Comments on: How to end a relationship with a Cancer http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html Wed, 17 Mar 2010 23:58:46 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Xanthe http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-2#comment-62178 Xanthe Tue, 02 Mar 2010 12:20:32 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-62178 Jeffrey, you have actually hit the nail squarely on the head here, sir. As I've said elsewhere on this site (sorry for repeating it over and over), I'm an Aries woman married to a Cancer (unusual, I know, but true). That prototype of a breaking up letter you wrote is one I have mentally written to my husband umpteenth times (though in my case I never intended to break up, just get him to understand what he had to do to avoid making me want to eventually break up! I do love him, but he honestly does smother me sometimes). I have gone from having a relationship with an Aquarius to meeting and marrying a Cancer soon afterwards. That would prove to be too much of a culture shock to anyone, I think. Jeffrey, you have actually hit the nail squarely on the head here, sir. As I’ve said elsewhere on this site (sorry for repeating it over and over), I’m an Aries woman married to a Cancer (unusual, I know, but true). That prototype of a breaking up letter you wrote is one I have mentally written to my husband umpteenth times (though in my case I never intended to break up, just get him to understand what he had to do to avoid making me want to eventually break up! I do love him, but he honestly does smother me sometimes).

I have gone from having a relationship with an Aquarius to meeting and marrying a Cancer soon afterwards. That would prove to be too much of a culture shock to anyone, I think.

]]> By: taylor http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-2#comment-58897 taylor Fri, 08 Jan 2010 05:08:19 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-58897 Never saw The Hobbit or Lord of the Rings. Never saw The Hobbit or Lord of the Rings.

]]> By: Jeffrey Kishner http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-2#comment-58856 Jeffrey Kishner Thu, 07 Jan 2010 13:55:58 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-58856 "We resent(s) it." Sounds like Gollum. “We resent(s) it.” Sounds like Gollum.

]]> By: taylor http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-2#comment-58829 taylor Thu, 07 Jan 2010 04:33:50 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-58829 How bout bracketing out clingy possesive domestic cuz were are far from that old description of us and we resent it. How bout bracketing out clingy possesive domestic cuz were are far from that old description of us and we resent it.

]]> By: Jeffrey Kishner http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-2#comment-58597 Jeffrey Kishner Mon, 04 Jan 2010 14:15:00 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-58597 <strong>taylor</strong>, I will admit to neither having dated Cancer women nor having any Cancer women in my immediate family. However, I stand by what I wrote in the blog post. Just because you have Venus in Gemini does not negate the archetypal nature of a Cancer Sun. Due to the very nature of writing about Sun signs, one must necessarily "bracket out" other factors which may contradict the Sun's expression. taylor, I will admit to neither having dated Cancer women nor having any Cancer women in my immediate family. However, I stand by what I wrote in the blog post. Just because you have Venus in Gemini does not negate the archetypal nature of a Cancer Sun. Due to the very nature of writing about Sun signs, one must necessarily “bracket out” other factors which may contradict the Sun’s expression.

]]> By: taylor http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-2#comment-58559 taylor Mon, 04 Jan 2010 03:51:33 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-58559 Jeffery You know nothing about cancerian woman. Jeffery You know nothing about cancerian woman.

]]> By: Marie http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-2#comment-58433 Marie Fri, 01 Jan 2010 16:56:38 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-58433 Hello again, I just thought I'd update you on recent developments between my ex-Cancer man and myself. I have continued to put up defences against him and told him that there was something not right, and that I needed to get away from him. He tried to ignore all my negative texts, saying that he didn't want us to ever end. I had a call from his distressed ex-girlfriend this morning, asking me to stay away and stop texting him, as they were back together again and had been for some time. Last I heard of her, she had moved back to her mother 30+ miles away. I feel for her, but I'm so glad I kept up my barrier. Hello again, I just thought I’d update you on recent developments between my ex-Cancer man and myself.
I have continued to put up defences against him and told him that there was something not right, and that I needed to get away from him. He tried to ignore all my negative texts, saying that he didn’t want us to ever end.
I had a call from his distressed ex-girlfriend this morning, asking me to stay away and stop texting him, as they were back together again and had been for some time. Last I heard of her, she had moved back to her mother 30+ miles away.
I feel for her, but I’m so glad I kept up my barrier.

]]> By: Jeffrey Kishner http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-2#comment-58429 Jeffrey Kishner Fri, 01 Jan 2010 16:15:33 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-58429 <b>Taylor</b>, it is ridiculous to assert that most Cancers have Venus in Gemini. Taylor, it is ridiculous to assert that most Cancers have Venus in Gemini.

]]> By: taylor http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-2#comment-58422 taylor Fri, 01 Jan 2010 07:32:09 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-58422 jeffrey kirscher, You are ridiculous. Cancers hate to be smother and possessed. most of us have gemini in venus. The cliche of cancer being mothering and smothering is false. motherly somewhat by not clingy over smothering. most people appreciate when someone cares about them and vice versa. I think it is perfectly normal. But then if your an aqaurius you love detachment. jeffrey kirscher, You are ridiculous. Cancers hate to be smother and possessed. most of us have gemini in venus. The cliche of cancer being mothering and smothering is false. motherly somewhat by not clingy over smothering. most people appreciate when someone cares about them and vice versa. I think it is perfectly normal. But then if your an aqaurius you love detachment.

]]> By: Marie http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-to-end-relationship-with-cancer.html/comment-page-2#comment-58291 Marie Wed, 30 Dec 2009 01:21:55 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/21/how-to-end-a-relationship-with-a-cancer/#comment-58291 I'm Taurus sun & Merc, Gemini Venus, Moon Libra & Aquarius Mars He's Cancer Sun, Leo Merc, Gemini Venus, Moon Taurus, Cancer Mars We started out as an affair over 15 years ago, when I was coming out of a marriage to a domineering, cheating Aries, but we've always stayed friends & periodically he would try to start something up again. I'm his perfect mother substitute too, being 10 years older. Finally, about 6 weeks ago we started dating but there's something about us that makes me uncomfortable even though I love him to bits. I get scared and back off and he hangs on for dear life. I can't dump him no matter how I try, he won't let me and I don't seem to be able to go through with it. I try to end it at least twice a week and he accuses me of blowing hot and cold, it's like I take on his cancerian tendencies and he makes all the rules. Normally I'm so independent and well-balanced. He says he never wants us to end again... scarey! I’m Taurus sun & Merc, Gemini Venus, Moon Libra & Aquarius Mars
He’s Cancer Sun, Leo Merc, Gemini Venus, Moon Taurus, Cancer Mars

We started out as an affair over 15 years ago, when I was coming out of a marriage to a domineering, cheating Aries, but we’ve always stayed friends & periodically he would try to start something up again. I’m his perfect mother substitute too, being 10 years older.
Finally, about 6 weeks ago we started dating but there’s something about us that makes me uncomfortable even though I love him to bits. I get scared and back off and he hangs on for dear life. I can’t dump him no matter how I try, he won’t let me and I don’t seem to be able to go through with it. I try to end it at least twice a week and he accuses me of blowing hot and cold, it’s like I take on his cancerian tendencies and he makes all the rules. Normally I’m so independent and well-balanced. He says he never wants us to end again… scarey!

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