Leo man Virgo man relationship

November 16, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner  


I hate to break it to you guys, but unless you’ve got some juicy Mars-Mars connection, this relationship is likely to cause friction. Leo — ruled by the Sun — wants to shine in the spotlight, whereas modest, Mercury-ruled Virgo stays behind the scenes. One of you is prissy, and the other flamboyant.

Leo is the King (… or Queen), and Virgo is the humble servant. If Virgo is content to take care of all the pragmatic household matters so that Leo can revel in his self-importance, then this relationship could work out just fine. Also, Leo can add some much-needed fire to Virgo’s routine, while Virgo can keep Leo grounded.

But beware … put together a fault-finding Virgo and a prideful Leo, and you get a wounded Lion … and Lions do not react kindly to criticism.

Comment below: Are you in a Leo-Virgo relationship? How’s it working out?



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48 Responses to “Leo man Virgo man relationship”
  1. marilha says:

    hi. i am a leo. my x-husband is a virgo. i now avoid getting into relationships with virgos like it’s the plague. also, our eastern signs (me, ox; he, rat) were described as “sexually thrilling but disastrous in marraiage” and all I can say is disastrous, indeed.

  2. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    If there were a plague, the Virgos would be the only ones left. Being that your ex is a rat, then he’s even more likely to survive.

  3. marilha says:

    You said it, not me: my ex is a rat! LOL. He’s actually a roach, but wait… that’s not a “real” sign… LOL again!

  4. isis says:

    I’m a Leo with Virgo Rising. I meet Virgos all the time, and they drive me crazy. Meek is not the word I’d ever use to describe them, they are powerfully commanding about their need to control everything because of their efficient analysis of situations, and inability to let go of their conclusions as possibly not necessary or essential to follow. They also suffer much inner guilt for not being perfect, and judge themselves. This translates to feeling both inadequate next to their partner, and repressive because the Virgo Ego, giant as it is, won’t reveal mistakes.

  5. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    Isis,

    You’ve presented a well-articulated summary of Virgo’s dark side.

    How do you see some of these qualities in yourself, with Virgo on your Ascendant?

    I have Virgo rising as well, and as annoyed as I am with my partner’s Venus in Virgo and packed 6th house, I must admit that I react strongly to this “need to control everything” because it’s also a part of me. Mind you, just a part, since my Pisces Sun would just as easily hand the wheel over to someone else (or should I say, “Someone Else”?)

  6. Mystere says:

    Hi,
    I am a virgo sun, scorpio moon, and pisces rising, and my boyfriend is a leo. The funny thing is, I don’t act like a virgo very much. I’m very good being in the spotlight, and to be honest, I find it a great feeling. I also find that I don’t tend to be a perfectionist, about anything. My boyfriend however, is exactly like that, I can drive him nuts because I don’t care if everything is in perfect order and harmony. Alas, I still love him, and he still loves me, and we’re getting married this year, so all is well. We’ve been together for four years, so I feel that it will work.

  7. Anonymous says:

    i’m a leo woman just beginning to date a virgo man. and i get the feeling that he wants me to chase him? as a woman, i think it should be the opposite. he should chase me. but i think if i step on my pride and chase him, it just might end in happily ever after…he’s really a wonderful guy!

    does the virgo man desire to be chased?

  8. AQUAGIRL says:

    “But beware … put together a fault-finding Virgo and a prideful Leo, and you get a wounded Lion … and Lions do not react kindly to criticism.”

    My dad is a leo and my mother is a virgo they been divorced since i was three.
    My mothers personality brought out the worst in my dads. ALL the dark lion traits. Also my dads sister is a virgo and he usually leaves her house with a pout.

  9. MrsTruth says:

    Well, I’m a leo woman and I constantly get approached by virgo men and I am constantly attracted to virgo men. I mean literally it never fails their all Virgos!!!!

    Can anyone explain this?

    I got along with some of them perfectly actually. Im guessing its because although I am a natural leader, highly motivated, have serious vanity issues, and extroverted… I am also a secret perfectionist, health obsessed, and very stoic…

    Is this why I am a leo woman that always attracts Virgos?

  10. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    Mrs. Truth, perhaps you have some Virgo planets in your chart. It’s likely, since Virgo follows Leo, and Mercury and Venus travel close to the Sun.

  11. jose says:

    This is very true!!! I’am the healthy perfectionist and flaw seeking virgo male and my ex is the Crazy wild and attention wanting leo. We broke up after a huge arguement at a club. We still dont talk to this day. He did call me drunk dial many times however…

  12. Tra-Tra says:

    I am a leo my soon to be ex-husband is a virgo. He tried to change me into something I wasn’t. Also my mother who was an leo was married to my father who was an virgo got an divorce after 5 yrs she told me he a virgo it won’t work. I married him anyway it was 3 yrs of hell. *******Virgos please stay away********

  13. Anonymous says:

    hey guys i need advice
    i am a 23 year old cancer woman and i just broke things off with a scorpio man. his venus is in scorpio his moon as well and mars in capricorn.
    my venus cancer mars scorpio moon aries.
    i find it out to figure him out and he is a big ball of mystery october will make it a year that we have been knowing one another. he told me he doesnt see things working with us because we worked at it twice throughout this year and i still feel as if he is putting up a wall between us and that he can be cold. he was hurt very deeply early last year and i felt and he told me that his feelings and the way he treat women has changed since that.
    i feel as if he is not being his once sweet self and that he is putting up a wall. hes telling me that this is the way he is and stop trying to change him and this is the way he is…
    i love him but i let him go cuz i found myself doing so many things for him and getting nothing in return.
    it has been two weeks and he called me three times text me once.
    saying that he hasnt heard from me in a long time and he wants to know what is going on…
    This is absurd because he hung up the phone on me the last time we spoke because he was tired of talking about us and what we can do to make it better…
    help guys just want to know others view of this….
    just so you guys know i will continue to ignore him and not let him in until…..

  14. Anonymous says:

    hmmm…Am a virgo man and my GF is a leo. I have to say that i never critize her or…anyone? Unless am jokeing around with friends. We been dateing for about…almost 2years. We go crazy for one another. Trust me i know this =P Anyway!!!! Why the f*** ( srry for languge ) is everyone putting down the virgo? You make them seem like they worthless sign of them all? Maybe you LEOS are stupid blonds who flirt and cheat and will probally make any “MAN” pissed. If a virgo truly loves someone like a leo and the leo truly loves the virgo it will work! And we all know the VIRGO is the most attracted sign and probally leos cant seem to resist them! HA!

  15. Jara aka Blah Blah says:

    Response to Anonymous 1:02:

    Is anyone else out there sensing a pattern here? :X

  16. Anonymous says:

    I am a Virgo woman with a Leo man. We get along beautifully most of the time, with a strong intuitive connection and lots in common. Similar instincts.

    The occasional fight does tend to get ugly because he becomes immature and irrational (to the point of not remember things he said only minutes before, and calling me names), while I withdraw and feel disrespected. My gentle, rational approach only infuriates him. But if I try to match his craziness that doesn’t go over well either — and I feel untrue to myself. Anyway, we’re working on all this.

    He’s taught me that it’s ok to fight sometimes, and that getting closer is more important that being right and accurate. I’m teaching him how to fight in a less damaging way.

    Interestingly, he is the finicky, super-clean, organized one, and can be too critical. And he doesn’t have any Virgo in his chart! I like these traits (except the critical-ness), as well as his typical Leo ones: loud, playful, bold, charming, well-dressed.

    I am organized like Virgos are supposed to be, but otherwise am daydreamy, forgetful, passionate, unpredictable, easy going and flashy. Maybe it’s my Pisces moon and Leo in venus?

  17. Anonymous says:

    Please an advice from Virgo men:
    I’m a Leo woman with Scorpio Rising, my boyfriend is Virgo with Cancer Rising. We are for a month in a time between us, so we are not really together…My question to Virgo Man is: Hot to get my virgo man back? Well he was a pig with me and I’m very hurtedd and as a Leo, my pride is also hurted so I don’t talk to him, I just reply to his messages that as nothing to do with main issue, I’m waiting for “I’m sorry, I regret for what I’ve done and I want us back”, but I don’t know if that will happen…

    Virgo men please help me! Hot to get my virgo man back? Thanks a lot and indeed you virgos are hot! =)

    Pat

  18. Rachel says:

    Virgos make great exes, they dont communicate and they buy whores to take the place of Leo women, Virgos never pay alimony or child support so dont marry them or have children with them, they dont make good parents either, they like to drink and screw around, they are the most useless sign of the zodiac.

  19. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    @Rachel, It sounds like you’ve had a horrible experience, but your Virgo ex’s behavior may not be attributable to his Sun sign, as many of your complaints don’t resonate with this sign’s nature.

  20. boobala says:

    Hi. I am a leo and my boyfriend of almost 2 years is a Virgo. It’s strange because from the very beginning he (who is very big in astrology) has always said we would do great because Virgos and Leos are the best signs for eachother.

    We were best friends for five years before we go together. When we got together everything was great for a really long time. Lots of passion and affection, which I needed, lots of communication, even if he did come across as judgmental sometimes. But seemed like we really had the love to work through it all and overcome anything. Now I am not so sure. We hardly talk anymore, there’s hardly any passion, its heartbreaking. My prideful leo doesn’t want to let it go, but he doesn’t seem to want to work on it anymore.

    Is it really hopeless?

  21. Anonymous says:

    Boobala,
    Here’s a possible virgo perspective: First, he feels a bit exhausted by your constant needs but is too self-sacrificing to insist on some strengthening activities and time for himself. Virgos are helpers you know, even if they can’t do it anymore and it’s just in their heads. So he just gets distant while you are there. Second, when you were ‘communicating’ so well before, it was too rough for him. It was a bit dramatic, sometimes irrational, and often unnecessary. This kind of thing is good for the virgo in some ways, but it also takes its toll. Can you do a more gentle emotional dance? Can you let him have the spotlight now and then (and not be ostentatiously patting yourself on the back for letting him)? Third, Virgos often respond to the little things being fixed, because the little things get to them. My leo boyfriend showed up the other night with a yellow rose, which was lovely, but he also showed up with three batteries, which warmed my heart. See, my flashlight had been dim for about 6 months and it’s been bothering me, and the fact that I hadn’t fixed it was making me feel guilty…. Leos are good at swooping in and fixing stuff like that. Fourth: Strike up a conversation about something intellectual, listen carefully to his thoughts, and pronounce them interesting and illuminating.

  22. boobala says:

    Anonymous,

    Thanks for the words of advice, but I still need help. One, I am a shy leo who actually hates being in the spot light, I know it’s strange, but very true. He is the outgoing, social butterfly while I prefer cozy nights on the couch and sometimes maybe hitting up a lounge to enjoy a cocktail or two. I am a Leo with my Rising Sun in Virgo and Moon in Aries. He is a Virgo with a rising sun in Scorpio and Moon in Aquarius.
    I am positive I am not the easiest to live with, or be in a relationship with, but neither is he, and he knows it because we both constantly joke to one another like that. His co-workers always say to him “how does she put up with you 24/7″ and he says “that’s why she gets all the pretty presents”. Which was another part of the problem. As a Virgo, can you please tell me why materials are worth everything? Please. Because I could care less about the name brands, and more about taking that money to save and start a family. I don’t know how many times I have expressed that to him, but it’s the image that always matters. Why do Virgo’s always make us Leo’s feel like we need to be something else instead of just who we are? But then express that you don’t mean to make us feel that way?
    The communicating all started with his idea. The need to talk about everything, knit-pick everything. It got to the point I can’t even talk to him anymore, because someone who was once my very best friend is just a complete ball of judgment (and though he doesn’t mean for it to come across as judgment, it does) we can’t even have a simple conversation, because no matter what I say, he’s opposite, and there is no hearing someone else’s side, it’s his side and everyone should agree. I am constantly praising him for his successes and letting him know how proud I am of him. Taking care of things around the house because I know he was is stressed from work and just needs to sit down and relax. Doing all of the little things and fixing stuff while also trying to be myself, and trying to get some relaxing time from my stressful day too, becomes extremely tiring. To the point where you don’t even want to do it anymore because it takes two to be in a relationship.

    I truly do love him. Everytime the thought of us not being together comes to mind, my chest feels like it’s being ripped to shreads and I can’t breathe. He used to always say that we were going to ride this till the wheels fell off and when they did we would be right there fixing them and putting them back on. Where did that promise go?

  23. wisiunia says:

    My Mars in Leo has no use for Virgos. It roars so load they go deaf. Those pesky little monkeys can pick their own ears and noses and stay out of my mane, which is long and flowing and just the way it’s supposed to be. I annoy Virgos and they annoy me. The paradox is my Venus in Virgo loves them all the same. Those little monkeys can be so adorable, hanging from those branches upside down, cocking their little heads every which way trying to see things from every perspective, never missing a flea. All creatures great and small, gotta love them all.

  24. Anonymous says:

    hi im a virgo woman in a relationship with a leo man, and what i find is that he dosent seem to tell the whole story he just gives little snippets of whats happened and i like detail which is what he lacks so he makes it seem as if im the one asking so many questions and then he gets annoyed and then is veryu argumentative.

  25. Jeffrey Kishner says:

    sounds frustrating. a Leo might only share the details that are entertaining or make him look good, while Virgo wants every little snippet.

  26. Ms. Hint says:

    Okay so I am a Virgo woman!…I really admire a Leo type of man. And that’s why I chose a Leo guy for my ideal man. As what it stated in the horoscope we are so different in many ways. But you see, I don’t care coz to me that’s what I love about him. It’s like why would I chose someone who’s very similar like me?…would there be any challenging moment for that?.. Well you see people lets not hate about virgo and Leo Relationships…how about lets compromise and think of new ways to settle down the arguments that we have for each other. But yeah since I found this blog I think that it’s best to give some of those couples that think they don’t want it and those who get along just fine with the virgos. Okay you see I know that I can be very judgemental most of the time, or sometimes maybe. But I know that apology is the best method for admitting your fault to someone you hurt. especially to leo sign. They are very understanding, sweet, lovable, and charming. At first, I couldn’t stand my bf because I noticed that he likes to be on the spot. In short, he wants to be the center of attention. But then again, I realized that if this is what he really is, well there is nothing wrong to that. As long as he is not hurting anyone then I don’t think there’s a reason for me to get mad at him. But what leo must understand that we, for some reason can be so fussy although we understand leo very well. It’s just the part of our imperfection. We can be very stubborn and dominant most of the time. But our own guilt will bring us again to realize our own mistakes. However, we are very slow to realize it right away. But when we… (as Virgos) finally realize our mistakes, we would try our best to make you feel how foolish we are for making you suffer. The problem of leo and virgo is that they don’t know how to approach one another…but when they learn how to deal with it then they would just get along just fine. I am a virgo, but I am also a human being. Let us all remember that horoscope is just the guide for what is the probability of different signs in astrology. But let’s try not to always put our minds into it. Let’s follow what we think is right in the part of we’re not hurting one another. But let’s do everything that our partner would be please to see, feel, hear, have, keep, understand, and appreciate. In short, Leos are not the materialistic type. They appreciate little things in a special way. They care the most of the feelings and not the seeings. Not the seeings but the feelings they have for the one they love. They want to be loved because that’s who they are….so I don’t see a bad of being sweet to them as well. For example, if my boyfriend thinks that I’m changing my ways of loving him he would hastily tell me that. And if I took it the negative way then there’s no accomplishment to happen. But you know everyone wants to think wise! and so it’s always better to be humble, and understanding all the time. What I love about my leo man is that he is very understanding although I know that I am hurting his feelings sometimes. But I know that he is also a human and everything that he’s sacrificing for me can be tiring too if it continues to happen. So what I suggest to myself is try to reduce my negattive attitude, rather, be more sensitive, caring, and less critical….If leo and virgo couples realize this then they would get a fulfilling love for one another. But you see, life is not perfect, there will still be problems that will come to our lives. But the key to that is don’t think of it as a bad luck, boring part of your life, but instead think of it as our challenge in life. …sorry I’m not good in grammar so please bear with me…thank you!…peace=)

  27. mondy says:

    Okay, enough Virgo bashing. I’m a Virgo male married to a Leo woman for 17 years. We’ve had rough patches, and yes, she’s a drama queen, but I give her all the affection and compliments she needs to soothe her volcanic ways and it seems to work. I don’t critisize, in fact she’s a lot more critical and blunt than I am. We ‘date’ once in a while but she has all the freedom to go out with her friends and get away from me and it calms her nerves. I’m probably not a typical Virgo, but I’ll admit that we’ve had periods where we seemed to lose the spark, or get in a rut where we don’t talk much or the passion slows down a bit, but something always happens to get things revved back up and we resume the passion like we’re teenagers. Leo women need a lot of attention, so just give it to them, because they reciprocate when they get it. So all of you Leo women, don’t just dismiss Virgo guys. We have a lot to offer. And Virgo guys, just relax and not get caught up in the melodrama. Realize that a lot of the reason Leo women are the way they are is because they are passionate, loving, caring women. I admit to took about 6 years of marriage for me to finally figure that out and things have been great ever since.

  28. Anonymous says:

    I’m really not very familiar with all the terminology involving the zodiac signs, etc. However, I am a Leo woman, but I am not the type to want to spotlight, although I have a lot to offer. I am a helper and I am shy to a point. Funny thing is I always get the spotlight on me by others. No matter what most times I am noticed, because I carry myself like a lady at all times and in all situation, plus, I’m thankful to be a pretty good looking lady. I want things in order at all times. I am a born leader, but can follow. I love a man who stands as a man, because if he doesn’t I will take the ball out of his hands and run with it and when I do, I am always considered bossy or demanding. That’s not how I want to be, but I admit I will wear those shoes if need be. I am very interested in this Virgo man, but still feeling my way right now. I’m a lover of people, a giver. I love taking care of my man, but will not continue to give of myself if not reciprocated. Charts states that I am compatible with a Sagittarius and Gemini, but so far that hasn’t been true. So, I believe it doesn’t matter the sign, it all depends on the two individuals and communication (effective) is the key to any lasting relationship. It’s about give and take, understanding, trusting, loving, sharing, etc, etc. With good communication, all those things will be added unto that relationship. So, I’m taking my time, because I have learned so much in my life over the years. I know what it takes, and it has to be two people who who are able to communicate about any and everything. I would give my all to a good man, but I would disc him in a redhot second if he betray or mistreat me. Every woman and every man, who know how to give and receive love (for real) deserve nothing less than the best. I consider myself very fortunate, for I am blessed with a geniune sincere heart, but I don’t play games at all, because it’s not necessary in my eyes to do so.

  29. The D says:

    Hello everyone. I’m a Leo male with a goregeous Virgo female. So far, it’s a good fit. She’s very affectionate and loving. Sometimes, I think a wee bit clingy, but nothing the matter with extra attention. In chinese astrology, i’m a Metal Monkey and she’s an Earth Sheep/Goat. Both sets of astrology has doomed us to death. We’ve known each other since middle school and have been dating on and off. She makes an incredible house wife and has an uncanny ability to make me feel like the royalty that I am. My moon is in Sag and hers is in Cancer. One time, she’s exhibited a very scary temper, and that was towards someone being rude to me. It was spasmodic, but rather disturbing to see my flower turn into a beast. Is that normal? I find this funny, because like many Leos here, Virgos find me or vice versa and fireworks start. My ex was also a virgo and the complete opposite. VERY opinionated and VERY confrontational. We constantly fought, but it was a deep toxic love. We’re still friends today, but I could never see her again in any other way due to her always wanting to be right.

  30. Anonymous says:

    I am a 26 yr old virgo woman dating an older leo man. We been dating since Dec 07. At first I didnt think it would work because of the age difference. I think he just wanted me for sex anyway. We went out a couple of times, first time he tried me I said no then the second time he was on top of me next thing I know we having sex. Unfortunately, to my amazement I never experienced a feeling like that in the bedroom. We ended moving in with each other and that was a JOKE! I say for the first 4 months we were at each others throats almost every other day but once we hit the bedroom the loving side came out of the both of us. LOL. We don’t live together now which is a good thing cuz I feel we get along better that way and communicate better as well. So to make a long story short, Leo’s are good in bed but anything else you want from a Lion will take diligence and work which will lead to a fullfilling relationship as long as you guys understand each others differences and willing to compromise.

  31. Miss Leo says:

    I absolutely had to comment on this thread!

    It always makes me smile when women write things like “he’s very busy but seems to really like me” etc etc about Virgo men.

    I’m a Leo woman and have been fortunate enough to finally rid myself of one of the nastiest people I’ve ever “dated” – a Virgo man.

    He was hot and cold, obsessive then disinterested, kind then rude, clingy then aloof, critical then insecure, I mean W.T.F?!

    I am sorry Virgo men but the majority of you are wholly unable to conduct yourselves as normal people do in a relationship. You haven’t a clue. This is probably why a lot of Virgo men end up alone or with serious problems of some sort.

    My Virgo ex was also one of the most unpopular and loathed people I’ve ever come across. No one had anything good to say about him.

    Now, as a Leo woman, I am true to my sun sign and have far too much respect for myself to waste my time with such an emotional retard, and would like to say to all the other Leo women on here, why waste your time either?

    You are dignified, strong, engaging and probably very attractive Lionesses (most of us are) and any man who is “too busy” or “not in that place right now” or “not ready for a relationship” blah blah blah is simply not worth a second of your time and energy!

    Don’t degrade yourselves by hanging around waiting for them to change, if there is one sign that can really sweep you back onto your feet rather than off them it’s a Virgo and although they’ll enchant you initially with their juvenile playing-hard-to-get tricks, they totally lack what it takes to make a Lioness happy.

    In my opinion, Leo women are best suited to Aquarian men (but only if the Aquarian has ambition, as Leo women will quickly get frustrated with a drifter). It’ll be dreamy, compelling, mentally stimulating and totally chilled out.

    The 0.1% of Virgo men who have managed to make it work with a Leo woman must have a lot of other Leo planets in their chart.

  32. Virgo angel of death says:

    I am the great destroyer, The cuttingly concise, critically analytical, cleanser of the earth, noone can stand my wrath, my word is a double edged sword that cuts through all webs of lies. Delusions of grandeur will not save you. WE ARE ALL MORTAL BEINGS ON OUR WAY TO DYING, and death is not glorious. I am the dark side of the virgin.

  33. Virgo angel of death says:

    I will skin the lion to make my rug!

  34. Adam says:

    I’m another LEO who is constantly attracted to Virgo men!
    I am a LEO all the way around, Sun moon and rising. I’m extremely head strong and commanding/demanding. Also very affectionate and protective.
    I was in a 2 year relationship(marriage), with a Virgo. That ended 3 years ago. When things were good, they were near perfect. When things were bad police were called, fist were thrown, and anything that could be said to hurt one another was.
    We inspired the worst and the best in one another.
    For all of the good that came from the relationship, learning about myself and about the things I wanted and expected from someone, I truely never want to get involved with another Virgo. However, they’re the only one’s who seem to ever take notice of me and they do tend to be the one’s I’m attracted to as well. It’s almost magnetic…In a bar, online, at a party with friends I will seek out the one male who’s a virgo and instantly strike up a conversation….Opposites attract?!

  35. Adam says:

    Just to further prove this…I joined a dating site recently. I’ve had 12 responses, 8 or which are Virgos lol.

  36. astraea says:

    yeah true.. im a virgo woman and i always get my self attracted to a leo.. but leo women.. but im not les

  37. Jess says:

    I’m a Virgo female, but i have to agree with Miss Leo on virgo men. They will have you pulling your hair out. The ones i’ve dated tend to be conceited and expect the woman to chase them. Ladies if you waiting for the virgo male to commit you going to be waiting for a long time.

  38. Modesty says:

    Hi everybody,
    I’m a Virgo/Gemini female and I’m in a relationship with Leo/Capricorn man…We both have Venus in Virgo, my Mars is in Cancer and his Mars is in Virgo. It is not so serious relationship, but we are together almost three years…Sex between us is great, we can’t resist each other – fatal attraction…but almost everything else is disaster…He’a acting soooo childish, he’s always leaving me and then after two weeks he’s comeing back…sometimes he is so unpredictable, unstable…I like him very much because he has many good qualities but I don’t know what to do anymore, how to approach to him…I don’t want to bother him but sometimes I think that he does not understand what is he doing to me…Btw many of guys that i like were leo’s…I can’t help it, I adore them, I’m always attracted to them…
    Does anybody have any advice how to approach to my Leo?
    Thanx!!!!

    p.s. sorry about my bad english…if i made some mistake…

  39. Lioness says:

    I totally agree with Ms Leo. I started dating a Virgo male and now I have no idea what I friggin got myself into. Everytime he talks I feel like barfing. He is so rude its literally not even funny. I use to dream and fantasize about him. I thought he was the perfect man. Now I know he is far from it his rudeness is annoying. Its not even constructive critisism its just insulting. I have several virgo friends and family members they do the same thing. I love them so I can handle it with them. But I’m not sure I ould take that kind of crap from someone I dont love. To tell you the truth I dont even hink I will be able to love EVER. Virgo and Leo only work out as friends NOT anything else. Maybe it could work if the Leo is really desperate and decides to live a sad, controlled life in a cage.

  40. velyce says:

    I’m a virgo and my bestfriend\ lover our relationship goes well though he drives me crazy it those times that i cant get enough of him. we know that he has a bossy attitude and we work on it but i like that he dominant and controling at times but he knows how to turn it off as well. he is always there for me and im am as well for him. we knew each other since the 2nd grade and we grew together so i know what he like dislikes what makes him tick etc. and he knows it for me that why we work out so well

  41. scarletvirgo says:

    I’m a virgo and in a somewhat relationship with a leo. It’s funny how he keep on insisting he doesn’t want a relationship yet keep crawling back to me for more. We get along very well in the bedroom, in some point he likes being dominated in bed! I’m not a typical virgo, maybe because i have leo in my venus? recently he’s been hiding and it’s actually make me crazy! I don’t know if I should show my affection more frequently (this is what I do if I really care about someone) or should I keep playing as an evil bitch who always resent him or start showing my soft side?

  42. checking my moon. says:

    Hello,
    reading the messages here has been very interesting.
    I was born 1982 aug 03. I know that I am a leo(dog year), but nothing more than that.
    Please tell me how or where to check where my moon, venus, pluto, neptunes …etc are?

    thanks in advance.

  43. LibraLady says:

    astro.com

  44. checking my moon. says:

    thanks for a quick reply.
    I just checked out my natal horoscope.
    but still dont get the meanings for words like, ascendants, or what does moon, mercury represent. going to check out thanks.
    if anybody has some time pls share yr knowledge.

  45. LibraLady says:

    ascendent, is your rising sign. Im a Libra sun, aries moon and scorpio rising, I carry traits of all 3 signs, Im a fool for love Libra, an agressive decisive Arian and my scorpio side takes over when I first meet people, usually the first impression that you give is your rising sign :)

  46. checking my moon. says:

    Oh i See. thanks for the info.
    Looks like the time of the birth has to be accurate. I will have to ask my mom the time of the birth…
    for me the rising s gonna be either gemini or aries… hmm lets see..

  47. LibraLady says:

    I think the rest, mercury, saturn etc all has to do with your karma or luck…how much love you recieve, how wealthy etc. Im not very good at reading those, just the moon, sun and rising :)

  48. Liz says:

    It’s so funny to read all these horrible things about Virgos, and being a virgo woman, I can relate to both sides of the story.. Virgo men are either aloof, insulting , critical and demented, or they can be sweet puppy dogs that want to meet your every need.. I am somewhat seeing one right now, he is the most nurturing and kind hearted guy I have been with in years, but , he is also very boring , and expects me to take the lead in everything, and make all the decisions..this drives me nuts! I use to be married to an Aquarius man, who had mounds and mounds of opinions and didn’t make me decide everything. This had to be the most bizarre relationship of my life. Full of hysterical passion, we mentally stimulated each other to the hilt. But when it went bad, it was the most horrible, disgusting excuse for a relationship ever. I now would NEVER ever date an Aquarius man. I have had the same sort of relationship with Gemini’s , which talk about a horrible sign. I would rather be the worst of virgo’s with the imagination of a small squirrell than ever be born a gemini.
    Well, anyway, the weirdest thing about being a virgo woman and my dating history is that the only guys that come around me like flies to a floruescent light bulb in the middle of summer , are ALWAYS Leos. or Gemini’s or Aquarius. I have tried to make something work with the signs I am suppose to be compatible with , and to no avail. Like cancer men… I mean, we’re suppose to be a match made in heaven, and the one cancer guy I dated was the most aloof , biting personality, with no ability to compromise, worse than any Leo man or other sign I have dated. I can’t shake those Leo’s either… they love me, so far , it only works in the beginning when they are figuring me out , and I am unattainable, but try keeping one of those stimulated and not bored, they need constant affirmation , but just the right amount, they don’t want to see a BIT of insecurity, humanity or any sort of sign of weakness, because suddenly their shining image of you then comes crashing down, and you get dumped. Sadly , this has made me into a very ambivalent Virgo when it comes to these guys.. I am not going to give them 100% When I do, and open up , they feel that the chase is over and they move on down the road. I wish they weren’t the only ones that ever come around. It is probably because even tho I am a virgo, I am the most non – conformist , I am very much the center of attention, making people laugh, played in rock bands, huge personality, lots of friends, independent, lived in tons of cities, visit other countries by myself, make friends as I go along. I know this is not a typical virgo… but deep inside, i want a stable , non flaky man, even tho it may seem that I am into totaly constant excitement.
    Maybe I need to just accept that it works better with those crazy leo fire sign guys, and this time just not give too much emotionally til he really likes me.. Any Leo men out there with advice????

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