btw, my ex is like jekyll and hyde. he acts differently to people and when we’re outside and when he’s with me

this describes how i feel about him
http://gettinbetter.com/casanova.html

i broke up with him and i’m getting scared cuz everytime he tries to contact me and i decline to see him, he gets mad. he wants me to fix his laptop. i’m so done with this.

A Taurus man is like a christmas cracker,
They look good on the outside
come out with nothing but s*** in the inside

hi another ariesgirl i don’t know how too reg on here, i’m in http://www.sasstrology.net under arieswoman if you want too add me on that. Is either of you’s on sasstrology.net???

here is my info

1) Aries Girl
2) march 22, 1982
3) 5:30 am
4) Manila, Philippines

here is my bull’s info

1) Taurus Guy
2) may 5, 1981
3) 7:00 pm
4) Maryville, TN

here’s the thing, there’s something in his chart that says “refusing marriage,” i forgot which planet it is.

we’ve been dating for almost 2 years now, and lately it has been crazy. it started to doubt him last year when i was having a problem with my job. there’s something he mentioned about him leaving the country (because he’s a sailor) and cannot marry me while he’s here. he didn’t say it that way, of course. but i interpreted it as, “i’m going away and i’m not gonna marry you at all.”

it’s really perplexing because before he was like, “i can’t live without you, so i will need to take you with me.” it all changed when he’s asking his boss and some of his friends about getting married. the lady boss teased him to bits, that made him really embarrassed, cuz she would say it out loud at work. the guy friend, who’s married at the age of 23, told him before his days are over here in japan, he should lock himself in his room and don’t ever call me.

i never brought it up again until he mentioned moving out in town. he asked how i’m gonna pay the rent in case he got out of the country. so i was like, “whatever happened to your plan taking me with you?”

i mean, it wouldn’t be an issue if he didn’t bring up the marriage subject at all. in fact, i didn’t entertain it that time because i told him not to tell me such thing unless he has solid plans. after my 1 week vacation last week, i discovered his picture in a dating site. he said, he’s not cheating but only wanted to see real pictures of real girls because he’s tired of porn and celebs.

my heart and mind are arguing. i tried to broke up with him last night. he was pushing me to breakup with him because i brought up the marriage thing again. it’s not that i want to get married now, i want to hear if ever he has a plan about us. we’re approaching 30 in a couple of years. he said he doesn’t wanna get married in japan, so i said…why don’t do it somewhere else? he had another excuse. so to summarize, i was pissed and told him, “you’d never do it. you’re just stalling and trying to keep me as long as you want. i’m not gonna stay with you until 35 and we’re still dating status and you are miles apart from me.” then he said he’s not gonna let it happen and will decide before i turn 30 but he won’t be leaving until 2011. that makes me practically 30 by then. he said, if i don’t like it then i should leave him. i agreed and i told him i would pick up the stuffs in his house. he didn’t want me to come there, he said we’ll just meet and give me my stuff. knowing him, he won’t give it…so i tried to bargain and told him i’ll have someone pick it up for me if he’s too afraid i will do something bad to him. there’s no escape…he says he doesn’t want to breakup!!! i argued with him 2 hours on the phone crying and screaming because i feel like i was talking to a kid. he repeats that he doesn’t want to get married now…and i said, ” yes i f$cking heard it like 10 million times now, you don’t have to explain and that is what you want. i don’t wanna hear about what you want cuz i already know it, what i want to know is what you want to happen with us??” then we go back in circles cuz he explains it again. i was literally exhausted. he thinks i’m turning psychotic but it’s really haaaaaaaaarddddd to talk to him. that’s why i think he might have ADD. one explanation is not good enough, and he’d still keep on explaining even if i don’t wanna hear about it. now he tells me he bought this damn engagement ring so i should shutup about the marriage stuff.

i know it’s awful, this shouldn’t happen. it kills the romance really and i didn’t wanna push it down his throat…but he won’t let me leave the easy way either.