Comments on: How to end a relationship with a Cancer http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:02:09 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Gerri http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-1#comment-55428 Gerri Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:28:16 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-55428 Cancers can be hard to get rid of unless you give them the idea that you have only been using them, then, you'll never hear from them again. Cancers try to change the world with love. This world does not alow that to happen because the world is not ran like that. If a cancer can make a difference, then imagine what three or four can do. They are the givers, but never seem to recieve their full reward. Ok. when a cancer blames others it is only becuase they are willing to give 100 percent, and no one ever seems to care if its even or not because they are not trhe ones who are the givers, they are the takers and it seems wrong or unhealthy to give all you have to a relationship. Ya, call us stupid. Its ok, someday, you'll be the one wishing you were appriciated EQUALLY> Cancers can be hard to get rid of unless you give them the idea that you have only been using them, then, you'll never hear from them again. Cancers try to change the world with love. This world does not alow that to happen because the world is not ran like that. If a cancer can make a difference, then imagine what three or four can do. They are the givers, but never seem to recieve their full reward.
Ok. when a cancer blames others it is only becuase they are willing to give 100 percent, and no one ever seems to care if its even or not because they are not trhe ones who are the givers, they are the takers and it seems wrong or unhealthy to give all you have to a relationship. Ya, call us stupid. Its ok, someday, you'll be the one wishing you were appriciated EQUALLY>

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-1#comment-53880 LibraLady Wed, 28 Oct 2009 16:01:04 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-53880 All you men complaining about Cancer women are completely bonkers....If you realized something at the very beginning of the relationship youd be happier guys now. She needed you to need her. To a Cancer that is pure bliss, I know because we Libra girls are the same...If you need me then you must love me, if you dont need me then you dont like me....it may seem childish but when a Cancer is trying to one up you in a conversation or tell you they are right and you and your wrong, the message is really, see I was right, why dont you need me you fool? I deserve to be valued. Too bad men cant see it as easy as women can, women can see it in Cancer men LOL but you guys...I feel sorry for you, when you lose a Cancer woman, youve just lost the most loving soul in the world, and why? because you never said " Hey, I need you" All you men complaining about Cancer women are completely bonkers….If you realized something at the very beginning of the relationship youd be happier guys now. She needed you to need her. To a Cancer that is pure bliss, I know because we Libra girls are the same…If you need me then you must love me, if you dont need me then you dont like me….it may seem childish but when a Cancer is trying to one up you in a conversation or tell you they are right and you and your wrong, the message is really, see I was right, why dont you need me you fool? I deserve to be valued. Too bad men cant see it as easy as women can, women can see it in Cancer men LOL but you guys…I feel sorry for you, when you lose a Cancer woman, youve just lost the most loving soul in the world, and why? because you never said ” Hey, I need you”

]]> By: Me http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-1#comment-47872 Me Tue, 08 Sep 2009 12:36:39 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-47872 Just say your dumped, Cyer! (from a triple fire sign) Just say your dumped, Cyer! (from a triple fire sign)

]]> By: sorceror1978 http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-1#comment-47552 sorceror1978 Fri, 04 Sep 2009 18:15:16 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-47552 Oh gawwd... All of the comments I've read about the Cancer are SOOOO true. He has: Sun in Cancer, Moon in Aquarius, Virgo Rising, and Venus in Leo. I have: Sun in Libra, Moon in Libra, Taurus Rising, and Venus in Scorpio. For the most part, we get along well (only when we don't talk about feelings, our relationship, goals, etc.). We were friends at first, but I started to have feelings for him and mistakenly told him. Now, after about five months, I am daily asking myself if this is a healthy relationship for me because everything has to be on his terms. He decided when it was appropriate to kiss, hold hands, and sleep in the same bed. He will not have sex with me because he "isn't ready", and that is difficult for me because with Taurus Rising and Venus in Scorpio, I have to have relations with my partner in order to feel the connection. Of course my explanations fall upon deaf ears and I get the "I guess I have to put out every night just to be in a relationship" and silent treatment. I get tired of having to deal with the guilt trips and emotional mood swings. It's like Cancers want their partners to be silent butlers who cater to their feelings, moods, insecurities, past hurts, etc. without having an opinion or voice of their own. And anytime that voice comes up to discuss an issue, you have to deal with that "I just want to be left alone because everyone expects something of me". WHAT CRAP! I always get sick of having to hear about what things "the ex" did and constantly being compared to "the ex". These creatures hold on to everything that has been done to them in the past; every hurt, every harsh word. Unfortunately, we have to pay for it as their current partner. Any future relationships will pay for "the horrible things" we've said. It made me laugh reading about the tears and emotional outbursts when the talk of ending the relationship comes up. I see that all the time, and I've said it will come to the point where my compassion will run dry and I will be cold and uncaring. I do love this Cancer and sometimes he can be such a little boy and so compassionate, but those small very loving moments, come with the price of having to cater and not say anything in opposition. My advice is that anyone thinking about dating a Cancer, you should really consider your emotional stability and how you feel about having a relationship in your life. You will spend nights alone when they are in one of their moods, you will not get much back when you express feelings, but you will get many gifts that were perfectly chosen for you, and at the a time when you really need to get it. Oh gawwd… All of the comments I’ve read about the Cancer are SOOOO true.

He has: Sun in Cancer, Moon in Aquarius, Virgo Rising, and Venus in Leo.

I have: Sun in Libra, Moon in Libra, Taurus Rising, and Venus in Scorpio.

For the most part, we get along well (only when we don’t talk about feelings, our relationship, goals, etc.). We were friends at first, but I started to have feelings for him and mistakenly told him.

Now, after about five months, I am daily asking myself if this is a healthy relationship for me because everything has to be on his terms. He decided when it was appropriate to kiss, hold hands, and sleep in the same bed. He will not have sex with me because he “isn’t ready”, and that is difficult for me because with Taurus Rising and Venus in Scorpio, I have to have relations with my partner in order to feel the connection. Of course my explanations fall upon deaf ears and I get the “I guess I have to put out every night just to be in a relationship” and silent treatment.

I get tired of having to deal with the guilt trips and emotional mood swings. It’s like Cancers want their partners to be silent butlers who cater to their feelings, moods, insecurities, past hurts, etc. without having an opinion or voice of their own. And anytime that voice comes up to discuss an issue, you have to deal with that “I just want to be left alone because everyone expects something of me”. WHAT CRAP!

I always get sick of having to hear about what things “the ex” did and constantly being compared to “the ex”. These creatures hold on to everything that has been done to them in the past; every hurt, every harsh word. Unfortunately, we have to pay for it as their current partner. Any future relationships will pay for “the horrible things” we’ve said.

It made me laugh reading about the tears and emotional outbursts when the talk of ending the relationship comes up. I see that all the time, and I’ve said it will come to the point where my compassion will run dry and I will be cold and uncaring.

I do love this Cancer and sometimes he can be such a little boy and so compassionate, but those small very loving moments, come with the price of having to cater and not say anything in opposition.

My advice is that anyone thinking about dating a Cancer, you should really consider your emotional stability and how you feel about having a relationship in your life. You will spend nights alone when they are in one of their moods, you will not get much back when you express feelings, but you will get many gifts that were perfectly chosen for you, and at the a time when you really need to get it.

]]> By: capricorn 2 http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-1#comment-40748 capricorn 2 Thu, 09 Jul 2009 20:26:10 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-40748 this is sooooo dammm true Goat im a capricorn 2 born Jan 9 and my girl is a cancer born 25 june she is every thing that you talked about im sick of all her shit i want out this is sooooo dammm true Goat im a capricorn 2 born Jan 9 and my girl is a cancer born 25 june she is every thing that you talked about im sick of all her s*** i want out

]]> By: capricorn 2 http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-1#comment-40747 capricorn 2 Thu, 09 Jul 2009 20:23:55 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-40747 immm immm

]]> By: Goat http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-1#comment-39349 Goat Tue, 30 Jun 2009 10:02:02 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-39349 Cap man with cancer woman. I think I'm fed up. If you seek the warmth of the home, then the cancer really shines. But if you have to do practical stuff, you are alone: got the cancer's sympathy, her will, her emotional agreement, but the real work is only yours. She simply does not starts things, nor make detailed plans, her attempts lacks strong will.. It's like an athlete and a spectator. Then, after you finished with the actual task, you have your blind appreciation (blind because if you didn't do anything you have no idea how easy or how hard was it) and enthusiasm.. And the next thing she would like (naturally not in a selfish manner, she really think that you will be happy with that as she). And you also get her need to above the finished task: you have to show your love and emotions the way she would like - like you're a cancer and not a cap.. It's like an untouchable goal, to make the cancer fully happy, to help her to overcome her fears, etc. But after some years, you know that if you leave, you ruin her because it's like you make someone's very rich, let her/him accustomed to it, and finally set her/his account to zero, and throw out to the street. Ideally she would fell in love with someone else, and then let you go. But as a cap, you maybe want to know that she's in good hands, because she deserve it. Cap man with cancer woman.
I think I’m fed up.
If you seek the warmth of the home, then the cancer really shines. But if you have to do practical stuff, you are alone: got the cancer’s sympathy, her will, her emotional agreement, but the real work is only yours. She simply does not starts things, nor make detailed plans, her attempts lacks strong will.. It’s like an athlete and a spectator. Then, after you finished with the actual task, you have your blind appreciation (blind because if you didn’t do anything you have no idea how easy or how hard was it) and enthusiasm.. And the next thing she would like (naturally not in a selfish manner, she really think that you will be happy with that as she). And you also get her need to above the finished task: you have to show your love and emotions the way she would like – like you’re a cancer and not a cap..
It’s like an untouchable goal, to make the cancer fully happy, to help her to overcome her fears, etc.
But after some years, you know that if you leave, you ruin her because it’s like you make someone’s very rich, let her/him accustomed to it, and finally set her/his account to zero, and throw out to the street.
Ideally she would fell in love with someone else, and then let you go.
But as a cap, you maybe want to know that she’s in good hands, because she deserve it.

]]> By: BeautifulThings http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-1#comment-32176 BeautifulThings Wed, 27 May 2009 18:15:29 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-32176 Sorry, I meant Mercury and Mars in Leo. His sun was definitely in Cancer. Someone else mentioned that previously married Cancers never remarry. I notice too that once a woman has dealt with a Cancer man once, its a mistake they don't make a second time. ```` Sorry, I meant Mercury and Mars in Leo. His sun was definitely in Cancer. Someone else mentioned that previously married Cancers never remarry. I notice too that once a woman has dealt with a Cancer man once, its a mistake they don’t make a second time.

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]]> By: chelsea http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-1#comment-32175 chelsea Wed, 27 May 2009 17:59:41 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-32175 dude, i am a libra and just broke up with a cancer. i actually broke up with her several times and she, too, before (but her breakups were "a break" that never lasted more than a day)...she had a TON of LEO in her chart, and mars in Gemini. when we first started dating she slept with her ex and lied to me. so ya, that was a good start. i guess i never FULLY trusted her after that. but now that we broke up (a year and half later) i feel i need closure and am ready to date someone who is less draining and ILLOGICAL! I say illogical because when we'd argue she'd pull something outta her ars and i'd want to laugh. our communication was DISASTEROUS, we were soooo different in our perpectives, it just didnt' work. we moved in together, so we have to deal with the move out sadness. i decided to be nice to her, but it's hard to not desire her when we embrace. oi, i just need to remember WHY we are breaking up...i told her i love her and i want to be with her and she said she needs to grow up (she does, really) and hopes we can be together in the future. sounds like BS, but i believe her. anyways, i hope my heart heals. i thought she was the One dude, i am a libra and just broke up with a cancer. i actually broke up with her several times and she, too, before (but her breakups were “a break” that never lasted more than a day)…she had a TON of LEO in her chart, and mars in Gemini. when we first started dating she slept with her ex and lied to me. so ya, that was a good start. i guess i never FULLY trusted her after that. but now that we broke up (a year and half later) i feel i need closure and am ready to date someone who is less draining and ILLOGICAL! I say illogical because when we’d argue she’d pull something outta her ars and i’d want to laugh. our communication was DISASTEROUS, we were soooo different in our perpectives, it just didnt’ work.

we moved in together, so we have to deal with the move out sadness. i decided to be nice to her, but it’s hard to not desire her when we embrace. oi, i just need to remember WHY we are breaking up…i told her i love her and i want to be with her and she said she needs to grow up (she does, really) and hopes we can be together in the future. sounds like BS, but i believe her.

anyways, i hope my heart heals. i thought she was the One

]]> By: Jasmine Byrd http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-1#comment-30223 Jasmine Byrd Sat, 16 May 2009 14:33:39 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-30223 o lord my cancer has tons of leo.....plz be aware o lord my cancer has tons of leo…..plz be aware

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