How to get over a Taurus

TaurusGrieving takes time. You can start by integrating the qualities you most appreciated about your Taurus man into your daily routine. The end of a relationship can introduce an emotional hole into your life, and it is best to fill it with activities that nurture your spirit. A Taurus guy is not the same as the archetype of “Taurus,” undiluted by other astrological factors. He is a complex individual with many zodiac signs expressing his different needs. Nonetheless, you were probably attracted to his sensual, grounded nature. How can you introject, or “take in,” those qualities?

I would advise against Taurean pursuits like shopping and eating chocolate to get over your Taurus man. They might feel good for a few minutes, but they are not spiritually fulfilling. (OK, maybe if it’s really good chocolate.) Instead, go to an art museum and lose yourself in shapes, colors and textures. Taurus is ruled by Venus, goddess of beauty. Can you find Beauty in your surroundings? Venus also loves sensual pleasure — take an aromatherapy bath and scrub yourself with sea salt; go to the park and lean against a tree, letting its rootedness support you as you wallow in your sorrows. Mother Earth can absorb your sadness. She has endured much more loss than you, and She still perseveres, like any good Taurus would.

Comment below: How have you gotten over a Taurus?

About Jeffrey Kishner

Jeffrey Kishner is founder and publisher of Sasstrology. He is a licensed mental health counselor and has been doing astrological counseling since 2001. Jeffrey has been published in print magazines including The Mountain Astrologer and Dell Horoscope, and has written online for sites including AOL, Tarot.com and StarIQ. Jeffrey has also been heavily involved in the astrology blogger community. Read his personal blog at JeffreyKishner.com.

Comments

  1. Cinnamon swirl says:

    Hi all, here’s a question……..

    I broke up with my taurus husband in december 2011. He’d been acting strange and eventually moved out to find himself. It came out that he had been seeing someone else. I have never been so devastated and have a bit of a breakdown. I came back to live with my family accross the sea after going to court for custody of our child. He really changed in this period and was nasty cold hearted sneaky and manipulative. We spent the last year hardly speaking etc. He has broken up with this other girl for a while now. I have been dating someone else but “he’s not my husband” if you know what i mean. For the first time in a year and a half i had a massive phone conversation with my ex, it was lovely, just like old times, we were lauging and joking and saying remember when we used to kind of things. He told me he misses me and that i was the best person he was ever in a relationship with. I have moved on and become a strong independant woman i have gone back to the girl he met and have lost all of my selfishness. I find that i yearn for him and want him back in our lives. I have forgiven him and want to move on with him and not look back. I want to ask him to think about coming back. We’ve been separated for a year and a half now, he said he would file for divorce but he never did…..what does everyone think. I’ve never been on a forum before and i’m kind of feeling desparate.

  2. Hi Cinnamon Swirl

    I happen to be a big advocate of the saying “YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITH THE DEVIL YOU
    KNOW THEN THE DEVIL YOU DON’T”.!!!

    You should never feel desperate and always have faith that things will work out in the long run
    and trust in yourself and your abilities as a person and a human being whom is happy within
    yourself, optimistic, confident and very capable to do whatever is in your power to make your
    life a success with or without a Man by your side.

    Anyway my point is that your husband knows a lot more about you now that he has had the
    opportunity to be with someone else and he discovered that she couldn’t live up to his expec-
    tations when he compared her to you and what you had and shared together. The only thing
    they probably had in common was the “SEX” and Male Taureans tend to go for that sort of
    thing because it is in their nature although that does not mean that it’s the real deal since to
    them it’s just the act of “SEX” and nothing more since their true feelings belong to the person
    they “REALLY LOVE AND VALUE”.!!!

    You have all the advantages and the upper hand my Girl so just let him come back and the
    sky is the limit where you are now concerned because he has learned his lesson and I seriously
    doubt if he will pull that stunt again because you will make sure that this is his last chance
    where his “FEDELITY and PRIORITIES” lie if he knows what is good for him and he wants
    to keep you.

    Good luck with everything and always keep smiling. Taurus

  3. Cinnamon swirl says:

    Thank you for your comment. I guess i’m scared of ending up with injured pride again. I keep telling myself it was only one phone call and not to over analyse. We said a lot if horrible things during our break up, him more than me and he literally turned into a monster. Noone could believe how much he changed, but the whole time he was changed he was with the other person. The fact that we went to court for custody of our daughter and i moved to another country is probably another factor. Talking to him on the phone was like talking to my old soul mate, he had changed back to the guy i knew and loved. I know i love him, everything just rushed back for me but i dont know if i over analysed the conversation or not. I dont even know how to broach the subject with him. For all i know i probably never cross his mind from one minute to the next.

  4. Hi Cinnamon Swirl

    I am sure you cross his mind a lot and being the Mother of his child that is an added bonus
    which is not only in your favour but something only the two of you share in your love for your
    daughter and Taureans will go to the ends of the earth for their children and there is nothing
    they will not do where their welfare is concerned. So you should both try to work things out
    not only for you but for your child whom needs both her parents “LOVE and PROTECTION”.

    Don’t dwell on the past and let sleeping dogs lie for he knows he did the wrong thing by you
    and probably doesn’t know how to go about getting back into your good graces again and
    returning back without some assistance from you which you need to point out that all is now
    forgiven and you have moved on from whatever happened in the past when he lost his way
    but he has regained his prior self which was the person you were and are still in love with.

    Start by talking and taking one step at a time and when it is time for him to visit or see your
    daughter use that time to reconnect as a family and as the two people whom still love and
    care about each other regardless of what transpired which has only served to make your
    relationship even stronger then before. These things happen for a reason but you must learn
    from them and keep moving forward toward the future which you make together and continue
    to grow as people and as Man and Wife who have overcome their difficulties regardless of
    what happened in the past.

    If there is anything else let me know and keep the faith O.K. Taurus.

  5. I can’t wait to get over this taurus guy!!! What a ride I’ve been on. I have to remind myself to never look in the direction of another taurus man EVER!!!! I’m sure they are great catches but geez the journey is a bit too exhausting for me.

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