How to get over a Taurus
December 14, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
Grieving takes time. You can start by integrating the qualities you most appreciated about your Taurus man into your daily routine. The end of a relationship can introduce an emotional hole into your life, and it is best to fill it with activities that nurture your spirit. A Taurus guy is not the same as the archetype of “Taurus,” undiluted by other astrological factors. He is a complex individual with many zodiac signs expressing his different needs. Nonetheless, you were probably attracted to his sensual, grounded nature. How can you introject, or “take in,” those qualities?
I would advise against Taurean pursuits like shopping and eating chocolate to get over your Taurus man. They might feel good for a few minutes, but they are not spiritually fulfilling. (OK, maybe if it’s really good chocolate.) Instead, go to an art museum and lose yourself in shapes, colors and textures. Taurus is ruled by Venus, goddess of beauty. Can you find Beauty in your surroundings? Venus also loves sensual pleasure — take an aromatherapy bath and scrub yourself with sea salt; go to the park and lean against a tree, letting its rootedness support you as you wallow in your sorrows. Mother Earth can absorb your sadness. She has endured much more loss than you, and She still perseveres, like any good Taurus would.
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Taurus men hate to leave unless they have been cheated on and make it hard get over them. they will give you a break but show up the next day..with food and a smile. Do whatever makes you happy and do something that can keep your mind off the taurus..relax and enjoy you.
Unfortunately, after all this time, I really never did…and I don’t think I ever truly will. But this article has some good suggestions!
(BTW, in case any of you are wondering, I’m a Virgo.)
Unfortunately, after all this time, I really never did…and I don’t think I ever truly will. But this article has some good suggestions!
(BTW, in case any of you are wondering, I’m a Virgo.)
Im still trying to get over my Taurus man
. He doesnt make it easier either by still calling and wanting to be “friends”. It makes me still love him if not even more because i know how strong the love was that we had. And I dont know if I can ever get it back. 
What should I do?
I too am recovering from the painful breakup of a Taurus. The second love of my life. Here’s the thing…. I think any man, when you fall in love with him, takes time to recover from. The best thing to do is review the goals you have in life, descide what your next step is right away, and MAKE IT HAPPEN! Life is too short to mope around over any MAN!
It’s not about the MAN! It’s about your self-love, and self-respect.
Take a hint from Sex and The City… Noone should make everything all about the men. Use your siren call ladies!
Much love!
Taurus woman here. From my perspective we Taurus’ hate breakups. I’ve often wondered if it’s because of our stubbornness or laziness in not wanting to find another mate. I think it’s more-so our emotional/stubbornness that makes this so.
If we leave you, it’s because you’ve either bored us to tears, aggravated us enough, or even possibly betrayed us. Usually in this case, there is no going back to a relationship. Once I am done with someone — it’s for good. I don’t mind being civil and friends I actually encourage it. But if I’ve ended it and you try to get back with me — you’re wasting your time. We’re extremely stubborn by nature. Don’t expect a second try.
If you leave us, we don’t take rejection well at all because we almost always typically get who and what we want. So you might see a little crazy side of us where we try to persuade you to stay. If we were honestly attracted or ‘in love’ with you — we’re pretty persistent in getting you back. We’re not stupid, so don’t think you can walk all over us. We can usually tell when someone is taking advantage of our persistence. If you just want someone to pine over you to make yourself feel better we’ll catch on and shove you out the door like you were old news. When you break up with us, cut it off sharp and give us TONS of room. Otherwise we’ll be either knocking on your door on occasion, or just get resentful.
@ sadlibra
“Im still trying to get over my Taurus man
. He doesnt make it easier either by still calling and wanting to be “friends”. It makes me still love him if not even more because i know how strong the love was that we had. And I dont know if I can ever get it back. 
What should I do?”
He obviously still cares about you — when we love, we tend to love for a long time if not forever. But that love is dynamic and changeable so it may not be in the same way as it was before. Depending on why you broke up will be the determining factor if anything can be done or not. Probably not though if he broke up with you — but I’m a female opinion not a male, so take what I say with a grain of salt.
I’m a Taurus woman myself. Break ups are, literally, the last straw. We do everything in our power to make it work, and when we stop being so stubborn and realize it just won’t; we let go.
If we’re truly in love with you, nothing in this world will ever compare to the way we feel for you. No one will ever come close to loving you in the way we did, and we’ll never meet another person who we’ll give our all to the way we gave it to you.
i was cheated on a taurus w/ a leo…
i thought the best way to get over that was to stay inside a long time and grieve but i think after reading this article i can step out now
im like so over taurus’s period i dont have time for games and they send to many mixed signals 4 me i dont have time for that s*** and im wondering what i did? i dont know ? at first it waqs i love u and would do any thing for me now it’s alll fun and games now im with someone else and when the taurus see’s me he speak’s like were still together i dont get that! help me
Hi girls…
The basic truth with Taurus is that they are really comparable to a bull in a field!! Think earthy, animal behaviour. Things seem complicated with them, but in many ways are not very.
Try and gain some consolation in knowing that it is in their nature to seek comfort & security; shelter from the rain. When something penetrates beneath that tough hide, it takes a life-time to heal. Their instinct is to eat, drink, copulate, exercise in natural surroundings and sleep. They are looking out for number one. YOUR hurt is exterior to all of this. If you wander into their field and are attracted…that is an aside. For them the priority is to have fun, comfort & protect themselves from harm, which may translate into the harmful influence of ‘women’, who they may perceive as mad/hysterical drama queens (though their behaviour drove you to it!)
This is why it is so important not to think in such human ‘relationship’ terms with them. Can you see girls how this means what you do with your life is seperate to what is going on with them…so if you have a lack in your life, or are addicted to the ways of a bull; while you analyse and suffer, the bull may not be able to help in the way you hope. They have to look out for themselves!
If you seek comfort and reassurance from the bull and there is none to be had from this beast, it’s because he is occupied with what is in his best interests. That is the agenda. They may get back to you just in case they made an error and find you would have been more suited to their needs after all.(better safe than sorry…)
Yes you’ve have fallen for a piece of livestock!! that requires kid-gloves treatment if you are not to upset it..there, there… careful though, if you make a wrong move, you could be trampled. So the choices you have if your bull is a handful are to stay in the field and tend to his needs as a lover or friend/ admire and pine for them from edge of field but don’t get to close/ or alternatively, run and escape with your life.
Recover by focussing on YOU if your bull has imprisoned you & you need to escape this cycle. They will do what THEY will do. It’s in their nature. It’s in no way your fault. The difficulty comes I think in finding something to fill that gap…that’s the challenge. Chin up!! Life really is short.
DAMN LULU THAT IS THE TRUTH…………….IN MY OPINION ANYWAY………GREAT ANALYSIS…..
Yeah well I was recently dating a taurus male (I’m a Virgo). Everything was giong great but I had a gut feeling he was stilll talking to his ex. He said, “not really” That means yes in my opinion. So I ask him online what “not really” means…and he sends back a LOOONG paragraph about how he only saw her once but he can’t be with me because he’s not ready for a girl as good as I am to him…and that he’s the crazy one and not me…and goes on about how spectacular I am and could do better than him. If that doesn’t sound like he’s guilty of doing something with his ex then I don’t know what it.
Therefor, those who say all Taurus’s are reliable and faitful I believe is a lie.
Thanks LULU I needed that. I just hate that I work with him which means I have to see him everyday. It makes it tougher to get over him. Any tips for getting over your coworker??
Hi guys, i really would love soom help, as im in this crazy situation,
with a bull and its driving me mad!! Im an aries woman and i dated this bull 5 years ago but we broke up, and then a few years later i had two kids with another man then he left us, but somehow the bull came back into my life (and soon enough he was back in my bed, not that im complaning)i started asking questions, asking him if he still loved me and if he wanted a relationship but he told me that he couldt be that guy anymore, so we stoped talking for ages. But now he is back again and back in my bed and it feels great to hav him around, but is it just because he likes the sex or dose he love me? or am i just reading it all wrong? And if i do lose him how should i deal with it?
i really would be greatfull for some ideas if anyone has any?? thanks xx
bean1986
may be if u keep him out of bed, u will know what his “true” intentions are. He told u he cannot be that guy anymore who loved u or wants to have a relationship with u. I would take a hint from that. Most of the times a Taurus man will not lie about how he feels about u, unless its about him getting in the bed with u.
oh and sorry , i dont know how to tell u to deal with getting over him. My taurus is stuck to me like glue. he does nothing to upset me ever!! Even though i have made it VERY CLEAR that unless i get out of my present relationship i will NEVER kiss him or have sex with him… I havent thought of getting rid of him yet cuz he follows my rules and my life is too busy right now with my present relationship to think of ideas to get rid of my taurus…besides hes a really good friend. May be u too can get ur taurus out of bed and just be friends with him…? i dont know…im not experienced to talk about how to push a taurus away
i wish u luck
Thank you for your help, i will try and take it on although its really hard as we have a baby together and i always see him, so i asked him to write me a letter to explane he’s feelings for me as i was getting really wound up by it all and he wrote that he wasnt sure himself how to feel about it, which made me think it was more than just sex if he was thinking about it? and he allso put he really likes seeing me again and that he has forgotten many things in his life but he dosent know how i could think he would ever forget about us and what it meant to him and that i was his first love and he still thinks about us and he signed it with love
how am i suppose to read that dose it me anything do you think?
I may well just be reading to much into it and like you said keeping him as a friend might just have to do atleast i will still have him in my life some how