Scorpio and Gemini reasons for breakup
November 28, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
Take the deepest and most superficial signs of the zodiac, and you’ve got a Scorpio-Gemini relationship. Perhaps I am disparaging the sign of the Twins — however, you’re redeemed by Johnny Depp and Angelina Jolie.
Scorpio searches the depths of experience, rooting out the darkness lurking beneath the surface. Gemini is content flittering about, lightly touching all that piques his curiosity. Scorpio is ruled by powerful and intense Pluto, the planet attracted to taboos and the death-rebirth mysteries. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the god who invented lying.
Actually, Mercury is also the psychopomp, who transports the souls of the dead to Pluto’s (Hades’) realm. The messenger of the gods has access to and from the underworld. But he doesn’t stay there. He’s like a truck driver to hell. Once he drops off his goods, he’s outta there.
Gemini thinks, Scorpio feels. Gemini gossips, Scorpio guards secrets.
Do you need more reasons to break up?
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As I stated before, my partner and father of my kids is a gemini. I think people confuse gemini’s friendly nature for being flirtatous. Understand, being sociable and sunny is there way. As a scorpio, who can be slighty jealous, I understood that fairly quickly. I trust him and believe him when he is being friendly to the opposite sex it is just that FRIENDly. Scorpio & gemini can work, just as any other signs. Two people have to work at it. Remember, you have more planets then just your sun sign.
I came across this post out of the blue… I am a Gemini, and always seem to get along splendidly with Scorpios. Date published: November 28, 2006 Comments: 1 (Positive) Hmmm. Coincidence?
I am a Gemini woman and I have dated a Scorpio man. I was intrigued by his dark and deep spirit. But after the infatuation was over I realized that maybe the dark exterior was painted onto thickly. I try hard to be a happy person and I don’t need someone constantly trying to bring me down.We dated for a year before I called it quits. If you are involved witha scorpio man that has a bad relationship with a maternal figure…run..because that will rear his ugly head. If he has a grudge against her it will damper your relationship.
I am sorry you got involved with a man like that. Reguardless if he was scorpio or not. Jasmine you must remember someones sun sign does not define them completely.
I HATE how you compare gemini to scorpio. I am so tired of hearing gemini is s*** because he is so superficial and dull. And scorpio is not that interesting for a gemini eighter. Stop generalizing and describing the relationship between gemini and scorpio like that. You are saying ‘Yeah, the answer is evident: Gemini is a boring sissy little bastard while scorpio kicks its ass because it can read all the secrets of life and sex and can take revenge and kill you’. I´m tired of reading the same thing about scorpio too: Intense, sexomaniac, lustful, secretive, demon, hell, blah blah blah. Why don´t you write something more accurate about scorpio like something you could see in reality? I actually don´t hate scorpio at all, I just hate how you make it look superior and greater than the other signs, like they were trash compared to scorpio.
I HATE so much how you overlook the gemini sign completely. The only thing you say about gemini is that they are clever, nervous, restless, superficial, uninteresting or even not sexy at all! Like we were idiot babies with no maturity or sense of future. And in the note, what´s with the underworld truck driver thing? Is gemini a sitty truck driver and nothing else? Is merging consciously in the subconscious world for getting an understanding that lame and irrelevant? Don´t throw at us those light generalizations! And don´t make gemini look so bad and lame in front of scorpio.
And I´m not talking only because of this ‘gemini-scorpio reasons for break-up’ I´m talking mostly because of all the other light generalizations and bad assumptions out there about gemini and scorpio.
I take it you didn’t like my post…
I´m sorry for the rudeness of my post (I could have said it politely), however the ideas remain the same.
Actually Squapius it is interesting to hear your perspective on people building Scorpio up to be more superior than Gemini. If anything I feel deflated (I am a Scorpio by the way) because I often feel like we are presented in a negative light as compared to Gemini. I almost feel like Gemini is supposedly too good and too fun for me and I am the party pooper so to speak. Funny thing is I keep finding myself being incredibly attracted to Gemini guys and they bring out a fantastic side in me. The fun loving person that I love to be. They make me become a lot more open and want to be a better, more carefree person. In some ways it is like the ying and yang affect and perhaps we could fit together fairly well. I don’t think I am all of those negative traits and i had a wonderful upbringing that has allowed me squash a lot of those negative things and try to trust as much as i can. Although I have been burnt and am a lot more choosy with who i give my trust to.
im a scorpio, who 10 yrs ago fell in love with a gemini and moved across continents to be there with him. needless t say that after 2 year, my “scorpio self” was done and tired with his wishy washy ways, and i left (although i know he loved me). we’re still friends and thats i care about.
Ohh.. and FYI im (ms scorpio) dating a much younger gemini (10ys later)… and i have all the faith in the world that it is where it is, and heading somewhere interesting…
I’m a gemini, he’s a scorpio: we’ve been together for nearly seven years now and couldn’t be happier. My only complaint are his moods and the fact he can hold grudges for long periods of times and not tell you why he’s upset– but this only ever happens once and a while. We have a lot of fun together and never run out of things to talk about.
My bad— once IN a while.
my bff is a scorp and it’s not romantic but i guess it still counts for “relationship” but anyway when i’m being too hyper, freaked out, wrapped up in my lies, jumpy, or whatever Geminis do she helps calm me down and look at things realisticly. but it’s probably different between a man and woman who’re involved romanticly.
This, as in any other astrological consideration, cannot be boiled down to the sun signs only! Superficially, the best description of these two together is like putting chocolate sauce on spaghetti! Someone may like it and they have merits on their own…but as a combination, it’s something that makes you say “huh”!
I qualify to comment on this as a gemini man, albeit with a taurus moon and virgo rising (loyal and practical!), who divorced my scorpio wife after 28 years of marrige when she cheated! How’s that for a twist! I don’t care to expound on the particulars, just down always assume that the gemini will be the deceiting traitor. The entire chart can tell a whole variation on the sun sign theme. We worked as a successful business partnership for decades and that may qualify as a better marriage than many others have. Still, there’s so much more than meets the eye! From a distance, that pile of pasta could appear to be vanilla ice cream!
I am a gem who dated a scorp. I thought he was interesting and in touch with feelings. A few months in, he turned abusive and psychotic. Apparently, this was also the case with a gemini gf he had before me.
i am a gemini and i’m a married to a scorpio and have two children with him. I also was very attracted and turned on by him at the start but after 5 years, he’s also turned abusive and psychotic. Our personalities really do clash
Squapius says:
April 29, 2009 at 4:14 pm
I HATE how you compare gemini to scorpio. I am so tired of hearing gemini is s*** because he is so superficial and dull. And scorpio is not that interesting for a gemini eighter. Stop generalizing and describing the relationship between gemini and scorpio like that. You are saying ‘Yeah, the answer is evident: Gemini is a boring sissy little bastard while scorpio kicks its ass because it can read all the secrets of life and sex and can take revenge and kill you’. I´m tired of reading the same thing about scorpio too: Intense, sexomaniac, lustful, secretive, demon, hell, blah blah blah. Why don´t you write something more accurate about scorpio like something you could see in reality? I actually don´t hate scorpio at all, I just hate how you make it look superior and greater than the other signs, like they were trash compared to scorpio.
I HATE so much how you overlook the gemini sign completely. The only thing you say about gemini is that they are clever, nervous, restless, superficial, uninteresting or even not sexy at all! Like we were idiot babies with no maturity or sense of future. And in the note, what´s with the underworld truck driver thing? Is gemini a sitty truck driver and nothing else? Is merging consciously in the subconscious world for getting an understanding that lame and irrelevant? Don´t throw at us those light generalizations! And don´t make gemini look so bad and lame in front of scorpio.
And I´m not talking only because of this ‘gemini-scorpio reasons for break-up’ I´m talking mostly because of all the other light generalizations and bad assumptions out there about gemini and scorpio
normally i woulden’t bother writing something in artikels as these but what u said is right and reasons why gemini and scorpio cant make a relationship is bull. m8 what you said is tottaly true. and im a scorpio its like u said not everything is true. finally someone who said the oposit nice talking to ya.
This is very interesting. Like wow.
Iam dating a gemini male of 3 weeks and we broke up once recently and almost broke up 4 times ALREADY. I am very good at being very calm and i try to be okay about things. But he is always on other girls , though he says he;s very friendly and i believe him and after the conflicts i know he just wants to be with me and noone else. Although it seems he wants to be commited to me behind closed doors and people never know were together in public. especially if were arounf people he is friends with. i don;t know but he says he honsestly doesnt believe what they say about the gemini/scorpio relationship (ithink hes just mad but thats alright). He makes me happy and brings the wild side in me and makes it very comfortable to act however i want to around him. He says he is inlove with me but they say theyre superficial and that means they lie alot. but before i knew this i never really completely belived him. but who knows
Like, “wow”, are you for real, Wow? How do you almost break up 4 times when you’ve been going out 3 weeks??? Are you 16 or just acting like it? Sorry to be insulting but you don’t see the obvious. Your Gemini friend’s reluctance to acknowledge your relationship in public means he’s not serious about you. You are a curiosity item for him when he’s so inclined. You are revealing the undeveloped Scorpio side with such premature possessiveness and desire for control. And yes, I’m the Gemini who divorced a Scorpio wife after 28 years. Perhaps you should seek out another water sign until you mature!
“He says he is inlove with me but they say theyre superficial and that means they lie alot. but before i knew this i never really completely belived him. but who knows”
@ Wow, Seriously? You’re going to believe all the stereotypes? How shallow are you. If THIS man says he loves you, then he probably means it. Any man.. whichever sign they are, that has the guts to say i love you.. bravo to them. You can’t just base it off the usual Gemini stereotypes. I lie about a lot of things but never love. If i love someone, I truly dedicate my loyalty and trust to them.
“i don;t know but he says he honsestly doesnt believe what they say about the gemini/scorpio relationship (ithink hes just mad but thats alright)”
You need to get your head out of your ass. Your way too insecure if you are going to judge your whole relationship off of this lie. It’s not completely a lie, yes I know but it’s not everything either. You’re the one who determines whether this relationship fails or not. Not astrology, it may warn you of what to come.. but wow.
People mistake our friendliness for flirting. And already with a jealous and insecure mind, you can not have possibly survived past this. I don’t think I’m going to waste my time on this. If you can’t handle him, then break it off. 4 times is already plenty within a 3 week period. Forget it.
Yeah this topic was posted in a very rude manner. Scorpios are too scared to really love. Let those f***ing bums ruin themselves and many other people before they actually learn something about true love. Co dependent , desperate , needy mother f***ing brooding whiny babies. OOOOOO!!! Sting sting!!! Squash!!! Stomp you bitches!
I am a scorpion and i fell in love with a married gemini man, we are both married but were attracted to each other. they are sweet, though being flirt in the opposite sex is really something they can’t avoid. A scorpion i always got jealous of the special treatment he throws to opposite sex. But i always remind myself to hold on, cause i have no right to get jealous, we cannot commit because we are both married. it pains me, why do people find each other this way when you both know you can’t go on. i am married to a good and responsible and kind hearted scorpio man, why got attracted and in love with a flirt gemini man now. God knows no boundaries. he makes us see both sides,how to care for someone without expectations, to love someone even if he doesn’t love you back in the same level you love him. Love really works in mysterious ways that nobody can explain. I believe in compatibility, but i also believe in God’s plans in putting us to test of how we could love and be loved.
I am a gemini female who just broke up with a scorpio male a few days ago. We dated for almost 2 years n he was extremely indecisive, needy, and just childish. Throughout the whole relationships his so called feelings towards me never matched his actions. Which in my book made him out to b the liar. Him n I both would agree that the relationship failed bc of him. Btw this is the second scorpio guy I’ve dated n they both seemed to say one thing to u about their feelings but later on backtrack to something different.next scorpio man I meet, I’m running
I am a gemini woman, and he is a scorpio man. And…he is 12 years older than me. But , you know, we both feel in harmony when we are together. The main think I like about him, is that he always make me laugh at my own, exegirated problems. He is businesman, and I am a musician
we are sooo different, but we are not just in love, it’s not just passion. It’s smth more, and it’s more serious. We both can’t imagine relationship with someone else. Yes, maybe the fact we are both monkeys saves this relationship, but, don’t care about these horoscopes! There are different people, different characters! I am gemini, and I am a very serious and faithful person! in spite of the fact as it is written here, gemini people are carefree , irresponsible,etc. It’s not true. ANd about scorpions only few things are true. They are very good in sex 
What’s interesting, my ex bf was scorpio too, but…he was absolutely different! So what’s the conclusion??? You can be happy with the person not according to which month and day he was born! But because of his entity
I am a gemini woman, and he is a scorpio man. And…he is 12 years older than me. But , you know, we both feel in harmony when we are together. The main think I like about him, is that he always make me laugh at my own, exegirated problems. He is businesman, and I am a musician
we are sooo different, but we are not just in love, it’s not just passion. It’s smth more, and it’s more serious. We both can’t imagine relationship with someone else. Yes, maybe the fact we are both monkeys saves this relationship, but, don’t care about these horoscopes! There are different people, different characters! I am gemini, and I am a very serious and faithful person! in spite of the fact as it is written here, gemini people are carefree , irresponsible,etc. It’s not true. ANd about scorpions only few things are true. They are very good in sex 
What’s interesting, my ex bf was scorpio too, but…he was absolutely different! So what’s the conclusion??? You can be happy with the person not according to which month and day he was born! But because of his entity
Im a scorpian & i found almost something very true in every one of theses comments.
im a gemini woman in a relationship with a scorpio man and i think its great, a relationship is whatever you make it.. it has little to do with your signs…dont get me wrong they do have alittle bit to do with it but they dont run your relationship you dont make decisions for you. thats all you so you just gotta know the right thing to do in a relationship dont be a idiot show your emotion for the other person, if you love them as much as you say you do your not going to go and flirt with someone els thats what being single is for. if you say your commited be commited. love hard and deep cause you dont have forever to live..