Capricorn men are cold
December 22, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
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Capricorn men are cold because their ruling planet is Saturn. Every sign of the zodiac is associated with a planet (or two), but none is as unfortunate as Capricorn. Cap lives under the thumb of the strictest, harshest, most judging and punishing god in the solar system. Until Uranus was discovered, Saturn was thought to be the outermost planet in the solar system, the boundary-maker. He rules limitations, concrete reality, tests and trials, all the hard work we must do to manifest anything in life. Saturn is slow — he brings on delays, forces us to patiently slog through tedious tasks to achieve our desired outcome.
But Saturn is not all bad. He rewards hard work with material success; suffering with wisdom. He’s still the strict father, however. Saturn will give you what’s coming to you — good or bad.
You won’t get warmth from a Capricorn man, but his steadiness and sense of duty betray his affection towards you.
Comment below: How do you know when a Capricorn man cares for you?
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Thanks Diva Sag, I haven’t heard from him, I got a bit weak and sent a email, he told me he was sick on Tuesday, so I just said I hope your feeling better and since he missed class I told him he didn’t miss anything important. Haven’t heard anything from him yet. I think I don’t have the kind of patience needed to deal with him. I am used to men being more consistent with contact especially in the early stages of getting to know someone, with him I never know if when I talk to him it will be the last time, this bothers me. So I thought maybe we could just be friends. I have a few good male friends I don’t talk to all the time, but are still close too. So for now I think I am putting him there as just a friend. Thanks for your input ladies.
My boyfriend has me on the same rollercoaster. We moved in, but I only live there a few days a week cus he always says he needs “space”, and for him its a couple days. It makes me feel bad, like he doesn’t want to spend time with me, but I realize thats just how he is. He works all day, and then he doesn’t even want me home.
Hey Saggirl, I’ve never dealt with a man who acts like this cappy, even in other relationships the men were upfront and consistent I didn’t have to Do most if not all of the work…Since I have been talking to this cappy for the last few weeks I have helped him several times with school work, never in person over the phone, I started to feel used…so idk I am thinking that cappy and NOT for me.
*edit*I am thinking cappy is not for me
Libra30…..I gave up a while ago….Couldn’t take the run around.
Libra30…..I gave up a while ago.
Yeah thats kind of were I am heading, its too much work, my cappie female friend is the same way she will like a guy and like a guy and chase him forever and soon as he come back around to chase her back she is gone, she will never admit but she like the chase.
I guess just being myself was too much…I didn’t SHOW that much interests but I guess it was interpreted that way.
Hello, I’m a virgo involved with this capricorn guy, we started off as friends well we ended up becoming “buddies” and then he went back to his ex didn’t talk for a week and then out of the blue when I’m out on a date he calls, I call him back we talk I tell him I miss him he tells me he missed me too we end up hanging out the next day he broke it off with his ex two days later and now he is acting distant again, what is going on?
My Cap went back to his ex to. The main thing that absolutely pisses me off is that he just put me aside for no reason at all and if he has a reason then he has yet to man up and tell me what it is.
What floors me is that he and I could have been fantastic for each other and he just up and ruins everything for an ex that he told me nothing good about. We complemented each other nicely and had a mutual understanding of each other without really having to go into detail about anything. He is about as shy as I am, but apparently he doesn't know how to bite the bullet. What pisses me off even more than his own stupidity is that he is my brother-in-law's best friend and even the people that I trust don't even have my back. They want to keep the peace like nothing even happened while I'm emotionally falling apart for being rejected for no reason.. They say they care, but their actions say otherwise and are more supportive of him. If there is any chance of us being friends, then he has royally screwed up. He preaches about honesty yet can't practice what he preaches.
Getting close to a cappie is sooo slow, I wonder after reading the two last posting is it slow cause he is juggling women or there is an ex in the picture hmmmm…makes you think well we are just friends now, all of sudden he calling again and being consistent not holdng my breath def dating another person, never met a a guy like these cappies…very strange
I tried getting close for three months and still would have kept trying if it wasn't for his stupidity and her snooping around. "She" didn't start trying to hang around about two weeks after we started dating. What I don't get is why he went back to her. The only thing he told me about was why he broke up with her (needy, clingy, jealous, possessive, etc). I'm supportive of his career and don't expect him to spend all of his free time with me, but to be put aside for no reason really ticks me off. He isn't even brave enough (much less respect me enough) to call me and say that he doesn't want me anymore. One minute everything is going as it should and the next he acts like I never existed for no legit reason. I have dated a Taurus and Gemini in the past (not a good match for Scorpio!) and those two didn't piss me off near as much as my Cap ex has. People have referred to me as cold (I'm pretty shy around people I don't know very well), but this guy is ridiculous.
He doesn't even have the guts to tell me he wanted out. He was the one to initiate our "relationship" and ruin everything. I didn't do anything wrong and I'm not the cheating kind (loyal to the bitter end). As far as the ex girlfriend goes, good luck tolerating her insecurities when history repeats itself. She may be wise to keep her issues to herself for a while, but it won't last forever. All I can say is good luck finding someone else that understands him as well as I do because there isn't another me out there.