Comments on: How a Libra man proposes http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html Sat, 13 Mar 2010 19:27:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Melissa http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html/comment-page-1#comment-60987 Melissa Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:32:11 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/how-a-libra-man-proposes/#comment-60987 I met my Libra man about 10 years ago--he has been my brother's best friend maybe a year or so before I met him. We were sort of acquaintances for a long time before we actually became friends...and after knowing each other for about 7 years, my best friend and my Mom thought that we would be good together. The thought had only vaguely crossed my mind maybe once or twice since I've known him, but I was certain there was nothing there. But once the idea had been firmly planted in my head by my family and friends (except my brother, who didn't want us to go down that path because of the possibility we wouldn't work out) I decided to muster up the courage to ask. I'm a Pisces, so taking charge is kinda hard but I have alot of Aries in my chart (Ascendant, Mars & Venus all in Aries) so I just did it. But it took us THREE years after that day (maybe a little more) to finally get to where we are now!! (because he's so indecisive and cautious, which I am only HALF the time lol) It has taken a long time, but it feels like it has taken the RIGHT amount of time too. We have discovered that we have AMAZING chemistry and we recently reached a point in our friendship (after the worst case of flip-flopping emotionally (FOUR MONTHS OR MORE!!) I have EVER witnessed and CRIED over, because I have discovered I am in love with him) we are FINALLY on the same page!!! He told me, after 2 weeks of not talking because I was trying to let him go (I wanted a relationship and didn't) we seen each other and he began to open up to me in so many ways--it was overwhelming! We spent our first Valentine's Day together this year and I couldn't be happier! My advice to anyone getting involved with a Libran man is: You better have ALOT of patience and it DEFINITELY would not hurt if you were more decisive and know EXACTLY what you want...because it's gonna take him A VERY LONG TIME to figure things out for himself...But I can tell you from personl experience that now I'm on the same page with my Libra man...it feels SO right and it means so much more that we just didn't jump into this without any thought...GOOD LUCK TO ALL!!!! I met my Libra man about 10 years ago–he has been my brother’s best friend maybe a year or so before I met him. We were sort of acquaintances for a long time before we actually became friends…and after knowing each other for about 7 years, my best friend and my Mom thought that we would be good together. The thought had only vaguely crossed my mind maybe once or twice since I’ve known him, but I was certain there was nothing there. But once the idea had been firmly planted in my head by my family and friends (except my brother, who didn’t want us to go down that path because of the possibility we wouldn’t work out) I decided to muster up the courage to ask. I’m a Pisces, so taking charge is kinda hard but I have alot of Aries in my chart (Ascendant, Mars & Venus all in Aries) so I just did it. But it took us THREE years after that day (maybe a little more) to finally get to where we are now!! (because he’s so indecisive and cautious, which I am only HALF the time lol) It has taken a long time, but it feels like it has taken the RIGHT amount of time too. We have discovered that we have AMAZING chemistry and we recently reached a point in our friendship (after the worst case of flip-flopping emotionally (FOUR MONTHS OR MORE!!) I have EVER witnessed and CRIED over, because I have discovered I am in love with him) we are FINALLY on the same page!!! He told me, after 2 weeks of not talking because I was trying to let him go (I wanted a relationship and didn’t) we seen each other and he began to open up to me in so many ways–it was overwhelming! We spent our first Valentine’s Day together this year and I couldn’t be happier! My advice to anyone getting involved with a Libran man is: You better have ALOT of patience and it DEFINITELY would not hurt if you were more decisive and know EXACTLY what you want…because it’s gonna take him A VERY LONG TIME to figure things out for himself…But I can tell you from personl experience that now I’m on the same page with my Libra man…it feels SO right and it means so much more that we just didn’t jump into this without any thought…GOOD LUCK TO ALL!!!!

]]> By: Mary http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html/comment-page-1#comment-57372 Mary Tue, 15 Dec 2009 19:32:34 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/how-a-libra-man-proposes/#comment-57372 Girls, I am a Capricorn and have been dating my Libra for 2 years now. He swept me off my feet. The relationship has had its ups and downs. We see things very different. I like to make plans and I stick to my word, he is very flaky, can NOT run on a time schedule and has taken me to look at rings on 3 different occasions in the last year. lol. Yes three but never did the proposal. He is an amazing man and I love him dearly. We have had many many arguments about him putting his friends first and the family at home last. He just does not get it. lol. So...the conclude this, I learned to accept the way he is and he accepts the way I am. If he is late I leave without him, if he doesn't call I make other plans. I don't surround my world around him like I did the first year. We recently broke up and he moved out, said he didn't know what path to take in life, I told him fine when you figure it out give me a call..he is doing everything to get back into my life. Took me and the little one on a weekend adventure last weekend. Came over and cooked dinner, said he is a mess without us. All I can say is do not push your Libra man to be where you are at in life, he will come around when he is ready. and if it is meant to be than he will come back. Once I cut the strings he realized what he had walked away from and its like we fell in love all over again. So...regardless your sign, if its love than it can conquer all. Sometimes a break to reevaluate a relationship can be good for the both of you. LIBRA men are indecisive, they weigh all options, they can be moody, but if you are willing to be patient and tell your man how much you appreciate him he will feel loved. The Libra man is a wonderful lover, and will treat you like a princess if you give him his space and freedom when he needs it. DO NOT BE DEPENDENT ON YOUR LIBRA!!!! Be a strong independent sensual women and he will chase you down girls!!! Girls,
I am a Capricorn and have been dating my Libra for 2 years now. He swept me off my feet. The relationship has had its ups and downs. We see things very different. I like to make plans and I stick to my word, he is very flaky, can NOT run on a time schedule and has taken me to look at rings on 3 different occasions in the last year. lol. Yes three but never did the proposal. He is an amazing man and I love him dearly. We have had many many arguments about him putting his friends first and the family at home last. He just does not get it. lol. So…the conclude this, I learned to accept the way he is and he accepts the way I am. If he is late I leave without him, if he doesn’t call I make other plans. I don’t surround my world around him like I did the first year. We recently broke up and he moved out, said he didn’t know what path to take in life, I told him fine when you figure it out give me a call..he is doing everything to get back into my life. Took me and the little one on a weekend adventure last weekend. Came over and cooked dinner, said he is a mess without us. All I can say is do not push your Libra man to be where you are at in life, he will come around when he is ready. and if it is meant to be than he will come back. Once I cut the strings he realized what he had walked away from and its like we fell in love all over again. So…regardless your sign, if its love than it can conquer all. Sometimes a break to reevaluate a relationship can be good for the both of you. LIBRA men are indecisive, they weigh all options, they can be moody, but if you are willing to be patient and tell your man how much you appreciate him he will feel loved. The Libra man is a wonderful lover, and will treat you like a princess if you give him his space and freedom when he needs it. DO NOT BE DEPENDENT ON YOUR LIBRA!!!! Be a strong independent sensual women and he will chase you down girls!!!

]]> By: sag-gal http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html/comment-page-1#comment-54812 sag-gal Mon, 09 Nov 2009 15:00:41 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/how-a-libra-man-proposes/#comment-54812 I laughed at the post right above of *sadge* girl,, the scene of them on couch.. I am a Sag girl with a Libra man, we are both in 20s. the key to being with libra, that i found is NOT TO EXPECT and they will surprise you in a good way. We women start thinking Love, Marriage, Kids, Grandchildren ..etc etc the moment we feel the connection.. The Good (maybe bad, if you are cancer :P) thing with Sagittarians, they love the moment, not past, not future .. just that precise moment. me and my libra were friends,, the moment i saw him, I had HOTs for him,, he now says he felt a tug when he saw me too (though then he kept quiet). we became friends, then we were away, I kept on writing to him and he knew all about my problems and relationships and men.. he was kind and supportive and never went out of line.. sometimes I got too busy with other men but he kept on being in touch. then I suspected that he is with another common friend (she bragged how close she is to libra),, so i congratulated him (giggle). and he wrote back to me, (more like blurted it out)... *NOoooooo, she is just a friend,, YOU are the ONE I am into, dont you know it, after all this time??? '' ... it was hilarious, like a brick on my head... for one year I treated him as if he is just a kind sounding board while he genuinely liked me.. from there on, we came close, he is CERTAIN its me, no ambiguity, no indecision.. Libra LOVE comes with Commitment, never without it. Once he knows he is in love, he knows he wants to marry you.. period.. I am the one who is prolonging it all, (sags are notorious for it).. and I want more financial stability for myself before i marry him. he is supportive and kind and caring.. and I have no doubt that he loves me and that he will Marry me. He has even bought the ring, but I dont want to wear.. dont freak.. its not that I wanna play more.. I love him. I just want it slow.. he is waiting with ring. so girls,, All the Indecisive Libras can get the taste of their medicine with Sags,, lol .. and they are the one waiting for decision, in this case. But we are heavenly paired .. touchwood... and CHEMISTRY is OUT OF THE WORLD.. mmmmmm any sag girls out there.. go for LIBRA. *wink* I laughed at the post right above of *sadge* girl,, the scene of them on couch..

I am a Sag girl with a Libra man, we are both in 20s.

the key to being with libra, that i found is NOT TO EXPECT and they will surprise you in a good way. We women start thinking Love, Marriage, Kids, Grandchildren ..etc etc the moment we feel the connection.. The Good (maybe bad, if you are cancer :P ) thing with Sagittarians, they love the moment, not past, not future .. just that precise moment.

me and my libra were friends,, the moment i saw him, I had HOTs for him,, he now says he felt a tug when he saw me too (though then he kept quiet). we became friends, then we were away, I kept on writing to him and he knew all about my problems and relationships and men.. he was kind and supportive and never went out of line.. sometimes I got too busy with other men but he kept on being in touch.

then I suspected that he is with another common friend (she bragged how close she is to libra),, so i congratulated him (giggle). and he wrote back to me, (more like blurted it out)… *NOoooooo, she is just a friend,, YOU are the ONE I am into, dont you know it, after all this time??? ” … it was hilarious, like a brick on my head… for one year I treated him as if he is just a kind sounding board while he genuinely liked me..

from there on, we came close, he is CERTAIN its me, no ambiguity, no indecision.. Libra LOVE comes with Commitment, never without it. Once he knows he is in love, he knows he wants to marry you.. period..

I am the one who is prolonging it all, (sags are notorious for it).. and I want more financial stability for myself before i marry him. he is supportive and kind and caring.. and I have no doubt that he loves me and that he will Marry me.

He has even bought the ring, but I dont want to wear.. dont freak.. its not that I wanna play more.. I love him. I just want it slow.. he is waiting with ring.

so girls,, All the Indecisive Libras can get the taste of their medicine with Sags,, lol .. and they are the one waiting for decision, in this case. But we are heavenly paired .. touchwood… and CHEMISTRY is OUT OF THE WORLD.. mmmmmm

any sag girls out there.. go for LIBRA. *wink*

]]> By: Sadgie http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html/comment-page-1#comment-53340 Sadgie Wed, 21 Oct 2009 20:11:44 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/how-a-libra-man-proposes/#comment-53340 Hi Im a female sagittarius involved w/ a libra man. My libra's proposal is kinda funny actually :)and im not even sure if it really counts LOL. We were lying on the couch in our place and he said, "man the whole world could be in chaos and id be at peace with you right here." I said yeah me too. He said yeah its all bad for you now babe cause your stuck with me, Im gonna have to marry you." I said, "oh yeah? Sounds good." He looked at me and said, "WOULD you marry me???" I said, "yeah" than he asks "So will you give me a baby in 6mo" I said, "nah more like a year." Being a sagittarius though... Ill prolong this whole marriage arragement as long as he'll let me. But I can tell his certainty and once libra's are certain NOTHING can make them change their minds! At least thats how it seems w/ my libra and his love for me. Everything around him could be confusing or inconclusive to him, but he has balance with me and hes sure of it. One of Libra's life lessons is about love not to fall to quickly not to love the wrong things/qualities, or sacrifice who they are for love, and incorporating love in all aspects of life everything from nature and their surroundings to the poor/dirty even to love the blind who cant appreciate love/life like they can. LOVE once libra's find it they grow like a weed! :P Hi Im a female sagittarius involved w/ a libra man.

My libra’s proposal is kinda funny actually :) and im not even sure if it really counts LOL. We were lying on the couch in our place and he said, “man the whole world could be in chaos and id be at peace with you right here.” I said yeah me too. He said yeah its all bad for you now babe cause your stuck with me, Im gonna have to marry you.” I said, “oh yeah? Sounds good.” He looked at me and said, “WOULD you marry me???” I said, “yeah” than he asks “So will you give me a baby in 6mo” I said, “nah more like a year.”

Being a sagittarius though… Ill prolong this whole marriage arragement as long as he’ll let me. But I can tell his certainty and once libra’s are certain NOTHING can make them change their minds! At least thats how it seems w/ my libra and his love for me. Everything around him could be confusing or inconclusive to him, but he has balance with me and hes sure of it.

One of Libra’s life lessons is about love not to fall to quickly not to love the wrong things/qualities, or sacrifice who they are for love, and incorporating love in all aspects of life everything from nature and their surroundings to the poor/dirty even to love the blind who cant appreciate love/life like they can. LOVE once libra’s find it they grow like a weed! :P

]]> By: Myra http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html/comment-page-1#comment-52478 Myra Wed, 14 Oct 2009 03:21:31 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/how-a-libra-man-proposes/#comment-52478 I married a Libra man for 11 years, believe me my husband is never romantic. I was even the one who did the marriage proposal because he cannot decide. It sucks but it's true. I married a Libra man for 11 years, believe me my husband is never romantic. I was even the one who did the marriage proposal because he cannot decide. It sucks but it’s true.

]]> By: kizzie http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html/comment-page-1#comment-52071 kizzie Sun, 11 Oct 2009 02:13:19 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/how-a-libra-man-proposes/#comment-52071 I just recently met a libra; I like him so much. We are only friends but after a few weeks of hanging out, he told me that he has a girlfriend and he's trying to find a way out of the relationship. He says he doesn't know how to tell her because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. He says he likes me and wanted to tell me because he thought I should know. He's never tried to sleep with me, he's always been the upmost respectful, gentleman around me, BUT this makes me very nervous. I really care about him but I don't want to be just another toy to him and I don't want to fall for someone elses man. Since he's not trying to sleep with me, I feel like I don't have the right to push him to make a decision about his gf. He's admited to me that he feels something between us and he likes me. I am a cancer and I am ready to run into my shell, but I feel such a strong chemistry with him. I just don't want to be waiting to see if he's going to break up with his girlfriend while life passes me by. I don't want to put my feelings out there because I don't want to get hurt. Any advice? I just recently met a libra; I like him so much. We are only friends but after a few weeks of hanging out, he told me that he has a girlfriend and he’s trying to find a way out of the relationship. He says he doesn’t know how to tell her because he doesn’t want to hurt her feelings. He says he likes me and wanted to tell me because he thought I should know. He’s never tried to sleep with me, he’s always been the upmost respectful, gentleman around me, BUT this makes me very nervous. I really care about him but I don’t want to be just another toy to him and I don’t want to fall for someone elses man. Since he’s not trying to sleep with me, I feel like I don’t have the right to push him to make a decision about his gf. He’s admited to me that he feels something between us and he likes me. I am a cancer and I am ready to run into my shell, but I feel such a strong chemistry with him. I just don’t want to be waiting to see if he’s going to break up with his girlfriend while life passes me by. I don’t want to put my feelings out there because I don’t want to get hurt. Any advice?

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html/comment-page-1#comment-50564 LibraLady Mon, 28 Sep 2009 19:14:31 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/how-a-libra-man-proposes/#comment-50564 Indecisive Libran male with Libra g/frienf says It sounds like the 2 of you need to talk a lot more. When I married my Libra ex, we didnt talk, we spent most of our time "playing" LOL I told him how I wanted to have a family all those things, he wasnt really listening and I mistook it for yes, he wants to do the traditional family thing too. I stayed home to raise our son, this bothered him but he was silent, Oh god I know all about the "silence" your talking about...It will kill your relationship untill you put your expectations on the table, tell her right away what you want in the relationship ask her to be honest with you, if she is quiet, tell her you "need" to know how she feels. Once she tells you that, you'll know if she will be the "wife" type or girlfriend type. I was married to a "friend" type, not a husband type because we married for the baby, I was pregnant, and we both just went silent, it was a very loveless marriage.... Indecisive Libran male with Libra g/frienf says

It sounds like the 2 of you need to talk a lot more. When I married my Libra ex, we didnt talk, we spent most of our time “playing” LOL
I told him how I wanted to have a family all those things, he wasnt really listening and I mistook it for yes, he wants to do the traditional family thing too. I stayed home to raise our son, this bothered him but he was silent, Oh god I know all about the “silence” your talking about…It will kill your relationship untill you put your expectations on the table, tell her right away what you want in the relationship ask her to be honest with you, if she is quiet, tell her you “need” to know how she feels. Once she tells you that, you’ll know if she will be the “wife” type or girlfriend type. I was married to a “friend” type, not a husband type because we married for the baby, I was pregnant, and we both just went silent, it was a very loveless marriage….

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html/comment-page-1#comment-49853 LibraLady Wed, 23 Sep 2009 16:53:18 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/how-a-libra-man-proposes/#comment-49853 When my Libra ex husband proposed, if you can call it that he said "We really should think about committment." And they say romance is dead....LOL When my Libra ex husband proposed, if you can call it that he said “We really should think about committment.” And they say romance is dead….LOL

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html/comment-page-1#comment-48865 LibraLady Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:33:50 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/how-a-libra-man-proposes/#comment-48865 If that doesnt work, Wear something rediculous, stand at her door and tell her your ashamed of yourself...WEAR a sign! She WILL take you back then , :) Humiliating yourself proves your love when she is mad at you. ITS THE ONLY WAY Words mean nothing to her without action. My Libra Ex was too lazy to get me back and its a lot simpler to get a Libra woman back then a Scorpio Woman. Show her shes worth it, words wont do it, shes not an air sign like us. If that doesnt work, Wear something rediculous, stand at her door and tell her your ashamed of yourself…WEAR a sign! She WILL take you back then , :) Humiliating yourself proves your love when she is mad at you. ITS THE ONLY WAY
Words mean nothing to her without action. My Libra Ex was too lazy to get me back and its a lot simpler to get a Libra woman back then a Scorpio Woman. Show her shes worth it, words wont do it, shes not an air sign like us.

]]> By: LibraLady http://sasstrology.com/2006/11/how-libra-man-proposes.html/comment-page-1#comment-48864 LibraLady Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:28:42 +0000 http://kishner.wordpress.com/2006/11/14/how-a-libra-man-proposes/#comment-48864 Hi Ammils, Gee thats a tough problem, a Scorpio woman is not easy to forgive unless she really loves you. even then you got to do something. Being a Libra guy, hmmmm GET OFF YOUR BUTT ! THe only way youre going to get her back is to do something mean to yourself in front of her, not DEAT , NOT THAT...no, I mean, go and take something you know she knows you like, your possesion, and destroy it in front of her. Then go get flowers, let her beat you on the head wioth them then go get her somemore, say "I deserve that, I love you, I NEED YOU" that is the only way Libra guy, trust me, my scorpio friends only take back guys who do these gestures. Hi Ammils,
Gee thats a tough problem, a Scorpio woman is not easy to forgive unless she really loves you. even then you got to do something. Being a Libra guy, hmmmm
GET OFF YOUR BUTT ! THe only way youre going to get her back is to do something mean to yourself in front of her, not DEAT , NOT THAT…no, I mean, go and take something you know she knows you like, your possesion, and destroy it in front of her. Then go get flowers, let her beat you on the head wioth them then go get her somemore, say “I deserve that, I love you, I NEED YOU” that is the only way Libra guy, trust me, my scorpio friends only take back guys who do these gestures.

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