Comments on: How to win back a Virgo

By: monica

monica — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 03:43:00 +0000

hello, i am a leo woman and i guess you could say i’ve pushed a virgo away… now, i’m definetly not the type to go and chase a man so i dont know how to let him know i want him back and to be quite frank i don’t think he wants me back.. our love was soo very strong and he was crazy about me.. so is he still into me and just not down to show it or am’i lying to myself and this guy would rather suffer than to come back to me… please help, iam a happy person,buyt its been about six monbths and i still cant let go of him or my suffering.

By: VirgoLady

VirgoLady — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 03:03:45 +0000

Aries/Taurus, Your giving it up to fast, damn let him chase you for a while atleast, Rather it be a Virgo Woman or a Virgo Man we like to chase, we dont like it easy, if its to easy to get, we loose interest fast, Next,”’ thats how we do it, why? we do it like that becoz we love a Challenge and if there is no Challenge there is no Virgo… Hope this Helps!!!

By: Aries/Taurus

Aries/Taurus — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 23:32:03 +0000

I just don’t get it? Every time I find mself attracted to a man, he turns out to be a virgo. I sleep with him after a period of time, because the sexual attraction between us is so thick, and the mental comfort is so strong. But, each and every time, poof, they disappear. Can some one please tell me, what the hell am I doing to the poor creatures, that they first: show interest, second: (after a few months) sleep with me (which is totally explosive and passionate), and third: disappear? I can understand if its a date and sexually conquer sought of situation, but, it only happens with the virgo men I meet. And they have been flocking to me like magnets, lately. Help!!!!! I need this horrid cycle to stop!

By: TBK

TBK — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 14:40:11 +0000

As an Aries who lost his Virgo girl my advice to you losers is cut the crap! No I’m not disappearing I’ll let you in on a little scary secret it is called love and it’s the most powerful emotion on earth it’s not E=MC2 it’s love it’s real.
Good luck and God bless.

By: Katie

Katie — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 05:47:38 +0000

“fidelity and faithfulness is what seals the deal, break that and they will forget you ever existed.”

As a lady with Virgo Sun and Moon, I couldn’t agree more. If the guy I was with cheated on me, I’d immediately cut all ties, no questions asked. Not that it’d be easy by any means (betrayal, and then having to go cold turkey, been there, sucked), I’d be a mess most likely, but practically speaking (and as far as self-respect goes) having lost that fundamental sense of trust I’d rather scrap the relationship and move on than try to rebuild on a cracked foundation. We’re natural worriers–I’d say the majority of Virgos would not appreciate having that massive looming doubt hovering over the relationship.

And we’re not all cold, calculating crazies. But I think most Virgos are the sort who are willing to wait for the real deal to come around rather than get into a relationship with (for such a discriminating, fault-finding mind) a foreseeable end.

By: Pooky

Pooky — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 02:53:53 +0000

I’d been let down emotionally by my Virgo guy about five years ago. I took a break from the relationship because of it, but was honest about how he made me feel…

He’d never grown in an emotionally connected family unit, I later discovered, and had no idea about all that hurts and where to start in understanding me. Add to that his former, horribly obnoxious “BFF” who was about the biggest, most self-centered pig on Earth, and guess what? ALL he knew about life was that he had to be there for himself.

We got back together after nearly two months, both having learned something valuable about the other, helping each other to work through our stumbling blocks. And believe me when I say that we’d overcome many.

My Virgo boyfriend became my husband last year . We “grew up” and he turned out to be there for me more than any other guy I’d ever met or dated or befriended. Ever. I confidently accepted a proposal for marriage, realizing that being with someone like him, who is willing to work for a relationship, is worth every ounce of me. Not to mention that it is so, so hard to find someone to love me like he does just anywhere.

If you’ve got a good one, hang on!

By: NeedAdvice

NeedAdvice — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 21:48:53 +0000

I’ve been reading… I am a virgo female and I just wanted to say: Flighty Virgo… I love you gal’…. your description is to a T… LOL!!!!

By: fishgirl

fishgirl — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 04:56:41 +0000

I am a Pisces female who left a virgo guy after being with him for 2 1/2 years. He never once showed me any kind of emotion until the very end. I was left giftless on all holidays and birthdays, never thanked for anything I tried. He wanted sex when HE wanted it, if I wanted to snuggle, well he was just uncomfortable, he needed to snuggle his body pillow. When I realized that I was looking out the window in the car for my real soul-mate everywhere we went, I decided to give it to him straight. I was no longer in love with him and and I was moving on. Then this man was up my butt 24-7. I could not leave for milk without coming home to flowers on the table. He had flowers delivered to my work, he cleaned my house, he cleaned my car, he called me on his way home asking did i need anything? he did all the things that I would have fallen harder for him for if he had done them when I wanted it. He was critical of me, instead of saying wow this is pretty good, he would say “next time, cut the onions up a little finer, maybe add some more salt”. hahahahaha this is just how they are. They mean nothing by it. There was a point in our relationship where I had two job offers, one made less but was what I wanted to do, the other paid more but was terrible hours and uncomfortable work. He criticized me until I cried over not making the smart, logical decision. I expected to hear that from my father, but him I wanted to hear “I’m so glad that you are going to be happy babe”.. but virgo would never say that! So, I know that if you are thinking that your virgo is going to leave you, or noticing a change in them/ think you have turned them off? What has worked for me (although i no longer was trying) was IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE.. I had him calling my friends asking if i had someone else, sending me flowers and texts, i could tell his nervous system was all messed up, he looked physically ill while asking me with his tail between his legs if we could please talk. You have to show these guys that they CAN be replaced and OMG someone might be able to do a job better than a virgo! It has been quite a while, he is single while I am looking around and starting to date. He is still stuck on “lets try” so girls, I wish I could love this reliable, hard working, gentle, loyal, smart, nitpicking, sarcastic, perfectionist but this pisces heart deserves a man who doesn’t let me down emotionally.

By: Ms. Virgo

Ms. Virgo — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 14:24:04 +0000

Wow, it seems that Virgo men are different than the women. Virgo girls are not big on cheating. As far as being cold and unfeeling, that may appear to be true, but it’s not! We are really deep and often times introverted, so I think maybe we do put walls up to protect ourselves. Inside, Virgos are the most caring and loyal people you ever want to meet. Usually, we give great advice and once you get to know us, we are a riot. a Virgo is the best friend you could ever have.

By: ari3sfire

ari3sfire — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 03:59:55 +0000

ah Virgo.
One of the few signs I seem to always come back to.
I’m obviously an aries female and virgos are always drawn to me.
They are tightfisted with money, true, but incredibly giving when it comes to time, advice and love.
They have an controlling complex– and its very subtle, but its there. In my experience, they’ve wanted to possess or own me. It feels like a virgo wants to merge or meld you into them- not necessarily in a destructive manner.

and fidelity and faithfulness is what seals the deal, break that and they will forget you ever existed.

I’m .. definitely a free spirit and i wasn’t always a good relationship girl.
the nit pickyness can be a bear
BUT…
i feel no one ever cared for me as deeply as the virgos in my life did- they actually took the time not just to point out certain undesirable characteristics in me, but helped me to become a better person. Most guys wouldn’t correct me if i was wrong- but virgo (and aquarious) would and after i pouted and fumed for abit, i’d realize they were right (another annoying characteristic they have!)
I like to think i brought a lot of joy, love and simple acceptance into my virgo man’s life. The only thing i have is after he’s worked and gotten me used to togetherness and intimacy, he’ll withdraw for a day or two and before i’d have no problem with it, but now, its hell! lol