wants. He’s not a terribly moral god.
Yes, Gemini may not value honesty. His sign is opposite Sagittarius, which can be a little too blunt with the truth. (For “truthiness,” see Moon-in-Gemini Stephen Colbert.) He lies when he needs to, and may not even feel any guilt about it.
So how do you make a Gemini man tell the truth?
- Pin him down. Make him define the words he uses. (”Sexual relations,” for instance, is a famous example.)
- Try to get behind the lie to see what his endgame is. Is he just trying to get away with an affair? Or is his deceit a necessarily evil in his efforts to get intel for the NSA?
And keep in mind:
- With Aquarius in his solar 9th house, an objective truth guides him … one that is truly beyond the realm of intimate relationships. Maybe he thinks that a little lie to his lady is nothing, if his deceit benefits humanity.
- Cancer is in Gemini’s solar 2nd house. Your Gemini man values home, family and security. Remember Sydney Bristow? Half the time she was lying, it was to protect the ones she loved.
OK … I’m not saying your Gemini man really is a spy, who’s being deceitful to protect you from Arvin Sloane, Sidney’s boss who had her boyfriend killed after she told him she worked for the CIA. Maybe your Gemini man is just an affair-having sleazeball. Geminis do like things in twos, after all.
Good luck!
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I had a Gemini BF in highschool and he never lied to me, not even once. We dated for months and then he kissed me, for me it felt like I was kissing a brother. I told him which was a huge mistake then told him that he was a great friend. I think about him sometimes 20 yrs later and I remember his smile.
He was like a brother for me, I miss my brother
With Gemini there doesn’t even need to be any physical chemistry, they’re just wonderful people. My Gemini friends were always fun and smart. As far as honesty,He never lied to me
I’ve been with a gemini for about three years now… all the boy does is lie! Whether it’s about work, a friendship back home, a mutual friend of ours, or hell… just to lie! He makes up stories to try and make himself seem more interesting to me, but doesn’t realize it only makes me disgusted. As far as the “likes things in two’s” comment, he likes things in twos,threes, fours, twenties… I consider ours an open relationship, however, I never do anything. I give him the freedom to do whatever he wants, hoping that he will eventually settle down. Ugh… anyone else have this problem?
Oh you mean those kind of lies, LOL
Its kind of cute, its also fun to catch them in a lie, of course maybe I shouldn’t have done that, guys run away after you show them your onto their game 
I’ve had that problem with most guys, even Aquarius guys, they want so bad to impress you
As far as the feedom thing, Im in love with an Aqua guy, who was the one that brought up the marriage thing, everything “Oh your my soul mate. your the one” bla bla bla…. I gave him his space, just like everyone advises me to, havent seen him for 3 months now…. I hate it when guys come on all heavy, then vanish.
Hmm… I can all tell you stories about Geminis and Aqua bois!!! lol…
Gemini man talked about moving together and even learned my language within only few weeks and all in just 2 weeks… i was so scared and told him to slowdown.. i dont kow he cooled off i guess, than something i did or said made him being distant to me, and then i figured out he is too young to see that we women are only humans like them! with mistakes and failures… i didnt fit his ideal candidate that he made up in his head once he saw me and wanted me… but lies? no he never lied to me… i thought it could be wonderful with him… i really was about to fall in love.
the aqua guy though…. oh man this story is looooong!!! and gets longer each week…. this guy i was really ready to marry and all… but well… he lied whenever he opened his mouth! …. i couldnt see me chasing after a man when i wanted to see me as a mother of my child, taking really good care of them and being a good mother… so no time to waste, i moved on!
Aqua men…. they are amazing romantic-wise… i have never had such a sweet talker in my life… a man that you can really fall for when he starts sweet talking… be careful and watch out, i am definetely on my toes with him…even though i still miss him and our big love we shared. Oh I am Pisces woman with rising Scorpio!
The thing about coming on strong and then vanishing is that it leaves both parties disappointed and unfulfilled–not necessarily to an equal degree, but it does affect both because, in theory, both are looking for the “right” one. So how do you quickly figure out if you and another have long-term compatibility? I’ve read a ton of articles and books on the subject of compatibility and I think the best I’ve seen is Hayden Dane’s brief e-book, “I Have One Question,” available at http://www.haydendane.com. Dane suggests, and argues convincingly, that the key to true long-term compatibility is admiration. Yeah, admiration. He describes a conversation to have that will allow you to determine if the admiration necessary for long-term compatibility exists between you and another. Since reading his book, I have that conversation on the very first date. If the answers I give and get are promising, then no one vanishes because we both understand from the conversation that we’re well matched; if the answers aren’t promising, then it never gets to the “hot and vanish” stage.
Alan
are you a Gemini man? If so have you ever been involved with a Libra? Libra and Gemini are suposed to be compatible but I usually see Aqua/Gem or Aqu/Lib or Aqua/Aqua or Lib/Lib
How come I dont meet very many Libra Gemini couples?