Comments on: How to win a Scorpio back after you have hurt him http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html Thu, 11 Mar 2010 20:04:27 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: devastatedcancer http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html/comment-page-3#comment-60220 devastatedcancer Tue, 02 Feb 2010 18:00:56 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/06/how-to-win-a-scorpio-back-after-you-have-hurt-him/#comment-60220 Yesterday was a very rough day! After a blow out with my Scorpio he told me that he feels we should go our separate ways and that he is sure our paths will cross in the future but until then, take care. WTF! I have been reading all of the posts and had prepared myself for this moment! Into the dark side he goes! I have forwarded him an email in regards to work and of course no response. I am going to have to resist the urge to have any communication as hard at that may be. I hate it! Scorpios draw you in and then you mess up and into emotional purgatory you go even though they may have hurt you to by the things they have said and done. I pray he comes back to me but until then I must keep it movin! Yesterday was a very rough day! After a blow out with my Scorpio he told me that he feels we should go our separate ways and that he is sure our paths will cross in the future but until then, take care. WTF! I have been reading all of the posts and had prepared myself for this moment! Into the dark side he goes! I have forwarded him an email in regards to work and of course no response. I am going to have to resist the urge to have any communication as hard at that may be. I hate it! Scorpios draw you in and then you mess up and into emotional purgatory you go even though they may have hurt you to by the things they have said and done. I pray he comes back to me but until then I must keep it movin!

]]> By: Guiliana http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html/comment-page-2#comment-60217 Guiliana Tue, 02 Feb 2010 17:44:40 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/06/how-to-win-a-scorpio-back-after-you-have-hurt-him/#comment-60217 Hurt gemini just read your post! .. hope you have happier news of your scorpio but honestly speaking these people are SOOOO sensitive. He prob needed some time to himself because this is how it is in relationships , you cannot constantly be speaking /texting your partner every single day! If i were you i would leave him one last message or text saying everythign you want to say ... apologize, say you did not mean what you said and you were hurt etc. and say that you are here if he wants to talk. The more you call and text him the icier he will become and chances of him coming back to you will be zero. Just sit tight. You have not betrayed him so he will come back to you. Good luck Hurt gemini just read your post! .. hope you have happier news of your scorpio but honestly speaking these people are SOOOO sensitive. He prob needed some time to himself because this is how it is in relationships , you cannot constantly be speaking /texting your partner every single day! If i were you i would leave him one last message or text saying everythign you want to say … apologize, say you did not mean what you said and you were hurt etc. and say that you are here if he wants to talk. The more you call and text him the icier he will become and chances of him coming back to you will be zero.
Just sit tight. You have not betrayed him so he will come back to you.
Good luck

]]> By: Guiliana http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html/comment-page-2#comment-60216 Guiliana Tue, 02 Feb 2010 17:37:49 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/06/how-to-win-a-scorpio-back-after-you-have-hurt-him/#comment-60216 Im an aquarian woman who has only just been reunited with her scorpio male after 4 weeks. We'd only been dating 5 months when i started accusing him of cheating on me, he understably was very upset and hurt i didnt trust him and could not be with me. I gave him his space and texted him twice during the separation. He responded to both. When we finally got back he apologized for disappearing and acted like nothing happened (very bizarre!). I was very lucky he came back to me after i hurt him soo much but the separation was devastating. However the separation did make me a stronger person and i feel its made me understand him better. Moral of the story: people do your best never to hurt a scorpio!!!!! or if you do then be prepared to go through emotional hell for it. The good news is you'll be stronger for it x Im an aquarian woman who has only just been reunited with her scorpio male after 4 weeks. We’d only been dating 5 months when i started accusing him of cheating on me, he understably was very upset and hurt i didnt trust him and could not be with me.
I gave him his space and texted him twice during the separation. He responded to both. When we finally got back he apologized for disappearing and acted like nothing happened (very bizarre!). I was very lucky he came back to me after i hurt him soo much but the separation was devastating. However the separation did make me a stronger person and i feel its made me understand him better.
Moral of the story: people do your best never to hurt a scorpio!!!!! or if you do then be prepared to go through emotional hell for it. The good news is you’ll be stronger for it x

]]> By: hurtgemini http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html/comment-page-2#comment-59930 hurtgemini Thu, 28 Jan 2010 03:13:48 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/06/how-to-win-a-scorpio-back-after-you-have-hurt-him/#comment-59930 I met my scorpio guy Feb 2009 on line. for 4 months our relationsip was great, we would talk for hours every day and text each other three or four times a day. I officially met him in March and since then travelled every month to see him, knowing the limitations in terms of vacation with his job. Everytime I would see him, its just sex and hardly much talking, so I began to feel like there is not much 'learning' about each other here, as we are still stangers, tying to know more about each other. In June 2009, I began to feel like things had changed as he wasn't calling that much but the frequency of the text increased. You see we live in two different countries. Communication is extremely important to me and so I told him that I could not understand why the phone calls had dropped drastically, his response is he lost his contact for phone cards to my country. Anyway he started calling a little more regularly, couldn't talk for long since it is so expensive, I appreciated this. I didn't like the texting alone as to me it just seemed too impersonal. I wanted to hear my guy's voice more regularly. In July in came to my country and visited me. I introduced him to be friends and family. He had a good time. when he returned home, it seemed that he just texted more often than call. I told him that a long distancce relationship requires work and he said he was prepared and wanted to take the chance. Might I add, all this time he tells me he loves me and he says he his doing his best and still wants me in his life. The months went on by and I tried by best to deal with merely texts instead of calls. I would do all the calling. He works at night, so while he is working I am asleep and when I am working in the days, he is asleep. When I do call him he is either waking up and not sounding like he wants to talk much, so its just a "touching base with you" phone call. Finally in November I just could not take it anymore, I was under so much pressure as school and fearing that I was loosing him - with this long distance relationship, and to make it worse, he went on some training in early November did not tell me of the schdule of the classes, and because he hardly called me, I just could not take the non communication any more. so with all of this I told him I wanted out because I am hurting so much, not feeling like he loves me and that I am the special one still, and I don't seem to have a choice. His response was "I had no control over the classes why are you judging me this way" Is this want you want?" I was crying so much, I told him I guess so, I don't know what else to do because I don't feel his love any more. Well that was that. He said ok and hung up the phone. Since then, i tried day in and day out to call him, he does not answer the phone, text him, he ignores me. i apologize so much and all he say is " i don't want to be hurt like this again, be patient" for how long? I don't know. So my Christmas and New Year was terrible. I call him two weeks ago and I knew he picked up the phone but did not answer then I heard like he hung up. i was furious. I texted him and told him he could never have loved me and treat me like this,so unforgiving. Here it is I am trying to apologize and he refuses to hear my side and cant say hello. I know I was hasty in my decision because of how insecure I was feeling. I just need to explain what was happening to me. I still do love him like crazy, but I just don't know how to deal with his unforgiving behaviour. I didn't mean to hurt him, I was hurt too and frustrated. It is now 3 months and I still not sure if he will take me back. I am going to try and see him this weekend but have not told him that I am coming for fear he does not answer his phone or go away. My decision is if I don't see him and he gives me the chance to talk. I walk away. I have not be texting him that often anymore as I feel I need to give him his space. OMG!!!! Scorpios are really hard to deal with when you wrong them, but yet still they are so loving.This I enjoyed in the first 4 months. If he behaves this way for his can you imagine if I had cheated on him? I met my scorpio guy Feb 2009 on line. for 4 months our relationsip was great, we would talk for hours every day and text each other three or four times a day. I officially met him in March and since then travelled every month to see him, knowing the limitations in terms of vacation with his job. Everytime I would see him, its just sex and hardly much talking, so I began to feel like there is not much ‘learning’ about each other here, as we are still stangers, tying to know more about each other. In June 2009, I began to feel like things had changed as he wasn’t calling that much but the frequency of the text increased. You see we live in two different countries. Communication is extremely important to me and so I told him that I could not understand why the phone calls had dropped drastically, his response is he lost his contact for phone cards to my country. Anyway he started calling a little more regularly, couldn’t talk for long since it is so expensive, I appreciated this. I didn’t like the texting alone as to me it just seemed too impersonal. I wanted to hear my guy’s voice more regularly. In July in came to my country and visited me. I introduced him to be friends and family. He had a good time. when he returned home, it seemed that he just texted more often than call. I told him that a long distancce relationship requires work and he said he was prepared and wanted to take the chance. Might I add, all this time he tells me he loves me and he says he his doing his best and still wants me in his life.
The months went on by and I tried by best to deal with merely texts instead of calls. I would do all the calling. He works at night, so while he is working I am asleep and when I am working in the days, he is asleep. When I do call him he is either waking up and not sounding like he wants to talk much, so its just a “touching base with you” phone call.
Finally in November I just could not take it anymore, I was under so much pressure as school and fearing that I was loosing him – with this long distance relationship, and to make it worse, he went on some training in early November did not tell me of the schdule of the classes, and because he hardly called me, I just could not take the non communication any more. so with all of this I told him I wanted out because I am hurting so much, not feeling like he loves me and that I am the special one still, and I don’t seem to have a choice. His response was “I had no control over the classes why are you judging me this way” Is this want you want?” I was crying so much, I told him I guess so, I don’t know what else to do because I don’t feel his love any more. Well that was that. He said ok and hung up the phone. Since then, i tried day in and day out to call him, he does not answer the phone, text him, he ignores me. i apologize so much and all he say is ” i don’t want to be hurt like this again, be patient” for how long? I don’t know. So my Christmas and New Year was terrible. I call him two weeks ago and I knew he picked up the phone but did not answer then I heard like he hung up. i was furious. I texted him and told him he could never have loved me and treat me like this,so unforgiving. Here it is I am trying to apologize and he refuses to hear my side and cant say hello. I know I was hasty in my decision because of how insecure I was feeling. I just need to explain what was happening to me. I still do love him like crazy, but I just don’t know how to deal with his unforgiving behaviour. I didn’t mean to hurt him, I was hurt too and frustrated. It is now 3 months and I still not sure if he will take me back. I am going to try and see him this weekend but have not told him that I am coming for fear he does not answer his phone or go away. My decision is if I don’t see him and he gives me the chance to talk. I walk away. I have not be texting him that often anymore as I feel I need to give him his space.
OMG!!!! Scorpios are really hard to deal with when you wrong them, but yet still they are so loving.This I enjoyed in the first 4 months. If he behaves this way for his can you imagine if I had cheated on him?

]]> By: dianna http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html/comment-page-2#comment-59860 dianna Tue, 26 Jan 2010 22:53:50 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/06/how-to-win-a-scorpio-back-after-you-have-hurt-him/#comment-59860 gaga...same thing happened to me . Im a pisces he is a scorpio..we broke up 7 months ago after almost 3 years relataionship (his call, same as your situation)..and my scorpio is also desperate and confused, he seems tormented but he WONT DO ANYTHING. Gosh sometimes I just want to give him a kick in the nuts for being so selfish..HIS EGO IS AS BIG AS THE MOON. i just don't know what to do ..i swear I feel my life is ending .why won;t he DO SOMETHING ..if he feels like this? gaga…same thing happened to me . Im a pisces he is a scorpio..we broke up 7 months ago after almost 3 years relataionship (his call, same as your situation)..and my scorpio is also desperate and confused, he seems tormented but he WONT DO ANYTHING. Gosh sometimes I just want to give him a kick in the nuts for being so selfish..HIS EGO IS AS BIG AS THE MOON.

i just don’t know what to do ..i swear I feel my life is ending .why won;t he DO SOMETHING ..if he feels like this?

]]> By: Nicole http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html/comment-page-2#comment-59504 Nicole Mon, 18 Jan 2010 03:27:04 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/06/how-to-win-a-scorpio-back-after-you-have-hurt-him/#comment-59504 I have only been dating my scorpio for two months and he is one of the most complex and difficult men I have ever dealt with! But why are Scorpio men so fun and great but also so crazy and double standard? We have had a great time together until recently. Last weekend I got mad because he changed his mind about spending time with me after he told me how much he hates that I change my mind and the plans. He said that I overreacted about the situation and that was a turn off. He got over that but then broke it all off this past week because I kicked him out of my apt. I got some bad advice and was feeling self conscious about allowing this man to stay with me for a week since we have not been dating for that long. When I did that, he broke it off and just said we were better off as friends. I really want this guy to be my boyfriend someday so I think I will just give him some time to cool down. But why cant Scorpios just understand that people are not perfect? We are all growing as people and you dont have to cut off someone for not doing what you want them to do. I have only been dating my scorpio for two months and he is one of the most complex and difficult men I have ever dealt with! But why are Scorpio men so fun and great but also so crazy and double standard? We have had a great time together until recently. Last weekend I got mad because he changed his mind about spending time with me after he told me how much he hates that I change my mind and the plans. He said that I overreacted about the situation and that was a turn off. He got over that but then broke it all off this past week because I kicked him out of my apt. I got some bad advice and was feeling self conscious about allowing this man to stay with me for a week since we have not been dating for that long. When I did that, he broke it off and just said we were better off as friends. I really want this guy to be my boyfriend someday so I think I will just give him some time to cool down. But why cant Scorpios just understand that people are not perfect? We are all growing as people and you dont have to cut off someone for not doing what you want them to do.

]]> By: B http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html/comment-page-2#comment-59142 B Tue, 12 Jan 2010 12:05:47 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/06/how-to-win-a-scorpio-back-after-you-have-hurt-him/#comment-59142 Mandy, he will not file for divorce. He will not leave you. I think you should have gone even though he said cancle. He still and will always love you and marriage is worth fighting for. You are his for life. I've learned that by dating a Scorpio. He will be mean and cold as ice but if you want him, tough it out. Mandy, he will not file for divorce. He will not leave you. I think you should have gone even though he said cancle. He still and will always love you and marriage is worth fighting for. You are his for life. I’ve learned that by dating a Scorpio. He will be mean and cold as ice but if you want him, tough it out.

]]> By: gaga http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html/comment-page-2#comment-59067 gaga Sun, 10 Jan 2010 18:33:37 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/06/how-to-win-a-scorpio-back-after-you-have-hurt-him/#comment-59067 I am a Pisces and dated Scorpio for 3 years. He has been very faithful, loving, caring and supportive and I can say pretty much the same about myself. I had doubts about the way we moved too fast but still I stayed in the relationship, although a little selfish at times. I do not mind his possessiveness and jealousy, as it is never as open as the one I have experienced with signs like Cancer. However, without a specific argument we split up (we had few weeks of coldness from his side and I was just waiting for him to feel better but he never did) and he wanted it to be a temporary split up - time for us to figure out our lives. I am very ambitious and I am looking for opportunities in different places and he always told me he would follow me but he suddenly told me he doesn't want to do stuff for me any more and it is time for him to think about himself only. I moved out and he has been very sad since but he didn't want me back, instead, kept on saying that time will show us if we will be together. I read some stuff and I am wondering- shall I do something about it, like tell him I really can't live without him, or sit back and wait? it has been two months since I moved out...I am not very good at showing my love to people and I believe I might have not been very open to him but I am sure he knew I loved him. and I know he adores me, he is just so depressed and confused, how much will this take and will it ever end? If someone can help, I would be so grateful! I am a Pisces and dated Scorpio for 3 years. He has been very faithful, loving, caring and supportive and I can say pretty much the same about myself. I had doubts about the way we moved too fast but still I stayed in the relationship, although a little selfish at times. I do not mind his possessiveness and jealousy, as it is never as open as the one I have experienced with signs like Cancer. However, without a specific argument we split up (we had few weeks of coldness from his side and I was just waiting for him to feel better but he never did) and he wanted it to be a temporary split up – time for us to figure out our lives. I am very ambitious and I am looking for opportunities in different places and he always told me he would follow me but he suddenly told me he doesn’t want to do stuff for me any more and it is time for him to think about himself only. I moved out and he has been very sad since but he didn’t want me back, instead, kept on saying that time will show us if we will be together. I read some stuff and I am wondering- shall I do something about it, like tell him I really can’t live without him, or sit back and wait? it has been two months since I moved out…I am not very good at showing my love to people and I believe I might have not been very open to him but I am sure he knew I loved him. and I know he adores me, he is just so depressed and confused, how much will this take and will it ever end? If someone can help, I would be so grateful!

]]> By: Christina http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html/comment-page-2#comment-58731 Christina Tue, 05 Jan 2010 15:09:34 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/06/how-to-win-a-scorpio-back-after-you-have-hurt-him/#comment-58731 RE: TheFirstWife The same thing was said to me by my Scorpio friend. That he did not want to know anything about my husband. My question, WHY IS THAT SCORPIO'S?????? IS IT JEALOUSLY if so why? I'm told about his girlfriend's. Were ONLY friend's now I'm married with 3 children and he's never been married and no kids and he really like's a girl that lives by him. We talk intellectual super and have a lot in common but that's it, were just friends. RE: TheFirstWife The same thing was said to me by my Scorpio friend. That he did not want to know anything about my husband. My question, WHY IS THAT SCORPIO’S?????? IS IT JEALOUSLY if so why? I’m told about his girlfriend’s. Were ONLY friend’s now I’m married with 3 children and he’s never been married and no kids and he really like’s a girl that lives by him. We talk intellectual super and have a lot in common but that’s it, were just friends.

]]> By: Christina http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-win-scorpio-back-after-you-have.html/comment-page-2#comment-58728 Christina Tue, 05 Jan 2010 14:16:25 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/06/how-to-win-a-scorpio-back-after-you-have-hurt-him/#comment-58728 if you love something,let it go…if it comes back its yours ,if it doesn’t …it was never meant to be !” NO~ This is not always true! Over 20 years ago a guy set me free, a Scorpio (that really liked me) and I realized within a month I had made a huge mistake and I knew in my heart I wanted to be with him! I didn't date anyone else I just think his possessiveness scared me and I'm a Aquarius Feb 12th. I was to ashamed and afraid of rejection and figured he was probably with someone else so I never went back but wanted to so bad. It took me a long time to get over him and now were friends online and I know he would of forgiven me. I don't like to hurt anyone and I can't face someone if I have. Most astrology websites say I'm most compatible with a Gemini. I can NOT stand a little white lies let alone all the time, shallowness, inconsistentness!!!!! If a person is strong enough to tell the truth, then I can be strong enough to forgive! If I catch a lie, I usually forgive but I lose all respect and trust and takes a long time to get back! When I'm done with someone, I don't care who they sleep with or want my best friend, If they do sleep with my best friend they just did me a favor because I know what kind of friend she was. You can put sugar in my tank, or burn down my house because when I'm done I'm done and I don't care!!! If you want to hurt someone walk away like you were the best thing they ever had, then when their next few relationships don't work out they will look back and realize you were the best thing they ever had! THAT HURT'S BAD! I don't play games someone either wants me or they don't! I don't keep breaking up and getting back together! Go 2 days witout contacting me I will assume you met someone else and I move on. All I need to hear is hey, I need a few days to myself, I don't have a problem with that. I don't chase!!!! I don't waste my time!!! I know exactly what I want and I let the person I'm with know. I do love intellectual conversation and I think Scorpio's and Taurus are the best for that! if you love something,let it go…if it comes back its yours ,if it doesn’t …it was never meant to be !”

NO~ This is not always true! Over 20 years ago a guy set me free, a Scorpio (that really liked me) and I realized within a month I had made a huge mistake and I knew in my heart I wanted to be with him! I didn’t date anyone else I just think his possessiveness scared me and I’m a Aquarius Feb 12th. I was to ashamed and afraid of rejection and figured he was probably with someone else so I never went back but wanted to so bad. It took me a long time to get over him and now were friends online and I know he would of forgiven me. I don’t like to hurt anyone and I can’t face someone if I have. Most astrology websites say I’m most compatible with a Gemini. I can NOT stand a little white lies let alone all the time, shallowness, inconsistentness!!!!! If a person is strong enough to tell the truth, then I can be strong enough to forgive! If I catch a lie, I usually forgive but I lose all respect and trust and takes a long time to get back! When I’m done with someone, I don’t care who they sleep with or want my best friend, If they do sleep with my best friend they just did me a favor because I know what kind of friend she was. You can put sugar in my tank, or burn down my house because when I’m done I’m done and I don’t care!!! If you want to hurt someone walk away like you were the best thing they ever had, then when their next few relationships don’t work out they will look back and realize you were the best thing they ever had! THAT HURT’S BAD! I don’t play games someone either wants me or they don’t! I don’t keep breaking up and getting back together! Go 2 days witout contacting me I will assume you met someone else and I move on. All I need to hear is hey, I need a few days to myself, I don’t have a problem with that. I don’t chase!!!! I don’t waste my time!!! I know exactly what I want and I let the person I’m with know. I do love intellectual conversation and I think Scorpio’s and Taurus are the best for that!

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