Should I give in to my Capricorn man?
November 27, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
Capricorn men can be bossy. They are ruled by authoritative Saturn, the CEO of the zodiac.
The question you should ask yourself is what your Capricorn man wants. It sounds like you two totally disagree on a course of action, and one of you must yield to the other. Capricorns do not easily surrender, unfortunately.
Capricorn rules the mountain, and the Goat wants to be on top. He’s worked long and hard to get there, so what incentive does he have to give up his status?
Saturn rules our insecurities that we strive to overcome. The feeling that deep inside he’s not good enough — that’s the soft sticky interior underneath Capricorn’s hard surface. If he gives in to you, he needs to maintain his self-confidence in the process, or else he’ll feel less-than. Your Capricorn man will only give in if you can find a way for him to save face while he succumbs to you.
Libra’s “win win” may not appeal to Capricorn, but he does want to be seen as a benevolent leader. As much as he likes his position, he realizes that his authority only lasts as long as his organization thrives. If the relationship’s stock price increases as a result of his temporary relinquishment of power, then he may be willing to step down — just this once.
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blakgoat, I respect your honesty but I don’t think you are understanding what I am saying. I never told him that I allow him to cheat on me. I have a lot of respect for myself. He cheated on me and I took him back because he said he loved me and he wanted to work things out. I also believe he cheated because a friend of his said we slept together (when we didn’t) and that was always in the back of his mind so he lost respect for our relationship.
We have two kids together and I feel that keeping a family together is very important. I NEVER WOULD OR HAVE ALLOWED HIM OR ANYBODY ELSE TO CHEAT…I made it very clear that if he cheated again that it is over…kids or no kids…
I really appreciate all of this feedback, it has helped me alot… which brings me to my next point. Starting off the new year (by the way HAPPY NEW YEAR to all of you…)
The bottom line is that after his cheating, I can’t trust him and it is causing us a lot of problems. This time I really think that he is going to cheat again. He was over the other night and his friend texted him at 4 in the moring and when he went to the bathroom I checked the text, it said “her name is kendall” making a long story short I blacked out… he called his friend to get his friend to tell me why he text that but it is bulls***… so I broke up with him. I found out he has also been checking my text reading things. We had a fight and broke up a while ago and I went out to dinner with another guy, when we got back together, I told him about it. He bought me a new iphone for christmans and kept my old phone so that he could connect the new… he was reading all of my messages… there was nothing incriminating because I don’t cheat but he found the text when I was talking to the guy I went out to dinner with. In my text I told the guy that we would be no more than friends because I am not looking for a relationship and we will never be physical. But I think that still made him jealous, the fact that I was talking to another guy. So maybe he is going out on the prowl again. My question is, is this break-up gonna be for good??? Also, he is going to finish his sentence on monday for two months. I think I should leave him alone. I don’t know if this relationsip is going to work because I can’t trust him. Do you think that telling him about this guy was a mistake or will he realize that he can loose me!?
By the way, I used to be the person on the side, but I proved myself to be more worthy than that. Everybody in this area wants to be with me. I am smart, beautiful, I have an education a job and has had plenty of businesses. I am also an inventor… This man is also gorgeous and every woman that lays eyes on him wants him. He is 37 and I am 36…We have been involved since we were 17 and 16… there is a lot of history between us. Obviously he thinks I am a keeper because we have been dealing with each other this long. He talks about marriage but he has things (criminal situation) to work out, including becoming employed. We used to have an honest relationship, I just don’t know what happened. In my heart I believe we will be together forever, I just am messing things up because he cheated. He is absolutely gorgeous, a man that everybody would want, I just can’t bring myself to believe that he won’t cheat.
He kept calling me stupid about thinking that he was cheating again, I told him I was stupid for wanting to be with him after he cheated the first time, he then brings up the guy that I went to dinner with… saying that I didn’t want to be with him because he was a loser and I had to let him know that actually the guy was goodlooking, successful, drove a 650 and treated me with respect… do you think this cappy will realize he might loose me or do you think that he will just let me go? When we argue, I am always the one that calls him and mends the relationship… he never takes the step to reach out to me…I just wonder if he will get a wake up call that he can loose me…
Will this new guy bring us closer or is this the end?
before luv there has to be trust. trust is the foundation.
and it sounds like the foundation in your relationship is tore up.
you and your baby’s daddy going back forth like that is only going to get worse and make it bad for you and the kids.
if he is a typical capricorn then that means trust comes around every sooo………1,000 years.
it sounds like your genuinely in love with your kid’s father .
but you getting back at him and him getting back at you only escelates.
From what it sounds like, does it seem like he loves me? I mean you know cappies better than I do. Would a cappie stay in a 8 year relationship if he wasn’t in love???
if it were me, the only way i would stay in a relationship with a woman i did not trust, was if i were using her for something.
that’s just my opinion.
FOR EIGHT YEARS… SERIOUSLY??? I mean, We arent talking about a side chick here… I am considered wifey!!! Like seriously!!! You can use somebody for eight years???
I just wanted to add that I really appreciate your honesty… It helps me out a lot… Please… Don’t hold back!!! This is what I might need to get over him!
And furthermore who said he doesn’t trust ME??? I never cheated on him… I asked why a cappie would stay in a relationship if he didn’t LOVE somebody… (not if he didn’t trust somebody)
And let me add that the cappy has been in a relationship with me for 8 years…would a cappy waste all that time if not for love?
you did say he cheated on you and he thought you cheated on him because of what a friend told him. and he’s been checking your text.
if theres no trust, then all that wifey, i love you, i want to spend the rest of my life with you bulls*** is just “pillow talk”
would he waste all that time?
that’s the complexity of a typical cap, we’ll wait for years to get what we want.
time is on our side(lol)
you should follow your instincts and ask yourself do you want to be with someone you cant trust and he cant trust you.
you need to be honest with yourself. if you consider yourself “wifey” then why did you go out to dinner with the other guy with the 650.
c’mon your fooling yourself or your lying:)
When I went to dinner with this
guy … Me and cappy were broken up… He doesn’t deliver to my libran needs… So I wanted to test the water and see If I was compatible with another man… I found that I
only wanted him… So I reached out and we got back together … There is no reason for him not to trust me… After all he has pit me through … And I hve stayed… That speaks for itself!!!
i’ll take your word for that, but have you considered how your boyfriend feels.
trust comes very hard if a man thinks his girlfriend is cheating.
you rarley ever hear of the guy taking a cheating girlfriend back. and plus, he’s a capricorn. you better believe he has a plan.
even if you didnt cheat, it’s what he thinks.
BLAKGOAT SOUNDZ LIKE U GIVE VERY GOOD ADVICE WHUT DO U MEAN BY HE HAS A PLAN?? REVENGE??
just giving it to you from a male perspective.
he’s probabaly sticking around due to his financial situation.
and by him being a capricorn, everything has a purpose and he is going to use time to his advantage.
I’m loving it that we have a male in the house…
BlakGoat, can you help a sista out?
I’m with this Cap and I am just smitten by him. I already told him that I loved him. But love is such a powerful word and right now I am confused so I will just stick with the word ’smitten’.
Moving on… what is up with you guys? His confidence is out the whaaazozee and you can’t tell him anything. He is handsome (and he knows this) and he tells me that he loves me and that I should be happy for this. (do u do that? if so, y?) He handles me real rough saying how he is building me to be strong. I’m about to collapse. He is stupidly jealous- and yet he flirts and reaches out to other women via internet. Now, I do remember a time when we were going on nicely and he wasnt do this at all. But whenever we fight or I don’t agree with him… he does this. As I type these things out… i feel so dumb. It is obvious that this guy thinks of me as a wuss. The sad thing is is that this is not the case. I really like him and would like a relationship with him… this is why I am so tolerant of so many things.
I couldn’t take the emotional strain anymore and I told him that he has to go. We do not live together, no, but we were ’staying’ together because we are currently working on a project. He yelled at me and said some horrible stuff. He emailed some terrible stuff at me too. All along I never really shot back nothing nasty because as I was reading those ‘lovely’ emails… I saw so much pain inside of them. I answered back lovingly yet calmly… no matter how nasty he got. When he did (the next day after those emails) come by to retrieve his stuff- he was very loving to me. He constantly was kissing me telling me how he was sorry for the things he said but he is just trying to make me strong. He said that he loved me and that I am his for life.
Oh. Also, at one time before he said if nothing else believe that he loves me.
Moving further, he left with his stuff and he called the next day. I answered the phone once stating that I love him yes but I can not bear to hear his voice right now and hung up the phone. He called a few more times after that. On his birthday- I sent him an email with a photoshop picture with me and him sating thanks and that I will see him at the top. He responded back that he was there to build my ego and thanks for everything. His birthday was the 18th and today so far I haven’t heard from him. what does all this mean?
Straight up. Was he using me? Just to have a place and some kitty while he is in the NYCity? Does he really like me? What’s with the reaching out to women? He said it doesn’t matter who he ‘reaches’ out too just as long as I… we… both know that he belongs to me.
I can not afford to be used. If you have any questions to ask before making an assessment, by all means ask. I’m ready…
@sweetp
reading these comments on this website can be weird. it’s like reading my own history book.
i can identify with what he’s trying to do with you. but disagree with how he’s trying to do it.
it sounds like he is trying to build a future with you. he understands the cold “realities” of this world and feels if you and him are going to have a successful secure future you have to be strong and tough to back him up.
he will give you the world if he thinks your worthy. that’s right worthy(lol)
i dont think he was using you. just wanted you to be more outspoken and assertive.
im gonna tell you a lil’ secret,…………the whole thing with him reaching out to other women was a “test”, if you put your foot down and demand respect youll get a suprising response. when a woman plays tough , it’s a turn on, at least for me.
if i think a woman is weak, i will take advantage and use her.
i really think he likes you, he’s probably contemplated spending the rest of his life with you thousands of time.
Are cappy’s great communicators? Meaning, do they call their mates alot even after years of relationship? I very rarely get a call from him… Does that mean he doesn’t care? We have been together 8 years
Help!
I met a Capricorn a couple of weeks ago and we’ve seen each other four days of the last seven. He is extremely intense. He has definitely lit my pilot light back up. The physical attraction, chemistry, infatuation, tension is so thick you could cut it with a knife.
He started introducing me as his girlfriend on our second date and we’ve had a few words about his possessiveness. Twice I was having a conversation with friends, and he told them that he wanted to spend time with “his woman” and it was time for them to go. He “chose me” very fast. I told him he would have to be patient with me as I am wanting to be more cautious and not jump into bed or into a relationship until we’ve spent enough time to get to know if we will be good friends, and then make the next step to lovers. That takes time. When I tell him I want to take time to get to know him, he says “You do know me.”
Bottom line, he’s pressing me to “chose him” fast and confirm that by sleeping together. He got mad at me a couple nights ago when I did not invite him in after a quite passionate goodnight kiss and embrace on my front porch. Last night he asked me to meet him at happy hour. I was talking to a friend (again) and he abruptly said, “I have to go” and walked out. No phone call today.
He also told me last night that he is expecting a job offer which will take him out of state for 13 weeks on a contract. He did invite me to move with him, or that he would fly me out several times to visit. I don’t know if that offer is good only if I “hurry up and decide” before he leaves.
I’m intoxicated with the chemistry between us, but also want to stick to my guns and let the relationship develop slowly if it’s going to be. Is there a way to calm him down a little to wait for me to catch up, or is it more likely to be “his way or the highway”?
Him: Capricorn Sun in 12th house and Capricorn Ascendant
Moon in Gemini
Venus in Aquarius
Mars in Scorpio
Me: Virgo Sun and Moon in 12th house
Ascendant and Venus in Libra
Mars in Gemini
I don’t know much about how to interpret all the signs, but it seems that perhaps our Mars placements may be causing most of the tension??? Yikes. I’m afraid to chose him and I’m afraid to lose him.
p.s. Just as I was about to hit “enter”, he called. No-go on the out-of-state job so he’s here a little while longer. We have a date to see his teenage daughter in a concert tomorrow where I’ll meet his daughter, his son, and his ex-wife. No pressure.
Sorry…got my “chose” and “choose” typo’d a couple times. My bad.
Update: He said…she said: My Cap called back last night around 9:20. He’d been at the neighborhood bars for 3-4 hours and invited me to come share some drinks. I told him thanks but I was going to bed early.
He said, “That’s because you’re old. That’s ok. I’ll just pick up some young women here.”
I said “Lovely.”
He said, “Actually young women always try to pick ME up.”
I said “Yes, well we’re both attractive people so the opposite sex will always be interested.”
He said, “No I’m waiting for you.”
I said “That sounds better.”
He said “I’m not planning to sleep alone tomorrow night.”
I said “You’re not?”
He said “That’s the plan.”
I said playfully “Well who are you planning to sleep with???”
…long pause…
I said “You have to give me time to get to know you. We haven’t even dated a week.”
He said “Three weeks!”
….long pause….
He said “Well, two weeks…or more. Two or three weeks.”
(I had seen him a couple times, but our first “official” date was Saturday.)
I said “That’s still not much time.”
He said “Ok, rest up and I’ll see you tomorrow.”
I said “Yes. Have fun tonight. Bye.”
I’ve read the other threads on Capricorn and seen what has happened with a Cap even after years of devotion. I’m just going to try to hang on to my heart (and my panties) until my instincts tell me either he’s serious, or he’s just playing some games. If he can’t be patient and he walks away, I’ll guess he wasn’t serious. Problem solved.
hello…….. my comment is to blackgoat regaurding sweetp an sort of my self……. it is weird reading all these comments makes me feel like im not alone seriously theres other people out here that going threw what i went threw omg an its all to fimilar but this an this what u said i been there i been aggressive an an i put my lil foot down an im still in the same situation so my question to you is seeing your a cap male an yes again we do wait years to get what we want but i waited years an years to find what i already new an it hurts i wish i never or he never told me….. that he cheated an he was with someone with me an he told me that it wasnt offical yet the at the time we werent but in my mind i thought we was so my question is what go’s on in your mind to treat someone that way what should i do he wants to start a new start everything over im a cap an he’s a cap so i understand some of what he did an how we think an the big question is what would you do if you found out that your girlfriend was seeing someone else an not being truthful to you an then came clean an apologized over an over an over an showed you that she can change an made the effort when out of her way for you started doing the lil thing what would you do……….all that time put in an i cant see how he would do this to me i dont get it im kinda lost right noww i feel a kinda way cause i could let go the fact he did what he did an he went threw all them years treating me the way he did i feel like its my fault i pushed him away now seeing he wants to start a new an he shocked me 3 times with his efforts im like wow omg your really trying to woo me but it hurts we not speaking right about now an i not sure if i should call……. seeing it was me that pushed him away but come on how do you treat someone you said you loved like that my poor lil capricorn heart hurts so from one cap to another what should i do with the capricorn man i have………….
honestly when we put our feeling out there we go all in an to find out that he wasnt all in an now wants to correct what he did……… should i call… or this is what im just thinking or is it that he still doing something wrong an still has someone an he just trying to hold on to his piece of azz thats just a random thought ……….
to virgowoman…… lol well im only speaking on my behalf an from my experience but girl you read all the comment an years from now noing how we capricorns are your gonna look back an say one of the two things i was right or im so happy i did nt follow what those comments said…….. again speaking on my capricornian behalf we always get what we want…. so if he plans to not sleep alone we have was with words to get you …… love ya an toss ya out….
Hi Camille,
Thank you for the feedback and perspective.
It is the fear that he will love me and toss me out that is making me keep him waiting awhile. He lets me know there are plenty of women out there, not just me. I say “Yes. But there is only one me.” (Not that I’m THAT special…haha.) I guess I’d rather have him “use and toss” one of them and protect my own heart if that’s the way he is. I need a man’s respect in addition to his love and sex.
We did have a great date Friday night with the concert, dinner and a couple drinks. But after necking on my front porch awhile, I still did not let him inside. So he did sleep alone. He also has not called me since then. So no call Saturday or Sunday. No telling what he is thinking now.
Four days with no contact after our last date Friday, phone ringie dingies just now. He’s in a good mood and wants me to meet him for happy hour today.
This “holding out” thing seems to be working just fine.
@baby211
it’s sort of cute that youre trying to get in my head:)
is there any attraction between you and your friend?
any passion?
any chemistry?
Maybe the holding out thing isn’t working out so well after all. lol
Happy hour yesterday ended up being a stand-off with him demanding a physical relationship fast and me demanding some patience and time. Sheesh! He ended up saying “I’m leaving” and walked out. I asked him to please stay, but didn’t follow him out. I stayed and had another beer with a neighborhood girl friend.
I thought Capricorn’s were supposed to be cautious and patient.
Oh well, I guess it will be another several days or longer before he gets over not getting what he wants and calls again. Or he can go find some easy woman and never call me again. Whatever. I don’t do temper tantrums.
to virgo woman let me tell you something this is how he has you this is how mines had me at one point but you are that special dont sell your self short ever… one thing you never do infront or let em no your willing to do is submit dear dont give in you go with what your gut feeling
thats the beginning of your long tail of drama hun let him go you dont chase after no one especially a man we like to be chased this is only my advice get out while you heart is still in one piece… i swear to it……. this comment an any other comment are just my opinion it you the reader that has the choice
to blackgoat…… lmao smfh i swear capricorn men are slower then there female counter parts boy i tell ya……. i said he is a capricorn i dont no you tell me mr no it all if you met me would there be passion would there be chemistry your dealing with someone with your same wants needs goals attitude you abilitys you it what i say go’s thing where both stubborn hard head an so on an no dear i dont try i do your just now catching that i was in there made the bed an left………. like seriously us women caps are better faster get with it it just we get blinded by love for the other an im blinded by my other capricorn love an i found a new fond appricateation for him i very stern an demanding im over possesive an controling an he is as well dont make me check you you roalgoatyness but i got my answer thanks anyway
Hi Camille,
Thanks again. It is good to have input, especially from a Capricorn.
I am not chasing him. That’s good advice for any woman with any man. Early last week he said something about wishing I would call him and invite him over to “take me” sometime. I set the groundrules then and there. I told him that he’s Da’Man and I’m Da’WoMan and if he wants me then he has to make the phone calls and pursue me. I don’t call men. I don’t chase men. (He didn’t seem to appreciate that BTW, but he IS still doing ALL the calling. lol) I don’t mind waiting several days for a call while he licks his wounds about not getting his way (again).
Maybe I’m being too stubborn and will lose him to someone who is easier. I’ll take that chance. I do have values and will stand up for them.
What’s that old saying? Men are like buses. If you miss the 8 o’clock bus, another bus will be pulling around the corner at 8:10 to pick you up.
I might like to let him catch me someday, if he’s smart enough and starts playing his cards right. Only time will tell if it’s meant to be. He needs to romance me with sweet words and compliments, not bash me over the head with sexual demands and calling me “frigid”. He needs to play hard to get with me, not offer me cheap easy sex which is of no value to me. Maybe he’ll figure it out.
I still think maybe his Mars in Scorpio and my Mars in Gemini are creating a lot of tension.
The battle of the sexes continues…
Yesterday I went to happy hour with friends. I had a feeling my Cap might show up and he did. I had written him a poem essentially telling him that his demands for sex would not work and that romance, sweet words and seduction would work.
He came in the bar, didn’t say hello and went and sat down at the far end. I just ignored him and kept talking to my girl friend. Eventually he came down, but said hi to my friend and chit-chatted with her for a minute.
Then he asked “What are you doing here?”
I said “Just hanging out.”
He asked “Did you try to call me?”
I said “Uh, NO. Are you kidding me?????”
(My girl friend cracked up laughing.)
He told her “That’s why she’s alone.” and walked back to the end of the bar.
I took the poem I had written, put it in front of him and said “Read this, then come talk to me if you feel like it”, and walked off.
I was talking with my girl friend and he comes over my shoulder and said, “I thought about reading this, but then decided it would make better fire wood.” He had folded my poem up and burnt a hole in it with a lighter.
We continued to ignore each other for over an hour. He came down finally, put his arms around me, whispered in my ear to join him and he’d buy us a beer. I snapped. “You can’t be serious! You burned my poem. You need to apologize. Actually now you owe me two apologies!” (…one for the poem and another for being so demanding on the sex topic…).
He started to walk away and repeated “Come down when you finish that beer and let me buy you one. It’s all about forgiveness. It’s all about the heart.”
I said “Is that an apology???”
He said “Yeah.” Seemed a bit sarcastic to me.
Anyway, he ended up leaving before I finished my beer. I was planning to join him to see what he had to say for himself, but oh well.
This relationship is going nowhere FAST! We shouldn’t both be acting like seven year olds after only two weeks.
Happy Valentine’s Day everyone.
Guess I’m being “punished” for something and left to spend it alone.
It’s ok.
virgo woman girl i told you already what to do an it seems to me your already caught up in his web woman……….. no one can resist the capricorn charm where the best at it an seeing i see if you questioning you self your not stuborn thats just how you are like i said before stop selling your self short the only thing i can tell you now seeing your tingled up in his capricorn love wed lmao……… is to becareful
virgo woman you should ve just kept the poem woman you made the biggiest mistake ever there i say………. lmao if he knew you where at the bar right an showed up an sat at the far end then came over an ignored yo an spoke to your friend as if you wasnt there thats a tell tail sign you in for a world of hurt………….. by giving him the peom dear you offically chasing him he got you you said he was calling you then i dont get his comment an the stern ness in his voice an the smart ass comment thats why she alone girls dont make me find you a slap you silly let go he already did from that one comment you should ve known umm theres nothing there i wanna slap some sense into you right about now but they do do that an i understand you nothing thinking clearly when he around but girl.GIRL STOP IT HE IS TOYING WITH YOUR HEART NOW AN HE SAID IT thats why she alone HINT HINT
GIRL the fact the peom was burnt let it go runnnnnn geezus he toying with you thats not an apology girl snap out of it thats not the person that values you girl girl im shaking my head right now cause your caught up……. just buy alot of tissues cause you in for a world of hurt….. find a new bar ugh your lost already so i welcome you to the drama of the capricorn haters club cause soon you’ll be typing which you starting to how your cap man this an that…… girl
@baby211,
Yes, well…
We made up one more time, went on our third date, he started demanding sex again…and then broke up with me when I pushed back. LOL
He was looking for Ms. Right Now, not Ms. Right. Now he’s gone.
@ virgowoman.. well i can only tell you right about now you should be speaking to blackgoat let him share his words of capricorn wisdom he seems to know alot an i respect half of his comments an i think he could give you more of an insight to the caprcorn man but girl break up on off on off is how its gonna be for a while……………………… there’s only one person that can understand a cap man an can relate it takes one to know one an me a cap woman can say yea i met my match in a cap man he trys his luck every now an then but he gets it back twice as hard cause he knows dont start none an there wont be none cause imma bring it…
@baby211
He broke up with me 10 days ago and has not called or shown up in my neighborhood. I think he’s gone for good. I’ve already moved ahead with my own life. Three dates and no sex wasn’t enough for me to get TOO caught up. I tried to leave the door open for him to change his mind later, but I think he slammed it shut on his way out.
Well, good luck with your own Cap man. I hope for you a good happy relationship.
I am a Capricorn girl and I am so confused by a Capricorn man!!! We have been talking for 3 months now, and haven’t gone out on a date yet. He is a on road trucker and isn’t home a lot and every time we planned to hang out in the past he would say he had things to do. After I asked him why he stood me up twice he told me that he was scared of falling for me, and that he got afraid. Really?
He always gives me hints about how he’s insecure saying things like, “You don’t want me”, “I just sleep with girls not to get hurt”. He’s opened up to me so much and even told me he remembers things I told him when we first started talking.
We live in the same city and we have ran into each other before but never been properly introduced. He is single and the things he tells me give off a “player” vibe about him, yet whenever I say he sounds like a player his response is usually “If I was a player I wouldn’t be telling you s***”. He did jokingly once mention if he was getting laid (by me), to which I replied, “You are just wasting your time if that’s what you expect from me”. I am a Capricorn myself and I could NEVER have a one-night stand, I need security and trust before a sexual relationship could develop.
I am just really confused by him. I can usually read people well but he’s been quite an enigma. Could he possibly just be putting up a wall as a defense to not getting hurt and rejected? How should I handle it? We text every day and calls couple of times a week. (He’s on the road right now).
Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!
Hi CappyGirl,
Walk in with your eyes wide open. Don’t let him push you into sex before you are ready.
Best advice: Read all of this thread and all of the “Waiting for Capricorn Man to Come Back After a Breakup”. You’ll see lots of “similar” stories with various outcomes.
well m a gemini…thr was this guy.. a complete stranger… we never spoke but we always meet accidentally and look at each other like we have known each other for ages… then we smiled ”kinda sixties love stories..i told it to one of ma frenzs he gave me his no….so i called him up.. he said he doesn’t know me… but continued to speak to me.. eventually i found hez capricorn.. i cant comment on what he thinks.. but it certainly is testin’ ma patience… bein a gemini holdin some unpredictable person is soo damn tough…wheneva i call him hez very sweet.. but neva bothers to call me back. thot to leave it baseless feelings but.. when i don call him for weeks..he just keeps on checkin on ma social network profile…. see i don have ne problem movin on..but just that don wanna loose him this way without knowin what he actually wants.. goin madd!!!cappy guys help!!!