Grieving takes time. You can start by integrating the qualities you most appreciated about your Taurus man into your daily routine. The end of a relationship can introduce an emotional hole into your life, and it is best to fill it with activities that nurture your spirit. A Taurus guy is not the same as the archetype of “Taurus,” undiluted by other astrological factors. He is a complex individual with many zodiac signs expressing his different needs. Nonetheless, you were probably attracted to his sensual, grounded nature. How can you introject, or “take in,” those qualities?
I would advise against Taurean pursuits like shopping and eating chocolate to get over your Taurus man. They might feel good for a few minutes, but they are not spiritually fulfilling. (OK, maybe if it’s really good chocolate.) Instead, go to an art museum and lose yourself in shapes, colors and textures. Taurus is ruled by Venus, goddess of beauty. Can you find Beauty in your surroundings? Venus also loves sensual pleasure — take an aromatherapy bath and scrub yourself with sea salt; go to the park and lean against a tree, letting its rootedness support you as you wallow in your sorrows. Mother Earth can absorb your sadness. She has endured much more loss than you, and She still perseveres, like any good Taurus would.
Comment below: How have you gotten over a Taurus?
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Taurus men hate to leave unless they have been cheated on and make it hard get over them. they will give you a break but show up the next day..with food and a smile. Do whatever makes you happy and do something that can keep your mind off the taurus..relax and enjoy you.
Unfortunately, after all this time, I really never did…and I don’t think I ever truly will. But this article has some good suggestions!
(BTW, in case any of you are wondering, I’m a Virgo.)
Unfortunately, after all this time, I really never did…and I don’t think I ever truly will. But this article has some good suggestions!
(BTW, in case any of you are wondering, I’m a Virgo.)
Im still trying to get over my Taurus man
. He doesnt make it easier either by still calling and wanting to be “friends”. It makes me still love him if not even more because i know how strong the love was that we had. And I dont know if I can ever get it back. 
What should I do?
I too am recovering from the painful breakup of a Taurus. The second love of my life. Here’s the thing…. I think any man, when you fall in love with him, takes time to recover from. The best thing to do is review the goals you have in life, descide what your next step is right away, and MAKE IT HAPPEN! Life is too short to mope around over any MAN!
It’s not about the MAN! It’s about your self-love, and self-respect.
Take a hint from Sex and The City… Noone should make everything all about the men. Use your siren call ladies!
Much love!
Taurus woman here. From my perspective we Taurus’ hate breakups. I’ve often wondered if it’s because of our stubbornness or laziness in not wanting to find another mate. I think it’s more-so our emotional/stubbornness that makes this so.
If we leave you, it’s because you’ve either bored us to tears, aggravated us enough, or even possibly betrayed us. Usually in this case, there is no going back to a relationship. Once I am done with someone — it’s for good. I don’t mind being civil and friends I actually encourage it. But if I’ve ended it and you try to get back with me — you’re wasting your time. We’re extremely stubborn by nature. Don’t expect a second try.
If you leave us, we don’t take rejection well at all because we almost always typically get who and what we want. So you might see a little crazy side of us where we try to persuade you to stay. If we were honestly attracted or ‘in love’ with you — we’re pretty persistent in getting you back. We’re not stupid, so don’t think you can walk all over us. We can usually tell when someone is taking advantage of our persistence. If you just want someone to pine over you to make yourself feel better we’ll catch on and shove you out the door like you were old news. When you break up with us, cut it off sharp and give us TONS of room. Otherwise we’ll be either knocking on your door on occasion, or just get resentful.
@ sadlibra
“Im still trying to get over my Taurus man
. He doesnt make it easier either by still calling and wanting to be “friends”. It makes me still love him if not even more because i know how strong the love was that we had. And I dont know if I can ever get it back. 
What should I do?”
He obviously still cares about you — when we love, we tend to love for a long time if not forever. But that love is dynamic and changeable so it may not be in the same way as it was before. Depending on why you broke up will be the determining factor if anything can be done or not. Probably not though if he broke up with you — but I’m a female opinion not a male, so take what I say with a grain of salt.
I’m a Taurus woman myself. Break ups are, literally, the last straw. We do everything in our power to make it work, and when we stop being so stubborn and realize it just won’t; we let go.
If we’re truly in love with you, nothing in this world will ever compare to the way we feel for you. No one will ever come close to loving you in the way we did, and we’ll never meet another person who we’ll give our all to the way we gave it to you.
i was cheated on a taurus w/ a leo…
i thought the best way to get over that was to stay inside a long time and grieve but i think after reading this article i can step out now
im like so over taurus’s period i dont have time for games and they send to many mixed signals 4 me i dont have time for that shit and im wondering what i did? i dont know ? at first it waqs i love u and would do any thing for me now it’s alll fun and games now im with someone else and when the taurus see’s me he speak’s like were still together i dont get that! help me
Hi girls…
The basic truth with Taurus is that they are really comparable to a bull in a field!! Think earthy, animal behaviour. Things seem complicated with them, but in many ways are not very.
Try and gain some consolation in knowing that it is in their nature to seek comfort & security; shelter from the rain. When something penetrates beneath that tough hide, it takes a life-time to heal. Their instinct is to eat, drink, copulate, exercise in natural surroundings and sleep. They are looking out for number one. YOUR hurt is exterior to all of this. If you wander into their field and are attracted…that is an aside. For them the priority is to have fun, comfort & protect themselves from harm, which may translate into the harmful influence of ‘women’, who they may perceive as mad/hysterical drama queens (though their behaviour drove you to it!)
This is why it is so important not to think in such human ‘relationship’ terms with them. Can you see girls how this means what you do with your life is seperate to what is going on with them…so if you have a lack in your life, or are addicted to the ways of a bull; while you analyse and suffer, the bull may not be able to help in the way you hope. They have to look out for themselves!
If you seek comfort and reassurance from the bull and there is none to be had from this beast, it’s because he is occupied with what is in his best interests. That is the agenda. They may get back to you just in case they made an error and find you would have been more suited to their needs after all.(better safe than sorry…)
Yes you’ve have fallen for a piece of livestock!! that requires kid-gloves treatment if you are not to upset it..there, there… careful though, if you make a wrong move, you could be trampled. So the choices you have if your bull is a handful are to stay in the field and tend to his needs as a lover or friend/ admire and pine for them from edge of field but don’t get to close/ or alternatively, run and escape with your life.
Recover by focussing on YOU if your bull has imprisoned you & you need to escape this cycle. They will do what THEY will do. It’s in their nature. It’s in no way your fault. The difficulty comes I think in finding something to fill that gap…that’s the challenge. Chin up!! Life really is short.
DAMN LULU THAT IS THE TRUTH…………….IN MY OPINION ANYWAY………GREAT ANALYSIS…..
Yeah well I was recently dating a taurus male (I’m a Virgo). Everything was giong great but I had a gut feeling he was stilll talking to his ex. He said, “not really” That means yes in my opinion. So I ask him online what “not really” means…and he sends back a LOOONG paragraph about how he only saw her once but he can’t be with me because he’s not ready for a girl as good as I am to him…and that he’s the crazy one and not me…and goes on about how spectacular I am and could do better than him. If that doesn’t sound like he’s guilty of doing something with his ex then I don’t know what it.
Therefor, those who say all Taurus’s are reliable and faitful I believe is a lie.
Thanks LULU I needed that. I just hate that I work with him which means I have to see him everyday. It makes it tougher to get over him. Any tips for getting over your coworker??
Hi guys, i really would love soom help, as im in this crazy situation,
with a bull and its driving me mad!! Im an aries woman and i dated this bull 5 years ago but we broke up, and then a few years later i had two kids with another man then he left us, but somehow the bull came back into my life (and soon enough he was back in my bed, not that im complaning)i started asking questions, asking him if he still loved me and if he wanted a relationship but he told me that he couldt be that guy anymore, so we stoped talking for ages. But now he is back again and back in my bed and it feels great to hav him around, but is it just because he likes the sex or dose he love me? or am i just reading it all wrong? And if i do lose him how should i deal with it?
i really would be greatfull for some ideas if anyone has any?? thanks xx
bean1986
may be if u keep him out of bed, u will know what his “true” intentions are. He told u he cannot be that guy anymore who loved u or wants to have a relationship with u. I would take a hint from that. Most of the times a Taurus man will not lie about how he feels about u, unless its about him getting in the bed with u.
oh and sorry , i dont know how to tell u to deal with getting over him. My taurus is stuck to me like glue. he does nothing to upset me ever!! Even though i have made it VERY CLEAR that unless i get out of my present relationship i will NEVER kiss him or have sex with him… I havent thought of getting rid of him yet cuz he follows my rules and my life is too busy right now with my present relationship to think of ideas to get rid of my taurus…besides hes a really good friend. May be u too can get ur taurus out of bed and just be friends with him…? i dont know…im not experienced to talk about how to push a taurus away
i wish u luck
Thank you for your help, i will try and take it on although its really hard as we have a baby together and i always see him, so i asked him to write me a letter to explane he’s feelings for me as i was getting really wound up by it all and he wrote that he wasnt sure himself how to feel about it, which made me think it was more than just sex if he was thinking about it? and he allso put he really likes seeing me again and that he has forgotten many things in his life but he dosent know how i could think he would ever forget about us and what it meant to him and that i was his first love and he still thinks about us and he signed it with love
how am i suppose to read that dose it me anything do you think?
I may well just be reading to much into it and like you said keeping him as a friend might just have to do atleast i will still have him in my life some how
I tried being friends with him, because I was so in love with him and didn’t want to add to the messiness of the break up. This just honestly made things for me much much worse, he was happy with the arrangement and just moving on while completely oblivious to the fact I was finding it much more difficult. Eventually he got together with someone who is this strange hyper-version of me, similar way of dressing, into similar things – bar sports etc, just I’m much more understated (our birthdays even are around the same time though she’s a leo, I’m a cancer), and this sort of hurt the most as it felt as though he had found a replacement for me rather than at least someone different.
At that point I decided enough was enough. Emotionally I was empty, and bankrupt. I completely cut him out of my life realising that it was the only way i was going to be able to live mine. I refused to put aside my well being for his wanting to be friends. Then I hit the dojo hard, and competed in my first international tournement. And jsut started filling my life with all these amazing events until it came to a point when I realised that i was happy, really happy – and I made myself happy.
I had a Taurus man around the same time I was with (my now) Ex Scorpio guy. And my Taurus was so wonderful and easy going. Very sweet by nature, but he was with to many women which I didnt take so well. Though I was with other men (not like he was with other women) I still thought him as special. without going into great details; He started to treating me as if I didnt matter to him anymore. Long story short, I just stopped bothering him and told him in more words than one that I dont want to see him anymore because of how he was treating me at the time. And I guess he agreed, because we do not talk anymore. But recently he had passed by where I live, which he doesnt at all live in my area and doesnt have a reason to come into the area where I live besides to see me when we were Lover’s. So I thought it very strange that he was in my neck of the woods. What do you all think?
i didnt . . . mine came right back to me . . . 2 years later i just hope he doesnt scare and run off again
Arian:
Your taurus still feels for you… You are still in his heart.
Love,
Ara
Im an aries male that has been in love with a taurus male for two and a half years. at first i never took notice to him, he was just a friend but over time we began to look at each other with such a passion that to this day we get sparks when we touch each other by accident. my problem is that he has taken such control over my life, all i think about is him yet he only shows his true colors around me and can never talk clearly about what he wants. now he is seeing a girl so i feel like im on the sideline. this past month i deleted his number, ignored him like if he was nothing and i was doing so well until sunday when he invited me to the movies. all those feelings rushed back and i grew so hopeful just to be turned down at the last moment. im over his mind games i feel like he just wants to know that i still sadly belong to him. :/
My taurus whom I fell in love with at first sight (3 years ago) has been in my life the past year with 2 exits. The first was horrific (he disappeared) come 3 months later (after two months deliberating with his text) I allow him back in my life. Now it’s happened again. Gone without a trace. I have maintained alot of dignity and decided to only call twice and left a sweet sincere text and left it at that. It’s almost been a month.
It’s killing me because I have no clue about how he feels. I only got as far as “I like you.” lol
I did mention to him and assured him he was the right man because that was his reason for leaving the first time. Now back to square one.
I do love him and will stand by him but from afar. I assured him also in the last text that I miss him. So, I’m coping with the “in between gaps” as Lulu pointed out. (Thanks Lulu!!! You made me feel soooo much better)
All in all I am in the whole “trying to build” aspect with my bull. He’s very stubborn. But, I can be equally stubborn. Which sucks! I’m utterly confused but, I didn’t know where to turn. I too as with AriesFire are exhausted from the mind games.
Thanks for reading.
good luck
still very much in love with my taurus man even after 12 yrs……….I dream of him & talk it is nice to have the dreams & talks. God I miss him
To Libranmale-
I enjoyed reading your story. Lulu made a valid and accurate point. I’m a Taurus also. Lulu was spot on! But there are reasons why Bulls look out for themselves. It has little to do with selfishness and more to do with self-preservation.
Bulls tend to be somewhat naive and very trusting of people during our younger years. We let EVERYONE in our circle during that period. Unfortunately, people take advantage of our kind nature, so we’re forced to grow up, and REAL FAST! When this occurs, we become very particular about who we allow in our inner circle. We have less friends, and become more guarded. We try to protect ourselves from harmful people. The zodiac makes many references to Tauruses about finances and luxury. They fail to highlight that we’re also highly ethical people. Morals, integrity, hardwork, honesty, and generosity plays a major role with a Taurus. Because of this, we gravitate towards people who make us feel safe.
The sad part about this is, due to our overly-cautious nature, we find ourselves ALWAYS alone, and plodding in the field. Being alone puts us in a position of complacency. When a potential relationship does show its true colors (because we’ve been alone for so long) sometimes we don’t know exactly how to proceed. This is when our shyness kicks in. We get butterflies in our stomachs, and then we’re at a loss for words. Giving you presents, and lots of hugs and kisses combats our timidness.
If we’ve separated from you for a while, there are anxieties that we’re having about you. It’s all or nothing with us. We don’t express your flaws because unfortunately, due to our straightforward nature, we suffer from a ‘diarrhea of the mouth.’ We tend to blurt things out w/o thinking. We don’t want to lose you forever. So we keep our mouths shut and keep our options open.
I don’t think that we truly understand the impact our actions have on a potential partner. But I can tell you, it’s certainly not mind games.
You seem like such a loving man. I hope your Taurus realizes this and learns to appreciate you. Which in time he will…it will just take him awhile.
But when he does. It will not be easy to get rid of him.
Good Luck!
same Taurus different year …madly in love w/h him but have NO choice to let go with my soul! How do I do tht ? I know he loves me but it’s j/t time for me to let go & allow friendship overcome my love/desire for him……I am intense (virgo) I always have men telling me dang woman your deep ………lol….but he needs to keep his guard up I respect tht but I also need him to respect me ANY ideas or thoughts? Tried everything I know or can do before my heart takes over again
so my thought is screwin the life outta this Taurus & finally have my mind, heart, soul into this LAST TIME together…….IF I keep my mind on our last time together then I can say ALL MY GOODBYES 2 him & FINALLY LIVE MY LIFE w/o WANTING HIM 4EVER ……..hahaha I doubt it but it’s WORTH a try & MAN AM I GONNA LUV BEING HIS LOVER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!How do I let go I have EASILY LET GO OF MANY MEN .EXCEPT THIS TAURUS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY ? WHY? WHY?
I cant stop thinking about my taurus man. I am so in love with him – however I haven’t in so many words said this to him I am scared of being hurt. We have a long distance thing going on 9 months….. I think about him everyday and want to see him again – its been a while. He blows hot & cold. Also he has become so distant and I cant handle it. He knows I have strong feelings for him. Maybe he has someone else keeping him company? But I cant even look at another guy right now. Should I stop all contact to see if he comes back to me? I don’t know how to get through to him and show him I love him so much without pressuring him. I’m an aries female and a few years older than my taurus.
9 months is a long time. Are there any plans of getting together? Have you ever met? I would work on making it a reality. Plan a visit and see how he reacts. Taurus will love the one he’s with. They’re not too good on long distance relationships.
Hi Bliss – we lived together for two years (flatmates) he had a girlfriend the whole time so nothing happened but we became close friends. Then he left to go back home and i didnt see or hear from him for 6 years (last July). I was just out of a long term relationship and was so delighted to be back in touch with him. We lived a few hours apart but were texting everyday and couldnt wait to see eachother. I eventually got to meet up with him & it was amazing he was so nice but when I got home I started to have doubts. Silly I know but I had insecurities because of my previous relationship. He does too. I didnt contact him for two weeks after & it was clear he had completely changed towards me. Since then its been me who has initiated all contact (for months) with him responding if & when he feels like it. This got me frustrated and say things I didnt mean. He did the same. Im tired of chasing him – im going to stop all contact & see if he comes back to me. In all this time of us communicating iv never told him how I feel. I know he knows because we have sent eachother songs to help us communicate how we feel but neither of us will back down &admit our true feelings. I love him but need to see if he feels the same way. If he does then he will come back to me. I have to get on with my life. Thanks x
@Bliss
Hi Bliss – sorry I forgot to ask the question;
Do you think Mr T will get back to me if I stop contact for a while? I have read some of your post’s and they are very helpful + you seem to have been through a similar situation with a Taurus.
I hate not hearing from him its actually agonising but some how gets easier everyday. I dont want to be hanging around for months waiting on this guy and I am slightly worried that my heart will harden towards him as time goes on and I move on. Although I cant see this happening for a long time.
I am determined to keep busy, spend more time with my friends & family and most importantly be HAPPY & content.
I am older than him – he is 26 & I am 32.
Thanks again x
Hi Aries Girl,
What is it you want from him and what are you looking for at this point in your life.???
Do you want the same things and if not then what are you aiming toward or willing to
settle for considering the fact that he is only 26 years of age and may not be able to
offer you very much or even nothing at all in the way of a commited relationship at
this point in time.???
Cheers Taurus.
Just a random thought I felt like sharing, I only told one person cause well, it’s not something I count as normal lol
In mr amazings birthday, I had sent him a gift, well I canceled it last min cause ge wasn’t speaking to me, and I was Going to send it anonymously because didn’t want him to be like wtf? :/
Anyways it was all this imported beer and a foosball table lmao.. Really can’t send a guy flowers on his birthday.. Didn’t want him to ever find out is from me haha so I canceled the credit card sale online..
Funny.. I wonder if he would have guessed it was from me.. Lol
I’ve always wanted a sulfide present and just thought a suppose is always awesome on your birthday..
But if it comes from someone you don’t care about it could be creepy..
It would have only been an awesome thing if we lived inside a romantic comedy DVD??
:/
I never said happy birthday though :/
Surprise present*
and sorry bout the other errors.. To impatient to look over my writing on the iPhone and it changes my words
@karissa15 – thanks for the response. U have been kind enough to respond to another post (about the same mr taurus). To answer your question I woulkd like to be in a relationship with this guy. I would like for us to make a go of it and take things from there. But he clearly isnt on the same page. I have accepted this now and know I must stop trying to push him. I am aware that I may have hurt him by my actions and have tried for months to make up for this – but the more I try the more he backs away. I havent behaved desperate dont get me wrong. I have my self respect. I have however been initiating contact every weekend for the past 10 months. Albeit its usually when I am out socialising – and when i have had a wine or two for dutch courage. Regardless of a mans sign – I think if he wants to be with a girl nothing will stop him. I cant even get this guy to talk to me now – so im giving up. The odd response from him (when he feels like it) just isnt good enough. When i read about the experiences other females have had with Taurus men they say they always come back to the one they love. So I will leave it alone – I just hope I havent moved on if/when he does get back to me. Also to be quite honest I dont know how I would react if he did get back in touch? I can accept I freaked out with how intense we got in the beginning but he has taken that to new lengths with his hot & cold behaviour and his disappearing acts . I like to think i am a straight forward and honest person when it comes to matters of the heart. Also i have to accept that I may never hear from him again that maybe ‘he’s just not that into me’ – it didnt feel that way. Thanks again Karissa – best wishes xx
hi everyone…i actualy want to get over with my taurus bf, i dont understand him anymore..ok to make the story shorth,we broke up bcoz i went for a holiday,then he started to communicate with her ex.that was nov..he changed and turn very cold to me,i also find out that he wanted to dump me on january..see i only discover this because jer ex told me everything,i confronted him and he changed again he become sweet and kind and he told me that he will never go back to her bcoz im d one he loves..well i give him a chance i explain to him why im acting so clingy lately,its bcoz im jealous,his really possesive he doesnt want me to go to any pictorials or either with our friends..but for thata ok i can handle it bcoz i love him,when we spent our vacation together we really have a lovely stayed..is like he never stop hugging me,then her ex gf txted her and he avted very different..oh by the way,he never spend any money everytime we go out im the one who alwaya pays the bill,to buy his clothes,and the things he need..i felt bad,coz i feel like im being uses by him..like if he needs something to me he is very sweet and kind but if not his not even showing up..u know but he always update me and call me and txt me..febraury i broke up with him bcoz i found out that his communicating with her x or with other woman,his flirt,he always flirt even with my friends..i just dnt understand him anymore..argh…nwei he asked me to pls save our relationship..then he was kind and sweet again and calling me all the time,fyi the hot and cold attitude started at month of nov..he even tell me that he doesnt want me to lose but he dont want to have a commitment,and for me?what kind of relationship is that if theres no commitment? well i didnt aggree untill it came to this point..i was really angry with him now he said to me that he doesnt want a commitment and let just be become a bestfriend with benefits.ofcourse i didnt agree i better off then to stay with that kind of guy..i actually feel that he used me.coz before valentines after i gave the things he asked bags and shades then he turn cold to me and only to find out his having a chat with her ex..nwei thats just a thing what i cannot accept is to make me look like a stupid..funny coz everytime i dont reply or return to his call his asking our friends to go out so we can have a bonding after 1 day no txt and call..and i realize that ok loving is not owning the person.i respect him being that way but please if he cant just be honest to me atleast he must not hurt my feelings..the worst thing her x pm me and told me that his reporting to her..ohhh and i asked him if its true he sad no..i dont care what she says and so i told him how can she know every detail and then giving the blame to me that why are u still communicating with her?do u not pitty her you.we are just friends and ao whats your problem..aha after that i was awake haha so after our make love dates he only sees me as a friend..lol and so i told him to getlost and that i hate him..yeahyeah after he keeps caling me ang txtng that he needs to barrow his sd card.i didnt reply i just asked my maid to give it to him.u know what i learned here is guys have no right to treat a woman like that if they cant love us anymre atlist tell us to our face..nwei i lived my life happy before he came so why not nw.i deserved better..the only thing to get over with him show him that your not affected of what he is doing if he calls ignore him pay attention to the things that can make your day beautiful..cheer up ladies..im sure god has a better plan for us..kisses
Hi people,
From my experience of a Taurus man they will do and say anything to get you, deep down they always have that one woman they will always go back to most likely the one that knows how they are really like and how shallow they really are but will stick around knowing he could leave any moment. As soon as the Taurus finds what they are looking for they will leave you scarred they will not care what you feel, what you two had and whether or not you’ll live or die. They have a habit of sticking to someone even if there is no real feelings until they find the real person they want and when they do its so hard to face. They are very charming and can lift you off your feet but damn they so selfish. They guy i was with always said that me and him were friends but to everyone else he made it seem like i was his girlfriend, he left me for his ex and didn’t want to know me its like he wiped me out of his system. When things didn’t work out with his ex for like a millionth time he came back to me a year later and was a new person he started being so horrible to me, putting me down what not, its like he wanted me to leave him and when i’d say i’m going he would start being sweet again. In my opinion they are all about mind games maybe they do care but they have one weird way of putting it across. When you come across a Taurus man and you’ve heard nothing but negative about him – RUN.
They always come back just don’t be stupid to let them worm their way in cause its easier to get over it when you can, the more you let them in the more they will tear you till you come to the point you can’t ever move on. Plenty of men out there and you will get over the Taurus man – how? Simple. Delete him out your system, you can start by deleting any text messages/whatsapp messages/ facebook messages etc. Next delete any pictures you have of him, write down all the negative things on a piece of paper anytime you get the urge to text/call him or even if he rings then look at that paper and remind yourself of what he done. They can be very manipulative and stubborn. They are very likely to change. You will get over it just give time some time to heal its natural to rethink and get worked up again
I have to ask all of you what are taurus men like in the beginning? I met one I really like,and he seemed to like me a lot too- now he’s kind of flubbed.
As a Gemini, I can say to Gemini getting over people just isn’t easy for us. The best thing you can do is heal with time and don’t go back. I went back to a Virgo on and off for two years and it was a major waste of time. The best advice I got was to do something you like that is relaxing and just think. Don’t force thoughts, just let them flow. That’s what’s helped me a lot.
Here’s a story. My taurus man and I fell in love at first sight. I’m a Scorpio female. He moved in with me now we rent an apartment together. He gets very annoyed when I don’t keep the house perfectly clean which I can’t always do since I work so I try to defend myself but he gets angrier. At one point he had it and he tried to break up with me and blame me on a mess that he thought I made but he had made it. When he realized that, we stayed together. But i was fed up that he would treat me that way so I tried to break it off and went to see my family on vacation for a month. The whole time he tells me he loves me, we are still together, and he can’t wait till I come home. So I come back and he’s his usual romantic loving self until the house starts to get a little messy and now he wants to break it off again! WTF I thought taurus didn’t play these mind games. Is he just trying to scare me to do what he wants??
Men don’t necessarily move on faetsr. We just move on differently. Women actually confront the emotions and men hide from them, going out with friends getting cocked, surrounding ourselves with other people, sports, etc. You pretty much have three choices. 1. He may not actually want to be friends and might just be saying it to be nice in which case just cutting all ties would be best for both of you anyway. 2. It certainly is possible that by realizing that he may have actually lost you (by you not speaking to him AT ALL) will be the kick in the a** he needs to pick up the phone or 3. You could talk to him and play childish games trying to make him jealous don’t do that. One thing you should not do, under ANY circumstances is let him call you and remain ambiguous about the relationship in an attempt to get you to sleep with him one last time (which every guy does). Don’t sleep with him until he makes up his mind.
Helen, it appears that your comment is a copy-and-paste job from Aphrodite Astrology so I have deleted it. Please only post in your own words.
I fell in love madly and deeply . Its a long story , I’m a tripple piciese Aries rising he’s a tripple tauraslibra moon, we had love but no trust ,what’s love without trust , he told me he’d die for me .he told me he’d love me and marry me , on my birthday he stood me up I came to him I’m the one that gets gifts , we fight r words cut too deep of a wound , but I Will love him I can’t stop he’s angry with me and I dought he’s true even thow he says he is , he told me if I didn’t pay his bill his phone would turn off so it did ,he got it back on and he doesn’t tex me I’m too old for games does he love me or the fact I bye him pizza . So I sad how can I know if he really loves me he’s not texing me. Its hard to move on I cry in bed I tex him all day . We got vebal in a bad way Lots of passion but too much , I keep telling my self I got to give up my my heart won’t . I’m in love with him and I Desire him, karma he hurts me bad .when he doesn’t tex or call I don’t want to be a fool,what do I do
Hi Erin,
Sometimes as difficault as it may be it is best to do “NOTHING”.!!!
Especially when it comes to a Taurus because the more you push or insist the further
they will go because it goes against their nature. Just leave him to his own devices and
“BACK OFF” stop all communication and distract your mind with other interests and
people whom are also important aspects in “YOUR LIFE” after all you had a life before
him and you shall continue to do so whether he is there or not so prove to him that your
universe does not revolve around him alone.
If he really does “LOVE you and VALUE you” he will come back and pursue you believe
me nothing will stand in his way because when a Taurus wants something they go after it
and toward it “WHOLE HEARTEDLY” with sheer determination because there is no stopping
or obstructing their path which leads to what ever their “MIND and HEART DESIRES”.!!!
Stop crying and start smiling. Taurus.
Hi, I have been reading most of the posts and I am worry that my Taurus man won’t give me a second chance. He is 38 and I’m 40. We started as FWB about a year an a half ago, but then 4 months ago we became exclusive. He always told me I was the one and were a lot of silver linings between us that made him ever closer to me . he was so romantic and seem so much into me. We like to do same things and think alike. However we leave 120 miles apart, so I always went to c him and stayed at his house. But I guess, I always expected to do this every wknd and we weren’t together , I will fuzz at him and act possessive. All his friends like me and we had fun times, but I always complain to his friends that I felt I was more into him that the other way round. He wouldn’t call me during the week. I didn’t feel important and let him know bout it. Anyway, last wknd I was in town staying at one of his friends house (female) because he was going to a wedding in which you couldn’t bring a guess, and I got drunk and demanded that I wanted to go to his house ans spend the night, then because I didn’t have my way, I started to curse him out by txting him nasty shit.
I sent a short txt to apologize, but he just txtd me back that he was really mad and that he was gonna call me the next day, but he should just b friends. That I was a wonderful person and thought I was the one, but we weren’t compatible.
Well, he call me the next day and left me a message saying the same thing, i called him bck right away and he reinstated that he loves me, but wasn’t in love w me like he thought, that maybe he just tried to make things work because he thought I was the one. Again, he went on and on saying that I am beautiful, we had great sex, the best looking girl he has ever dated, i have been the only girl since we started as FWB that has been with, but something was missing and that mayb he just wanted to b single. he assure me that he is not looking for anyone else, and that he just was not ready for a relationship. Then he went on telling me that he wants to b friends and for me to continue to b friends w his friends because everyone liked me. That he wasn’t sure if he ever will change his mind and he didn’t wan to string me along and that I deserve better and meet someone who wants to b in a relationship. I didn’t know what to say , I just heard everything, told him couldn’t b his friend for now. He said that he was gonna call me or txt me to check up on me, i told him not to bother unless he had a change of heart. He still have pix of us on FB and his female friends r checking up on me and trying to b my friends, which I am gonna stop that shit, because it hurts even more, if he really is done with me.
IDK what to do? I want him bck!.. his bday is next week, i sent him a very powerful letter accepting the breakup, apologizing for my actions and how I made him feel,; Also, ask for him to forgive me and trust me again someday and I that I would always love him as a person and how special and important he always made me feel while around him, then I closed by wishing him happy bday and agreeing with him that we need time away from each other. I am sure he’ll get that letter by tomorrow. After that letter, I am sticking with the NC until I hopefully hear from him.
TAURUS man or any guy perspective. Do you think that he will give me another chance?…He says he loves me, but not in love, so I’m afraid he won’t change his mind. I also feel that he is the one!..What should I do? I am worried
FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS.???
This arrangement should come not only with a “Warning Label” but a “Use By” date
attached to it stating the following just in case the “Friends” whom also seek to reap
the “Benefits” are “IGNORANT” to it’s true “Interpretation” and what it “Involves”.???
1. SEX ONLY (casual or regular depending upon their needs and appetites.?)
2. No Strings Attached.!!!
3. No Emotional Involvement.!!!
4. No Expectations.!!!
5. No Restrictions.!!!
6. No Commitment.!!!
7. No Exclusivity.!!!
8. No Demands.!!!
9. No Attachments.!!!
10. No Official Dating.!!!
11. No Romantic Interludes.!!!
12. No Sharing Each Others Lives.!!!
13. Last but not least this “Arrangement” can “STOP” at any time with or without prior warning.!!!
So “Buyer Beware” and exercise “CAUTION” due to the fact that there are only “Warnings” and
no “Guarantees” as to the “Emotional Ware and Tear” involved with this particular arrangement
involving two “Consenting Adults”.!!!
Think before you leap and always keep smiling. Taurus.
I just found out how to share these forums on Face Book.
How “COOL” is that.???
Cheers and keep smiling. Taurus.