Capricorn seducing Cancer

December 27, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner  


Hey baby, stick with me and I’ll buy you a KitchenAid Artisan Series 5-Quart Mixer, as well as a Zojirushi Home Bakery Supreme Bread Machine.

I won’t be home while you prepare delicious meals for me, for I will be slaving away at the office in my efforts to become a partner at the firm before I’m 40. However, after you put the kids to sleep and set the table, I should be home around 9, just in time to share dinner with you before I go to bed, for I must get up at 4:30 to get to the gym before I catch up on my emails at the office.

You may not see much of me, but I will provide for you, and we can go skiing in Aspen with the kids after I get my promotion.

Comment below: Are you a Cancer? How have you been seduced by a Capricorn?



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49 Responses to “Capricorn seducing Cancer”
  1. Marly says:

    I’m a Leo with a Cancer rising and I just recently met a really hott Capricorn but he must have a lot of fire in his chart bc he was utterly warm and charming and he had the women eating out of his hand, I tell you. I liked him bc he locked eyes with me (very good way to pick up a Leo: Baby I only got eyes for you), he dazzled me with his smile and then he came straight up to me and introduced himself (direct). After ten minutes of talking, he invited me to tag along with him and some friends to a coffeeshop. He paid for the cab, of course, and he held the door open as I stepped off. He also impressed me bc he has an interesting job but he went the non-profit route (developing anti-pollution technologies for the developing world). It was only after he saw how I interacted with his friends that he asked for my number. I’m thinking he must have some Sag with all that Cap (idealistic, passionate, reliable). Nothing more has happened but DAMN he sure was a sexy, self-assured Capricorn. A good combo of restraint and chutzpah. I liked that. Will he call? I don’t know. But he sure had me purring, I tell you.

  2. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    Marly,

    It sounds like he also has a strong 11th house or some planets in Aquarius: “developing anti-pollution technologies for the developing world,” asking for your number only after seeing how you interacted with his friends.

    Meow!

  3. Marly says:

    Okay, so he did call and we had an amazing connection. Absolutely amazing, I could read his mind and feel what he was feeling more clearly than I ever have done with anyone before (and I’ve a Pisces Moon, mind you, with Cancer rising.) You were right, Jeffrey, he has Venus in Aquarius. He also has a Cancer Moon and Mars in Aries. I don’t know his rising sign but I’m betting it’s Sag; he is totally against our “capitalistic society”, not very typical for a Cappie. I know this sounds crazy but I think I’m in love. I want to talk to him again, but he’s out in LA and I’m in NY. *sigh* I’m trying to send him a telepathic message so that he will call, I don’t want to dampen his Mars in Aries, but with my Mars in Sag in the 5th, man, it’s hard to be passive! I’m gnashing my teeth so bad, I need a night guard. Anyway, that’s the update.

  4. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    I’m so happy to hear that you two connected! Hang in there, Sag Mars in 5!

  5. DD says:

    Haha, all these posts on Caps are great! I am a Capricorn myself. I write a little blog (http://realitymethod.wordpress.com) talking about men and women, but I am very interested in astrology.

    BIG question: as a Capricorn, the last 4 months of 2006 were *really* sucky for me. Any ideas on why?

    PS My birthday is December 30th so I’m def Sun in Capricorn, Moon in Cancer, Mercury and Venus Cap,…Mars in aqua, Jupiter / Uranus and Neptune in Saggitarius….

  6. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    DD,

    The last few months of 2006 may have been sucky for you for reasons that have nothing to do with being a Cap. It is beyond the scope of my blog comments section to analyze a chart — and I would need your exact birth date/time and location anyway to do it. I encourage readers to schedule a consultation if they want the full scoop on their charts.

  7. Anonymous says:

    I’m a Capricorn, and I am dying to be seduced by this HOTT Cancer. AHHH!

  8. proserpine says:

    Cap dying to be seduced by hot Cancer–he is already seducing you, LOL

  9. Rebeca says:

    I haven’te been seduced by a capricorn!!! That’s the problem… I don’t want to give him the impression that I’m easy but I just want him to ask me out allready!!!!!!!!!!!! We’ve had a work relationship for six years…. where he is my client… so… it is my duty to keep things professional… but how can i let him know i’m interested without seeming desperate? Should I just bide my time?

  10. Rebeca says:

    Well, I’m a cancer (aquarius moon/aquarius rising) waiting for this cap to freaking call me!!!! We’ve had a professional relationship for six years or so… he being my client… and the other day out of nowhere he kissed me!!!! Steam was coming out of my ears…. Thing is since then.. i’m trying to give him the impression that I’m a good girl and keep things as professional as possible.. .but all i want to do is jump his bones!!! so i sit here…waiting…patiently….. i’ve had a crush on him for the longest time…. think he has too… i’m moving in 2 months…. Wish he had an aries rising or something…..

  11. Eme Kah says:

    Rebeca: What kind of professional relationship? Bc in some instances, things could work out very badly for both of you and in others, it could be fine.

  12. Anonymous says:

    I’m a Cancer, with cancer moon. I dated a Capricorn a few times. Then he just backed off. Do all Capricorns go moody when they don’t get their own way?

  13. Shakti says:

    Wow, that really sums it up. I (a Cancer female) was pursued by a Capricorn male in this fashion.

    His moon’s in Cancer, so in that sense he was never up-front about his intentions, but he would still make these expensive, extravagant gestures that gave him away.

    He’s undoubtedly a sweet, decent guy – certainly not all about possessions, but strangely enough it was with possessions that he chose to express his feelings. Wealth and status don’t do it for me, since they’re both things I can obtain myself and therefore have no need to avidly seek in a partner. (I hope that didn’t sound conceited?)
    I really only have eyes for one man, and I’m just sorry to say it isn’t him.
    I hope he finds someone who can make him happy, because he deserves it.

  14. Anonymous says:

    I am a capricorn sun scorpio moon, pisces rising, and I am smitten by a cancer/cancer man. We went out on a date a week ago and he has emailed me twice, but no phone time. I think he is shy, (in pictures he is always loosely clenching his fist and that is a sign of shyness)I want more but have no idea how to work him out of his shell. Should I call him? With that “he’s just not that into you” book floating around, its a wonder cancer men get any gals at all. I really really like him as a person, is there anything I can do to make him step it up a notch?

  15. Anonymous says:

    I am a Cancer woman [Aries Moon, Virgo Rising] dating an absolutely adorable Capricorn man [with a Capricorn Moon]. I was sooo annoyed by him the first couple months because he was entirely TOO shy and TOO quiet. It was becoming too much work for me to get to know him. THEN we made love for the first time this past weekend {the sex was BEASTIE, by the way. VERY nice} and my Capricorn man is a DIFFERENT PERSON. I LOVE this “new guy”! He’s laughing, he’s TALKING, he’s sharing, he’s joking! I can EASILY see myself falling head first into him, and I will give him ROME if he keeps this up!

    But there’s one problem……. We have TWO STATES in between us, and I am deathly afriad it could take the life out of how WONDERFULLY things are developing.

    Someone help! I’m afraid that I will talk MYSELF out of this potentially fabulous thing with him because I don’t want HIM to get discouraged over the distance. And you know how WE CANCERS DO IT… We will RETREAT in a HEARTBEAT.

  16. angelineelise says:

    @anonymous 11:15…Caps are ruled by Saturn, which believes in hard work and that anything good has to be earned!!

    If he is really into you, he will not let a challenge dissuade him, it would rather excite him…give him something to work towards. Just make sure there are goals to see each other, do things together, and go farther in the relationship.

    Cap’s are a long term love interest!!

  17. Anonymous says:

    And you know what, Angel??? I believe in what you said whole-heartedly. This Cancerian is more than willing to work if my Capricorn prince is willing to do the same — AND BE CONSISTENT. Consistency is EASY for me. I don’t know him well enough, yet, to know if he is strong enough to be the same. I don’t want him to be all gong-ho about this thing, and then fold one day because he can’t handle the distance.

    I’ve already “jumped out the window” (as we say here) on this thing with him. I hope he’s bold enough to jump too!!! LOLOL

  18. Anonymous says:

    OMG, this Wall is driving me wild. It’s so fascinating how Astrology works.
    So I met my Cap. guy through an online Ad I posted back in late April & my guy replied exactly on May 3rd. So we exchanged emails, he was always very detailed in I guess trying to let me know all about himself & he was browsing through to connect w/ppl in LA b/c he was coming here. But he said when he saw my Ad, he just had to reply b/c I sounded and looked perfect.
    Anyway, we always exchange long emails but never talk long on the phone. But he always texted throughout the day and always said goodnight gorgeous. Then he finally got to L.A, we didn’t see 1 another for 3 wks and last wk exactly we met. Unfortunately I was on crutches from foot surgery and though I felt insecure, he charmed his way into making me say yes.
    So the 1st 2hrs were awkward meeting in person..we were on opposite ends of the couch at my place. Angelina’s Original Sin was on, so we watched while ate Sushi.
    Next thing you know we’re all over one another. (OMG!) It was so crazy. And I’m the exact Cancer who put guys through sh*t because I just don’t trust them and their motives. But with him and his sexy self…so0mething came over me.
    We ended up having sex that same day. I swear to everything I believe in it was the the best I’ve ever had, well, I’ve only had sex with a Cancer and a Scorpio before that. This Cap. just felt so perfect in everything. I never felt more sexually complete.

    After that we’ve only spoken on the phone twice…once for 23 mins and another (a record) hr and 19 mins. After that chat he actually texted, “I really enjoyed this convo”. I sent him a happy face in reply and said goodnight.

    So I’m not sure what we are b/c it was never really discussed, but I feel like there’s definitely a big connection especially sexually but I want to know if anything more.

    I’m a Cancer btw (July 7th, am 22 yrs old today) & he 28 yrs old Cap.

    He’s usually really busy dancing, and such and doing rehearsals for shows but he’s coming over Weds. and staying the night.

    I guess I’m just confused and want to know if it was the right move.
    And how do I know what my rising sign or his is? I just know the basics in Astrology.

    PLEASE HELP!

  19. cluelesscancer711 says:

    Hello everyone… I have been reading you blogs for a while now and always find them soooo interesting. I guess you can say that I am a typical Cancer(7/11/1982) and he is a Capricorn (1/20/1983). I have a bit of a dilemma and hope someone out there can put my “cancer mind” at ease! We have been “seeing” eachother for almost a month now. the reason I have that word in quotes is because I am honestly confused as to where we are as a couple or if we even are. He will ask questions like he is interegating me but at the same time he gives me this undescribable look like he is trying to see inside me or something, he compliments me when I have accomplished above and beyond at work but is also known to go a day or two without calling. The sex is out of this world but and we have a wonderful time together (we love to laugh) but I have been noticing that he does not express himself to me as much as I am used to. I can not tell if he really likes me for a potential “life-partner” or are we just “kickin’ it” A part of me wants to ask him but I’m to afraid that it may make things akward. I’m not trying to be married tommorrow or anything… I just want a little more clarity! The other part of me is trying to let things flow but I do not want to waste my time if does not want things to get to another level. He even made the comment to me that if I thought having sex with him would mess up what we have then we could stop because he do have great chemistry. How do I get him to trust me and feel more comfortable to let more of him come out? How do I find out where this is going without scarying him away? Hopefully someone out there can put my overreacting cancer mind at ease. I would love to hear the side of a cappy man. Peace and love! xo

  20. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    Do you work with him?

  21. angelineelise says:

    @cluelesscancer….

    Your dude was born 5 days after me, he may or may not be a Capricorn he was born on a cusp day.. there are definitely Aquarian forces at work here though, Caps can be distant and aloof but usually aren’t afraid to define things, so if your guys a Cap, I would say he probably has a Venus Aquarius like me (my Venus is early in it he probably does have that whether he has a Cap Sun or Aqua Sun).

    Here’s the thing. You have to talk to him… Do you guys have formal “dates” or just casual meetings and sex? I would ask him matter of factly and just let him know that you really would like to pull back a little on the relationship if it’s not moving forward. Tell him you like him, but let him know you are in control of yourself and plan to stay that way, tell him you don’t want to be confused. (like I said the word here is controlled..if you come off as very controlled..it won’t spook him)

    See what he does…if he says that he wants to be bf/gf great then your answers there..you’ll be assuaged. If not then you’ll be giving yourself a mental health break away from him to figure out your next move.

    Good Luck!

    ps-I am calling shenanigans on you being a TYPICAL Cancer..not wanting to get married tommorrow? Is the caterer busy? lol. You prolly have a Gem Venus. :P

  22. cluelesscancer711 says:

    no we don’t he works IT crazy hours… and I’m a counselor

  23. angelineelise says:

    IT!? This dude reeks of Aquarius! lol!

    Do you know his birth time?

  24. angelineelise says:

    and place of birth? Sorry…meant to put that in the last one. :(

  25. cluelesscancer711 says:

    Your right… his Venus is in Aquarius… your also right about me possibly wanting to be married tommorrow(LOL) we had a formal date once in the beginning after that we have been meeting up casually… sometimes it’s even implied. He does tell me that he “feels me” but his actions SOMETIMES do not match up. anyways, that was great advise. I guess I do have to be blunt, I’m just scared of the possible rejection part. I don’t not know his birth time but he was born in Tidewater area in Virginia. Myself Killen, Texas… Thanks!

  26. Anonymous says:

    oh my cluelesscancer…your guy is born on the same day mine is. On the cusp as well. Mine is Jan. 20th as well!

    So following up on my post (met guy through my online Ad), now I know where we stand. We’re seeing one another and going to pursue a relationship.

    Everything feels perfect. hehe…so far.

  27. cluelesscancer711 says:

    how did you realize where you stand?? was he more outspoken or were you more blunt??

  28. Anonymous says:

    Hey Cluelesscancer711,
    I definitely had to be more blunt…well, subtly.
    When I showed his pic to my mom, she said “He’s Really Handsome and gentleman looking but- if seems to have a history of fooling around if he’s not in love”. So that really worried me and I just had to know where him and I stood. So I sent him a photo text of my nice sexy body he loves so much. HAHA and he said “How did I get so lucky” and I said “who said it was yours?” and he immediately called me saying “why are you still dating other guys?” and I just told him that of course I am, since he & I never clarified whether or not we were exclusive and he got a little agitated and said well he was under the impression that we were solely going to pursue one another and I said well, I can’t read your mind your mind but it’s good to know where your heart is. And so we discussed some other things and realized at the end of the conversation that we didn’t want anyone else…not in this particular moment anyway.
    Of course I wasn’t dating anyone else, I had my eyes fixed on him so…I read somewhere that if they really like you they’re possessive so I just played his own game *reverse psychology* and got him to spill the beans.
    Hope this helps.

  29. cluelesscancer711 says:

    hey guys… thank you so much for these cool reponses. I actually haven’t spoke to him in days now… my birthday was this past Friday and he text me saying, “Happy Birthday Champ” Then he text me the next day asking if I was going to be home later on that night and if so can we hang out… I wrote back, “I am going out for a little but when I get home I’m just trying chill alone”. Ever since then he has not text or called me after I called him once yesterday and text him “are we not talking anymore” this morning . Needless to say although I wish it wasn’t so… my question was answered he doesn’t want me

  30. cluelesscancer711 says:

    hey guys… thank you so much for these cool reponses. I actually haven’t spoke to him in days now… my birthday wa sthis past Friday and he text me saying, “Happy Birthday Champ” Then he text me the next day asking if I was going to be home later on that night and if so can we hang out… I wrote back, “I am going out for a little but when I get home I’m just trying chill alone”. Ever since then he has not text or called me after I called him once yesterday and text him “are we not talking anymore” this morning . Needless to say although I wish it wasn’t so… my question was answered he doesn’t want me

  31. cluelesscancer711 says:

    hey guys… thank you so much for these cool reponses. I actually haven’t spoke to him in days now… my birthday wa sthis past Friday and he text me saying, “Happy Birthday Champ” Then he text me the next day asking if I was going to be home later on that night and if so can we hang out… I wrote back, “I am going out for a little but when I get home I’m just trying chill alone”. I text him this morning “are we not talking anymore” he wrote back “It’s just been really crazy with work and the hours. Also, traveling back and forth w/ maybe a day or a couple of hours in between getting back on the road again. Pls don’t take it personal. We still cool”
    I mean it’s whatever… I’m pulling back… if he wants me that way, he is going to have to come and get me and I better be convinced, I don’t do well with a sense of false security. I’m tired of wondering it’s frustrating and I’m done!

  32. cluelesscancer711 says:

    as you can see by the last post he ended up texting back not to long ago!

  33. Anonymous says:

    yes, i am in love with a capricorn. we were best friends for 5 yrs and he asked me to give him a chance because he thought he was in love with me. i never thought he would be my type but after allowing him to get close to me things are great but …. i will tell you in a sec the but. after going out for 6 mo. he asked me to move in, i was skeptical and doubtful but my cappy really wanted me too and i felt like he must really love me to do this. he doesnt just ask anyone to move in. hes been married once and it was her fault, she strayed and he never wanted to divorce but once he had it, he doesnt turn back. hes only told me once he loves me and is very cold but he has his special moments when he makes me feel like a queen and it hurts when hes cold so i have to be very patient but all in all he has the biggest heart i have ever known. but he will not forgive if i would ever betray him. my cappy said he chose me because i am a hardworker and pretty and i get along with his children and family. i am very much a homebody but i like to go out every blue moon. i sometimes do feel alone but my capricorn is financially stable and he saw that i have also my own and knows i am not in it for his money, that is important to him, and everyone else i think. i have to force an i love you out of him, he shows me by providing for me, and he takes charge which for a cancer that is important he is pure masculine. since i am a cancer i get my feelings hurt easily so i have to learn that his coldness and the way he talks is just his nature. but when it comes to the nitty gritty no one like capricorn will save the day quite like him. i admire his tenacity and the way he thinks.

  34. Anonymous says:

    Kat:

    I am a cancerian woman, dating a capricorn man…opposites attract, and in our case it’s true. We have had abit of communication problem at the beginning, also he is holding back quite a lot, doesn;t want to talk about feelings but after I almost gave it up, we got the connection back and we are content now. I wanted to ask you guys,can somebody kindly help me to find out about the ‘ leo with cancer rising’, cancer with leo rising ‘ etc. so I can find out a bit more about our compatibility??

  35. Anonymous says:

    Kat:

    PS: The sex in absolutely amazing!!!! I’ve never ever had such an amazing passionate lover!!

  36. Anonymous says:

    My God! That is exactly my husband (capricorn) and my (cancer) relationship… That’s how he seduced me and we’ve been married 10 years now…

  37. Anonymous says:

    hi everyone
    I’m a Crabby woman and have recently met a Cappy man.. We are both s ingle and so far, we have hit it nicely.

    Our details are as follows:
    Him ME
    Sun Cappy CANCER
    Moon Aries LEO
    Venus Aquarius GEMINI
    Mercury Cappy LEO
    Mars Taurus GEMINI

    Any insights pls…
    thank you

  38. Anonymous says:

    I just got involved with a capricorn a few months ago. But we were only talking for about four days before we got attached to each other. At first we would talk and text all day nonstop. Then he went away to school… And now he’s almost always too busy for me. But he shows me that he cares and I see his efforts and appreciate him. So I understand. I know he won’t break my heart because if he wanted to do that he would have done it already. He won me over by just giving me attention and affection. That’s all I want from a man. For him to show that he genuinely cares about me. And this is the best sex ever lol

  39. starshine says:

    Wow…I’m so glad I read this because now I see what’s happening with me and my Capricorn guy is normal. I’m not sure about his rising sign and moon, but I’m a Cancer with a Sag Moon and a Capricorn rising. We both work together since August of 2008 and I always thought he was cute but he was just so quiet and serious I was too nervous to ever talk to him. I did notice he would do silly things once in a while to get my attention, and he’d notice things about me out of the blue even though we didn’t usually talk. Then finally in November of 08 he invited to a get together he was having. He made sure I was having a good time and stopped this drunk guy from hitting on me. Then out of nowhere at the party he kissed me. I was so taken off guard, I had no clue he was even interested. After the party he offered to walk me home, I’m a virgin so I told him we couldn’t have sex, and he was totally respectful of me. Still it was one of the best make-outs I’ve ever had, the other make-outs being the two other times we’ve hooked up since then. He is so amazing when its just us together, and I can tell he has a wild side. However after our last hook up I didn’t hear from him for almost two weeks. Then he called me two days ago and said I should text and/or call him…I feel like he wants me to pursue. Also we’re young and don’t have much income so he doesn’t buy me gifts, but he’s the most affectionate person I’ve ever known when we’re alone. Still I just don’t know what to do next. Call him?

  40. Cancergirl says:

    Hiiiii i am so glad that i found this website!
    Well can someone everyone help me here!
    Im a cancer girl that met a Capricorn guy at work, and we had chemistry instantly even before i knew his birthday, i mean everything the way he talks, hugs me, gets me insane!!
    Well we kissed oh gosh just amazing! I didnt want to stop!
    Well now he wants a long serious relationship, im scared of making a commitment you would think me being a cancer i would jump but im hesitating

    PLEASE I NEED HELPPPPPPP!!!!

    Cancergirl

  41. Tinchi says:

    I’m a Capricorn girl and I’ve seduced a Cancer guy. :) He’s the best person in the world. I love him so much. Apparently, most of the complaints here are that Cancers get seduced by Capricorns and their goats don’t love them back. :/ Is there anything a Capricorn can do to show a Cancer that he means everything to her??? I know that were opposites on the Zodiac, but I know he’s the one for me. I just know it. I just wish he wouldn’t misinterperet my actions.

  42. Michelle says:

    I’m a cancer girl that was seduced by a cap guy…we met on an island doing research and are now involved in a long distance friendship. One that I’m hoping will turn back into a relationship. It was interesting to see what he is capable of in a relationship before we went back to being friends – to protect his vulnerable heart. We amaze each other. He cannot believe how I have my heart on my sleeve, and I cannot believe how utterly cool he can play it. I have been trying to take it at his pace, although I think I have scared him a few times by telling him how much I love him, but after I gave him supporting evidence, he truly believes me. Any little thing that he has said to me in the way of love, I hang on to and cherish. I just know that as long as I still have his interest he still loves me, he doesn’t need to tell me, because I remember what it was like to have him when he’s in love, and it’s definitely worth the wait! We’re both going for degrees right now, and even though I’m 4.5 years younger than him, I am going for the higher degree…I know my cappy loves this! He is the first person that has truly appreciated me, and the first person that I feel comfortable showing my true self to…I cannot wait to see where this ends up! 6 months in…

  43. kittykat says:

    hello lovely bloggers…i never do these thigs but im completly fascinated with atsrology so i was wondering if some like minded people could advise me

    so ive been a mutual friend of friend and known for a long time with this capricorn guy with moon in scorpio and sagitarius rising im a cancer sun and moon woman with a leo rising and venus in gemini
    our friedship progressed onto next levels reently and im wondering if anyone had any cool tips for getting him really interested in me and what i should do im already really interested in him hes gorgeous kind caring practical and creative etc…
    thanks bless peace x

  44. Confused in love says:

    boy oh boy I’m happy to hear that i’m not crazy …… lol i’m a cancer girl with a cappy man , in a 9 year relationship. I love him and know in my heart he is compatible to me because we have been working on our relationship for years now. However i have always had a problem with his coldness and lack of affection , but at the same time he isn’t affectionate with anyone and I mean anyone but me, but jeez I literally have to beg him sometimes which makes me feel like less of a woman , because what woman has to beg their man to make a move on them. About 3 yrs ago an old Taurus acquaintance saw me and we started to talk slowly out of friendship. Our realtionship slowly progressed and before I knew it he became an emotional support for me , something i had to be my cappy guy to do. I tried to keep myself from encouraging Taurus dude but he made it so easy to talk to him.About a year ago Taurus dude moved away to another country and which for some reasom made me feel safe and i let my walls down because he wasn’t coming back , so i allowed myself to listen to all his lusty convos because i thought to myself he was far and my mind needed a realese and it would be safe and he wasn’t coming back. i had never had a man talk to me our express himself so frank to me it was totally exhillerating and i must admit our connection was deep and mind blowing. so here i was getting all my emotional and mind sex fullfillment from a Taurus while begging for that from my cappy . Taurus guy moved back, I know what a mess i had let down my walls and was having an emotional affair with him. Taurus refused to let me go and to be honest i didn’t want him to . So i started to coome up with ways to get him to hurt me so i would let go (crazy i know) because i couldn’t let go and neither could he. Eventually we both hurt eachother and would stop talking for days which was riduculously painful . Taurus guy to me has finally totally tuned off of me and shows me no regard (which i feel like i deserve)but promised that day i left my cappy he would be with me no matter what was going on in his life. And here come the whole issue I can’t let go of cappy because i love him and have dedicated myself to the idea of getting married and being with him for the rest of my life . Th funny thing is that I told Taurus dude before all this statred that I would never leave cappy and he still pursued …. now i miss Taurus dude so bad I Think i am about to go mad. and he refuses to talk to me ……

  45. Belle says:

    I have a biggest problem with my online cappy bf, I knew him through mIRC since November 07, but after that we chat through YM, he expressed his feelings to me only last year June 08, this guy was ex racer who always ran for bookies but after his brutal accident during our friendship, I requested him not to race again, and he was actually asking me if he is dying, will I ever shed my tears for him?. After that he started express his feelings that he is deeply in love with me and he was chasing after me consistently. I opened my heart for him, after he told me that he is suffering from blood clots, and I found that I love him more everyday, well I am a cancer born June 25, I have moon in pieces, mercury in gemini, rising in aries and venus in cancer. While my cappy bf have moon in cancer, mercury in capricorn, rising in gemini and his venus in pieces… i read a book told that caps venus in pieces are good guys and that was showing in his characters, he is distant YES, he is very cold YES, now that he is dying (I don’t give up in this), he seemed to be very negative, always harsh with me, before he didn’t contacted me for 3 months, I knew he wasnt doing it purposely bcuz I remember he told me before if he left me means he is leaving this world and when he showed up recently told me that he had paralysed, he told me that he never know his health wud fall in between if not he should make it to my country and I will b a mother of four, I successfully convinced him not to give up but again after few days he will give up again, Cappies will fail when they give up, what I can do, I love him. I know he loves me, he supposed to come on August 08, but treatments after treatments and the last treatment had him paralysed. He respects me, never ask for sex on cam, he started buying me things and last valentine, I didnt ask anything, he asked what kind of flower I like, he showed up on skype with red roses and white lily for me, I never knw we wud celebrate valentine on skype. Im not like a normal cancer bcuz I never want to give up, as long as he is a good guy with a good heart, I will want to wait, cappies are not handsome but they have such adorable characters, distant and his cold shouldn’t be a problem as I love to do other things to keep myself busy. Before he paralysed he was working wt his family business and he planned to bring it to my country and he convinced me to work with him bcuz only this way we can be together always. He wanted me to work with him and he also very workaholic 24/7, when I was upset he wud ask to open webcam to see how busy he is. I was sulking and I felt weird and I always nag, unlike other cappies he wud say the word ‘i love you’, more and he force me to reply before and beg beg like that. But now since he thinks he is dying, he never said anything but I can sense he also do not want to lose me as he called me during my office hour, he told me, he do not want this to happened, now we are facing religion issue, stupid me i brought this subject but that made him super duper angry wt me, but I was sorry, and now I am upset wt him, he was harsh again yesterday when I acted like a normal, he wanted me to be normal, he said no point to crack my brain so he wanted me to let things happened. What to do now? he told me he plan to come wt wheel chair. His illness is not a problem but when he would come. I love him so much till I wanna take care of him, bcuz of me he was working wt his family though he loved race more. Office work wasnt his style as he told me, he loved to race like that to earned money, but how I can let him race? Not again, he alredy has blood clots in his brains. Please any advise for me, my online cappie thinks that he is going to die, but I am 100% confident he is not. Last year also like this. I already don’t have any idea. he wanted space, I gave already. My family never know about deep inside my heart I am suffering. I never know I would love him this much, he was doing it from afar to bring my unique characters, im beautiful cuz of he loves me, that quote really applied to me. My ex was a Taurus, wanted to get bk together wt me but with my Caps he taught me to be optimistic, I love tender loving care Caps ways, my besties are cappy lady, and I get along very well with Capricorn men in office cuz they are good men by nature. I just love Capricorns, my late father was a capricorn too.

  46. Cancer Girl says:

    I am a Cancer woman who was very easily seduced by a Capricorn man, and let me tell you I fell hard after that. Not everything they say about Caps in bed is true, because mine keeps you wanting more and more! ;)

  47. Angel Rae says:

    I'm a Cancer and I just recently met a Capricorn. At first he was really cool! I liked him a lot. But now I think he's a jerk! He always find a way to make me mad and yet I still find myself liking him more and more……………………. I don't get it! It's mind boggling! Maybe it's because I'm sensitive and I'm really moody(Cancer traits)……………….. I just don't know!

  48. cap! says:

    so this explains a situation i have, i know a cancer woman she is cool down to earth like me but were friends through someone she was with but me and him are not that close but we associate hard every once in a blue moon they were together years back a young love thing but me and her kept in contact we talk alllllllll the time somtimes throw lil comments at one another but laugh it off although i b serious and i believe she does too but dont want to bring it out and i want to at least still be friends if no relashionship but i want something sexual for sure!

  49. D says:

    I met this guy whose sun, mercury, venus, mars, uranus, and neptune are all in capricorn. He’s very sweet.. but isn’t showy about it. Like how he’d be practical and tell me to sleep as an expression of affection instead of being more showy. I guess Capricorn-dominated charts are more to the conservative side?

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