Comments on: How to get over a Taurus http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html Sat, 20 Mar 2010 11:55:58 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Sophie http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html/comment-page-1#comment-63901 Sophie Wed, 17 Mar 2010 22:30:11 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/14/how-to-get-over-a-taurus/#comment-63901 I tried being friends with him, because I was so in love with him and didn't want to add to the messiness of the break up. This just honestly made things for me much much worse, he was happy with the arrangement and just moving on while completely oblivious to the fact I was finding it much more difficult. Eventually he got together with someone who is this strange hyper-version of me, similar way of dressing, into similar things - bar sports etc, just I'm much more understated (our birthdays even are around the same time though she's a leo, I'm a cancer), and this sort of hurt the most as it felt as though he had found a replacement for me rather than at least someone different. At that point I decided enough was enough. Emotionally I was empty, and bankrupt. I completely cut him out of my life realising that it was the only way i was going to be able to live mine. I refused to put aside my well being for his wanting to be friends. Then I hit the dojo hard, and competed in my first international tournement. And jsut started filling my life with all these amazing events until it came to a point when I realised that i was happy, really happy - and I made myself happy. I tried being friends with him, because I was so in love with him and didn’t want to add to the messiness of the break up. This just honestly made things for me much much worse, he was happy with the arrangement and just moving on while completely oblivious to the fact I was finding it much more difficult. Eventually he got together with someone who is this strange hyper-version of me, similar way of dressing, into similar things – bar sports etc, just I’m much more understated (our birthdays even are around the same time though she’s a leo, I’m a cancer), and this sort of hurt the most as it felt as though he had found a replacement for me rather than at least someone different.
At that point I decided enough was enough. Emotionally I was empty, and bankrupt. I completely cut him out of my life realising that it was the only way i was going to be able to live mine. I refused to put aside my well being for his wanting to be friends. Then I hit the dojo hard, and competed in my first international tournement. And jsut started filling my life with all these amazing events until it came to a point when I realised that i was happy, really happy – and I made myself happy.

]]> By: bean1986 http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html/comment-page-1#comment-59270 bean1986 Thu, 14 Jan 2010 15:08:02 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/14/how-to-get-over-a-taurus/#comment-59270 Thank you for your help, i will try and take it on although its really hard as we have a baby together and i always see him, so i asked him to write me a letter to explane he's feelings for me as i was getting really wound up by it all and he wrote that he wasnt sure himself how to feel about it, which made me think it was more than just sex if he was thinking about it? and he allso put he really likes seeing me again and that he has forgotten many things in his life but he dosent know how i could think he would ever forget about us and what it meant to him and that i was his first love and he still thinks about us and he signed it with love how am i suppose to read that dose it me anything do you think? I may well just be reading to much into it and like you said keeping him as a friend might just have to do atleast i will still have him in my life some how Thank you for your help, i will try and take it on although its really hard as we have a baby together and i always see him, so i asked him to write me a letter to explane he’s feelings for me as i was getting really wound up by it all and he wrote that he wasnt sure himself how to feel about it, which made me think it was more than just sex if he was thinking about it? and he allso put he really likes seeing me again and that he has forgotten many things in his life but he dosent know how i could think he would ever forget about us and what it meant to him and that i was his first love and he still thinks about us and he signed it with love
how am i suppose to read that dose it me anything do you think?
I may well just be reading to much into it and like you said keeping him as a friend might just have to do atleast i will still have him in my life some how

]]> By: anonymous http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html/comment-page-1#comment-59268 anonymous Thu, 14 Jan 2010 14:56:27 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/14/how-to-get-over-a-taurus/#comment-59268 oh and sorry , i dont know how to tell u to deal with getting over him. My taurus is stuck to me like glue. he does nothing to upset me ever!! Even though i have made it VERY CLEAR that unless i get out of my present relationship i will NEVER kiss him or have sex with him... I havent thought of getting rid of him yet cuz he follows my rules and my life is too busy right now with my present relationship to think of ideas to get rid of my taurus...besides hes a really good friend. May be u too can get ur taurus out of bed and just be friends with him...? i dont know...im not experienced to talk about how to push a taurus away i wish u luck oh and sorry , i dont know how to tell u to deal with getting over him. My taurus is stuck to me like glue. he does nothing to upset me ever!! Even though i have made it VERY CLEAR that unless i get out of my present relationship i will NEVER kiss him or have sex with him… I havent thought of getting rid of him yet cuz he follows my rules and my life is too busy right now with my present relationship to think of ideas to get rid of my taurus…besides hes a really good friend. May be u too can get ur taurus out of bed and just be friends with him…? i dont know…im not experienced to talk about how to push a taurus away

i wish u luck

]]> By: anonymous http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html/comment-page-1#comment-59267 anonymous Thu, 14 Jan 2010 14:49:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/14/how-to-get-over-a-taurus/#comment-59267 bean1986 may be if u keep him out of bed, u will know what his "true" intentions are. He told u he cannot be that guy anymore who loved u or wants to have a relationship with u. I would take a hint from that. Most of the times a Taurus man will not lie about how he feels about u, unless its about him getting in the bed with u. bean1986

may be if u keep him out of bed, u will know what his “true” intentions are. He told u he cannot be that guy anymore who loved u or wants to have a relationship with u. I would take a hint from that. Most of the times a Taurus man will not lie about how he feels about u, unless its about him getting in the bed with u.

]]> By: bean1986 http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html/comment-page-1#comment-59264 bean1986 Thu, 14 Jan 2010 13:20:16 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/14/how-to-get-over-a-taurus/#comment-59264 Hi guys, i really would love soom help, as im in this crazy situation, with a bull and its driving me mad!! Im an aries woman and i dated this bull 5 years ago but we broke up, and then a few years later i had two kids with another man then he left us, but somehow the bull came back into my life (and soon enough he was back in my bed, not that im complaning)i started asking questions, asking him if he still loved me and if he wanted a relationship but he told me that he couldt be that guy anymore, so we stoped talking for ages. But now he is back again and back in my bed and it feels great to hav him around, but is it just because he likes the sex or dose he love me? or am i just reading it all wrong? And if i do lose him how should i deal with it? i really would be greatfull for some ideas if anyone has any?? thanks xx Hi guys, i really would love soom help, as im in this crazy situation,
with a bull and its driving me mad!! Im an aries woman and i dated this bull 5 years ago but we broke up, and then a few years later i had two kids with another man then he left us, but somehow the bull came back into my life (and soon enough he was back in my bed, not that im complaning)i started asking questions, asking him if he still loved me and if he wanted a relationship but he told me that he couldt be that guy anymore, so we stoped talking for ages. But now he is back again and back in my bed and it feels great to hav him around, but is it just because he likes the sex or dose he love me? or am i just reading it all wrong? And if i do lose him how should i deal with it?

i really would be greatfull for some ideas if anyone has any?? thanks xx

]]> By: TRUE5STARSCORPIO http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html/comment-page-1#comment-56520 TRUE5STARSCORPIO Sat, 05 Dec 2009 19:49:22 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/14/how-to-get-over-a-taurus/#comment-56520 Thanks LULU I needed that. I just hate that I work with him which means I have to see him everyday. It makes it tougher to get over him. Any tips for getting over your coworker?? Thanks LULU I needed that. I just hate that I work with him which means I have to see him everyday. It makes it tougher to get over him. Any tips for getting over your coworker??

]]> By: Cassie http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html/comment-page-1#comment-54127 Cassie Fri, 30 Oct 2009 14:56:30 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/14/how-to-get-over-a-taurus/#comment-54127 Yeah well I was recently dating a taurus male (I'm a Virgo). Everything was giong great but I had a gut feeling he was stilll talking to his ex. He said, "not really" That means yes in my opinion. So I ask him online what "not really" means...and he sends back a LOOONG paragraph about how he only saw her once but he can't be with me because he's not ready for a girl as good as I am to him...and that he's the crazy one and not me...and goes on about how spectacular I am and could do better than him. If that doesn't sound like he's guilty of doing something with his ex then I don't know what it. Therefor, those who say all Taurus's are reliable and faitful I believe is a lie. Yeah well I was recently dating a taurus male (I’m a Virgo). Everything was giong great but I had a gut feeling he was stilll talking to his ex. He said, “not really” That means yes in my opinion. So I ask him online what “not really” means…and he sends back a LOOONG paragraph about how he only saw her once but he can’t be with me because he’s not ready for a girl as good as I am to him…and that he’s the crazy one and not me…and goes on about how spectacular I am and could do better than him. If that doesn’t sound like he’s guilty of doing something with his ex then I don’t know what it.

Therefor, those who say all Taurus’s are reliable and faitful I believe is a lie.

]]> By: Amber http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html/comment-page-1#comment-52631 Amber Thu, 15 Oct 2009 05:33:07 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/14/how-to-get-over-a-taurus/#comment-52631 DAMN LULU THAT IS THE TRUTH................IN MY OPINION ANYWAY.........GREAT ANALYSIS..... DAMN LULU THAT IS THE TRUTH…………….IN MY OPINION ANYWAY………GREAT ANALYSIS…..

]]> By: lulu http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html/comment-page-1#comment-45717 lulu Wed, 19 Aug 2009 10:44:49 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/14/how-to-get-over-a-taurus/#comment-45717 Hi girls... The basic truth with Taurus is that they are really comparable to a bull in a field!! Think earthy, animal behaviour. Things seem complicated with them, but in many ways are not very. Try and gain some consolation in knowing that it is in their nature to seek comfort & security; shelter from the rain. When something penetrates beneath that tough hide, it takes a life-time to heal. Their instinct is to eat, drink, copulate, exercise in natural surroundings and sleep. They are looking out for number one. YOUR hurt is exterior to all of this. If you wander into their field and are attracted...that is an aside. For them the priority is to have fun, comfort & protect themselves from harm, which may translate into the harmful influence of 'women', who they may perceive as mad/hysterical drama queens (though their behaviour drove you to it!) This is why it is so important not to think in such human 'relationship' terms with them. Can you see girls how this means what you do with your life is seperate to what is going on with them...so if you have a lack in your life, or are addicted to the ways of a bull; while you analyse and suffer, the bull may not be able to help in the way you hope. They have to look out for themselves! If you seek comfort and reassurance from the bull and there is none to be had from this beast, it's because he is occupied with what is in his best interests. That is the agenda. They may get back to you just in case they made an error and find you would have been more suited to their needs after all.(better safe than sorry...) Yes you've have fallen for a piece of livestock!! that requires kid-gloves treatment if you are not to upset it..there, there... careful though, if you make a wrong move, you could be trampled. So the choices you have if your bull is a handful are to stay in the field and tend to his needs as a lover or friend/ admire and pine for them from edge of field but don't get to close/ or alternatively, run and escape with your life. Recover by focussing on YOU if your bull has imprisoned you & you need to escape this cycle. They will do what THEY will do. It's in their nature. It's in no way your fault. The difficulty comes I think in finding something to fill that gap...that's the challenge. Chin up!! Life really is short. Hi girls…
The basic truth with Taurus is that they are really comparable to a bull in a field!! Think earthy, animal behaviour. Things seem complicated with them, but in many ways are not very.

Try and gain some consolation in knowing that it is in their nature to seek comfort & security; shelter from the rain. When something penetrates beneath that tough hide, it takes a life-time to heal. Their instinct is to eat, drink, copulate, exercise in natural surroundings and sleep. They are looking out for number one. YOUR hurt is exterior to all of this. If you wander into their field and are attracted…that is an aside. For them the priority is to have fun, comfort & protect themselves from harm, which may translate into the harmful influence of ‘women’, who they may perceive as mad/hysterical drama queens (though their behaviour drove you to it!)

This is why it is so important not to think in such human ‘relationship’ terms with them. Can you see girls how this means what you do with your life is seperate to what is going on with them…so if you have a lack in your life, or are addicted to the ways of a bull; while you analyse and suffer, the bull may not be able to help in the way you hope. They have to look out for themselves!

If you seek comfort and reassurance from the bull and there is none to be had from this beast, it’s because he is occupied with what is in his best interests. That is the agenda. They may get back to you just in case they made an error and find you would have been more suited to their needs after all.(better safe than sorry…)

Yes you’ve have fallen for a piece of livestock!! that requires kid-gloves treatment if you are not to upset it..there, there… careful though, if you make a wrong move, you could be trampled. So the choices you have if your bull is a handful are to stay in the field and tend to his needs as a lover or friend/ admire and pine for them from edge of field but don’t get to close/ or alternatively, run and escape with your life.

Recover by focussing on YOU if your bull has imprisoned you & you need to escape this cycle. They will do what THEY will do. It’s in their nature. It’s in no way your fault. The difficulty comes I think in finding something to fill that gap…that’s the challenge. Chin up!! Life really is short.

]]> By: Cancer Girl http://sasstrology.com/2006/12/how-to-get-over-taurus.html/comment-page-1#comment-37039 Cancer Girl Sat, 20 Jun 2009 02:27:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/12/14/how-to-get-over-a-taurus/#comment-37039 im like so over taurus's period i dont have time for games and they send to many mixed signals 4 me i dont have time for that shit and im wondering what i did? i dont know ? at first it waqs i love u and would do any thing for me now it's alll fun and games now im with someone else and when the taurus see's me he speak's like were still together i dont get that! help me im like so over taurus’s period i dont have time for games and they send to many mixed signals 4 me i dont have time for that s*** and im wondering what i did? i dont know ? at first it waqs i love u and would do any thing for me now it’s alll fun and games now im with someone else and when the taurus see’s me he speak’s like were still together i dont get that! help me

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