How to get a Leo man
December 13, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
Every man wants to be listened to. Granted, it can be easy to tune out an Aquarian talking about SQL Server or a Sagittarian discussing foreign relations, but a Leo man is likely to at least keep you engaged. The consummate performer, Leo’s warm and outgoing style puts you at ease, so all you have to do is dilate your pupils, slightly drop your lower lip, and gaze admiringly at him while he does his schtick.
The Leo man will get along with any woman who’s fiery, enthusiastic, sociable and chatty. However, what he wants most is an audience. Throw in a little Aquarian detachment while you observe him, and he’ll be like a circus lion standing on his hind legs to get a rise out of you.
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Thank you for that beautiful image, Anonymous.
well if were so stupid then what were you doing on this page in first place? believe what you whant but if others wanna believe in zodiac signs then thats their buisness not yours.
Yeah!
I am a female capricorn 24 and just bumped into a male leo 26 , and i feel like i m like him a bit too much, he is outgoing, charming , goodlooking and yes alwys in teh limelight,i am a very laughing funny talktive and chattery kind of a capricorn as i ws born on the 15th jan so closer to aquarians…but i dont know hwo to impress this lion i m falling in love with! he laughs n talks 2 me n gives me teh signs but then i get confused?as if thts just his way of behaving or does he really want something in return? i do want him badly though, i feel as if my insticnts tell me that he is the rite one? although in general they say capri n leo r nt teh perfect match?so plz helppp meeeee
@ Anonymous 5:16
you said:
“i am a very laughing funny talktive and chattery kind of a capricorn as i ws born on the 15th jan so closer to aquarians…but i dont know hwo to impress this lion i m falling in love with!”
I am a Jan 15 Cappy too!! ;P I have my Moon, Venus and Mars In Aqua too, so yes I am a very goofy talkbox as well!!
I love love love leos!! I have had success with getting in with them, just be yourself and give them tons of affection and they will return the favor!!
Good luck…just be yourself…they will love you!!
awwwwwww thanx angelineelise..
tht makes me feel better…
n yes u r rite
we the capri women love lionsss
lolzzzz
well so far things r moving forward ,, very slowly though….
so lets seeee
wht happens;)
I am a Gemini woman that likes a Leo man. We hit it off GREAT at first and now he has gone to the silent part.
It drives me crazy so I have stopped talking to him. How long do they hold out?
I am a gemini woman in love with leo man. It was all great in the beginning but I thought that he was not giving me much attention, i needed more. So I got angry and said very mean things to him (hurt his dignity, pride, respect). But now I want him back. He did not say that he is breaking up with me but he said that he needs some time to think it and figure if it’s salvageable. Do you think he will come back to me? What can I do to get him back?
i m a capricornian woman, the leo that i fell for gave me an enormous amount of attention at first….and really felt like something was there and it would work…..but i was trying to take it slow and easy though i made it obvious that i like him very much indeed….buttt somewhere in between i feel like he stepped back for some unknown reason..! and i dont knw y? but i do know leos hav an enormous amount of pride….and maybe at times i ignored him not because i wanted to but i guess capricornian women are a bit slow and love to take their time to get things to that level…whereas leos are mayb too steadfast!….so now i m facing this problem!i work with him and sit rite across his desk! so i see him everyday! for 8 hours of a day and we still talk, but its not the same anymore! so i want to know what am i suppose to do to get him back?? help meeeee plzzzzzz
hey I’m an Aries girl and I’m totally crazy in love with this Leo guy. he goes to my church and we walked in the wedding together. he totally confuse me. we were flirting and i looked amazingly gorgeous and he kissed my hands for mad long and stared into my eyes for a long time. and his parents likes me. Every time I see his parents they look at me like they want to tell me something. But my bro who was hanging out with him he was another groomsmen and he told me that he was texting his ex and he wanted to get back with her. which made me completely depressed. because at the reception we talked and we end up dancing with each other i felt like Cinderella and we dance we were so close and his lips were kissing my neck. while the song was ending we almost kissed and something held him back and he just looked at my chest. i don’t know if it was because my parents and his parents were there. Were still young(both 16 years old) so the song end and we hold hands for long time and he kept staring with a big smile and we had to split cause we were sitting in different tables. he let go of my hands so dramatically. I fell in love with him.I was like across the room and he kept staring I think he was staring at me i guess. My sister said he couldn’t stop staring but i did see him texting and then he turned back to the staring part. But I don’t want a guy who’s crazy in love with me and his ex. He has to pick. It is true about Leo there are romantic, attractive, center of attention, and he was really entertaining me. But he can get a little mad i mean every time he sees me with a guy like my guy friends he gets so mad. Somehow i feel like hes not faithful not even to himself. I need help. Does he really have feelings for me? I mean he flirted with me, he couldn’t keep his eyes off of me, and he always tried to get near me and try to make me laugh.I was so nervous like butterflies in my stomach and when he stares i can hardly breathe I’m telling you hes gorgeous, he looks like Uhh…When we first saw each other when i came in the church before the wedding started and i had a big crush on him for a while and i was like hes so gonna ignore me but it was like this firecracker lights in his eyes. and his eyes dilate and his mouth opened and he stared for a long time. what do that mean? I’ll do anything to be with him seriously but something is like I don’t want to get into him and hi ex. i have this beautiful picture we took together in the wedding and i lot of people thought it was cute and they think we make the most beautiful couple. How can he see that?
i m a capricornian woman, the leo that i fell for gave me an enormous amount of attention at first….and really felt like something was there and it would work…..but i was trying to take it slow and easy though i made it obvious that i like him very much indeed….buttt somewhere in between i feel like he stepped back for some unknown reason..! and i dont knw y? but i do know leos hav an enormous amount of pride….and maybe at times i ignored him not because i wanted to but i guess capricornian women are a bit slow and love to take their time to get things to that level…whereas leos are mayb too steadfast!….so now i m facing this problem!i work with him and sit rite across his desk! so i see him everyday! for 8 hours of a day and we still talk, but its not the same anymore! so i want to know what am i suppose to do to get him back?? help meeeee plzzzzzz
anyoneeee againn??????
To the Aries girl with Leo crush: I so feel you, it;s as if I’m hearing myself talk. The thing with Leo’s is that yes, they like to be adored but they also want to chase a little. Too much adoration makes them 1. less respect you 2. want to chase another prey.
I had to deal with a leo’s ex but leo’s are pretty upfront. if they want to be with the ex he’ll tell you.
Hope that this helps/
Ps. I’m involved with a TAURUS now lol
I’m a Sag female with Virgo rising, was dating a Leo seriously for 3 years and finally left him because his overbearing and opinionated nature turned me off him sexually as well.
It probably didn’t help that he did everything in the nude as well. I mean EVERYTHING – from working on his laptop at home, to cooking (scary splash time), to working out, sleeping, bending over to put on a dvd. Every-damn-thing.
He also felt the need to share the size, frequency, texture and colour of his bowel movements which made me – with Virgo rising – gag, quite frequently.
So sure, Leo’s may know how to wine and dine you but they cannot take any kind of competition and aren’t above bearing their claws and ripping you to pieces when they feel threatened (which they often do).
Personally I find that a Leo’s love for dramatic shows of sadness or ‘Woe-is-me-me-me’ (ME being the operative word here) kind of chaps my ass and I’ve moved on to a complex-free Sag male.
My ex-Leo is marrying a Gemini soon I hear. I wish them well and I hope she kicks his pompous behind frequently.
I am a Scorpio woman (Pisces ascendant). The first time I saw this man, the attraction was insane. I didn’t see him again for a month, but I thought about him intensely. Upon finally getting him to ask for my number, I found out that he is a Leo. The fireworks between us are indescribable! I have seriously never had such intensity from a man in my life. My children’s father, a Scorpio/ Scorpio ascendant (yes, feel free to gasp at the horror) came close, but not in a good way… This man makes me feel like a true woman. His passion makes my head spin, and we’ve yet to be intimate. He lights me up with his eyes, and under their gaze I feel like the most beautiful creature. He was very quick to label me “his”, and I’ve never been so happy to be “possessed”. Being a very sexual person myself, it is heavenly to meet my match. I just don’t know how long I will be able to resist…to be a good girl, to ensure this becomes more than just sex. I look forward to stroking his ego, like I never thought I would with a man, because his own compliments flow like water. Is it fair of me to say this feels like the passion I’ve only dreamt of having?
sounds like a good thing. a mature leo will freely give and receive, the more compliments and stroking he gets the more he will be generous and warm
what about a leo/leo compatibility? i saw you had entries about compatibility between leo male and every other zodiac sign but what about with another leo female? or maybe did i just not look hard enough?
I’m not methodical about writing compatibility posts. Looking at the Leo page, it does not look like I’ve address every other combination with Leo. Leo-Leo would be like a solar system with two suns…
are leo men big flirts? heres a leo man whom i know and he seems to be dating every girl in town lol he is good looking and a true arrogant leo…he knew me fr a while and we started well then it died out fr a while but then all of a sudden things heated and we ended up having sex and all….and since then theres been a gap in communication….ds tht show tht he is kind of not interested or is it tht he wants me to make the next move?wht is the leo man like when it cmes down to taking it to the next level?
[Taurus]
I always crush on leos, and Im talking big time. Sadly they never go for me because im not exactly outgoing and not exactly going to change for the love of a man.
I surprisingly dispise my Leo mom. Mostly because shes exactly what i want to be, charming, funny, completely wanted without trying. But of course that doesnt happen.. I have those same qualities, except they are completely reserved for people i feel particularly close too… Maybe i should just stick my virgos and capricorns. [life partner material in my case.] and not leos [not?]
I am a leo woman, and I just started “hanging out” with a leo guy. We’ve known each other for years and years, but never were together in that way. Just looking for suggestions, I’m a pretty typical Leo so it’s actually kind of helpful to know exactly what I’m dealing with. But any thoughts would be great. I’ve also always dated fire signs, how different are the three?
I am Taurus and I am totally in love with a Leo man whom I give attention to everyday, but I hardly get any in return. He tells me that he loves me and that he is addicted to my love. He can make me feel so good sometimes, but most of the time in between our meetings there is just nothing going on between us other than me stroking his mane and I feel so empty. His love drives me Crazy! I love this man so much! I am loyal to him and will not see anyone else either. In my heart he is my soulmate.
Hi, I am a Taurus woman that is in love with a leo. When we first started talking, we were like water, we just had to have each other. We spent hours on the phone daile, when we weren’t talking, we would be texting, he was the sweetest, I woke up to a sweet text message every morning and he always kept a smile on my face. I’ve been hurt before so I have a big trust issue. He and I talked about the trust issue already and he made it clear that if I’m the one he’s dealing with then I’m the one. He’s a dj, very handsome but none of that matters to me. His personality swept me off my feet. I fell in love with him within the first week. There are alot of females that really likes him and I don’t know whether to trust or not. about six weeks ago everything just stopped. I would text him and he would not text back, I would call and he wouldn’t pick up or return my calls. I’m very outspoken so I told him exactly how I feel about him in a text which he never replied to. For the past two weeks, we’ve texting each other just asking how each other was doing and that’s it. I went out on friday night and his best friend was there. I danced with him for like a minute. On saturday, just out of nowhere I got a text from him asking “isn’t life funny” I am so confused, I am in love with this man, he won’t talk to me, he left me in the dark, I don’t know what’s going on and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to move on cause I think there’s still hope or maybe I’m just clinging on to nothing. I don’t know. I really miss him though and I want him back. I just wish we could start over.
I like your advice but im a leo too its hard to both share the spotlight were not dating yet i realy like him and i have a huge crush on him i hope we could just do a duet or at least take turns in the lime light
Well… this is an interesting post.
I’m a sun leo woman with a scorpio moon. My fiance (known for a year and a half) is a sun leo with a gemini moon. We don’t talk about anything but ourselves and our relationship, which was fine, for the most part but then I met this guy, also a leo. He was exactly the opposite. Oh, he talked about himself, of course I’d expect it. But he didn’t talk about himself so much as he did politics, and biology, and philosophy and psychoanalytical theory… And when we talk we talk for hours and hours, about everything my fiance has no interest in and never wants to talk about. Its amazing. And he’s decently attractive, in a much different way than my fiance (Who is perfect in so many ways: He’s loyal, unconditionally loving, genuinely empathetic about everything, listens to whatever I say, calls me all the time, can’t stand being away from me for more than three days… The ideal man.) But Kyle, the other guy… I’m in love with his mind. And I feel terribly guilty… as if I were cheating on my fiance… because really I am intellectually. And I suppose if Kyle were gay, unattractive, and didn’t find me attractive (but in that way where I can never be entirely sure because even though he says 10 things to suggest it, he’ll say one thing that’ll take it back) I wouldn’t feel as guilty. But I do. And the worst part is it’s made me so distant from my fiance because I try to talk to him about all of these things and he remains completely uninterested… not really unwilling to listen, just doesn’t have anything to say. Which for a highly interactive person like me is horrible. So I’m not really sure what to do. I don’t want to stop talking to Kyle… but I don’t want to keep pushing him (through no fault of his own) between my fiance and I either.
I suppose all I can solidly conclude is that it could be worse… I could have found a scorpio (been there, done that, never doin’ it again).
Any suggestions, thoughts, comments, condemnations, etc.?
Hello there! I usually don’t rely completely on the zodiac, but I feel like ALL Leo men are exactly the same. I know a leo who is actually a childhood friend of mine. Last year, he started calling me a lot and finally asked me “what I thought about ‘us’ being together”? I was shocked, amazed and astonished at his directness. I almost didn’t know how to respond. I knew I had this thing for him..but I didn’t know how to articulate it, because he had caught me by surprise. So I continued to flirt with him (this was on the phone only, since we have both been in different countries at all times, for work/study reasons)and he continued to get even more enticed by me. I enjoyed the attention a lot. The time when he had called me to tell me that he liked me formally he had also said- “Am not comfortable with all the guys around you”. That was what caught his attention in the first place, the fact that there were other people chasing me and then I also travel a lot being an independent woman and that really impressed him. We both went home for winter break and kind of hung out and I would say “romanced” each other. He was very touchy if I spoke to or danced with another man, which I thought was okay since I am not committed to him. Everyone is right- these men are attention grabbers, and even if at times you tend to get more attention than them, they either completely stop talking to you or act as if the world has fallen apart. A couple of times, things like this happened, but then I was the one who apologized and then he made me feel foolish by saying that- “I just didn’t expect that out of you; don’t be sorry if you thought that it was okay”. After that he calmed down a little. It was our last week together and things were a little wierd, though he still held my hand from time-to-time. Mind you, the sexual energies between us were very strong, even though we didn’t even kiss- but just dancing with our faces close together was enough to make crazy sparks fly. We said decent goodbyes, though they weren’t very romantic. After that we messaged each other a couple of times and it was kinda cute. I got the vibe that it was my turn to do the chasing. I called him once, as a courtesy call and he sounded so-so to hear my voice or maybe that’s just in my mind. After that we haven’t talked or message for almost a month. Are the balls in my court? Does he expect me to chase him? Does anybody know how leos function in long-distance relationships?
As for you Rencherlisha, but based on my experience, I am sorry to inform you that you will have to resolve the conflicts regarding Kyle internally. Once a Leo man comes into a woman’s life, he has to be treated like the be-all and end-all by her. What I think is happening is that, he has refused to acknowledge this ’special friendhsip’ you have with Kyle. It is not worth his time; though it may do him some good to resolve this with you. It would help both of you – but he is way too proud to acknowledge that you are even remotely interested in anyone (even if it is in an intellectual, non-romantic way). Stop talking about Kyle in front of your man and start treating your husband-to-be like a lion, coz he is one. I would really like to know if this helps.
I am a Cancer with a rising sign of Leo and have had much more success dealing with Leo men then most it seems. One thing I can tell you off the bat is that you must be composed. Leo men typically do not respond well to emotional outbursts or overly dramatic behavior. Also, every site says to compliment them but be genuine. Lions have a good sense of smell and although they may not show it, they can tell when you are sincere. The best compliments and gifts for a leo man are those that show you’ve really taken the time to get to know them underneith the part they show to the world. They can be very sensative, thoughtful, genuine and yes, even vulnerable…..show them you see this in a way that will not set off their protective shields. Also, when you get into an arguement with a Leo man…don’t be so quick to take things personal. If something else is bothering them such as a job, what may actualy be happening is that you are the only safe place for them to vent to. As I said before, maintain composure, listen to what they say-not how they say it and eep in mind that it may have nothing to do with you at all. If you remain calm, they’ll think about things and eventually appologize or at least do something to show you they’re sorry. The most important thing is to not try and rush into a romance with a Leo. They take time to open up. If you try to rush them into something emotional too fast they tend to perceive it as neediness and it gives them the sense that they are not unique or special. These men tend to attract alot of women so make yourself the one that really gets to know them, that they have to chase and that they have chosen….key word being chosen. Once you get to know each other, they will admire your differances and will cherish your similarities. You will notice him saying things like “We are like_________” instead of “I” or “you.” Honestly, out of every sign in the zodiac, Leo men are the most likely I think to really cherish a union with another person. It may take years to realy get into their core but when you do, they will never leave your side and they will treat you like only other person in the world (other then themselves) that really matters.
How does a leo woman get along with a leo man?
I am Gemini woman, great connection with Leo man, been out once, plans again for later in the month. Any advice for getting his heart and not just the “sparks”?
Ok, so.. I have a question. I am a Sag who is talking to a Leo. We get along great. He has acknowledged the fact we have a massive amount of things in common. My best friend is a mutual friend of both of us, and actually set us up because she thought we’d be good together due to the fact we’re so similar. Anyways, we have hung out 2 times so I don’t consider us dating or anything, but we have a lot of fun together and there is always something to talk about. He is a very attractive guy, and has dated mostly attractive girls. I know he is attracted to me and respects my brains so I’m not worried about that. What I AM worried about is.. a few months ago I was in a very bad emotional state and kissed one of his fraternity bros.. accidentally! I was kind of typsy still, couldn’t find my best friend, and he lured me into his room to “watch a movie” MY ASS. The second I choose one he leans in and jams his tongue down my throat. I escaped as fast as I could, however the fact it happened about 2 months ago is still an issue. Oh and keep in mind he just got over this girl who slutted around town. She didn’t want him, he wanted her. MY POINT IS.. I am not sure how to proceed.. I know leos don’t like to be chased but like to be admired. I don’t want to come off as needy but I don’t want to be so independent that he doesn’t feel needed. Should I let him keep calling and pursuing me for a bit longer until I feel comfy enough to start contacting him or will that make him lose interest?
I feel exactly like the girl who wrote: “I am a Gemini woman that likes a Leo man. We hit it off GREAT at first and now he has gone to the silent part,,,!
It was me who broke with him.For him I was the girl of his life, the future mother of his kids, etc, etc… He became then very furious with me and said never ever I will be his girlfriend again. I know for some reasons he is now very melancholic and can´t forget me but still avoiding me… After one month without being in touch with him at all, I sent him a text for his birthday that he didn´t answer.
I know it sounds contradictory… yes, I was the one who split because I was very angry with him, even overwhelming, but at the same time because I never felt so strong for someone (it was very mutual feeling) I guess I never had so much trouble to forget a guy like I am having now.. That´s why I still think that we should give us another try but it seems his pride (what he recognized me indeed…) is stopping any possible to chance to communicate again. I haven´t suggested anything yet. He must think indeed I am not considering that at all.
Do you think that I am loosing my time (and nerves,,,)thinking on coming back with this leo rising taurus man? Are they that fixed that nothing can change their mind ?
i’m a pisces girl and i have this intense crush on a leo guy,,,
the guy is so handsome and very popular in our campus..
but unlike those other leos, he is a shy one and kind of quiet..
he sit next to me on our few subjects, i can really chat with him if i want,
but i feel so shy… though we talk whenever he starts the conversation…
what should i do and can u give me tips so that i can make him like me too?
I am a Scorpio girl with a Gemini rising. My Aries has a rising Leo. We’re not together but we’re best friends and we share an extremely intense connection and chemistry together. We’re very romantic when we kiss and hold each other and our minds think alike and we dance to the same drummer. We’ll talk for hours, dance, and have the most amazing sex but I would never want to be in a long-term relationship with this man because for 1) it would destroy our friendship because he’d get on my nerves so much I’d want to stranggle him and for 2) he’s impulsive and makes bad decisions, therefore, another reason he’s not stable and not worth me committing to. Our connection is simple though and we’re like two child souls when we’re together and he is a real friend in the sense he is there for me and is loving to my kids. The best advice I can give to a girl that’s starting to fall for a Leo is number one, don’t change yourself to make this Leo man fall in love with you. If you two have a chemistry or connection, then the chemistry will speak for itself and you two will probably be best friends. Leo men fall in love with their best pals or buddies because your best friend will love, adore and support you unconditonally. Also, a woman that is a Leo mans best friend is not jealous, demanding, emotionally unfulfilled and seeking fulfillment from this Leo, and is fun to be around (if you two are real friends). And if you’re not real friends, then don’t spend major time on minor people. I don’t put any demands on us because I am happy with him just being my friend and I am confident and live my life fully and happily. We don’t have to play catch-me-if-you-can games because the truth is, he never will catch me, and a part of him wants to figure out how to but also enjoys the cahse and the dash-excitment we share together.
I have a guy but he is in jail right now. He’s been locked up for almost 2 yrs, being the scorpio I am – I have been faithful up until I met my leo guy. When I fist seen him-I knew I wanted him-but at the same time I was trying to hold out for my guy. He was very quiet and I told a mutual friend I liked him and the mutual friend told me that he inquired about me as well so some how we got each others number and he called me once and I was still in between trying to stay faithful to my guy (he is a Libra)so I cut the consversation short and never called back. I like my leo and I was getting hot-no sex in a while- my leo was looking more and more good to me. We finally got together 3 months later through his initiation- we talked and laughed liked old friends, needless to say we did it on the 1st night the Jose Cuervo didnt help matters- it was great and the next day I gave him his space,but the 3rd day I initiated and he came back over we did it again. He has a girl friend and I have a man, we both know each other situation. Now I think I messed up with him when I made a mistake and called him his best friend name twice in front of the mutual friend who hooked us up. I apologized to him and explained to him that their name sound a like and I honestly dont like his friend and has NEVER asked about him I like him and that was a mistake, he said that it was cool and he understood no problem, but that night he was suppose to come to my house- needless to say he didnt. I was cool with that-so I decided to wait a few days and call him just to see if he would answer-he did but he couldnt really talk because of his girl friend, he said he would call me back later. Do you guys think I messed up with him and if so where? I’m sure he could really tell when we had sex I usually dont do that on a regular on the 1st night. With me I play this game of nothing really bothers me or the next few days after we had sex I acted as if nothing happened – I gave him his space is that the wrong approach for the Leo-male? The sex and company was good and I want to keep him until my guy comes home but I dont want to chase him/ Help me with me Leo mate
well im a sag. and the man im seeing is a leo. hes very outspoken and loves to be romantic and i dont know what it is but the way he looks at me drives me crazy…. honestly i think leos are great people…
Do leos insult you if they like you? Will they tell point out things about your body, face, etc and tell you? I cant figure out if he likes me, just wants to be mean to me, find me attractive, or is just a jerk? help!
I am a scorpio girl. I am very scorpio, i should say.
the only time i was really in love unconditionally was with a Leo guy, and it was magically crazy/dramatic/loving/hating/fighting but never occurred to me to cheat on him, although before i was never able to keep my interest straight.
relationship ended and ruined me. it was my fault, but i was just being a scorpio, nothing more. i got over him, but it took me 2 years. Now i am with a Cappie, and i love him, but i feel emotionally unhappy, because he is not like my Leo used to be, i was intensely unhappy with my Leo, but i was always Interested. I really loved him. But he broke my heart, when he fell out of love with me.
Scorpio women can be married and stay married to Leo’s, so, that’s a plus. Although everyone says that Cappie is best for Scorpio, but i think it’s Scorpio that is best for Cappie. Because Cappies fail to make me happy, but are always happy with me…
Now i met another guy, Leo, reminds me so much of my first Leo. I try my best to stay away, because I don’t want to be burned again.
Funny thing is that my Cappie is soooo good looking, even better looking than me, and the new Leo guy is nothing next to him, yet, i feel so comfortable talking to the not-so-sexy Leo.
So, looks cannot keep my interest forever, but hopefully, my Cappie will be worth the struggle that i am going trough to stay with him.
peace, K
Hello all
HELP!
Me – Pisces Woman, Him – Leo. Both early 30s.
We started out as friends, very intense friends, we discuss, talk about anything and everything, no topic is off limits and we don’t bother about being PC – least of all him.
We have known each other about 6 months (we have as yet not slept with each other) and he keeps stating that him and I, WILL have sex one day with each other but right now is not the right time.
He says ”mark my words, it will happen one day, probably when you least expect it!”.
He calls me ”freak monkey” because he said he reckons I’m quite adventerous in bed – I neither confirmed or denied, I just smile and keep quiet on that front.
I guess in a way, he is not a bullsh**er and has made his intensions clear???
I get the sense that in a bizarre way, he respects me too much and doesn’t want to use and abuse me?
Initially I did not see him as a potential sexual partner, despite his obvious good looks and very, very charming, intense manner.
He is affectionate, we hug and kiss (but more as good friends or brother and sister – weird I know!!!)…
There is another (casual) woman on the scene but I get the feeling that she is only there for his physical use?…whereas he may see me different and that is why he hasn’t ”pounced” on me?
But now…I’m starting to see him a different light! I want him to pounce! Or maybe I should, but in a subtle manner?
He makes comments about my figure, how nice a figure I have, but for some reason, it doesn’t come across as lewd or lurid. Is it him being very in tune with himself and his surroundings…trying to lull me into a false sense of security? I’m quite jaded and cynical at the moment due to previous experiences, so my guard is waaay up!
He has often told me that he feels he can talk to me like he can’t talk to anyone else because I listen, I’m honest but I will never judge him. And I feel and told him likewise.
Still…there is this sexual tension or ”feeling” tension between us when we meet up.
Any thoughts…should I go ahead and ”force” myself on him and stop this monkeying about business?
I actually geniunely like him as well, despite his flaws he has shown me, but hey….don’t we all have flaws!!!?
Thx peeps!
leo men are people dat tink bout demselves they are the ones that need to grow up and stop tinkn bout frens b mature and need to be responsible
Scarlett Fever-
I didn’t think Pisces had any pounce in them but if you do go for it. I am not a leo man, as you can tell by my “name” but as a leo I love it when the opposite sex shows an interest and goes for it. However, I think leo men are diff from leo women. Sounds like he is def interested, tho. Maybe instead of pouncing you should just try flirting harder and let him know you’re looking for “it” to happen!
Sounds exciting!
Ok, I have a question for Jeffrey here…
The Leo man Im dating seems to want to jump my bones everytime I see him (which im not complaining, it is great to know that he’s THAT attracted to me) but.. I want him to be a little more romantic rather than sexual. I have expressed this to him but havent heard anything as of yet. He says the physical expression (e.g. kissing. touching etc, no sex yet) he gives me is the way he expresses his love to me. Now mind you its been only a month and a week that we been dating but he calles me like 4 times a day, txts me like 100 times a day to see what Im doing… Again, no complaints there.
How do I make my point though that I want to connect with him in a higher level (meaning no sex for a while) without scaring him completely and make him run away to someone else?????
Pls Help, Jeffrey!!!!
Ariesgirl, I think one always runs the risk of losing someone when one sets boundaries. Some might assert, “If you say ‘no sex for while because I want to connect with you on a higher level’ and he splits, then maybe he’s not the kind of guy who you would have wanted.” A Leo can still be warming and generous without jumping your bones.
@ Leo Female
Hi
Thx for the pearls and thx for taking the time out to respond.
Saw him recently. He really does confound me!!!
He openly said he hasn’t had sex for months because he just doesn’t see the point of casual sex anymore. Although, there is this other woman that ”assists” in various ways, details of which I will not go into in a public forum!
LOL
As said saw him again recently, we communicate a lot but with pressure with jobs, etc, we don’t see each other often but when we do, I feel so good and somewhat initimidated by him! I literally look at him all wide eyed and I just want to lap up anything he has to say!
When I saw him recently, we had such an intense conversation, he literally cried, I mean SHED TEARS when he spoke about his family. He is very loyal to them and it pains him when there is cr*p going on with them.
I was shocked, he struck me as so manly, but like he said, he has feelings too and they get hurt.
Also, he recently heard from an ex that he was very much in love with but broke his heart. She seems to call him out of the blue whenever. I didn’t say it, but I get the feeling its a control thing she likes? I tried to be optimistic and say maybe she wants to get back together and he said absolutely not, there is no way that that is happening. She cut him too deep.
He said he sensed that there is something I want to tell him when we saw each other recently. I said yes, but I’m’ not like him, I don’t lay it out all like that. I like to keep the cards close to my chest. He hates subversity, I’m not trying to be all mysterious and secretive. He seemed to accept the fact that I’ll talk and open up when I feel the time is ready. He wanted to know that thing I had on my mind involved him directly. I ‘’stretched the truth” and said, well….perhaps indirectly.
Maybe I was wrong, maybe I should have told him the truth?
There is def some sort of sexual tension going on, or is it just me? He stated again when I saw him recently that he listened to his gut instinct when we first met, and his gut told him to not take advantage and use me. I find him very gentlemanly. Am I being naieve? He said we should take a trip together to this place he knows, the views are great, etc. I must admit, I was VERY surprised to hear him say that to me.
He has a lot of women in his life. But he says its just friends and its not like he has these sexual shenangins and adventures going on. I was quite shocked to hear he has been abstaining for so long, I thought Leo Men were quite sexual creatures?! I wouldn’t have an issue with woman friends, if I got a whiff of any funny business, I’d bloody walk! I wouldn’t stand for it!
When I saw him recently he stated he loved me, but I knew he meant in a friendship kinda way (I’m assuming, I didn’t question) and if I ever needed anything, he’s got my back, like I’ve got his.
Leo Female – I took your advice and flirted a little hard and stated I was just indulging myself in flirtation. My sms’s became a little more sexual, admiring him, how the previous night I thought about him in THAT way….and he told me he has definately picked up on my sms’s underlining sexual subtext and asked me if I’m now showing my true colours.
I joked and said, only pure white!
Leo men – despite what you read, maybe they are not all ”what you see is what you get”???!!!!
Sorry peeps, bloody long posting here! ha!
Phenix- i never thought capricorns were a good match sorry about the leo if i might ask what ended it?
How do I know when a leo really loves me? Is it plain and straightforward or do they have pride and not show their feelings to you.
When do they actually consider marriage?
To Al:
You know a leo is in love with you when they try to act like they really don’t care one way or the other…usually they will do this by giving attention to everyone but you unless you say something that they “must” correct…of course after they show you the error in your ways they look to continue a conversation with you. They will find some excuse to get your phone number, make it all business or school related, and will likewise find an excuse to call/text you, and then make sure to stear a conversation in a personal direction. They need to become friends with you before they can date you because they’re very insecure and they figure if you’re their friend for awhile first then there is a measure of security being granted in the relationship. The one exception to this is with Scorpio’s because they’re so intensely attracted to Scorpio’s they don’t know how to handle them at all, so they might just go straight for the angsty love/hate sex relationship.
Really though if you’re going to get involved with a leo and you want to keep him/her you better meet their friends and family fast and find a way to subtelly insert yourself into almost every aspect of their lives, because then they’ll find they just can’t imagine their lives without you. You’re gonna wanna check your closet though…Every leo who’s had a serious relationship had “one that got away”. You will always be competeing with this person, even if they havne’t spoken to them in years. The best thing to do is wait for them to start talking about this first serious love, then relate with a heart-break of your own because this will inspire thier jealousy and need to compete…just don’t make it sound like you’ll be going back to this “first love”. To boot, the leo will now feel much closer to you, unless you become insulting, then you’re in for a world of hurt. If you come across a leo that has never been in a serious relationship chances are he/she will be considering you as a marriage candidate in about a week. Leos are commitment and family oriented, they take themselves and everything they do seriously (although will often pretend not to, because showing you care allows people to use that against you and hurt your pride). Furthermore leos are romantic at heart and they love the idea of the “first and only true love” of fairy tales. For leos who have already found this, as I said, you will always be competing with the first love…For those who haven’t, you may become that first love.
Every leo man I’ve known either married his childhood best friend or his prom date (who was either his highschool girlfriend, or not long after prom became his girlfriend and stayed that way until they got married). Every leo woman I know has a first love, long serious and intense, something dramatic and horrible happens, they break up, and she manages to find him again 2, 3, 5, years later, after a bunch of “nobody” boyfriends, and they bounce back into it immediately and live happily ever after.
So, moral of the story…If you’re gonna date a leo look around in their closet, get to know their friends and family, become their best friend, never critisize, but never lose yourself…Just insert yourself into their world.
Also, touch their palms, run your fingers up and down their back, and in the middle of sex, scratch them hard all the way down their spine…this works especially well with the men. Run your hands through their hair, touch their face, make little gasping noises and never fail to compliment how nice thier ass is. In men exagerating the amazingness of the penis (sincerely though) works like a charm (don’t try this with female breast size though, Leo women are less self-dilusional and if they feel like your trying to mess with them, or lie to them, they become Ice Queens and you’ll get the silent treatement…if you push them too far you get the claws, in a bad way).