Maybe it’s just the beginning stages of my relationship with the Arian, but I actually feel quite happy with him. As I mentioned earlier, we may live in different states, but we talk on the phone almost every other day. We talk about all sorts of things…from what happened during our day, pop culture, ourselves (ex: likes and dislikes), our family and friends, and what we’d like to do and places to visit when we get together again (I like how our imaginations can get a little carried away; we’re thinking about going on a road trip when he’s back from his trip to Japan..I’ve already made plans to go to a music festival with him). It almost feels like I’m talking to a best friend rather than just a guy I like/romantic partner. We always seem to look forward and enjoy hearing from each other.

During the Valentine’s Day weekend, he sent me a dvd set of Family Guy’s Star Wars Spoof, and in return, I sent him a handwritten letter (We called each other when we got our gifts; he says that he keeps my note tacked on his bathroom mirror to read ^-^’ ). Even though he said that I didn’t need to, I’m considering on getting him a funny tee shirt about his favorite sport and/or a samurai sword umbrella when he’s leaving the country. Oh man, I’m probably getting a little off topic…

I believe that you’re right about the idea that every type of relationship needs to be worked out if the two parties want it to work. There’s a girl a few years younger than I whom didn’t get along with when we were children. We grew up together as my mom had to babysit her and she ended up being one my playmates (and in our teen years, shopping buddies, aha!), and now we see each other as sisters (I guess it helped that both of us grew up with brothers). I’ve dated a Cancer, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Virgo, but in spite of being attracted to them, the romance only lasted a short time. I suppose it was because I was inexperienced with the dating world then, (now I don’t mean sound hurtful or rude) but I was especially unhappy with the crab I once dated. I’m quite sure that he wanted it all to work out but we did not spend much time together (I guess it didn’t help that fact that we lived different lifestyles – he was in the military and I was in school ), and when we did, I was quite bored with his insecurities and stalemate conversations. I especially felt turned off when he kept trying to win me back (he even gave me a set of jewelry on my birthday…which we unfortunately share; maybe we’re just too alike, or not.). I suppose I was the other half not wanting to work it out.

On the topic of astrology. I guess I’ve, not always, but mostly been attracted to guys who were class clowns or were just out going in general (or were at least a bit more on the romantic side). The Arian far from a class clown, but I really enjoy his energetic and hard working nature (I think his moon is in Capricorn…it’s funny how we share half of the cardinal signs on an opposite spectrum). He’s definitely different from the guys I’ve been with, and I even feel a bit positive thinking about him. Perhaps it’s not so much that I’ve “conquered” this Arian, but I think he may have conquered me…from what I’ve read, Cancerians of late July tend to have a very small intimate circle of friends, and at the time we met, I wasn’t quite ready to enter in another boy/girlfriend relationship.

His friends all called me “the ONE” or “that devil bitch”. He almost had me back 15 years ago, but I …serious… had a seizure caused by the plane flight and it took 3 years to recover. And I was too chicken to re contact him.
HE found me last year.
25 years ago we was peas n carrots. But his background had him gunshy on marriage and terrified to have children to “mess up” whereas for me…
Marriage is more than just a piece of paper or moral issue. It is protection of the partnership from outside affect, both literal and legal.

He wants me to “come home”. Teenagers, 4 yr old, loser status of present, crazy X with OP, legal battles and all. LOL a rescuer complex? cept it only ever applied to me.

He is kinda stoic and earthy for an Aries. And my Leo moon and Sag Venus&Mars seems to influence me more than air or Grand water trine. I am a sporty, combative Libra.
Question… so should I trust in him? He has been so persistent. He is the most loyal and trustworthy friend I ever had and have. I could ALWAYS run to him. But always ran away. Until now…….
Is an Aries that has decided you are “IT” really that solid? Or am I an unfinished conquest that gets under his skin subtly?
We made memories for a lifetime that have colored EVERY other relation either ever had. He went for dopplegangers that disappointed and I went for total opposite nutbags. And now we ran all the way around and slammed into each other.
Brush off and move on? Or push over and kiss madly?

One risk is that Cancer may eventually become a little predictable for Aries, so this may get us to stray. But there’s also that solid Aries loyalty which will prevent us from doing so for a long while… not until we’ve REALLY tried to make Cancer understand that we’re getting restless and need the relationship to be more stimulating and exciting than it is. Against all the odds, I really think you and this Aries guy can work out together. Please keep me posted!