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Capricorn men are cold because their ruling planet is Saturn. Every sign of the zodiac is associated with a planet (or two), but none is as unfortunate as Capricorn. Cap lives under the thumb of the strictest, harshest, most judging and punishing god in the solar system. Until Uranus was discovered, Saturn was thought to be the outermost planet in the solar system, the boundary-maker. He rules limitations, concrete reality, tests and trials, all the hard work we must do to manifest anything in life. Saturn is slow — he brings on delays, forces us to patiently slog through tedious tasks to achieve our desired outcome.
But Saturn is not all bad. He rewards hard work with material success; suffering with wisdom. He’s still the strict father, however. Saturn will give you what’s coming to you — good or bad.
You won’t get warmth from a Capricorn man, but his steadiness and sense of duty betray his affection towards you.
Comment below: How do you know when a Capricorn man cares for you?
About Jeffrey Kishner
Everyone…
WISHING YOU ALL A PEACEFUL YEAR TO COME!
As for the Capricorn in your life…
He can, and will, drive you crazy.
{ain’t I right Blackgoat?} :O
I’ve personally seen what he has done to others… as well as to myself.
Amazing.
Oh yes, Sweetpea, and your old Capricorn wasn’t even trying. I’m waiting on the day for my ole Cap! In the meantime, I’ll be celebrating my birthday today, December 31st. Happy New Year everyone!
Rising Gemini
Sun Capricorn
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Scorpio
Vertex Scorpio
Happy Bday Oracle and I would seriously be very wary of what you wish for. SMH My Cap love interest seems to be the master of causing insecurity and then being the one to come back to “fix” it all. Lol
I have resigned to be happy that he is consistent in his coming back. What truly worries me and maybe Blackgoat, you can shed some light on this one….We both understand that we are NOT exclusive, but we ARE loyal besties. So, it kinda balances out in that while we are not exclusive, we are adamant about seeing to eachother’s needs and keeping eachother’s best interest in mind. We have tried doing everything possible to level out the friendship for both of our sakes and so far…nothing works. We’ve tried hooking up, that didn’t work out. Then we tried the hands off approach, that not only didn’t work out, but drove us to the brink of not having any type of communication at all…almost like, “You don’t like/aren’t attracted to me anymore and so I’m going to cut the F*ck up!” Yep…that certainly didn’t work out. So we finally decided to acknowledge the intimate connection and strong attraction, but not act on it while being the best of friends. Guess how long that laste???. LMBO!!!
So now, after 3 months of pent up attraction (expressed here and there like Oops!) that is finally being expressed in make out sessions conosistently this month (no sex), now I’m beginning to wonder…why aren’t we having sex? My problem is that I am THE BIGGEST SUPPORTER of his aspirations and so I like and am comfortable in the role of, “You can do it and here are some resources to help you…gimme a kiss….ok bye!” I’m extremely comfortable in that role and lately the making out has been very consistent/hot/heavy. We withdraw from it on a level of “damn…it’s still there”…..and no sex. I do not want to be busted down to the level of “bust it Baby”. I believe that’s why he doesn’t initiate sex and steers clear of getting too hot and heavy leading up to sex. What I’m confused by is the fact that I understand that Caps need the sex as a confirmation of the relationship….kinda sealing the deal on the “your mine” factor. He is inching his way into that mode in all other areas of my life. Including telling a relative that he couldn’t hire me for a side gig, because he (the Cap) felt that I would be overwhelmed. Oh…I reamed him a new one for that one. Then today another one of his relatives called and he said, “Don’t tell him I’m here.” Then after I hung up and asked what that was about…he said, “I wanted to see why he was calling you.” But he consistently and constantly does things like that. He doesn’t want anyone else to have access to me on a close level.
Now…this Cap is not weak, so please do not take what I’m about to say to mean that he is. But earlier tonight, we went into this place to get food and he’s like, “this is your place…I need you to help me with my order. Tell me what to get.” Due to other synastry aspects between us, he tends to have this affect of leaning on me. Me and me only in all manners of speaking. Like, input on every single thing from his family relationships to his food choices. Melding me into his life in every aspect…except for the bedroom.
Sooooooo….what the heck MIGHT be up with that?
He’s made it very clear in the past few weeks that he hasn’t had sex with anyone else, with statements like, “Yea…I cut my team of booty calls months ago.” and “I haven’t had sex in like 3 months.” and “I don’t even talk to females like I used to anymore.”
Yet, we are not exclusive.
Ok, so you may ask what the problem is if our relationship is nuturing on all other fronts…everything from gifts and money to time on the regular…I can even bug the hell out and he will either call or show up wanting to make sure everything between us is cool. Not that I bug out on purpose and I’m really really working hard on my sensitivity buttons, but he’s like Captain Save a Me…for me of all people…Ms. Proverbial Independent.
This is the problem. Mars in Taurus in an almost 40 yr old woman is like trying to sex starve a nymphomaniac/whore. After almost FIVE FRICKING MONTHS OF NO SEX, I gave in last night to the previous Cap and while I feel “kinda” guilty….I don’t, because it was exactly what I needed. BTW…no future on absolutely any terms with me and the previous Cap. We are very warm towards eachother for the purpose of hooking up, but the non-factor goes both ways, so I don’t have to worry about the previous Cap (who I’ve been seeing off/on for almost 3 solid years) getting close enough to be seen by my awesome, love of my life Cap.
Not that I plan on doing it again, but with the previous Cap living so far away (like in the next town 30 minutes away), a lurking Virgo who is a Karma Sutra expert (who WAS a 2 yr long hook up), the non-exclusivity making access by another man so easy, and the fact that the young Cap works one week on straight 24/7 and one week off straight…seeing me like 2-3 days in his “off week” for like 3-8 hours at a time….it’s just too easy. You get what I’m saying? I mean…I left my house at 6:30pm and was gone until 7am the next morning and he knew nothing about it, because we don’t jock eachother that hard.
Blackgoat…what in the hell can I do? Lol The thing is, while I KNOW he would be like, “We’re not together…do your thing.”….ummm…he would be butt hurt. I know he would. It’s almost like he’s starving me on purpose to make me become the good girl and leave the sexual tendencies behind or to make me lean towards sleeping with other guys so that he can confirm that things aren’t going to work between us. I know this is just another level of his tests. I get it. He keep this sh*t up and I’m going to fail miserably. BTW…as far as I’m concerned, the other night did NOT happen. I will NEVER mention it to him…not in a million years.
For the first time in 7 months of “friendship” he finally saw the Virgo walk up to my house (unexpected) while he was leaving and while he didn’t get jealous in an angry way…he called/texted me constantly while the Virgo was here, until the dude finally got the hint and left. Now he mentions it in passing, calling me “player pimp” says stuff like, “I could have sworn you orchestrated that. What are the chances of dude showing up RIGHT as I’m in my car leaving?” I did end up confessing to him that me and Virgo USED to hook up, but are still homies…nothing more. He doesn’t believe me of course. lol
Arrrrrrghhhhhh!!!!!!!! I can’t be mad though, because I truly have earned my bad girl stripes in that respect….got them honestly. So, I’m not mad at him for having this perspective. I’m sure that what he’s doing now is giving me a chance to live that reputation down/phase it out, but it’s becoming frustrating…sexually, that is. lol
your Cap is wiser than you realize, he knows what’s up, but in true goat form he’s keeping it to himself.
is he testing you?………absolutely
some men know that a woman can get next to their heart through sex, but he can’t trust you.
sensual sex can even make a goat man like me go crossed-eyed and walk with a limp.
he’s trying to keep his head clear……… i’ve been there, done that(shit don’t work)…….but the lil’ head just takes over.
you two are on different levels relationship wise………..there is really no chance of this being a deep monogomous relationship.
and he probably has really cut off his booty calls for you…….but because you both are on different wavelengths, it really doesn’t make a difference.
I’m pretty confused, or not at all, about the Cap guy I’m seeing. I’m just not sure what my intuition is telling me. We went out one night, had a blast talking and shooting pool. Spent a few hours at his house and slept together. It was, well, in Cap fashion, intense, dark, active and aggressive, making us both very happy. He’s been asking for me to text him ‘sexy pics’ which I refuse to do.
He said he wants to be ‘friends with benefits’ and see where it goes. My real question- Is there a chance that he really does want to see what could transpire or is he just wanting to have sex and doesn’t care where it goes? He got very jealous when I couldn’t see him tonight and, while he jumped to the conclusion I was on another date, I assured him I had to stay home and prep for work tomorrow.
Any ideas for me? Mixed signals for sure… My guess- he doesn’t really care and is really sexual… I’m a Pisces…
Thank you Ms. Teeq1974 for the birthday wish. Having my birthday on New Years Eve, I’m always reminded at 12 a.m. that my birthday was yesterday and it is over!:) New Years Eve is the shortest day of the year. It was good and quiet as usual and I don’t look any older, actually younger!
Yes I am wary and careful of what I wish for. But I’ve already made up my mind. A Capricorn man is what I seek. They have everything I could ever want in a man. Blakgoat you made shivers go down my spine with your comment on this Capricorn man that is testing this woman. You are so right, wow, with these men you cannot play around. They are far too calculating and brilliant. You must hold yourself back and restrain from anything that would cause you to fail with them, I think. Their ruler is that mean ass God, Saturn, the most beautiful and mysterious planet in the solar system. You’re dealing with karma when you are with a Capricorn.
A Capricorn man is the real deal. See I know how to go to hell and come back, if you know what I mean. Blakgoat can attest to this. Hell prepares you for things, it teaches you. It ripens you and gets you ready. A Capricorn man will test your patience. But that is what I love about them. One thing I know about them is they will have unemotional sex with you. It means absolutely nothing to them, but the world to you. Once you sleep with them and they don’t love you, you can forget it. So be careful and just enjoy them and get to know them.
When a Capricorn man wants you, you’ll know. It could take many years for him to decide to be with you. And boy, here comes the treasure box full of gifts and surprises for the rest of your life! It is worth waiting for. Capricorn men are magnificent and wise creatures. I should know, for I am a Capricorn woman!
Rising Gemini
Sun Capricorn
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Scorpio
Vertex Scorpio
Hmmm…I think you’re definitely right about the two different wave lengths BG, but to say that we will never have a deeply bonded monogamous relationship is a stretch. I can see why you’ve come to that conclusion, but I guess I’ll just have to wait and see for myself. lol
He’s finally gotten around to wanting to do the dirty business…sometime this week. Craving it. I know that part of it is just plain ole horniness, but I believe that there is a part of him that wants us to develop a life together, because these days, that’s pretty much all he wants to talk about…is our future business(es), how we’re going to handle wealth, friends, family, etc.
You could be right…but again…I can’t see the totality of us never being together with everything he says and does now.
@ Oracle…yes, I am holding myself back…from alot actually and not just sex with other men. I basically work my evening schedule AND weekend schedule around his needs. That’s the piece that’s bothering me though…he doesn’t approach me to spend time together, because of his “wants”. It’s always based on what he “needs”. Now, mind you…with me he acts very needy, so he’s around me alot whether I’m wanting to reach out to him or not. I would be upset about not spending luxury quality time together and I’ve talked to him about this, but he’s not spending luxury quality time with anyone but his family. I know this for sure. His luxury time with me is intermittently during, before, or after we take care of business.
Like, he’ll come over to do an hour long HW assignment, but we’ll spend about….IDK 4-5 hours together during that time. That happens ALOT! So, I can’t complain about the amount of time he spends either talking, texting, or in person with me. It’s damn near daily that one of those things are happening, but HE’S the one who orchestrated it that way, not me.
That’s what’s so confusing to me. I’ve asked him about “hanging out” by maybe going to a movie or something, but he just gets quiet. Now don’t get me wrong…I hang out with other people all of the time, so it’s not like my life has stopped…I’m just “busier” with his needs in the mix. I like busy though. lol
In turn, I have to admit though, when I need him…he makes time for that as well. He went out of his way a couple of weeks ago to bring me some juice, just because I asked him to. He asked me if the boys could do it and I said, “Well, I guess they can do it later…”…but he surprised me by doing it himself. That was really sweet.
And as far as getting “next to his heart” with sex…I’ve tried nothing of the sort. I’m usually cool, calm, and chill around him…showing no signs of sexual interest. HE’S the one that (in the past) was being all touchy feely…rubbing my legs, squeezing my arm…putting his head on my shoulder (once…it was awkward-well because I didn’t know how in the hell to respond…so I just kinda smiled at him and kept doing what I was doing), what else did that dude do…oh yea…he came to bring me some money while I was kicking it on the couch, bent down to give me a hug and bit the hell out of my neck. LMBO!!!
I understand that me being a “sensual” being that it may seem like I’ve made moves on him, but I STILL have yet to make a single one. Even with the making out…he’s the one that orchestrates and drives that.
Truth is…I don’t have a single seductive bone in my body and he’s the one who made me realize that. It’s my aloofness/coolness and either my competence or fun spirit that guys are usually attracted to (ok…and I do have a pretty face…admittedly). This man is the one who has made me realize that…truth is…I don’t even know HOW to seduce a man. So, I couldn’t seduce him if I wanted to. SMH
I’ve even massaged muscle soreness out of his shoulder…all with putting as much space between us as possible with him sitting in a chair and me working the muscles tender (not all up in his personal space) from a “safe” distance. My lil cousin saw this and laughed her butt off at me. She said, “Dang…you sure do give him alot of space for him to be your Boo.” lol I just laughed.
I am so relationship retarded…I swear. lol
Hello Ms. Teeq1974, I have two questions for you: How is the business with your Capricorn? Is he protective of you?
Rising Gemini
Sun Capricorn
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Scorpio
Vertex Scorpio
your a pisces?……….best to follow your intuition.
Well I was in a LTR with a man who had Capricorn rising and wow he was very much a Cap, every description here says it like it was. together for more than 10 years BUT his incessant working made me feel lonely, lack of affection or declarations of love or PDA just sort of broke my heart… made me lonely. He was committed I’ll give him that and I probably didn’t understand his “ways” very much, but in the end, I couldn’t handle such lack of affection and also his NEED for me to do some sort of executive work whether I liked it or not… very frustrating relationship to say the least. I am Aries with Taurus Moon and Gemini rising.
So my issue here is that I am currently kind of involved with another man who is Capricorn rising and seeing A LOT of similarities!! He is a Sagittarius, Capricorn rising and Libra Moon. Met him a few years ago and really never heard from him again but oddly we kept bumping into each other, he wanted updated phone and email accounts and sort of contacted me but nothing ever came of it. Then out of the blue I hear from him a few months ago… we did sleep together but after that he was all wanting to talk every single day almost all day long really, however, he really made no efforts to see me again, yet wanted to talk all the time… he did ask me over to his place a few times but i didn’t go, felt like a booty call and by this point i was wanting more than that.
he’s done the whole getting interested in my work and he’s actually rather formal in his compliments of me, and he’s done the whole telling me he’s been faithful to me since that day…. yet doesn’t seem to want to hit it again! work seems to be top priority for him. and we’ve gone back and forth a million times on the whole committment thing… I know he likes me, it’s obvious in a subtle way, and he hasn’t denied it when I say that I know this. He is also bossy! wow! seems to want to sort of tell me what to do, things i should fix in my life.
Thing is I LOVE talking with him, love the security of him being there and the sex was off the charts and i’ve been dying for a repeat, being a gemini rising i talk probably too much about sex for his liking. Anyway…. I feel like this IS something even though it’s not. I’m just not sure if I can put up with it all again. also he has scorpio in venus and mars in aquarius. I have both my mars and venus in gemini – so I’m a triple gemini!! (a handful I know
but I think I am much more taurus and aries than anything… my gemini side takes over and I want to talk about what’s going on between us and he seems to get frustrated with that…says just go with the flow, see where it all goes… i dunno… advice???
Can someone help me or have any advice?
I met this Cappy 2 years ago online…yes.. online. I was vary wary of the men messaging me and then for some reason when Cappy messaged me, something hit me and something told me he was worth replying back to. As I warmed up to him, we started to open up to each other….He was everything I ever desired in a partner and he said that strangely enough I am exactly what he has wanted in a partner as well and that he felt strangely comfortable talking to me and opening up.. He wanted to meet and I kept holding off.. I was soo scared of rejection…even though I felt comfortable with him.
So.. I was in the middle of a divorce and I told him to please not wait around for me because I wanted him to be happy. Communication started to decrease and less “loving”….and then he told me he went on a date (which ended up being his LEO girlfriend that he is still with). He said he was sorry but when I’m divorced, he is coming after me….Then he started to ignore my texts, messages.
He kept me on facebook and I occasionally messaged him to see how he was doing and most of the time he would ignore me but other times he would message back being friendly…It wasn’t until August of 2012 that we started talking more frequently.. and even a tad personal.. sometimes flirtatious but stopped once it got to a point. He informed me that him and his LEO girlfriend were encountering issues and he didn’t want to tell me because he thought I would be bias. I told him I’m sorry, but if he does need someone to talk to.. I was there for him. About a month ago, I asked him to tell me if he wanted me to stop talking to him.. and he told me that if I had intentions more than a friend then no, I should stop talking to him. I told him no.. but if he were single, I would ask him to dinner because I thought he is an amazing person….. He didn’t respond to that. I messaged him a week later and he was very nice with smiley faces and after that… he has been ignoring me down right. I texted him and said if he has no intentions of being friends or whatever to delete me off of facebook.. I just wanted an answer to have some concrete decision to forget about him. He is the only guy I have come across that for some reason, I have such a strong feeling about. It’s the weirdest thing….Anyway, he never deleted me from facebook and I know he saw my text.. the phone is glued to his hand.
Why after soo many months of “getting to know each other again” and friendly flirtation.. and all of a sudden he ignores me and won’t give me an answer? I’m soooooo confused and I don’t know what to do.. part of me is telling me to do my own thing and he will come around or something… I don’t want to give up on him.. especially since I have this weird connection to him. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.. especially if you are a Cappy male. I’m a Taurus female.. thank you