Should I give in to my Capricorn man?
November 27, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
Capricorn men can be bossy. They are ruled by authoritative Saturn, the CEO of the zodiac.
The question you should ask yourself is what your Capricorn man wants. It sounds like you two totally disagree on a course of action, and one of you must yield to the other. Capricorns do not easily surrender, unfortunately.
Capricorn rules the mountain, and the Goat wants to be on top. He’s worked long and hard to get there, so what incentive does he have to give up his status?
Saturn rules our insecurities that we strive to overcome. The feeling that deep inside he’s not good enough — that’s the soft sticky interior underneath Capricorn’s hard surface. If he gives in to you, he needs to maintain his self-confidence in the process, or else he’ll feel less-than. Your Capricorn man will only give in if you can find a way for him to save face while he succumbs to you.
Libra’s “win win” may not appeal to Capricorn, but he does want to be seen as a benevolent leader. As much as he likes his position, he realizes that his authority only lasts as long as his organization thrives. If the relationship’s stock price increases as a result of his temporary relinquishment of power, then he may be willing to step down — just this once.
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A Capricorn male is reserved in emotion and does not like sappy females. He is basically cold and undemonstrative. It will take a hot hot blaze to warm this iceberg up! As he is all business oriented and materially minded state hard cold facts with this man then he might listen to what you have to say. Help him climb the ladder to success and you will win him over. Speak of how confident he is of himself and he will love you!
I’ve been with my Capricorn for almost 10 years and I’ve learned the secret–they’re NOT really cold. Even in a committed relationship, they find it hard to be vulnerable. Once you break through that hard shell, they’re just as warm and loving as any Libra or Leo, with a significant difference–a cappy man is for real, and shows his love in private. He’s a bit shy.
Dee,
You make a good point. Capricorn is the sign of restraint, so the affection will be there, but it is not easily expressed. And a Cap won’t demonstrate love unless he’s serious about it.
This is really interesting, because I am a Picese woman, and capricorns and pisces are not suppose to be a good match. I tell you the shell this man has is very hard to break, but I’m going to have to tryn to figure this out overall he seems like a great man.
I’m a Gemini, and this guy I’m dating is a Capricon. I complain alot abt him being cold before I read up abt Cap characteristics. We broke up as I cldn’t take his coldness and reserved way. Now, we’re trying to get back. But I’ve this fear of handling him, he seems to be difficult, opinionated, and self-centred. Should I continue my relationship with him?
NotAnonymous 1:07: Nothing you say about this man is positive. Why do you want to get back together?
What should I do? A Cappy man met me online, pursued me intensely, we met after 3 months of talking and texting. Had an amazing connection on first date. He always talks of marriage,likes that I’m 6 yrs older, say’s I am just like him but always says “why should I like him he’s not handsome like that and knows I got a lot of guys after me” He pulls back now, barely calling me. I really, really have an attraction for him.I feel like he wants me to chase him. I am a Leo Woman and we are both in entertainment, something that he mentioned he loved as well. His communication now is very inconsistent.He would always refer to my beauty, but without ever saying Im petty. He always reminds me of his success and that he wants someone to share it with. He talks of buying a home and always wanting to have a partner to share life with. He constantly mentions marriage in conversation. I would like to start a real connection with him, but I feel he is guarding himself from me. WHY!
“Should I give in to my Capricorn man?”
Yes, by all means, sign the pre-nup. Once you’ve got him he ain’t going anywhere (marriage is a binding contract for this grounded earth goat) so you’ve nothing to worry about.
and the insurance papers, second mortgage options, medical waivers, credit bureau and criminal record checks . . . just part of the necessary protocol (and here’s where you might have something to worry about)
Oh the sheer delight of giving in to a Capricorn man! Gotta get me some . . . but they’re all married already, *astards. I missed the boat!
I’ve been with my cappie for 7 months. He is the one who proclaimed his love to me right off the bat and tried to win me over with affection and sharing his feeling first. I’m a cancer and during that time I hide in my shell and didn’t trust him. He got me to come out and I finally said I love you back a month after he did. Now he’s the one who wants to live together. I don’t understand why people say they are so cold and unemotional?
Anon Cancer — I was reading Stephen Arroyo, and as he put it, Caps have a “crusty exterior.” It doesn’t mean they’re not warm inside, but it may take a while for them to feel comfortable enough to express it. If this guy told you he loved you right off the bat, perhaps he’s got his Mars or Venus in a Fire sign.
i think you should give in to capricorn man, he always wants to be a leader, and controling. the capricorm gye does not like someone pushy, he likes to feel the freedome of making his own decisions, he doesnt say i love you unless he really mean it.
capricorn is so warm and damn good in bed.
I have known my Capricorn for approx. 15 years. We talked on and off throughout the years. I am so happy that we finally decided to meet for dinner and drinks. He is nothing like what everyone else has described a Cap to be. I am a Leo woman and even read that we are not supposed to be compatible. That is sooo not true. He is extremely affectionate, he has been extremely vocal in expressing himself to the point that he made me run into a shell that I did not think any Leo had. It’s only been 1 month and I am head over heels. (he doesn’t know that) I am very excited about what the future holds for us. I just hope that things stay the same. I keep thinking that all those negative Cap traits may come out of nowhere which leaves me a little hesitant.
One thing’s for sure about the Capricorn man is that he always wants to be admired and be the center of attention. Give him all of that and he’ll give you anything!
My bf (not official at all) is a Capricorn (sun, mercury and venus signs are all capricorn) and a taurus in moon sign. So I need a capricorn men’s advice. Because for me being a Gemini who relies on words and not action are so different from him and I just want some advice.
Also everytime I read Capricorn men’s advice they seem so correct.
Once I read from a post by a Capricorn man who said you must understand that Capricorn men do not want to admit that they need a woman and Capricorn men tend to think that too much love destroys them. That really explains the way he acts.
He is a very Capricorn guy so I hope I get that Capricorn advice!
Here is what happened in our relationship. We met about a year and a half ago on a dating site. I felt attracted to him that I did not hesitate anything on our second date. He asked me to go to his house and I went and asked he asked me to go to a married couple’s party next weekend and he kissed me. I felt attracted to him I led him to the bed but I wasn’t thinking of doing it. He asked me aren’t we moving too fast but I said no. When he was really going for it I said I did not want it but he sort of forced. Well at that time I was sort of seeing another guy who I did not want as a bf. So I was cheating on both of them for 3 weeks but quickly ended with the other guy to be with the Capricorn. I knew that Capricorn knew. He could sense a lie from miles away. After that we quickly hung out like a normal couple. Met him 4 times a week and hung out every weekend except when he was in business trips. He introduced me to his closest friends and ppl from work. And other of his friends that came from out of town. But at the same time he would sometimes get angry and say that we are not a couple and say that he is not interested in longterm relationship and apologize but I would tell him that I still liked him and he would treat me more like a real couple after that.
Once when we came back in the morning from bar hopping with friends and I was totally sleeping in bed he had done it without protection. I woke up suprised when I found out that he did not use protection. I told him that there might be a possibility that I might become … Then we talked and I said that I would go and get the 72 hour pills. However I did not because I had serious 1 on 1 meetings at my job concerning that I might get fired. That night when he asked me if I went to the hospital and I replied no
He became hysterically angry at me. He totally blaimed the situation to me and said that he will not see me if I did was or was not pregnant. We fought on line for about a month. I found out that I was not pregnant and then he did not believe it for a second but any how we stopped contact for months and then one day about 3 months after that his friend came to my 2nd work place where I worked in a store. He came as a customer to ask that he wanted to change the color of the product that he bought. He came 3 times. The next day coincidently I saw my Capricorn man at a restaurant and I could not say hi to him because I was scarred.(His past words put me into low confiedence). But after when I went back home I told him that I saw him online. He said why I did not say hi to him. I said that I felt awkward. And he asked me was it because I was pregnant or not (probabbly as a joke). I told him that I was not pregnant and asked him if he sent his close friend to my work place to check if I was pregnant or not. He replied no. But he said that I made him paranoid all long thinking that I might be pregnant. So I replied jokingly that it was my plan so he would be careful with his future lovers (it was irony). That conversation ended and no contact from neither of us for another 3 months.
Then, one day suddenly started to talk to me online. I asked him if he has a gf and he he replied that he just ended a non serious relationship. He asked me if I had a bf and I said no. He said that he is going to leave the country in about 4 months and asked me if I wanted to see him. (I knew he was going to leave the country as he told me from the beginning of our realtionship)
He often goes to international trips but this time it would be for good.
While we were distant I hung out with guys but never had a relationship. Just friends but I did not think about him because I thought that he had no intention to contact me again. I replied I’ll think about it . And after few weeks when I was finally not busy with work I met him. He asked me out to meet him in a bar and we chatted. He was really sweet like our first date. Joking and made me laugh.
At that night I sort of heard him mumble that he still feels the same way to me. I text him the next day asking last year he said that it was only for sex (he said this before we parted when we were fighting) so what does feel the same way mean? And last year we always hung out at his house or go to bars but not really went outside or else where on trips.
I know he is super busy because he needs to prepare to go back to school and international trips but he would really kick me out the next morning. He said that it was not for sex but gradually he would really treat me like it was just for sex. Sometimes in bed he would say things like “I wish I could make you happy ” I also being pretty busy and serious working as I send money to my mom sometimes I leave abruptly to go to work the next morning. Then I once saw tears in his eyes. So I was thinking that maybe he really does love me.
One day he asked me to go and look for an extra tooth brush for me in his mirror cabnet. There I found many other woman’s cosmetic stuff. I never look into his private stuff. And I had to see them because he sent me to look at it. As he is super organized I am sure he wanted me to see it on purpose. Then I was angry and he said I was not the only woman that he is seeing. Then when he tried to have sex he forced and he seemed really satisfied and then he said “it only takes 3 little words”. my mind was like “what?? I love you or what?” but I just held still and he suddenly said “ok thats it. ” He did something wierd in bed for the first time too. He got an object of a dog and put it on the bed and told me to say “hi doggy”.. wtf?!
So in the morning he was going to kick me out as usual I finally cried and told him that I was not an object. and for the first time he said I cant let you go like this and held me but it was not tender and then he said “im scarred of relationships. my father used to cheat on my mother all the time. maybe im becomming like that”. But he just contacted me 2 months ago after 7 months and I could not really believe that he was cheating on me.
It was not what I wanted to hear. My point to him is that he could not treat me or any woman like an object for any reason. And I started to talk and talk how abusive it is. But I dont think he wanted to hear it. But I was kind of acting and I could not hide laughing .. but I was serious at the time too.
Then I was not able to see him for some time and then the next time I saw him he passed me a kitchen towel and there was a woman’s hair. and I told him that I could not sleep with him. Then he said that I could go and then there was a call from a woman.
A couple of days after that I said that I am stressed and I am going to ask a friend to strangle me. I like to be strangled but he does not like to do it. So even if he offered to do it I didnt let him do it. I thought if he is cheating why should I not. So I went to this friend who has an open relationship with his wife and asked him to do it because he likes s and m. But I had all my clothes on and just asked to choke me with a rope for a second. I think its rediculous too but its one of those crazy things ppl do to forget other pains in life. I dont really do it. Its just an idea I came up at that time.
The next time I met my Capricorn he was ordering things for me to do like go buy some things for him. asked me if I like giving massages. ( He never asked me to do things before) Then for the first time he asked m
e about my ex boyfriend
So then I thought he was jealous and again I thought maybe he really does love me. But that night we had the most boring sex. And then the next time I asked to meet he said we dont talk and sex is even boring so what was the point. I started to get pushy and then he started to say that we should start to think about not seeing each other and that he is already moving on. Then another time he said that if I want we could see each other in a nutural bar and no sex as a “bye bye” drink before he departs to go to another country.
I told him sure at first then told him then later told him that “I was not a prostitute nor a bar hostess and I wanted to marry him and talked to my mom and all of my friends that there is this guy I wanted to marry. And you dont have to waiste time to meet someone who was only for sex. And its stupid for me to meet someone who I love but he has no interest in me besides sex”. He then asked me to meet him but I said no but right before he left I said that I wanted to say bye face to face but he left with no reply.
After that I mailed him and told him in details how he is so self centered and how its so wrong to treat woman like that. And that I always knew he was like that and that I hated business minded people and because of men like him I was self destructive in my youth but some of my male friends are so different and modern and understand woman and supportive. At the same time I asked him to say that I was not worth it so that I could forget him and move on. Again he did not reply to any of my thoughts about respecting me but he said that he was seeing another girl 2 months before he left and that he was happy and free with her and that she was the sweetest girl he met in a long time. But even her he wont see again so I have no choice at all. And he told me to just remember the good things. And that there is no future for us.
I told him that next time he contacts me I will not comeback and its over and that he is not the right guy for me.
And no contact from him nor me for a month now.
Another question is do you think he found this other girl and he liked her as he says? (He was pretty busy preparing for school and international trips and leaving his work and to prepare to leave the country. This is all a fact because I saw the facts and evidence)
So I don’t think he had time to see other girls. But there was hair in his room and bed room. But he has relatives and friends at his house often.
Did he do that on purpose or am I trying to avoid to see the sad fact?
If he has not replied on my last mail saying to him that I will not come back, what does it mean?
On my own I have written in my calendar that he does not reply by this month which is 3 days left then I will start finding other guys.
Is there anyway to really make him clear(if he loves me)? Although I kind of think he does not quite love me seriously as a life time partner as Capricorns decide very slowly?
Or do you think he did not love me at all?
I don’t want to waiste time and I love this guy if he loves me but if he does not I think he is just a total jerk.
Thanks for reading all of this.
I will be waiting for your advice and answers!!
Hey all.
I am a cancer female and my boyfriend capricorm. We are together for 7 mnths. I find my boyfriend to be somewhat selfish, he doesn’t really take me out much or doesn’t want to go out much, he always wants to chill. i am very sensitive and it sometimes feels like he is playing this powerstruggle game with me, like when i do or say something he can get so cold for no reason…then he is all good and sweet the next day…what to do what to do
a lot of caps in their 20’s are cold distant and insecure, but we get better w/ time. find ur self an older cap man youll be suprised
On the subject of Capricorn men I know alot more than any other sign. Im Cancer (lady) and my first serious boyfriend was a capricorn. One thing about them is that they are very very slow to commit. No rushing them into anything. I mean dont even waste your time trying. Dont ask them where this is going, dont try to psuh your way in just take yor time. Ive known my now fiance for 10years. We met when I was 13 he was 15. Little kids yes I know. But even then he was so focused on school, sports an dhis job. Took it all very serious. They will not put you before that and for good reason they feel the most confident an dhappy when working an dachieving. Support and encouragement will never be forgetten and greatly rewarded later on in life. Ex: Marriage, engagement, mother to their kids. They are very reserved in the start not sappy at all. With you at least but to those they love and trust such as friends and that they will discuss their feelings for you. Capricorn men are generally attractive and good lovers. You cant and shouldnt be intimidated by their groupies theyre not jus into a pretty face oh it takes much more to become wifey. You must compliment them. Not verbally i mean figuratively. No reputation ruining ways from you or your time will be limited. You must not dress, act or behave in a unclassy way in public or they will be embarassed by you and you will be dropped. They also love if you are driven and persue your own goals. With them its about the perfect “looking pair”. You must make them look just as good as they do you. Beauty definately helps they like to have what others want. That doesnt mean share yourself. Its the exclusiveness they get off on, You can and should be a free and sensual lover but again it shouldnt be obvious by your demeanor. As well they ARE NOT and I repeat not COLD or Emotionless. They are SENSITIVE, SAPPY, INSECURE just like the rest of us. They just wont readily express it. Its in there for sure. Dont push them to show it verbally they dont really know how. If they do however say they love u believe it they dont joke around. but dont expect to hear it daily. they show it by having u in their lives n being with u. Just know its there n the less u force the more u get. ummmm.other than that capricorns are good friends, a lil bit social climbers n will help u in need.
I’m a Gem-gem-gemini girl (yes, I am still a girl even at 28). I have been through them all–everything from aries to pisces. I’m “dating” a cappy right now (I’m so freaking unsure) and he told me he was in love with me–ON THE SECOND DATE!!! Now, part of me wants to run away and have babies and get married and settle down, but the other part of me is TERRIFIED of the situation. I’ve met his whole family (He’s Irish-Catholic, and I went to mid-night mass with them) and they ADORE me. I am just so damned confused! He’s a great guy, but he’s got some issues–for one, he drinks too much (Hey, I can rage it just as much as the other, but damn!) two: he’s on all kinds of head meds for anxiety and stuff and three: yeah, he still lives at home. I mean, I thought that cappy’s were sipposed to be all productive and mature and stuff. I mean I could possibly see myself trying to get a *little* more involved, but I need him to have his s*** on right. I think I am a cappy rising, and my moon is in sag. I’m a med student, well on my way to becoming (cringe)….grown up. But I need my man to be grown up too! Help! I need some advice! How should I tell him that I am down to be in a relationship, but he has to be mature and responsible? And another thing, he’s so deeply emotional for a cappy….I thought that they were supposed to be cold and unemotional on the outside?
Oh yeah. And I took his virginity. I feel so bad! I didn’t know until it happened.
Seems that there is alot of cancer woman/capricorn man pairings here. I started dating a cap with moon in virgo and venus and mars in Pisces a few weeks ago. The sex is mind blowing. I never knew I could let go to such an extent. He gave me a new kind of orgasm – many times. Are all capricorns this good in bed?
i have been now with capricorn since one year in long distance relationship, iam cancer/leo woman, i love him but it is really hard to deal with him especially if you dont have patience, and yes he is very closed, i feel like he is building kind of walls around him, we met only once but he was so mazing, warm, loving..being pushy with him gives bad results, he like to be the leader, chooses his time, the less attention u give him the more attention he will give, i wrote him messages, and he reraly wrote to me messages, long messages couple of times in the year, when only we were having conflict, and he tried to make things better and explain himself, i asked him after one year of seriouse commitment but he just ignored my request and he finnally just said to me that i love you, and that is all he can say, he likes the woman who persue her dreams, lady, classy..he handle my mood swings perfectly most of the time, and that what makes me appreciatting him
sometimes i just think to run away, but i do love him, and finally to minimise souring our relationship when i brought the subject of marriage to him, i told him u can do what u see right and even if one day u choose that we become friends, i will never forget how amazing man i met, and this seems to calm him, and he loves it so mush 
what to do i love
just kidding..iam bieng very patient with him..what to do..love is stronger than any kind of logic..:) love is a big mistery that can reunite soul no matter how the distance…:)
him, and he told me so too…capricorn is a big headach but i least iam growing and learning to be patient even if he never speak about seriouse commitment
like he has some kind of phobia..he is very secretive about his life, he never tell me how he spend his life, he never tell me mush about him, all what i know is the feeling of love and the connection with him althought the distance, and althought we saw each other 4 days in almost a year, i just feel like king of ghost hunting my spirit, but i do love him and he loves me..and that all what we need i guess to know at this step of life..good luck to u all with your phsico caps
it is very hard to deal with capricorn man, he can change in minutes, he is very
selfish, self centered..and only seek what feels good to him..
To the poster “Need advice from Capricorn men,” I am positive you two are not astrologically compatible. Trust me, if you two were astrologically compatible, by now you would have him as your one and only and he would no longer be cold and confusing you. I have to say NO, he does not love you. From the very beginning of the relationship he only wanted you for sex and decided he was going to use you for sex, because you opened yourself up for that when he first invited you over. He probably realized you were easy. Many Caps with Venus in Cap do not like women who do that because it makes them think that this is the type of woman who would be sexually open and easy with other guys as well. He probably realized early on that this was the type of woman he would NOT settle down with or take home to mom. The books say that Cap men want to SETTLE down on the long-term with a VERY patient, classy, faithful, non-slutty(although mysteriously passionate for him and only him) woman however, that does not mean that a Cap men will not have a fling while they are looking for that one and only special lady. Your Cap man probably did not ever consider you as being the type of woman he would settle with on the long-term OR get married to. He used you for fun.
Also, if your moon is not in an earth sign, Geminis are usually not good for Capricorns.
My boyfriend does not treat me like an object.
My boyfriend is a Capricorn Sun/Scorpio Moon/Libra Rising/Capricorn Mercury/Capricorn Venus/Scorpio Mars
I am a Libra Sun/Capricorn Moon/Scorpio Rising/Scorpio Mercury/Virgo Venus.
Hi all!! I cant believe how similar my stories are 2 the rest of u!! Im a completely typical Pisces (age 26) through n through down 2 the ground and I have recetly fallen head over heels for a very typical Sexy Cappy man I(hes almost 40.. gross i know, but GOD!! This man has such ambition, charisma n a very sexy accent n personality.. not to mention SEX MAD!! HAHA!)… and believe me, on both sides of the coin this was most DEF NOT expected!! I am juts after coming out of a 5 yr relationship with a typical Virgo man and as expected compatibiltity wise, our exact opposities collided in the end rather than meshed.. he was way 2 critcal of my minds, never believed i could look after myself n make my own decisions aswell as being 2 ground-centred and wished for the family life.. i was way 2 bubbly n lived 4 the weekends n meeting my friends, being extremely well-sociable aswell as keeping up with my studies. I am highly emotional n 1 thing is 4 sure about me… once i FALL IN LOVE there is no going back!! (whether thats a good thing or not!)
So we neded things, I mostly initated it n he moved out.. then ALL OF A SUDDEN A sexy, funny, sophisticated loopy crackpot of a Cappy falls into my arms!! I wasnt even a week single!! And I knew him from yrs ago! (just met the 1nce).. OHH MY GOD girls, I was absolutely smitten from day 1! We shared the exact same personalities (and I mean EXACT!!) He’s a DJ and higely musically talented and the irony of this is that I bought decks and put them away 2 dust 4 safe keeping.. even since Virgo was in my life for 5 yrs, I felt i wasnt fully complete as he just keep over-critizing my unique taste n talent for music! Music is my aphodesiac 4 influence!! And so Mr. Sexy Cappy opened up my eyes 2 all new sites and possibilities- my music soul had suddently found its calling!! But hear was the bad news, after the most brief chat encounter u could even have imagined (no kiss involved) he told me he was off 2 live in Greece for 6 months!! Argh!! But i wasnt too keen on him at this stage, i said id just let him go.. then suddenly out of the blue, he txts me off his greek no.!! I still thought nothing off it, but he insisted wed keep in contact.. then the WHIRLWIND OF SEXY, SASSY, FRIENDLY COMPATIBILITY GREW MORE N MORE!! (N we still hadnt even kissed yet!!) Txts full of passion, wisdom, friendship n flirtyness came over wave by wave across the sea.. and it felt like i had known him 4ever, that we were connected in a past life.. he said he felt the same connection.. but he had a girlfriend n I was just getting over mine!! But im tellin u, Mr. Sexy Cappy def dampened the pain of the breakup n im sure i did the same 4 him.. we could finish off eachothers sentences n laugh crazily about different things.. n weve only been talking for 2 MONTHS!! Yes Cappys def get in deep n fast when they persue u, but yet holding off on the word “love”.. one day through txt, i (being a typical emotional Pisces!) confessed my true love 4 him.. n he got freaked out!! I quickly reverted bk to the “fake self” n just hesitated n explained ohhh i meant as a “friend”..n then the crazy sext whirlwind of passion started up again!! I told myself i couldnt go deep with this guy, id only develop even huger feelings.. but with these Cappy guys, they sink their teeth right in full of passion!! Days flled with all inconsuming words of flirtation n txts.. we turned eachother on so much!! We couldnt wait 2 see eachother! I was going 2 go on that trip 2 Spain! regardless! i had 2 see him! n now his feelings developed much more.. last night he said..”i think i could see myself falling in love with u”.. i made sure 2 check that it wasnt a drunken txt and he replied the same bk in another txt incase i didnt get the earlier 1.. which made me fell secure that it was true!! And of course, my warm, sensitive emotional self washed all over him with passion, making sure he could trust me every length of the way.. and we said goodnight.. NOOOOWWW TODAY, its a slighly different story! (at this stage we only know eachother still a month!) I txted like crazily like a fish out of water, a fool in love, telling the world of my happiness.. and i got now reply.. but i knew he was busy with setting up the club over in Spain and that as a result, he was a pure Night Hawk.. so i waited! (though patience is no good with us Pisces girls!) but he RANG!! Thats a good thing right?? Although we were chattin like we were still in the “i just want 2 bed u” phase! not love! So i continued 2 play “the game” with him n spat afew jokes with him.. now ive txted him since about maybe the future of working over there with him (ive a teaching degree) but i said it very half-heartedly.. he laughed saying he enjoyed my zany txts n that i must be a writer.. well i am a Pisces full of passion what can i say! so now im confused, wondering what he might be thinking.. im going 2 visit him in Spain on my own in 2 wks and I hope itll all work out in the end.. as he said last night (whether he was drunk or not) “let the story begin..” (of us) so lets hope he means it!! Im so smitten by this hot n earthy passion!! I truely believe everything happens 4 a reason.. very faint-heartly he even said one day (of only 2 days of knowing eachother!) “Im looking for a soulmate.. someone who “fots” u know
.. know anybody of that kind?” WOW! And also i am absolutely DYING TO KNOW WHAT HE IS LIKE IN BED!! Haha! We have had many phone sex talks (where he of course took the leader role.. i was way 2 embarresed!) but i could actually FEEL like I was there with him!! I never felt like that we any other star sign before, he took the leading role and turned me on to the POINT OF NO RETURN!! And in the words of my sexy, seductive stranger soul-mate Mr. Cappy “itll be 6 months in the boiling of our crazed sexual chemistry between us un til i return!!” (thats before he knew i would visit him in Spain in 2 wks!) so hes got my attention.. any last words or advice girls n guys before i go over?? Or do u all think hes just paying “mind games” with me? I hope not cuz at this stage im way 2 far gone on him n ive absolutely no interest in any1 else! HELP!! Thanx 2 all 4 all of the support! xxx (a very much in love+lust with a true Cappy emotional Pisces!0 
taurus with moon in libra, venus in aries. he is a cap with moon in scorpio, venus/mercury/mars in aquarius. let me just say thank you to the guy who started this. i am going through emotional turmoil after 3 months but this site and this forum specifically is nearly therapeutic. it is SO good to know we are not alone!
as for the girl above me…please do keep us posted. your story is more sweet, naive and entertaining to me than a love story and i would love to see what happens in your story. dont worry, im naive too when i fall in love especially, unfortunately focusing on more things on the surface as time progresses….but it is interesting regardless to see how all of us women (&men) go thru all this and somewhere in all of your stories, the reader can not only identify but literally feel you getting stronger in your patience, tolerance and general dealings with these men. congrats, we are more amazing today than we were yesterday;) much love girls….and guys!
Hello all! Just wanted to post about my recent experiences with giving in to a cappie! I’m a Libra sun/Aries moon/scorpio rising(I have no earth anywhere in my chart) and my boyfriend is a Cappie sun with a Sag moon. I shake my head alot on these descriptions of Capricorns. Some if it is sort of true, but most of it is not. My cappie is gentle, protective and extremely affectionate, in public and private.Capricorns love routine and rarely hate to ever give up a routine, regardless if it’s harmful to them. He tells me he loves me everyday (he told me first), and loves to communicate. Don’t get me wrong, he has his moments were he just want to be left alone for a little while, and I will go find something else to do for the moment. Then he comes and “gets me” so I don’t stray to far! LOL! We’ve only known each other for 8 months but it feels like I’ve known him forever. He loves when I ask him for advice or when I come to him to vent about work or something that is bothering me. I’ve never had someone pursue me so steadfast and consistently without ever becoming discouraged. In the beginning, I tried my best to make it very hard for him. I would’nt answer my phone when he called, when he would ask to see me I would try to make it seem like I was just too busy or I would just say no. Later, I would tell him I just want to be friends and just wanted to be platonic, etc. I would be very blunt and direct, straight to the point, sometimes plain cruel(even though libras are known for tact and sugarcoating, but I think my aries moon has a strong influence on my communication skills) and I would always act like I was the C.E.O., running the show. We didn’t have sex until 3 months after meeting and when we did, it was sporatic(that was hard). Slowly, but surely, after a while, the more conversations and dates we had, the more I got to know the warm, caring side of him (he basically won me over, cappies never feel like they have lost, they don’t like to play games, and they don’t give up either, especially if they trust you). I feel so safe and needed when I’m with him. We see each other almost everyday and he is very sweet to me. I’m very shy about communicating my feeling for someone, no matter how in love I am. I’d rather just show a person how much I care with my actions than just talk about it (again my aries
) I notice that we switch leadership roles alot. Sometime he takes control and sometimes I do, depending on the situation. It can be a tug of war. He always tell me that I’m going to be his wife one day. He’s introduced me to all of his friends and co-workers, next is his family. I’m neverous about that. I’ve had to learn patience and learn that I can’t have everything my way with my Cap. It’s been hard, but he has taught me alot and this is one of the qualities I love about him. We have hardly every faught, it’s mostly just disagreeing and debating, but I have to admit, its been times where I wanted to take flight. He always manages to talk me out of it, and says that he is in love with me and I shouldn’t take that for granted. He also said that he has never been IN love before and that this is new to him. I’m just praying that I have the staying power to make this relationship last. I told him that no matter what, promise me that he will never let me go, he will always be my rock, and that he will always be in love with me. I know, tall order for a mere mortal huh?! Suprisingly, he promised. Needless to say, I am a true believer that opposites do attract and I actually feel he is the balancer of my scales.
I have been with my cappy for 2 years. Im a Libra with Pices Rising moon in Cancer. He Is true Capricorn with Taurus Rising and Moon in Scorpio. I dont see why people say Capricorn men are cold. They are not cold. They are however very reserved very caustious as to who they give their hearts too. They will bone you loike its not tomorrow but that doesnt mean that they will take you home to mamma. Capricorn men are very into image. The old saying that men want a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets is very true with Capricorn men. They value a woman that aids to their lives. Compliments their style. They do like to be the leader, even if they dont exactly know how. Capricorn men can be very loyal, but they are not always the most faithful. But know when they say that they love you, THEY MEAN IT. They will literally go to the ends of the earth for you.
Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, which makes them very disciplined. They can sometimes be controlling. Cheap and Selfish. But they are also very giving. They will give you everything. But they definetely expect you to do the same. Capricorn’s also take FOREVER to make up their minds. Even worse then us Libra’s. But when they decide that they really want to be with you. YOU GOT EM’!! So I say yes, give in to your cappy lover.
How about a Leo lioness and a Capricorn man?
Recently acquainted with a Capricorn man and find myself smitten.
I have never met an individual who adheres this close to his horoscope trait. It seems to run true thus far.
We often go for the “sure thing”. Being the sure thing is sexy to us though. Sometimes we “come outside ourselves”, but I find people stand the chance of getting hurt if I stray too far outside of what I know works for me. We know too dayum much -hehhehee.
Mystery says:
“But even then he was so focused on school, sports an dhis job. Took it all very serious. They will not put you before that and for good reason they feel the most confident an dhappy when working an dachieving. Support and encouragement will never be forgetten and greatly rewarded later on in life. Ex: Marriage, engagement, mother to their kids”
damn u nailed it mystery, that sounds like me in my teens and twenties. im in my late 30’s now and a different person.
im not too much of a beleiver in this zodiac thing, but i have seen some consistencies. they say the capricorn live their lives in two phases. when were young we are old, when were old we are young.
looking in hindsight , i was driven and reserved when i was in my 10′ and 20’s.
but things are different now.
@sweetsurounder wow the beginning of your story sounds like mine…
I met a cap at an event only ONCE… he got my number- and weve been talking since. We live in separate states but always visit the town we both grew up in. So we are going to see each other in a few weeks and he invited me to his family party. Im nervous because… its meeting his family and it will be my second time seeing him. I do think its a lil fast, but I want to go. I just dont know his intentions. Im scared he might TRY to use me for sex- because of previous experiences in the past, and i dont know what hed want because we dont even live in the same state.
ive dated a cap man before … and it went like this: HE (We will call him CAP1) initiated it (just like present one-CAP2)… and i returned interest (just like CAP2)… and I eventually ran far away from cap1 and he chased me HARD. He begged to be with me, he talked to me a lot about being with me, he stayed around me, and he tried anything to be with me.
CAP2- im not running, and I wish hed chase me a lil harder. Im not exactly giving in so its not like im rejecting him and hurting his ego. He even knows im interested. But I dont initiate anything, i let him. i give him his space.
So therefore, i RAN and i sort of “gave in”… when I ran– the cap chased harder, but my current situation- i dont want to run, and im not going to play games. But since I am not running – then maybe he isn’t chasing me as hard as he would, if I ran. I dont know.