Comments on: How Virgo men break off relationships

By: Countess

Countess — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 13:47:48 +0000

To LibraLovesBalance

I understand your feelings about having an affair, I was in the same frame of mind as you once upon a time. To save my marriage, I decided to have an affair. It is purely sexual. The feelings are mutual on both our sides. How do two people who are highly sexed, without that passion in their marriage keep their marriage together – we cheat. Not a nice thing to do, but extremely necessary. We have come to the conclusion that we are better partners for our spouses, we don’t nag them and we are more relaxed and happy at home.
We do not deviate from our normal routines with our families and keep it strictly business hours. Their is no cell phone communication whatsoever except on the days we are to meet up and the evidence gets deleted immediately.
Everyone to their own and who knows, maybe one day you will see what I am talking about……

By: LibraLovesBalance

LibraLovesBalance — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 16:39:21 +0000

If you read about Virgo men,they do take it slow. I have no problem with that but if I’m hanging onto a guy for two years and I’m still baffled where this is going, I wouldn’t stick around. It takes time to get to know each other but think if you waste two, three even four years still playing cat & mouse for me that’s a sad and empty relationship. Your only getting a few crumbs here and there. The Virgo I met is 44 and I can see why he was only married once lasting only a few years. This guy was great one minute and moody the next. Way too many up’s and down’s.

By: AriesWoman

AriesWoman — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 15:39:11 +0000

I’m an Aries woman with a huge crush on a Virgo man. He baffles me. He acts like he likes me but any sudden moves and he jumps like a scared rabbit. I get mixed messages and he says I intimidate him…but, he’s kissed me on the cheek, rubbed my hand, pulled me to lunch with him 1 time and likes to hug me and be playful (not really CLEAR signals for me as FRIENDS do many of these types of things)
Help!, I try to keep my aggressiveness in check..don’t want him to run.
But not sure how to make the first move and actually ‘approach’ the topic of us getting to know one another first?
Do they really move this slow..we’ve been cat and mouse/flirting for a coupla years now.

By: Wantsherscorpioback

Wantsherscorpioback — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 07:00:26 +0000

If a virgo dumps his woman saying she will find a better man, but he is in love with her can she get him back?

By: LibraLovesBalance

LibraLovesBalance — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 18:41:57 +0000

I not going to remark on the one’s having affair’s because I have more pride as a lady than to stoop that low. The Virgo men will need a lady that is pretty much detached from her feelings. A woman that can take the hot & cold moods of a Virgo man. The security he would provide an amazing sex now and then wouldn’t be enough for me. For the ladies that say they have a high sex drive and Mr. Virgo doesn’t meet your needs, why stay? If you read about Virgo men the sex drive is way low. I honeslty need balance in my life and his mood swings were far too great for me, I moved on from my Virgo. I also don’t trust a man that has his phone on vibrate 247. I tink he’s hiding something other women maybe.

By: Countess

Countess — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 07:58:44 +0000

I am a Virgo woman (38yrs), married to an Aries man, having an affair with a Virgo Hottie(38 yrs). I know what I am like being a Virgo, needing lots of space and the other stuff that most don’t understand. I hate being married, tied down, hence the affair. My Virgo Hottie, lets call him The Count, is amazing (yes, he is married too) We make sure we see each other at least every other week and we spend the whole day together, he is the most amazing lover I have ever had and most considerate. It definitely works as we expect nothing from each other in the commitment area and we alternate the expenses of us getting together.
One thing that does bring out my insecurities abit about him is every now and again he skips a day to answer my mail. I know he is extremely busy and I do not nag him for anything or ask him questions. Me being a female, will of course have these feelings, but knowing about the space us Virgo’s require, I allow him the time to answer my mails at his leisure, whilst I do not send him mail all the time, more a good morning mail and then responses to his mail, I think we pretty much have a wonderful affair going on.

My Aries husband grounds me, while my Virgo Lover makes my soul soar. I think I have found a happy medium in my life and I am one very happy Countess.

By: LibraLovesBalance

LibraLovesBalance — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 18:44:14 +0000

What is it with these Virgo men.

I want you!
I’m stressed no time to date
I’m back!
I don’t have time for myself, I need space.
Back Again!
Don’t over analyze it, were done.
Hey! it’s me, how you doing?
Puff gone again!
Sorry ladies I want a man with staying power not a boy! that charms you once every other month.

By: CrazyCancerGirl

CrazyCancerGirl — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:09:26 +0000

I honestly think I have gone crazy (hence, my name), after being a pseudo-relationship with a Virgo for 2 1/2 years. He goes through periods where he wants to spend time with me, and is AMAZING! ….And then he gets scared that we get too close, and he starts creating lies that he’s busier than he really is, and can’t see me. I firmly even believe he has even created lies about other girls to get me upset and cause fights to avoid me!

Recently, I told him I had enough of his behavior. He made me feel bad and told me he needed time so I stayed. We planned a date 4 days later. Day before the date, he said he was only 99% and that got me paranoid when he said he was sure. We argued, and that night, he apologized, and asked me to give him a chance. The next day, date day, he acted oblivious to everything, I caught onto it, and he ended up canceling on me, saying he thought about it all night, whatever! I was FURIOUS. I told him I hated him. Somehow, we continued talking, and then he said he was sorry and that he had problems and apologized for treating me bad. I then asked if he really wanted me to go, he said he didn’t know what he wanted. U then told him I’ll give him space till end of this month. Is this a good idea? I’m so fed up yet I miss him so much. I don’t know how much more patience I can excercise.

By: aireezgirl

aireezgirl — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 05:32:35 +0000

“we live in in our heads” – I think that pretty much sums it up. I recently noticed that when he and I are around a lot of people he can be quite chatty, but when it’s just the two of us he’s almost shy. Sometimes it seems like he’s not interested so I tend to chill out too since I know that I all I really want to do is pounce on him and I don’t want to be too aggressive (lol). He always plays it cool, especially when we start to get a lil frisky, but then he changes (the coolness disappears all together).

I know I’m way more expressive than he is, so I need to stop freaking out when he clams up. I should hone in on my mind reading skills since he seems most comfortable keeping everything to himself.

By: Scott 1123

Scott 1123 — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 01:23:05 +0000

Good evening,

Being a virgo we really are not that bad it’s just that we live in in our heads. All things love, romance ,sex etc have to make sense to us.

If you keep that in mind and be patient and sincere things will work out for the most part.