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Capricorn men are cold because their ruling planet is Saturn. Every sign of the zodiac is associated with a planet (or two), but none is as unfortunate as Capricorn. Cap lives under the thumb of the strictest, harshest, most judging and punishing god in the solar system. Until Uranus was discovered, Saturn was thought to be the outermost planet in the solar system, the boundary-maker. He rules limitations, concrete reality, tests and trials, all the hard work we must do to manifest anything in life. Saturn is slow — he brings on delays, forces us to patiently slog through tedious tasks to achieve our desired outcome.
But Saturn is not all bad. He rewards hard work with material success; suffering with wisdom. He’s still the strict father, however. Saturn will give you what’s coming to you — good or bad.
You won’t get warmth from a Capricorn man, but his steadiness and sense of duty betray his affection towards you.
Comment below: How do you know when a Capricorn man cares for you?
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Like right now Ms.Teeq, my cap is staring at me while he’s eating dinner. He’s always watching what I’m doing. Like he’s watching my cell phone all the time when I’m holding it. I catch him often looking at me when I’m not looking at him. What is up with that. Like last saturday I had to go to the hospital at night to drop off my projects to my instructor and he wants to go with me. And I said No to him bcoz I knew he was trying to watch me. It’s like everything has changed now that he’s in my life. I dunno really. At the same time he’s so patient with me. But oh that trust I don’t have for him. I can’t explain how I feel and I’m silently frustrated with the situation. I don’t know.
Ara
Arabella, I think you should follow your instincts. There is a difference between not trusting someone, and not wanting them. You don’t trust or really know if you want him, so this is borderline wasting both of your time.
Watching you and checking your phone etc, can mean that he has trust issues as well. Yall seem to be heading nowhere fast.
My last post, promise LoL. I think you feel trapped because he’s so nice to you, but just because he’s nice doesn’t mean the two of you belong together.
Hey everyone…
First of all, my only other male Cap experience that was positive was my dad. He wasn’t perfect, but he did what he could, I guess. He did display the traits they are known for ,but I never held that against him because he was my dad. No matter how hard the vices were, I still looked up to him as my hero, knight in shining armor.
But, my Cap, oh wow.. I fell hard, yall, and I am still falling to this day. I know this dude won’t be able to give me the type of love and passion that I deserved, but yet I still hang on. Being born under the sign of Cancer, he was supposed to be my polar opposite. And, at times, he was, but that seemed like it made this attraction I had for him even stronger.
He seeked me out, he watched me, he saw how other guys was jumping thru hurdles to get my attention, and he played the laid back role, and I was caught, hook, line and sinker. I guess the thing that gets me was did he do this with every chick he was attracted to? Why play this game, when you know that some women are playing for keeps now, and have no time for bs.
I know I am all over the place, that’s how fractured he has me now
Tamika:
Thank you for the input.
You know when I posted that “aaaaaaahhhhh” frustration, that was after he left for work after I told him I don’t want to be with him anymore. I just have to say how I feel because if I bottle it inside then I will have another one of those chest pain and I will cry again so much like before. And what with my blood pressure that is not so spectacular sometimes. He thinks I’m just being grumpy. I don’t feel him at all I think because mostly of what I found out of his past. Oh my God, it is just awful. It’s been 1.5 year and I still feel this way. A few times in the car, I cried so much telling him I want us to end. I can’t believe I’m saying this here but I am bcoz I refuse to say this on FB. He just said yesterday “Oh my darling.” And came home with a bunch of flowers last night. I’m praying to God abouit this bcoz the truth is at this point in my life, I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life than be in another relationship that’s just not it. I’m too old now and I’ve changed. He and I can get along on a friendship level. We are great but romantically I don’t think we are the pair. I’m sure he doesn’t excite me and I don’t excite him. I won’t open up to him.
Ladies:
My instinct says he is not faithful. Just my instinct and I’m asking the Lord to steer this in the direction HE sees fit. I could be wrong but even my nursing professors about taking exams, the first instinct is usually correct. And I don’t wanna be marinated again in the wrong container. I’m nearing 43 and I wanna be a successful mom too and I have to be happy for my kids. My first dream is to be a successful mom. I don’t care anymore I have no man in my life.
@ Ara…I’m sure you’ll make the best decision for yourself. The reason why I say that is because you are being very selfish right now. Everything you’ve posted so far is about you being self protective. So be it. Keep protecting yourself, pushing someone who is doing their best to love you away, and continue on with life as it is. Sometimes being single is best, but it’s better to know that BEFORE you involve someone else into your love life that you think you want, only to decide that you don’t want and end up…like Tamika said, wasting time for the both of you. There’s nothing wrong with being selfish, but I think people should own it. If you’re going to be self protective and not allow a person the room and space to disappoint, then do just that without blaming anyone else. Don’t just talk about it…be about it…BUT own it.
By the way, you’re Cap was watching you…because he knew something was wrong and because he’s concerned about you. Men who are concerned about women DO that….they look at them when they’re going through stuff instead of ignoring them and going off somewhere with the boys or going to watch TV or something. It’s happened to me alot, because I suddenly get quiet…that’s just how I am. Every man who I’ve been involved with starts sticking around closer by my side during that time…because they care…are being protective…not creepy. lol Even if he’s watching to see if another man has captured your attention, it’s still a protective/territorial thing. It’s a part of man kingdom.
@ LaDonna…I hear your story coming out in bits and pieces and I guess I’ll wait for the rest to know what actually happened between you guys.
I swear…reading about Cap men is like reading about the same guy over and over and over again. Do they even come in different flavors/varieties? lol
Arabella,
Well, if you don’t feel you need a man… then don’t I guess :/ I just don’t understand. He’s not shown any signs of cheating, but he watches you. Maybe your trust issues and talk of wanting y’all to end is making him paranoid, as well. Cheating usually comes with signs, yet Capricorns are very convincing. It’s only been 1.5 years…. and I say that because I’m sure you’ve had longer relationships. But, if you don’t trust the guy, and you said you have trust issues, you probably shouldn’t be in a relationship period. You NEED to work on your trust issues. It sounds like this guy doesn’t mirror you when you’re angry. That’s actually because he cares, imo. As someone who has been cheated on before, there are signs to look out for. Someone else here mentioned he may have trust issues as well…. you know Capricorns tend to live in the past, right? Has he ever been cheated on? Have y’all talked about that? Anyway, if you can’t trust him.. if the sex sucks… if he doesn’t combat you… if you’re under a lot of stress … maybe you should take a step outside the box and really try and pinpoint where all your stress is truly coming from. Btw, I’ve heard from others that Capricorn men CAN be boring, but I think it depends on the opposing party. Sorry you feel like this
Ms. Teeq1974
Actually the story is too painful and embarrassing to tell, seeing as that once I give the dynamics of how we met, what his situation was, what my situation was, it would seem like I asked for everything that happened to me. I am no saint, i am probably filled with vices just like the next person, but what’s different about me, I try not to judge anybody, because you never know what a person might be going through.
I know I am rambling and I swear I wanna get this out, but, I feel so stupid to have allow myself to fall this deep over something that never should have happened in the first place. All I feel is pain, I miss him and I know we had to end and despite our circumstance, not once did I regret meeting him
I’m fukked up
NP…you bring up a good point. lol Something I’ve noticed about myself is the urge to try to find the dramatic point in it all when there really is none.
This is something that I wouldn’t have realized if I wasn’t seeing someone right now who, like Ara’s Cap doesn’t respond forcefully in kind to my going off. Now…don’t get me wrong, he has his OWN rants, as I’ve told you about them, but when I go off on mine….IDK…he just clams up and quietly goes his own way. I think when you’re used to drama you look for it where it doesn’t exist, but it’s not the other person’s fault. Like you’re saying…that’s an inner thing to be dealt with.
Great post by the way.
LaDonna…I understand not wanting to spill your beans here…completely. Embarrassment is a part of life and I didn’t mean to make you feel as though you needed to provide the details…just that it seemed to be coming in bits and pieces. No worries.
What I say to your last post is hindsight is 20/20
I understand going into a relationship or situation or interaction by unscrupulous means. It’s actually pretty common. lol The beauty in life is that sometimes things do align and work out for the best no matter how far messed up it started out in the first place. Now, I’m not saying that we should always throw caution to the wind and forego principles and practicality while hoping/wishing for the best. However, there IS precidence of relationships working out despite the ill gotten start and no one can dispute that. So, I wouldn’t say that you got what you deserved as much as you learned a valuable lesson.
For some of us…the experience far outweighs the outcome and vice versa. Which was of more value to you…the experience or the outcome? I think that’s the most valuable lesson learned…is about self and deciding if the entire situation reinforces our personal values or alters them.
Here goes…
You know I used to be “one of those women” who judged and condemned women who became involved with taken men. That was until I became one myself. The whole thing unraveled over the course of six months. I had went without work for a couple of years and this previous summer ,I had finally landed a job . Already knowing what I was there for, I kept everyone at a friendly distance. I was already going through my own situation with my “on again ,off again boyfriend.” It was obvious that we were growing apart and that made the conditions so rich for this type of shit! One coworker refused to stay in his box. The day he approached changed my life forever. To make a long story short, I fell so quickly and so sharply , that it is unreal. It doesn’t matter if he told me that he loved me or not, because I know with, not only with my brain, but, with my heart that he does not. Does this take the pain away? No. Now, I sit in my apartment everyday crying like some baby who does not have a clue about what life is really about. Ladies, men can be desperadoes , going hard on you until they finally find a weak spot and….SWACK!. They will tell you any and everything u want to hear(like a single man) until your purpose is served and life goes on for them. But, for us, it’s just the beginning of the loneliness, pain, insecurity and the rejection, setting in all at once. There are no holidays or recognition for us. Those few stolen moments with him means very little once he comes. After that, you are left to lay there in the wet spot, remembering, fantasizing, gassing your own self for the destruction that is yet to come. I can only share my thoughts and feelings on this. Take a page from my book with an ongoing story as we speak. Your peace of mind will be gone. Even through my pain and tears, I try to find something to make me hate him, but I can’t. We worked so closely together and now everything has come to an end. Like me, he is a creature of habit, very resistant to change and there is a real possibility that I will never hear from him again. The sporadic texts and stolen moments are not enough for me. I wasted the good years of my life pining for a single man who refused to return my love, but I know he can’t return it either. I am not some heartless, cold tramp, who make it my business to destroy lives. But , I feel like that could very much be the case if I continue to see him. I hate this, and I hate myself for allowing my guards to come down and willingly cosigned to be a part of something like this. I can only ask that you pray for me.
and he was a Capricorn.
My dad had his share of affairs and I saw some of this as a child, and now I am realizing the picture him and my mother painted wasn’t that rosy at all. But it was never my intent to do harm to anyone, but when I fell for him, my heart and thoughts became compromised.
I just feel so lost right now.
LaDonna…I am so sorry Hun. I think you pegged it when you said that you fell in a moment of weakness. It happens to all of us.
I had a similar situation, though I didn’t fall (emotionally), but I very well could have. I think you’re experiencing more shame and guilt than anything. Above all else, I think you’re disappointed in yourself.
Ummm…if it makes you feel better…lol and I can laugh about it, because I’m a shameless hussy. My “affair” with a married man not only got back to his wife (AFTER they got back together) but through an entire church congregation and I wasn’t even a member at the time. lol ha ha ha This just happened this past summer. Now there are married women in that church who absolutely have no idea that the married man that I slept with was actually served divorce papers by his wife (no excuse…I have my principles and I knew it) and think I’m an adulterous whore who might want their husband some day. To add a cherry on top, I ended up joining the church AFTER the fact.
F*ck em.
You and you alone are the judge, jury, and prosecutor of what you’ve done. I say call this thing a mis-trial and do your best to move on. Everyone has weak moments and some of us steal shit, physically blow up, or tell lies, or cause problems in other’s lives, etc during these times. You had sex with a man who told you that he wanted you. Done deal. The heaviness of what you’ve done is more within you than anything. Shake yourself loose from that, forgive yourself, and move on Hun. I hate that I’m probably making it sound trivial, but really in the grand scheme of life…it is.
If you don’t believe me, compare what you’re going through to the many tragedies happening on a daily basis due to slip ups, moments of weakness, and accidents. I have co-workers who have waken up next to dead spouses, lost children in mindless car accidents, contracted body raveging diseases that they’ve died from, etc. I have witness alot of loss from a peripheral and honey, the only thing that you’ve lost is your previous identity.
Whereas before you were a young lady who THOUGHT you knew better, now you’re a grown ass woman who DEFINITELY knows better. That’s all…no more and no less.
Sorry for all of the profanity Jeff…will try to keep it at a minimum when making a point in open forum.
Yes mam, at Ms Teeq.
Can’t deny that.
And, now ,that everything has ended, it seems like guys at my new job smell the fresh
blood of heartache one me. They are circling around me like great white sharks. Really?!
However, I can’t hide the disdain I have for the male species at this point, or myself at this point.
And I’m not looking for a couple of quick lies and lays to cover the pain up. Just like with my
ex-boyfriend, this thing that I have has to pass through the natural course of time too.
Hello, everyone. I’m an old Sasstrologian. @LaDonna, I can tell you time heals all wounds. Ya’ll my cap is out of my system, yeaaaaa!!!! that is the best feeling in the world. I realize he is just not on my level. I truly loved him though. but he was to selfish and stubborn and I was too mature for him. and I was giving too much of myself and he just wasn’t giving the same back, so I finally open my eyes and said Good-bye for good. how about the other day I ran into this guy i had a crush on and guess what? he is a Cap, yeah my instincts was saying runnnnnn, but it take long to confirm. he was constantly trying to get over to my house I was like umm what’s the rush, we just exchanged numbers and I flipped it and said no I’ll come and see you, and what do you know he lives with someone, I was like have a nice life and erase my number the nerves of him some guys are really a trip.
“he was constantly trying to get over to my house I was like umm what’s the rush, we just exchanged numbers and I flipped it and said no I’ll come and see you, and what do you know he lives with someone, I was like have a nice life and erase my number”
A lil resistance and investigation can go a longgggg way!!!! LMBO!!!!!
I love it! lol ha ha ha ha ha
Re my cap, um there are some important factors I didn’t mention here about him because it is very confidential. The reason why I fear it all. I’m sorry. The way we ended up being friends and into romance were a bit awkward for me. He had some matters in his personal life in which I helped him. Whatever that truth is, I wish him welll. He is accustomed to women catering to him so he found a different person in me who is not afraid to stand for my right who’s not afraid to say it all if only to speak the truth. He had to climb up higher as I had said character is important, not good looks. I’m content just being a mom for the rest of my life. If I am to be with a man, I have to feel safe in every way. I have to choose someone good and conscientious for the sake of my beloved children. I told him he may go as I had prayed for someone I can trust, a god-fearing man, not someone beautifully muscled with a handsome face. I need someone trustworthy. Or let me be alone. I have seen the face of death. I have spent a day dying in a hospital bed. I love my children. I have left my caplife behind. I wish him well. I will continue to pray for him.
I wish you all a happy thanksgiving and merry christmas.
Ara
Been reading through these comments and just find them to be interesting. I have a brother who is a CAP. I’ve seen the other side of things from him in regards to women. And the natural draw that women have to him. It’s funny too, because I’m the closest person to him. He relies on me and everything. When I give him little attention (and esp don’t answer the phone when he rings lol) he will do anything for it and he gets so annoyed hehe. I may be his sister and super close, but letting him come more to you still works and I understand him better than everyone. I also have a CAP friend that yes, I’m interested in, BUT, I have never held anything back w him and he respects that about me. Any questions I can answer, feel free to ask. I know men, but my brother and this friend of mine, I know very well–I mean literally, they’re both VERY open with me.
One thing I can tell you, is that yes, even being so close, it’s not uncommon for a week, or 2 months to pass in-between hearing from my brother. It’s just how they are. They cut the world off.
I meant that when they get busy, or anything as such, they will cut the entire world off. It’s not uncommon for my brother to not get in contact with people a lot, but they are always trying to get him to hang, esp the girls.
@oliviabeth
oh, trust me, he got a lil’ hottie in the “cut” somewhere……i know……if you don’t believe me, then think about Tiger, what a damn novice….tell that was his first time.
Blakgoat, oh I’m sure they do. Totally agree with you
My friend usually rocks 2 at a time or more I’m sure too. 
Who knows about brother. I just make sure he makes me proud when he’s playin his game, but I don’t care so I don’t ask. I didn’t mention being interested as a dating thing though in case that was misinterpreted. I’ve turned down a couple marriage proposals this year. Not interested right now. xx
The reason I say that too, is that I’ve made it clear from the beginning of our friendship, I take a long time to fall for a guy as I don’t fall easily. I won’t even date a man I haven’t known for at least a year. I’ve known him at least 5 I think. lol Even told him 2 yrs back, I didn’t love him yet. Surprising he’s stuck around. I can be a bitch by some standards. Just fiercly independent and more focused on my career and school right now so as much as I love all my friends, I come first.
Merry Christmas, Blakgoat!
I’m still looking for my capricorn lifepartner. Astrology says that a Taurus woman’s best partner is the capricorn. He is the only man well-equipped to understand the complexity of the taurus woman. I have not given up yet. I am a believer. Somewhere out there is a capricorn man reserved for me by the heavenly father. The heavenly father is reading this so maybe he is wrapping a capricorn man for me for Christmas.
Merry Christmas everyone!
I am just taking a break from studying. I feel marinated and worn out. Nursing school… Ugh:-( 2 more weeks to go before sem ends. One more week of clinical rotation.
Ara
hello everybody. Happy Holidays!!! If i don’t make it back on here before Christmas. @Arabella, I hope you find your Cap. @Ms. Teeq1974, lol! yeah and the Cap is still texting me. I will talk to him but I still want let him come over. Well ya’ll I like this Sag now and that’s cool because it helps me not say anything to the Virgo.
@ Ms. Pisches:
Thanks you, Ms. Pisces. Have a beautiful blessed Christmas. May all your wishes be granted.
I learned something important today. To never take anything or anyone for granted. To say “I love you” before I lose the chance to do it… Someone I love so much, someone I used to pick on when he was a young kid, someone who walks me through nursing school (now that he has become a man and about to graduate nursing school) and who makes sure that I am doing OK on my very tough exams, was taken away from me and my nursing school friends last Sunday. We found out today in school. I will say “I love you” no matter what. I will not fear to say it from my heart… before that chance fly away from me. I will tell him “I love you” be he cap, sag, tau, aries, gem, aqua, pisces, scorp etc.
Love you guys. I love you all, everyone in the zodiac!
Merry Christmas to all of you.
Ara
@Arabella
.Taurus / Capricorn is a good one.
I have some experience with a Taurus woman…very sexual, sensual and easy to please.
She would stare at me when I worked….liked to see me work for some reason.
Happy Holidays….even though I don’t believe in Christmas
@blakgoat
What is something about being a Capricorn man that would be invaluable for a woman to know?
@NovLady
still trying to wrap the beautiful scorpio mind around a capricorn so you can squeeze ‘em huh.
i’ll tell you but i won’t.
the zodiac represents the capricorn as a “seagoat”, not a mountain goat.
and dont think too much or be “heady”…..just follow your instincts.
@blakgoat
Sigh…fair enough.
hello everyone. hey @blakgoat and @ arabella I’m sorry about your loss. @ms.teeq1974 and he is still texting me he don’t want nothing I don’t have anything to say to him its nothing can be between us and I don’t want to be friends either. anyway so I’m liking this Sag now and it ‘s good because it really helps me not call or text the virgo and it’s really time to get him all the way out of my system. the Sag we been knowing each other for a while its sort of kind of like crossing the friendship line but we will see.
@ Ms. Pisces….that’s awesome Hun! Things have fizzled with my Cap guy too, but for the best. I actually found that interaction and dating period to be VERY draining. I’m actually relieved and hope that he never gets the “itch” to call or text me again. I don’t like hurting people’s feelings and with his Cancer moon…his feelings were VERY touchy. lol I found myself walking on less than eggshells only to find myself being pressured to be something that I am not. lol
Our last interaction was with him calling me telling me that I was supposed to call him the night before. What the hell? I asked, “Ummm…did I say I was going to call you last night? No. The last thing I told you was that I was going out with my friends. I never said that I would call you while I was out.”
Bump that. lol I am NOT anyone’s “give you a full on detailed report and blow by blow of everything I do OR intend to do” woman. Hell nah. SMH
@ms. Teeq1974, a cancer moon, yeah i know you did have to walk on eggshells, I dated a cancer(sun) before. moody, moody, moody. what’s your sign?, My moon sign is a pisces, My Sag moon is a Taurus.
Ms. Pisces…I’m a Pi sun/moon and a Taurus rising. lol Nice lil combo. ha ha ha ha
Pi moons are sympathetic to almost everything. I’ve had to learn to ignore some people. Just hit the ignore button and move on, because most of the time, situations we are in – we put ourselves there and secondly….we are all equipped to be resillient. Resilliency is a choice we all make. So yea…I’ve learned to let people along with their cares and woes go.
This is the second Cancer moon that I’ve dated. The first was a Virgo Sun. SMH You know, I hate to be biased against anyone, but time and time again, I’m learning that there are just some personalities that I can only take in small doses. LMBO!!! ha ha ha ha
They activate my Mars in Taurus and that side of me is NOT tolerant at all of BS.
What is your Sun and Rising?
My Venus is in Cap so I thought maybe me and this Cap with the Cancer moon might hit it off…even with some work. HECK NO!!! I found out that I’m not interested in doing that much hard work unless the dividens are going to be mighty and he wasn’t bringing enough to the table for me to deal with his sh*t. lol
@Ms.Teeq1974, wow, I am a pisces Sun/Moon too. i don’t know my rising but my venus is in Taurus. and my Sag venus is in Capricorn. girl you dated a Virgo/sun. yeah A virgo got a hold of me and I’m finally letting go, though, but we hit if off so good it was just crashing we didn’t make it but he is in the service and here and there so it’s just to crazy. Oh, yeah i have definitely learn to ignore some things and people myself, too. we are suppose to be so compatiable with Cancers, but i have dated 3 cancer’s in the past and 2 of them were good boyfriends but one was horrible. and i finally let him go, this was years ago. and there birthdays was in a row, lol!
Ms. Pisces…I’ve only hit off THAT well with a Scorp. lol Twice actually…both with Scorp Suns. Everyone else…either I fade back, because I can’t see it working for me in the long run or they are so detached its not even funny. Me and Virgos do ok, but me and them dang Cancers??? Heccccck NO! lol I dated ONE Cancer sun guy and I wasn’t feelin it like that. lol He was cool and all, but IDK…his “swag” was a lil undeserved and overstated. I don’t like superficiality. IF you have a swag…at least let it be natural and not forced just because you THINK you’re cool. LMBO!!!
I would just laugh and he knew it was BS. lol We did make eachother laugh alot…so it wasn’t necessarily bad. We just didn’t hit it off like that. No sparks on my end. I have to have some kind of spark or warmth…something. If not, I’ll kinda forget about things, because I’m such a space cadet. So I’ll do things like show up late for dates or say that I’m gonna do something and then I forget that I even said I would do it, so then it doesn’t get done, etc. I have to have a guy who there’s enough energy that he doesn’t become…what’s the word for it? (I also have a Pi Merc by the way. lol)…Ambiguous. I need to want to make space in my life for him or I end up kinda overlooking him, but NOT on purpose. It just kinda happens. I don’t really see him as a stand out priority in my life, but not on purpose…I can’t explain it. Darn Merc in Pi. LMBO!!!
If you have questions about Cap in Venus, there are alot of us here who can give you insight. Have a great night!
To MrsChardonnay:
Finally I can think straight a little bit. Done with nursing school for the semester. One down. My goat/capman has a past as we all do.
Joke. Anyway, we were friends first. He came into my life in a very awkward way. I found out he was in a relationship when we were friends. (I found out he was lying to me about his being single or such and he admitted his wrongfulness.) I said we were better off as friends, but now something has happened between the 2 of us. We got close and for some reason there is a special bond that we share. We are very close now and I met his mom finally. I kept putting it off. I am a taurus so I am very complicated. I am a loner and very boring. Of all the men I have dated in my life, only the capricorn man could really understand me very well. I would be grumpy and yell at him and he never retaliates in a way that would hurt me. Whatever we share now came from a very long process of friendship. I am very frank with him about what I expect and want and he never has a problem with my spoiled requests. (I have been going back and forth with our relationship, with the stress of nursing school and my brattiness – things have not been good because I just want it to end. But he is still around. I keep praying to God to send him away from me finally but he is more close now than before. I dont understand. I had prayed to God to send him away from me last year and he became even more close to me.). He caters to me in a very special way. He calls me before he comes home and asks me what I want to eat or what I want him to bring home. He can just sit and listen to my awful ranting. When he sees that I am really grumply, he picks up his acoustic guitar and play my favorite song Ave Maria to calm me down. Then he gathers me in his arms and kisses me to shut me up. He is really different. I don’t know how he is so patient with me when I’m so moody and grumpy sometimes. He tells me, “You have no idea how much I love you.” But it is hard for me to believe. I take it one day at a time.
There is someone out there that is asking about something significant of cap man. Well here it is:
Sometimes he lifts me up physically and carries me around. 
He does not like to anything to scratch me skin. Yesterday, while he was eating breakfast, getting ready to run errands, he asked “Where are you going?” I said, “Did I ask you where you were going? I’m going somewhere.” He said, “What do you mean “somewhere”?” He was upset. I said, “Oh yeah, it is Sunday, did you remember church?” He said, “Let’s go to church right now.” He cancelled his original plan because he sensed I was upset at him. He calls an says “What do you want to eat tonight?” I said “Whatever my goat wants to feed me.” He replys with “I will feed my tauro whatever she wants me to feed her.” I then say, “I want to go to our Thai restaurant and I’m priority tonight as it is Friday.” He then cancels gym, rushes home and gets ready to take me to our favorite Thai restaurant. But he is very nosy and wants to know everything that I’m doing. But I am stubborn and I like to have it my way. 
My cap man is gentle and protective of me. But he wants to know everything that I’m doing. He likes to make things for me or fixes my car with his own hands. He is really well muscled and very tall and strong and swims very well so I make him swim on a pool and he gives me a piggy backride while he is swimming.
Merry Christmas everyone!
Ara
MrsChardonnay:
On my avatar: that is my goat and me with my face hidden.
Ara
everyone have a Merry Christmas!!!. @Ms. Teeq1974, i have never dated a Scorpio. and the Virgo he is the only Virgo I ever hit it off with. well you take care. sorry it took so long to get back. I don’t have the internet at home right now. will be getting it back soon though. well I am ready for Christmas and the NBA games to start. Yeah my Sag Venus is in Capricorn. I was like is that safe? lol!!! just kidding.
I am enjoying being with the capricorn guy…… I am teaching myself patience and having FUN seeing positive results…. I heard these guys are slow….. we were friends for 3 months and as soon as we could (complications…work) we started to be more affectionate and romantic
I feel grateful when he’s around and blessed to be someone he spends time with
I want him to take me seriously so I am patient and calm. Things that get under my skin are addressed.
I just want to be with him! When we’re together I feel safe and happy; it’s a good feeling.
he’s told me about when he goes cold on women… he sounds like he can be mean but i always think those things come from a place of hurt and defense.
right now he and i are in a good place so i dont want to worry about it.
Dear blakgoat:
My goat boyfriend is driving me crazy and I absolutely don’t know how to handle him. He is stressing me out awfully. I just wanna go under a rock and have the rock swallow me. He went into a jealousy fit on December 25 right after church. He was ranting about my ex boyfriends and the songs I listened to. He was ranting about my ex husband. He was completely losing it. I told him to leave me in peace. I didn’t know how to handle him. I tried to appease him but he just went careening back into ranting again and again about the same issue. Now tonight he is stressing me out again about my ex husband (who I don’t even talk with) and my ex boyfriends. He asks me about my past and when I answer with honesty because he demands it, he goes into this jealous angry ranting. Tonight he did this after dinner while I was making tea. He has been having jealousy fit during this past week. Just when I can rest a bit from the stress of nursing school, he does this to me. I love him so much and he does this jealousy thing and I can’t stand it. He stops at nothing when he gets started. His jealousy gets on my nerve. When I’m not in the house he gets all frazzled. When I don’t answer his texts right away, he follows it up with a text assuming I am busy with someone else. It’s ridiculous. Then he starts dialing my number 5 times in a row within 10 minute time. Oh blakgoat I don’t know how to handle my goat darling
His insecurity is just awful 
Ara
Revelations in my heart.
The capricorn man, my goat, was not cold to me, a taurus. I met him about 1.5 yrs ago. We became close and fell in love. He saw me on a road and followed me not knowing exactly why. This is how we met. Our hearts were entwined. He could tap into my heart and mind. He showed me love so gentle calm yet so strong so unique so true. He changed himself for me. Then I let him go. I changed my number to close the chapter. So he cannot call me anymore. I ran. He changed his number too after he learned what I did. He has keys to my home and I have his guitar capo and pick. These 2 things that belong to him I hold with my right hand while I sleep. A part of my beloved soulmate I have and hold to the day the Lord takes me. My beloved goat brought the best out of me. My beloved goat took my pain away. I will never give my heart to someone else. This I know. My goat is my soulmate. He owns that special part of my heart. I prayed to God and he came along. And I let him go. My fear got the best of me. I love and adore my goat here in a sacred place in my heart. My beloved goat left an empty space in my heart…~Ara
Wow, as a 30 year Capricorn man, I am truly shocked to read this stuff. I don’t believe in astrology and reading these entries are why.
there are aspects of the Cap man that are spot on, but no two people are the same. A capricorn man who has no reason to doubt your trust (so don’t give him one) will not show such insecurities.
Trust is non-negotiable (we trust blindly, which is why we take long to figure people out). If you’re not flirting with an ex or holding secret text parties with said ex (I’ve had this done to me) he will have the utmost trust and faith in you.
Cap men are not cold, soul-less money hungry, power mongers as we’re portrayed here. Low key, hard-working and private are words that best describe our character. We’re just honest men that want to provide for ourselves and those we love.
To a Capricorn your word is your bond. If you say you’re going to be somewhere at a certain time, by all means be there. Don’t have us waiting (there likely will not be a second time). Do what you say and say what you do (we can see past most lies).
Feelings are a big deal. With that being said, we have to be sure, beyond a shadow of doubt that, you are “the one”. Our time is too valuable to waste on the wrong one. We feel deeper than most, but you’ll never know unless you know us like our parents do.
Loyalty is also non-negotiable. We give it unequivocally and we expect it in return.
Capricorns hate to argue. Arguments lead to break up’s, it’s that simple. Overly emotional people come across as weak and that is a huge turn-off. We like our women strong. A woman who is going to give it back to us as hard as we give. A woman who is not afraid to express herself and above all else a woman who not only puts us in our place, but who has the ability to say: NO!
Capricorn men, we like to have things our way. When a woman doesn’t give in, we respect that (huge turn-on). Sounds crazy I know. But who want’s a robot? We want a real woman, who is in tune with her emotions, but doesn’t turn every waking experience into some emotional roller coaster ride.
Lastly sex is extremely important. How could it not be? We love it, it’s true (and we do have the ability to enjoy emotionless sex), but we would prefer to experience it with someone we truly love or care for. Love and sex go hand in hand, but if love’s not present we don’t mind going from one woman to the next.
We’re no saint. Who is? But we’re not all that bad.
Here’s what we want:
1) A strong and confident woman
Challenge us (it’s a major turn-on and will keep us on our toes)
2) Less is not more when it comes to looking “sexy” (carry yourself like a woman, save the sexy outfit for the bedroom)
3) We can’t read minds, so tell us why your upset
4) Don’t ask the same question we just answered over and over again
5) Don’t yell at us during an argument (it only makes it worse)
6) A healthy sex drive
7) A woman that has more than two words to say when you call (I’m watching project runway is not a conversation)
9) Say no every once and a while (save the robot fantasy for the bedroom).
Capricorns can be assholes…. just fair warning. But that doesn’t mean we are incapable of love, we know it when we see it, so make sure your movie is one we’re going to want to watch over and over.
Oh I almost forgot.
Do, and I can’t stress this enough, keep a clean house/apartment/car/college dorm room whatever. Nothing makes us run for the hills faster than a woman who doesn’t keep her personal space clean. It just tells us you’re a filthy person (no matter how beautiful or sexy you may be).
I have a Capricorn guy in my life. He confuses me soooo much!!! One minute we get along great then it’s like we can’t stand each other. He has a girl but it’s long distance. He says how much he loves her but doesn’t get the same back. He does any and everything for her. I do any and everything for him above and beyond. He acts like he appreciates it but he doesn’t show it. He has other women that he will put me to the side for, he has flirted and got a girls number in front of me. Then he lies about it like he cannot tell me the truth. He will go days without talking to me and when I ask what’s wrong he says I’m tripping. Recently he got mad at me for telling him I was mad about him talking to the girl he met when we were out. He said I was arguing and brought things upon myself. Then we were supposed to see each other one night and he turned off his phone and wouldn’t come to the door when I came by. On top of all this he has told me if he wasn’t in a relationship we could try to be together. He said how much he cares. Calls me boo like these things never happened. He makes me feel like I hv no right to get mad at him or question him. What’s up with all the mixed msgs???
O.. M.. G…
Causal Robber. Where in the hell have you been all this time? How far back have you been reading to finally make an input? Anyhoos, whether it was since yesterday or yester year, I am glad that you did.
Capricorns are the absolute best for Piseans. IDK… My Opinion.
Dreamers Need Realists… {and visa versa… Cause you guys can be deathly tense!}
Capricorns see right thru the fake smiles while Piseans genuinely smile right back at it. lol…
He spoke quite frankly of a world that I just could not believe. I had to see and experience it for myself. I am forever grateful that I did. I can’t thank him enough for the MUCH NEEDED eye opener.
Although he acts like a real stool, he’s mad cool, and oh boy… far… far… FAR… from a fool.