How to catch a Sagittarius man
November 9, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
The language of seduction intrigues me. To catch a man implies that he is some kind of animal fleeing his pursuer. A Sagittarian is one of the more likely members of the zodiac to run away. He is represented by a centaur — half-man, half-horse. And so he’s not so easy to catch!
Sagittarius is ruled by the planet Jupiter, which rules expansion and adventure. The Archer does not like to be held back — he wants to explore, through travels to distant lands or studies of arcane philosophy texts. You may be able keep up with him by going along on ski trips or discussing world religions. However, it is not advisable to cage him in. If Sagittarius feels trapped, he’ll bolt. He needs his freedom. To use a horse metaphor, he needs free rein.
I understand the thrill is in the chase, but I would advise you to gallop besides him, not to catch him. Because the moment you do, he’s gone.
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I believe you have captured the true Sagittarian man…being in love with one and having a brother who was one these men are daring adventurers and worldly travelers and the bachelors of the zodiac who love their friends. They are easiy bored and must have constant stimulation and variety is definately their spice in life..!
As one who has sag rising, I agree.
I agree. I’m an Aqu, Sag venus and Jupiter conj my aries Asc in first. Continously obsessing about travelling, moving about and philosophy. Thank God, my Gem partner somehow keeps me occupied.
I’m an Aries sun (H12), Capricorn Moon, Gemini Rising, with my Venus in Pisces. Most (at least 65%) of my relationships, even in the short term, have been with Sagittarius men. I’ve found that what they need (and crave, honestly) is to be literally SMOTHERED with freedom in exactly the same way you would smother someone else with doting love. If you’re not capable of doing this, you’ve got a rough (and short) road ahead of you.
I am a Sag and was married to a Sag man for 11 years. It really depends on the whole chart. It was funny because when married; I started to feel like he wasn’t Sag at all. He really has sooo much in earth/water. He has 3 planets in Capricorn and that is what showed the most, along with his Taurus moon and Scorpio rising. He had no planets in air and only 2in fire.
So, I began to forget that he was, indeed, a Sag, like me. He was the most responsible Sag you would ever meet, the most serious, etc…. but, funny thing is, with that serious earth/water stuff that can = a great “family man”, it can also = a VERY traditional man; and a VERY traditional man indeed!!
We went to visit his family, and “surprise” – his family had other ideas, and it had to do with us being in THEIR own made up religion- which fitted him just fine. So, his Sag Sun came out after all; and it came out in a way that allowed him to blend it with all of his feminine earth/water and show it in a conservative traditional way.
He has “fled”, so to speak, to go and be “free” – but to what freedom? He now has to do whatever his families “spirits” (thru a medium) tells him to do. He has ended up with less freedom than he could ever imagine and wishes out (he said once) but will not break the mental chains that bind him – which the Catholic churches guilt combined with his families guilt, won’t let him go…
It is funny to see how free Sprituality can make some?!!
Now, me, as a Sag, – I can say, I am free
(the only chains that bind me are the ones I allow – and I allow some, but at least I am COUNSCIOUS of that!!!)
Oh my, I wish I knew this 2 1/2 years ago. I feel madly in love with a sag and we moved into together. 6 Months later out of no where he bolted. He continued to pester me for sex until I said enough… Im running far from the sag next time…far far away.
I’m a pisces male. I didn’t have any serious relationships until i met a sag. very quickly we got married, unfortunately, and even more unnfortunately we stayed married for almost 10 years now. my daughter is a scorpio and we get along great – daddy’s girl! in the end, for me at least, a sag girl is only good for a one-night stand at absolute best. i wouldn’t know if i could do that, tho – i never have. sags are evil as far as i’m concerned – selfish, mean, weak-minded and ignorant. at least to this pisces whose heart no longer exists except in his daughter’s precious hands.
sounds like someone’s hurtin BAD
Look, some things last forever, some things don’t. You both are hurtin and life ain’t helpin so how bout calling it quits, splitting the goods down the line and sharing the kid, she sounds sweet
Most are ok with divorce these days, everybody’s doin it, quite fashionable actually
she’ll have something to brood about with her friends and being a Scorp herself, get a secret thrill out of all the Pluto death and drama
tip: make sure there’s a nice lake (understanding water sign) nearby so you can go for a cool swim and not get buried in the ashes
@ whatever: “Most are ok with divorce these days, everybody’s doin it, quite fashionable actually” … I’d think divorce would just give a Scorpio daughter even less trust in people.
and that is a good thing, don’t you think?
a little wariness goes a long way
my sag husband will not return my phone calls,he sent me one text saying he needs time to himself. How do I get him to call me soon.
IM A GEMINI AND I BEEN DATING A SAG…TO MY SURPRIZE AFTER A 5 YEAR FAILED REALTIONSHIP AND A BROKEN HEART FROM A PIECES I FINALLY GAVE HAPPINESS A CHANCE AND WITH THIS SPECIFIC SAG IM HAPPY
HE IS A GOOD MAN…WE GET ALONG VERY WELL..HE BALANCES OFF MY WEAKNESSES AND I HELP HIM WITH HIS..IT WORKS VERY WELL FOR US..ME AS A GEMIN I GET BORED EASY AND NEED ENTERTAINMENT ALL THE TIME AND HE DEFINETLY PROVIDES ME WITH IT AND SURPRIZED ME WITH A GERGIOUS DAISIES AND BDAY DINNER…HE ADDES PLUS TO MY MINUSES AND I DO THE SAME FOR HIM…WE GET ALONG SPENDID….
IM A GEMINI AND DATED A PISCES FOR YEARS
ONE OF THE THINGS THAT BOTHERED ME ABOUT MY PISCES EX WAS THAT HE WOULD SAY HE WOULD DO SUMTHING AND NEVER FOLLOWED WITH HIS WORDS…FOR EXAMPLE..CALLED TO TALK BARELY TEN MINUTES INTO IT HE ASKED ME A QUESTION AND THAN FALL ASLEEP AND I HEAR HIM SNORING ON THE PHONE SO I HANG UP AND HE CALLS ME TWO DAYS AFTER ACTING LIKE NOTHING HAPPEND ..IT GOT ME SO MAD THAT HE THOUGHT HE DIDNT DO ANYTHING WRONG UNTIL I MENTIONED IT AND THAN HE APOLIGIZED….HE SAYD I WILL DO THIS OR THAT AND NEVER DID…
SAYING THAT HE LOVES YOU ONE DAY AND SIX MONTHS LATER FALLS N DATES UR FRIEND AND SAYS HE STOPED LOVING YOU…INTERESTING EH…WHAT A QUICK RECOVERY WITHIN FEW MONTHS HE IS ALL IN LOVE WITH MY FRIEND WHEN HE WAS STILL GOO GOOO GAA GAA OVER ME JUST FEW MONTHS BEFORE THAT ASKING ME IF I STILL LOVE HIM AND HOW MUCH HE MISSES ME…PISCES MEN ARE STRANGE….THEY DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT
Im libran. Im not into this horoscope thing. I was just trying to preoccupy my thoughts and maybe subconsciously trying to analyze as to the issues of the why’s. I met this sag man on line. Its been like 10 years since i last saw him, we were classmates in one of my art subjects way back college. It was surprising to see him online by chance. For a time, we exchange text messages, phone calls and wait up for eachother after a days work. there was some kind of connection. since were working at separate ends of the globe, we plan to spend and schedule our vacation together and hes keen to meet my famil. I got excited also, he seemed so sincere. He would call me and wait for me online and spend time to chat with me and suffer the consequences of few hours sleep. Everything went well for a month and 1/2. I noticed the changed when he went for a 3 weeks travel— job related since hes working in a recruitment agency. He became cold and distant. Im always the one reaching out, and its not healthy anymore. Emotionally battery, ive been through a lot in terms of relationship. One thing ive learned, dont lose ur sense of self,and stay on it if the picture is not clear enough. We have mutual understanding, that we have to be honest with each other no matter what the circumstances. Since i can feel that theres something wrong, i tried to ask for answers. I emailed him a long email, to express what i felt, but sad to say… i did not get a reply from him. After that emailed he close his doors…. hes giving me silence. but if i try to review my email, im not nasty ..i just want a clear picture of where i stand. Since i have my life also ahead of me. And we promised HONESTY. I never thought silent cud hurt as much. HE ignored me, hes not bothered with what i felt… so its possible im not important. cud be he has found another divertion. i know hes such a jerk, what i want is honesty and an explanation. I hate when someone wud left me hanging. I think most of us HATES THAT. its like “figure it out for ursel”…… Im so stupid, i believed. But there was no sign at all, hes not into me. He just went so cold all of a sudden.
im trying to move on,but its hard when ur left hanging…. i have an iquisitive mind….. there are instances i wanna call and give him a scolding, but its not worth it……..I JUST HATE HIM.
I’m a pisces female, moon capricorn, and was deeply in love with a sag man,moon/cap too. This was a little over a year ago. After four months I snapped on him big time bc it bothered me so much that he always appeared to be somewhere else other than in the moment. He snapped back. It was crazy and explosive and of course left me wanting him more since he just showed me he was able to feel some emotion. But i didn’t hear from him again after that until four months ago. Now he’s all buddy buddy with me and wanting to hang out, which of course brought my feelings back. I don’t get. I’m living a rerun with this guy.
I’m a pisces female, moon capricorn, and was deeply in love with a sag man,moon/cap too. This was a little over a year ago. After four months I snapped on him big time bc it bothered me so much that he always appeared to be somewhere else other than in the moment. He snapped back. It was crazy and explosive and of course left me wanting him more since he just showed me he was able to feel some emotion. But i didn’t hear from him again after that until four months ago. Now he’s all buddy buddy with me and wanting to hang out, which of course brought my feelings back. I don’t get. I’m living a rerun with this guy.
I have my sun and moon in Aries, mercury in pisces, venus in aries, mars in cancer, jupiter in libra, saturn in aquarius, uranus and neptune in capricorn, and pluto in scorpio. Can anyone tell me what I should do to lure and get into a relationship with this very popular and in demand, Sagittarius. What would the relationship be like? What should I look out for?
Ok, here’s the deal. Last November my radiator went out. I took my car to a mechanic I’ve used on-and-off for almost 20 years. He started showing up “fairly” frequently in my neighborhood bar since then, one block from his business location. He’s never been a “regular” at the pub before.
We had a cool conversation tonight about wanting to retire and just BE with someone who we LIKE and who can just be a best friend and companion for life.
Hmmm…yeah ok….I’m back “on the market” and have lots of choices. But this guy stood out of the crowd tonight.
Life is so great…just to see what happens next.