Scorpio men do not take kindly to being hurt. Scorpios hold on to resentments as tightly as a sphincter holds on to water. A fixed water sign, he is stubborn when it comes to emotions. Scorpios don’t trust easily in the first place, because they are all too aware of how one can be wounded in intimate relationships.Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, the planet that digs deep into experience, rooting out secrets and suppressed memories. Pluto is associated with manipulation and abuse of power. The Scorpio man is well-acquainted with the methods of torture used in the Underworld, and hence does not like to be on the receiving end of such barbaric techniques.
Even though the Scorpio man does not let go easily of his resentments, his zodiac sign is also the most transformative. Pluto rules the death-rebirth process. Scorpios hold tight, but they also periodically become devoured by the flames of regeneration.
As he rises from the ashes, your Scorpio man will have let go of his anger. However, there’s nothing you can do to initiate this process. Pluto works by his own mysterious schedule.
You cannot win back a Scorpio, but if you’re patient he might forgive you.
How long do you want to wait?
Comment below: Have you been reunited with a Scorpio after having hurt him?
About Jeffrey Kishner
I’m married to a Scorpio. I also was married to one in the past. they only way I got rid of him was literally flee the state.
I agree with what NATE says, i have been off and on with my scorp for about 16 months , i know doesnt seem long , here’s the thing , he is exactly like NATE said, he has talked about a connection , meeting me was fate, needing to take care of me , saying all the things girls wanna hear, of course for me i wanna hear them ALOT but he says you know how i feel.. and thats all he will say .and the ocassional i love you. so after 2 breakups, and we are meeting this fri night, i think i have learned .. thought i had before but i think i can really deal with him better now , done alot of reading on scorps, and men and relationships i n general, He broke up with me twice , but both times he has eventually initiated contact with me again, I have tried in the past telling him to go away .. he would refuse saying .. nope not going away but when he was fed up he cut me off as if i didnt exist ,
He drives me nuts.. but in a good way… he makes my heart race , and thats the only reason i can explain that i just cant seem to get him outta my system, ive deceded to not question him ,and let it run its course, i pushed for more when i kj=knew he couldnt give it to me , cant say i can wait around forever, but im hoping in time he will give me what i want .. and thats 4EVER!
Hi All,
It has been a while since I’ve posted, hope you are all well!
I’ve decided to leave this site because I needed some time to avoid any conversations about scorpios..and now I realised I’m finally over my ex after a long 1.5 years…
2 weeks ago, I bumped into him at the club after not speaking or seeing him for 3 months…he came up to me and spoke to me…after about 5 minutes of talking, I realised that he’s not the guy he use to be…it was awkward but at the same time, he doesn’t interest me, and my life has moved forward…he has gone backward!
Because of the distance we had, I’ve managed to get over him…seeing him again did not effect me like how I imagined it would. And most importantly it has helped me realise that the 3 months of missing him was just what I created in my mind…seeing him has helped me conclude that I do not miss him…and the person I miss is no longer here anymore…and I think it’s for better because ever since stopping contact…my life has picked up and i’m back to being a happy go luck saggi…lots of male attention and positive nature has returned!
Scorpios are known to be stable thinkers, not to mention narrow minded ones. If you plan of getting your man back after he has made up his mind of leaving you and never returning, you’re going to embark on the toughest quest of your life. Bending their thoughts it like bending 10-inch thick metal. It’s gonna be though.
Psychic,
Scorpios are Fixed sign. Not narrow.
I guess you misunderstood each sign.
Libra cant mae up their mind.
They’re not blunt.
I saw your post.
cant make up their mind.
I mean.
If they left you, or you left them, why would you want them back? Because of his sign or the man himself?
Somebody, I think it was Karissa, asked:
” What Iam wondering about is how you Girls end up with one Scorpio afer another.???
What do you do join a SCOPRIO DATING AGENCY.???”
If you must have another scorpio, go to the scorpio dating agency and get another one. Don’t pine after the same one you left or that left you. Different ones will most likely be at different stages in their lives.
Leaving someone is should be a serious decision. It shouldn’t be made out of emotion, really, because once that emo is over, you regret what you’ve done. Just step back. Separate yourself from the situation so you can think and calm down. Most times, you can then talk about the incident and get some resolution. Don’t leave unless you are doing it for good. I know that could be easier said than done, but it really does work.
@Amanda, you may be on the wrong thread. This one is about hurting him and winning him back. You haven’t hurt this man.
You want him to like you.
But since you’re here, my advice to you is to not contact him anymore. He knows you like him and as you can see, the more you run after him the more he will use this to manipulate you. Take your power back. It’s good that you have deleted most of your past e-connections to him (phone, fb, etc.) because if that is what you need to do to take your power back, then do what you need to do.
So “86″ the contact, girlfriend. And going forward, don’t contact any man like the way you have done with him. You thanked him once during, then thanked him again at the end of the date. That’s ENOUGH, ok?
You got it going on. Whether he sees that or not, does not affect you. You want to be with someone who wants to be with you, not someone you have to convince of that.
Same way, in my opinion, if you have hurt one. Stay cool and apologize genuinely. Keep your dignity and admit your wrong. And that’s it. If he excepts your apology, great. Positive energy released on both parts. If he doesn’t, that’s on him.
Don’t beg or plead any more hoping he will see how great you are and how sorry you are. He’s not God. (And God doesn’t even require us to beg because that means we don’t BELieve HE will forgive us, so it’s almost like a moot point if you don’t understand His grace towards you. This will grieve Him because your thinking is wrong about how much HE loves everything about You and WANTS to have relationship with you, no matter what you’ve done. )
I dont think i get along with libras when it comes to relationships….
25 year old cancer woman who needs SERIOUS help with ex scorp!! (he’s 26) Long story short, we lived together. (his idea) We were best friends, inseparable, great physical/emotional relationship/connnection. I had to move out due to being in school (for ultrasound tech) and financially I wasn’t able to cut it w/ all of our expenses. He had to pick up bills for a few months but deep down I know it bothered him. Even though I would of given the shirt off my back for him. Being a cancer, I did everything for him, held the house down, made dinner, was emotionally supportive with him, and was very loving towards him as he was to me. I loved making him happy. Loyal & faithful to him. We had a very special close intimate relationship and only we understood it. He didn’t want me to move out, but realistically I knew it was the best thing to do. Just to move home for a bit and save money so we could move on to bigger and better things. He originally agreed to this, then comes out of left field saying “baby I want to make this work”. I’m like “we can’t right now, it’s the best thing if we want a future.” He ends up letting all of his emotions out crying saying he “was running out of money” and “now he has to move his buddy in” “he can’t trust him like he could trust me”. But it was for the best. I moved out and we were still together, but as time went by he got a taste of the single life and went wild. Started hangin with pple that he used to talk so much crap on. Started drinking all the time, partying, etc with his roommate. I started to feel like he was pushing ME out. He would say things like “now that mike lives here you can’t be here all the time out of respect for him it’s not like we live together n e more”. I was ok with that, but deep down it hurt my feelings. We started seeing each ohter once a week. He was evolving in a new life and I was feeling left out in the dust. When he was drunk he would let slip “I love you so much baby but we can’t be together right now” “you’re so beautiful baby”. “we have the best sex ever baby, we have real sex”. Then I noticed his roommate was starting to make fun of me saying “baby I love you so much baby I’ll do anything for u”. And then realized I was there and would say “Oh sh*t, she’s here, HAHAHAHA. Ex scorp didn’t do anything about it. Then I start getting these really mean texts saying ” i have a new chick, she’s taylor swift hot and so much better than u”. I was like um ok? I let it slide but deep down it hurt. He would be a jerk and then coddle to me the next minute. Then he hits me with out of NOWHERE, when a week before he was acting/telling me he still loved me, when I asked him if he still did cuz we felt distant if he loved me he goes in extreme anger “NO, I DON’T LOVE YOU ANYMORE”. I’m in shock. It was dealing w/ dr. jekyl & my hyde. Then a week after he hits me with that, I get phone calls from him and I didnt answer, and he sends me texts saying “My new chick is ten times better than you. She f*cks me better than you EVER could. She makes 80,000$ a year, a lot more than I can say for you”. This was in december. We have been fighting once a month up until July 2011! Then in Feb. 2011 when he tells me to “get over our dog, he has a new mom, he likes her better, shes so much better than you.” (yea, again) He calls month later 3 am randomly to remind me it was our dogs bday. Says I’m prob out at the bar with guys. “it’s your baby daddy” calling. And I said shouldn’t u be with ur new chick? And he says there is no new chick. He was excited to tell me his cousin got engaged. We hang up, I had an inkling he would call back so turned my phone off. He did. Left me two voicemails of 2 random songs playing. (?) Then we fought hard in April because he told me wat was meant to be will be with us. and starts placing blame for break up on me. and admitted he is seeing someone but “taking it SLOW”. he was back to being dr. jekyl & mr. hyde again. I end up calling him in May. We were finally able to communicate like we used to, he said he “had such a hard time accepting the fact he was seeing someone new at first that wasn’t me” I said ” i thought you and I could of got thru anything.” He said, “you’re right we could of got thru anything”. Talked for 2 hours about us, and asked him about new girl. He didn’t have much to say about her except “she’s good to him”. Finally cleared all water under bridge b/c we r both better than that. Then I try to contact him 3 weeks ago asking how our dog was- Ignores me to the fullest like i never existed. I get mad like here we go again, we’re back on this again. He comes at me with “I HAVE NO REASON NOR DO I WANT TO TALK TO YOU”. I’m like oh yea? why? he says “OUT OF RESPECT FOR MY GIRLFRIEND, SHE DECIDED SHES NOT GOING TO BE CIVIL WITH HER EX’ES OUT OF RESPECT FOR ME.” I’m like wow, ok whateva. We end up meeting by our old apartment b/c I wanted some things back from him that were mine, he wouldn’t look at me, wouldn’t talk to me. First time we saw each other in months. Acted like I was plague. I walked after him asking him what did I do to deserve this, we argued outside of the bar he was at for like 30 min. Couldn’t understand why “now” he decides to act like I’m dead to him. “because YOU’RE MY EX”. (he screams at me) Can’t understand where all this anger is coming from with him. I got my Ipod touch back from him that I bought for him, has pictures of us, and just me in it still. Our “song” on his recent play list. But he blocked my cell phone. One of his friends even came up to me at the bar where I live saying “He’s not the same with out you, I can see right thru him. He’s miserable. He’s trying to proove a point. Everybody thinks this new chick is ugly b/c he never brings her around anybody”. I NEED HELP!!!!! DO I finally let go of this emotional torture of hold on?!
@all
I am alive. Just haven’t felt like being online. Just been taking it easy and spending time with my daughter. I start chemo up in two weeks and I am scared. My scorp is still MIA and I honestly don’t think he will ever say a thing to me about all of this. He checks up on me through other people and my blog, but no real words out of him. I’ll be honest in saying that it hurts, but I have more important things in my life than him. I do miss him, though.
I hope all is well with all of you.
@ Malevolencia!!!!!!
OMG…I’ve missed you!!! I was scrolling through my friend’s list yesterday and saw you hadn’t been on in a while. So sorry that your Scorp is MIA and glad to hear that despite the diagnosis that your care will begin soon.
It’s sooooo good to see you on the boards. Get plenty of rest, eat all of the right stuff, and more so find your peaceful place as best as you can in all of this. I’m praying for you Hun.
(((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))
@ Audrina….I just came here to say Hi to Malevolencia and ended up reading your post. Wow, that’s alot. You guys have alot of history and recent hurt between the both of you guys. Maybe back up off of this situation so that you can gain some perspective without having him in your face.
I really don’t know what to tell you, because honestly I don’t know what I would do in that situation and there’s so much history behind all that you guys have gone through that I don’t think telling you to severe ties is fair or the right thing to say. However, backing up just so that you can breath is always a good thing in any situation.
It sounds like you’ve asked him what’s up, you guys have communicated since moving out…all of what I would suggest you do…you’ve done. I think you need a rest….honestly.
I went off here when i was partly numb, dead and empty after depressing everyday. It was months ago. Not because i dont care anymore, but cos i cared so so much that i flipped the whole of google searching all about scorpio/1e0 guy and others experience with them. So much that i know nothing could be done.
Having said that it doesnt mean i am totally cured. I think of that person EVERY single day. Yes, i know it’s disgraceful. Everyday, moment of months day and night, before i sleep and the moment i open my eyes. This goes on every single day even at times my mind took over and remind how everything just turns out shit and it seems to be the best of us, that i should accept and wish him best.
It seeems i had gone through all sorts of hurt painful episode, i know it all how it feels.
But recently, this week, something seems minor yet triggered and evoke all the memories of how great he was. Tears filled my eyes even while i working. And this few days i sobbed. The guilt is eating me up alive.
I cant be sure if anyone gone through this before.
THEN THERE WAS A TWIST:
Ladies, please help me.
Just when the 3rd day of this week i finally had something different form my routine, an invitation to an event lunch (that prevents me from emoing in office work), i thought my heart feel slightly better, divertion is was. However this event consist of mostly guys but most are married. I never think so much, just thought I should focus and take pride and give the best shoots as requested for help. At my least expect, i had a guy approaching me and offer a ride. As a normal aquarius, i am easy going and friendly nature, i feel it was nothing and accept his nice offer, afterall it’s just a ride to the nearest train station, not home. It’s pretty normal in this urban context. Yes it’s normal.
However part of me later sense and feel different when he asked if i wanted a drink or something so we could discuss how he could help me in a resignation of a screwed up job. Then I arent gona be that self reserved and thought maybe i should really use this ultra rare chance that someone would notice me and wanted spend a little time with me. (it’s not about insecure, but more of my life is just too mundane, that i need to take some effort to make myself sway abit from my That week of “depressation”.)
So this guy, he is really a gentleman, opening doors for me, attentive to my needs, listens to my every word, trying to help in anyway. Before we even parted, he already suggested if i would like to pick his dog up with him the next day so that he could drive me home also. (this is when i start feel something different, my mind and gut feeling reminded me: ya right thats how every guys who’s interested in me will do, it’s all at the beginning cos he wanted me. i saw it all. i dont think i want anything like this cos i see it all fake. i am determine it’s just friends or nothing, i am just not ready as always).
He contacted me the next day as what he said, and is real agresssive in picking me up be it lunch time at whatever time i want or if not he will wait for me outside my workplace (our work place is just a road away). Later when the time was approaching evening, i was trying to think of ways to reject, but my inquisive and load of bright ideas as a typical aquarian, i decided: aha! let’s ask whats his bday causually, from there roughly i will know how can i approach the rejection method, if not i’ve no idea how i can deal with him.
And guess what, to my terror, at my least expectation i saw 1O N0V. i am startled and shocked. Before i was thinking if he is a scorpio i will have a headache on how to reject him cos i really had enough of crossing them intentionally or not. But i tell myself i still have to know whats his sign for my best interest.
Then after i recovered my conscious, i then remembered and recalled this phrase i always see:” if the word passi0n frightens you, put on your tracking shoes as if a kind kong is after you.”. Then everything of his initatitiveness and agressiveness which i wondered seems to make sense. That was exactely the feeling i have while this new guy is trying to get close to me. A king kong after you feeling.
Then i further “invvestigate” and to my horror terror, his SUN and MOON sign is same as my fallen relationship-partner, in other words, ex. The sun in scorp and m00n in 1E0.
I was laughing to myself, how could that be? My prayers was answered? Did the god heard what i wanted? But that was in mid of depress state when all of us have all sorts of random thought like: oh i only want his person cos he is the best i ever had, i only want this type of guy, a scorpio guy faithful and loyal and a 1eo guy for the caringness. BUTBUT BUT never in a million years i thought it woudl happened!
In case you ladies thought nah, it’s nothing worth surprising and shocked, i am one who attract scorpio everywhere anywhere. No joke. From i was 11 i had a boy who is always bullying me but stare at me, and had feelings for him eventually (only when i was 19 i research about him he is a scorpio). When i working, i have scorpio after me even he is attached. When i am eating dinner alone, i have a scorpio coming to my table out of sudden when we are just strangers. Seriously and the list goes on.
Now i feel the god is trying to play with me, of all signs, he is a scorpio. Next of all years he is born in that year which gives him a 1E0 M00N. For those who read and study astology horoscope, we are all aware that the placement of moon varies day to day year to year. For that placement it’s definately tooo coincident. (oh btw this new guy has mars in 1E0, which explain the fast and agressive approach. previously that ex has mars in scorp)
May someone tell me why is it that i am always attracting them!?
Dont anyone sense the joke in it the god is trying to mess up with me?
Off all guys all signs all placement why does the next guy coming along has to be placement that close to the previous ex!???
I bet no one here encounter this shit fate i have.
In case my lenght of words blurred out my concern:
Why do i always attract scorpio all my life?
And this time, it seems “my being” loves to attract a scorp/ 1E0 combination. WHY???
ps: i sincerely apologise for the lenght, sometimes some things is hard not to relate out in details. i really do hope someone could reach me, cos my life is relaly screwed up no once could understand me.
Aquagal: I don’t know what it is but I’m the same. I only learned of this resently. All the same way. Fell in love with a scorp. Got dumped and was in so much pain I found myself here and started learning about astrology and how it works. I then looked up every guy I ever had a relationship with that I could remember their birthday….one by one I saw they all had major scorpio traits. Was even shocked to find my ex, a leo, was scorpio rising. Who knew? He doesn’t act like a scorp but its there.
I’m even finding that a lot of my gf’s have major scorpio traits and I myself have a scorpio MC and a planet in scorp. I guess thats enough to attract them….because the majority of my planets are in Sag and I didn’t think they were supposed to get along that well. Oh, and my Sun sign in Sag is fairly close to the scorpio boarder. I don’t know what it is, but I except my fate. I just want to find one thats not attached to anyone and is faithful. Apparently my lot in life is to constantly find guys that are still attached to others. It sucks. Even the last guy I made sure he was truely single. Hadn’t dated anyone in awhile and he wanted a relationship when I met him….and then I find out he is still stuck on his last 2 ex gf’s. WTF? Why me?
@Mia
I am surprise to see ya realting to this, cos if arent wrong i think i rmb i always see ya giving useful advices and you seems like a big sister to me just like how Marie, coutness, Novlady etc are.
You gals like have th wisdom. I remember your names cos i re-read all posts again and again whenever i am sad and my auqarius want to figured out why.
Maybe i had someone finally knows what i am talking about attarcting scorpio EVERYWHERE. School, office, canteen, shopping. If not, leo. i have totally nothing to say but i do see the link as to those i attracted seems to be of strong agressive dominating sign. I analyze could be their character of wanting to submissive gentle nice gal to control and dominate.
On another hand, i guess it was my aquaius allofness , i am very aloof and look detacted. This i know it inspired scorpio ALOT.
anyone who knows how to read, if this might helps:
My sun: aqua
moon: cancer
venus, mars, saturn: capricorn
pluto: scorpio (not much effect i suppose)
Aw thanks. But I’m still new to this stuff. I didn’t find all this until last winter when going through my big up heaval. Its definately a learning experience….and I’m still learning.
I don’t know if its because you think you are submissive. I am definately not the submissive type and they love me. lol Matter of fact I think after I start having feelings for these guys and I soften up thats when they go, huh?
My emotions are Aries and I don’t think they can deal with it very well. I’m trying to control them better but some days its almost impossible. My AC is in Cap so when they first meet me I am a bit cold. I’m slowly putting all this together in hopes that I can better myself and steady my personality but I don’t want to change who I am either.
Right now with all the Saturn placements going on its reeking havic with my love life. I can’t wait till its steady again. Though its definately been interesting. Dating a Sag with Venus in Scorp, Mars in Virgo and AC in pisies is a roller coaster ride. His Mars in Virgo makes him want to argue over every little thing. Good thing it amuses me. He hates that. lol Its the only way I can get him back. Then he disapears for a few days saying he’ll never talk to me again and then one day..”.Hey…. “lol!
He’s much nicer.
Unfortunately he’s pretty mad at me this time around so it may just be the end.
But, thats ok because there is a Virgo with AC in scorp waiting in the wings.
I can see why you attract Scorps though. Its the whole package. Aqua, cancer, venus in Mars…your definately a magnet. lol Passionate…a bit aloof or independant and possibly a bit firey!
Who wouldn’t like that?
I realise that the ‘problems’ about scorpio we ladies have have finally peace down for quite a time being.
I dont see more updates or any new problems people asking here for along time.
And I wondered was it the placements of the planets now that scorpios are no longer a threat to people already? (thou i duno how the placements works actually). It’s good anyway.
Pardon if this dont match the topic title.
Oh dear, I really need somewhere to rant, to release.
Being all busy and I’m preoccupied by my new job now, all my guards AND awareness and alertness for scorpio-stuffs had came down.
The new temporary workplace that I’m located have mostly full of arrogant guys, which is primary the reason I decided not to care much about them, determining continue to have a simple life in my own world.
Then suddenly there’s a guy keep staring me all into y eyes every chance he gets.
And when I look and gazed back his stare just wouldn’t break, most of the time he would smile in that sweetily smile and stare right through my eyes.
And mind you, I wasn’t the least impressed nor flattered by it.
That stare is just different.
Maybe I’ve been trying to detached from the surrounding too much by default.
But I really need some help here.
If you ladies could even understand what I’m driving at.
The smiley stare is intimading.
I am so angry with myself for not able to detect his intention to whirl me in until its abit too late.
I all along was able to “defend” those any scorpio showing attention FOR SO LONG, I was able to withstand them all.
Mainly cos I know scorpios too well from my intensive research on astrology about them.
But this time I missed it.
I feel I’m defeated.
I could already feel that “poison” stung onto me.
Feeling like an infected rat with scorpion poison to run far.
Sorry if I would give the impression I have so much problems about scoprios.
The problem I’m having is genuine.
Maybe what I’m doing is trying to salvage the position I’ in before I lost myself again.
Like I said I’ve gone so far to avoid so many fore-coming scorpios to “protect” myself, No way I would allow myself to fail this one. My heart/ my feeling do not allow to feel I fail at this guy.
This guy would always purposely watch/ stare me in the office if I’m trying to act he’s invisible and ignore his stare by engaging in something else. Or he will suddenly stand in my area/ my view or literally sit beside e and ask “what you doing”. Ya I know it’s nothing much, someone is just trying be friendly, but I’ totally intimidated already by him. And the best part is he sees to observed it and sensed it and he asked: “are you afraid of me?” In my mind “I’m thinking ya obviously!? the way you treat me, who wouldn’t?”. But my aquariusly-ego shoot back: “why would I need to be”.
And another time I shoot back when he smiley looking-staring into my eyes again: “why are you always so free!?”. And he replied: “why you are so cute?”
I feel bullied that thinking all back I feel like crying.
I hate that stare.
I hate it I’m so detached now, that I could be bothered to hold y staring back OR to challenge him back with the same staring. (which I did so well some time ago).
May some kind souls shed some light on how I can deal to intimidate him back?
How can I show I’m not some shy little girl (which I’ truly not.)?
Aquagal,
Why not pull him back as he stared. Wink at him and show him your tough side even just
like a joke. Scorpio deal business with you…that is how you start to make him intimidate him back.
Wear high heels.be smart. Stand stunning. less talks and make it a light approach not obvious.
Do not be afraid..scorpios likes courageous women who are not afraid of getting dirt.
In fact, as you keep coming back in this forum I know you felt different towards him.
Scorpios including myself likes to smile to those people they like… but dont be deceived cuz
maybe it’s just a frienly treat and not any…I have a colleague at work. He is a handsome guy
he always loves to make my coffee even I dont ask it from him..I never put any malice on that
cuz Im scorpio and he is scorpio. I understand why he did it for me..it’s because I treated him
kindly with all jokes.
He isnt someone that I was bothered for a long time.
We hadnt really chatted, I am just new to that particular branch for about 1 week Only.
I am new.
In other words we only started interacted about few days only.
We dont really know eachother
Well I feel i tried all sorts of method already.
1. Back facing him.
2. Pretend his existence.
2. Ignored.
3. Stand in a confident posture, and stooding in a way to show my curve. (cos i want to counter him back, showing I am confident)
4. Look back.
5. Smile back.
Seriously the last thing I’ve havent done was to question back.
Well, I’m not a scorp or 1eo to question to straightly back, it’s just isnt my nature.
I only would scarstic back.
But all he would know is to appear is to stare and look.
And smile.
Seriously Whats so funny.
Well on another part I could sense his initiative to try reach out to me by opening topic and talk to me.
It’s just me.
I cant stand feeling his intention to intimidate me.
Yet I dont dare to confront back, yet.
And I was damn horrified that among Numerous scoprios i’ve encountered, he is the first one that really successfully intoxicated me even at the first stare.
I’ve read this kinda guys are confident of themselves.
I wont deny he’s quite good looking.
And maybe he thinks so too…
Thats the problem.
And my problem is I dont wanna to fall. not anymore.
marie
His smile is so idiot that i want to wink at him. You know aquraius also hardly wish to pretend on thing they dont really want to be bothered to. I’m quite serious unlike some gemini.
And I wouldnt wanna joke with him when he is literally staring into my eyes not speaking and I suddenly crack a joke out of nowhere.
And what do you mean by pull him back?
and scorpio deal business with you…?
What is it?
I’m sorry i didnt really get it, how it intimidate him back.
Aquagal,
so you like him… wow. You are not emotional kind of person.
Im sure you can’t do reckless.
Aquagal,
Allow him to get closer to you. Don’t act aloof. So you will know what is his intentions.
Scorpio are secretive. Once you’re there, He will let you know..why he kept staring
at you..just give him a time to open up…but Im scared the more he give you those
flattering words the more it melts your soft heart. Just be careful..in that calm exterior
of scorpio he is hiding something..all you have to do is just guard your heart so you
won’t fall again, not anymore.
When scorpio try to let you in…he mean it business. Not emotionally attached.
So don’t be deceived. Keep it simple. Wink him back when he stare…
by the way Aquagal you can’t intimidate a scorpio. They are confident.
@ ALL
GOOD MOGNING!
well. I signed for the book about the sea captain, my ex scorpio, that is. To the best publisher and soon i am finishing another one before holidays.
we are long separated.
Immagine i saw him in another city and i never bothered talk to him, me who loved him so much.
i let him know about the book. He said “bravo”…. he wanted contact…. BUT i didn’t….and i accepted his uncle’s request to facebook…even knowing it is his uncle, with another name… it is ok….i do not believe in coincidence…
I me this terrific guy the other day. A fine person. He asked me about the scorpio, and i told him more or less. “What on heavens you loved to this man?” he asked me in surprise.
i did not know what to answer.
What was that i loved to male scorpio?
Perhaps the Impossible.
Perhaps that he made me want to Cross Borders i Never knew they even Existed.
love to all,
Solaris
Marie
Wow, I think you are right. Why did I forgetten what scorpio are made up of.
How could that intimation be easily possible?
Omg, I must be dreaming.
Sometimes I would silly-ing wondered to myself why I wasn’t born a scorpio…
Not sure which part of my chart, but I really like/ love to challenge a scorpio.
I think it’s fun to wreak them. Just being playful-ing for fun, not really hurting them thou.
What I mean is being able to stand strong at them and unweaved by them.
I get satisfaction by it.
Maybe my aquarius adventurous and inquisive nature?
I abit enjoy how I can try to tear the tiger’s whiskers, despite understanding Im’ just a mouse thus dangers of it.
But maybe this derived from not able to accept scorpio are really that strong.
My aquarius-ego and sense of rights don’t tolerant what’s not fair.
And ya are right too, even I can’t be certain if I could withstand any misleading actions or words if he would to play with me. Thanks for the reminder, I need that. (:
I am determined as usual on embarking the quest of being single for rest of my life.
Had enough of games.
ps: it’s so much fun knowing how to deal with those scorpiomonster and how to make the tick. (thou I figured some time ago, for scorp, you will never totally, yes being an aquarius analyzer I totally see why).
Solaris,
If I’m not mistaken it was him who added you at fb.
Aquagal,
hahaha. Don’t be too harsh for yourself. If you play a scorpio and at the same time
you are kind to him…He will dig up something on you later..so how would you deal?
First step: Always give him a sweetest smile that comes within…cuz if it is fake…He knows it
right away as you delivered it.
2nd: Always be mysterious…if he is interested , he will do the first move to get closer.
3rd: Stunning validates when you keep yourself respected..don’t be too revealing
about yourself by wearing obviously you are flirting..cuz if you do it gives him hint
you are just a lady on the street…
Make him in love with you…you will know when he start to jealous…
for now approach him like he is a friend…don’t reveal anything to him…lest he act disinterested.
Aquagal
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UAOxCqSxRD0&feature=related
You may hate me for saying this, but it’s better to face this: I think you’re pissed because you like him and are afraid he will hurt you. Deal with that fact as a grown woman and take control of yourself.
hi. my story started with my scorpio 8 years ago. we dated for 3 years, then broke up as we were just too young and joyful to gain more life experience. however we kept in touch with each other, at last once a week we talked during the years we were not together. a year ago, we met again, and were back together. it was always a love-hate relationship which ended up crying (surprisingly usually him). arguments came from not trusting him enough. then he dedcided to break up with me. i tried calling him, conviencing him. but it did not work. we talked, but he was cold. once, i was up late night, sent me sms if i wanna talk to him. unfortunately i was sleeping. when i read the msg it was too late coz he decided not to talk to me. i had some work related conflitcs, so i called him to give me advice. he was nice, telling me what to do…then that is it. then i called him again to convience him that we were meant to be together but he ignored me. we have not talked to each other for 2 weeks. it is the biggest gap since we met (8 years) as i already mentioned we talked at least once a week. i am going crazy but 2 weeks are like years for me. i really wanna call him but afraid of hearing things i dont want to. what to do? give him more time?