Comments on: How a Libra man proposes

By: sag-gal

sag-gal — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 15:00:41 +0000

I laughed at the post right above of *sadge* girl,, the scene of them on couch..

I am a Sag girl with a Libra man, we are both in 20s.

the key to being with libra, that i found is NOT TO EXPECT and they will surprise you in a good way. We women start thinking Love, Marriage, Kids, Grandchildren ..etc etc the moment we feel the connection.. The Good (maybe bad, if you are cancer ) thing with Sagittarians, they love the moment, not past, not future .. just that precise moment.

me and my libra were friends,, the moment i saw him, I had HOTs for him,, he now says he felt a tug when he saw me too (though then he kept quiet). we became friends, then we were away, I kept on writing to him and he knew all about my problems and relationships and men.. he was kind and supportive and never went out of line.. sometimes I got too busy with other men but he kept on being in touch.

then I suspected that he is with another common friend (she bragged how close she is to libra),, so i congratulated him (giggle). and he wrote back to me, (more like blurted it out)… *NOoooooo, she is just a friend,, YOU are the ONE I am into, dont you know it, after all this time??? ” … it was hilarious, like a brick on my head… for one year I treated him as if he is just a kind sounding board while he genuinely liked me..

from there on, we came close, he is CERTAIN its me, no ambiguity, no indecision.. Libra LOVE comes with Commitment, never without it. Once he knows he is in love, he knows he wants to marry you.. period..

I am the one who is prolonging it all, (sags are notorious for it).. and I want more financial stability for myself before i marry him. he is supportive and kind and caring.. and I have no doubt that he loves me and that he will Marry me.

He has even bought the ring, but I dont want to wear.. dont freak.. its not that I wanna play more.. I love him. I just want it slow.. he is waiting with ring.

so girls,, All the Indecisive Libras can get the taste of their medicine with Sags,, lol .. and they are the one waiting for decision, in this case. But we are heavenly paired .. touchwood… and CHEMISTRY is OUT OF THE WORLD.. mmmmmm

any sag girls out there.. go for LIBRA. *wink*

By: Sadgie

Sadgie — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 20:11:44 +0000

Hi Im a female sagittarius involved w/ a libra man.

My libra’s proposal is kinda funny actually and im not even sure if it really counts LOL. We were lying on the couch in our place and he said, “man the whole world could be in chaos and id be at peace with you right here.” I said yeah me too. He said yeah its all bad for you now babe cause your stuck with me, Im gonna have to marry you.” I said, “oh yeah? Sounds good.” He looked at me and said, “WOULD you marry me???” I said, “yeah” than he asks “So will you give me a baby in 6mo” I said, “nah more like a year.”

Being a sagittarius though… Ill prolong this whole marriage arragement as long as he’ll let me. But I can tell his certainty and once libra’s are certain NOTHING can make them change their minds! At least thats how it seems w/ my libra and his love for me. Everything around him could be confusing or inconclusive to him, but he has balance with me and hes sure of it.

One of Libra’s life lessons is about love not to fall to quickly not to love the wrong things/qualities, or sacrifice who they are for love, and incorporating love in all aspects of life everything from nature and their surroundings to the poor/dirty even to love the blind who cant appreciate love/life like they can. LOVE once libra’s find it they grow like a weed!

By: Myra

Myra — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 03:21:31 +0000

I married a Libra man for 11 years, believe me my husband is never romantic. I was even the one who did the marriage proposal because he cannot decide. It sucks but it’s true.

By: kizzie

kizzie — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 02:13:19 +0000

I just recently met a libra; I like him so much. We are only friends but after a few weeks of hanging out, he told me that he has a girlfriend and he’s trying to find a way out of the relationship. He says he doesn’t know how to tell her because he doesn’t want to hurt her feelings. He says he likes me and wanted to tell me because he thought I should know. He’s never tried to sleep with me, he’s always been the upmost respectful, gentleman around me, BUT this makes me very nervous. I really care about him but I don’t want to be just another toy to him and I don’t want to fall for someone elses man. Since he’s not trying to sleep with me, I feel like I don’t have the right to push him to make a decision about his gf. He’s admited to me that he feels something between us and he likes me. I am a cancer and I am ready to run into my shell, but I feel such a strong chemistry with him. I just don’t want to be waiting to see if he’s going to break up with his girlfriend while life passes me by. I don’t want to put my feelings out there because I don’t want to get hurt. Any advice?

By: LibraLady

LibraLady — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 19:14:31 +0000

Indecisive Libran male with Libra g/frienf says

It sounds like the 2 of you need to talk a lot more. When I married my Libra ex, we didnt talk, we spent most of our time “playing” LOL
I told him how I wanted to have a family all those things, he wasnt really listening and I mistook it for yes, he wants to do the traditional family thing too. I stayed home to raise our son, this bothered him but he was silent, Oh god I know all about the “silence” your talking about…It will kill your relationship untill you put your expectations on the table, tell her right away what you want in the relationship ask her to be honest with you, if she is quiet, tell her you “need” to know how she feels. Once she tells you that, you’ll know if she will be the “wife” type or girlfriend type. I was married to a “friend” type, not a husband type because we married for the baby, I was pregnant, and we both just went silent, it was a very loveless marriage….

By: LibraLady

LibraLady — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 16:53:18 +0000

When my Libra ex husband proposed, if you can call it that he said “We really should think about committment.” And they say romance is dead….LOL

By: LibraLady

LibraLady — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:33:50 +0000

If that doesnt work, Wear something rediculous, stand at her door and tell her your ashamed of yourself…WEAR a sign! She WILL take you back then , Humiliating yourself proves your love when she is mad at you. ITS THE ONLY WAY
Words mean nothing to her without action. My Libra Ex was too lazy to get me back and its a lot simpler to get a Libra woman back then a Scorpio Woman. Show her shes worth it, words wont do it, shes not an air sign like us.

By: LibraLady

LibraLady — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:28:42 +0000

Hi Ammils,
Gee thats a tough problem, a Scorpio woman is not easy to forgive unless she really loves you. even then you got to do something. Being a Libra guy, hmmmm
GET OFF YOUR BUTT ! THe only way youre going to get her back is to do something mean to yourself in front of her, not DEAT , NOT THAT…no, I mean, go and take something you know she knows you like, your possesion, and destroy it in front of her. Then go get flowers, let her beat you on the head wioth them then go get her somemore, say “I deserve that, I love you, I NEED YOU” that is the only way Libra guy, trust me, my scorpio friends only take back guys who do these gestures.

By: Amills

Amills — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 06:17:30 +0000

I too feel guilty… I am a Libra male (Sept 30) had been dating a Scorpio for just under two years. It ended because I never talked about the future, or my plans, or whether I saw us getting married. It wasn?t so much indecision that caused the problems it was more I didn?t know how to tell her how I felt. I think I was afraid of the potential for rejection… which was so stupid because that was just in my head. I have never been happier then when I was with her and I would do anything to have her back in my life. From what I read though it probably won?t happen… and so far everything I have tried has had no effect.

Anyone with any advice?

I do suffer from indecision though, and it kills me. I have trouble making the simplest of choices sometimes…

By: Indecisive Libran male with Libra g/frienf

Indecisive Libran male with Libra g/frienf — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 07:08:43 +0000

I felt guilty reading what you all had to say about the Libra male’s indecision, because INDECISION may be my ‘middle name’ after all. I’ve been with a great Libran woman for three years and I love her to death. But because I am also spiritual, I tend to want to pray to ask for guidance on things and that includes whether she will make a good wife for me. Yes, it does take a while for prayers to get answered. But I am starting to think this is my indecision at play again. Right now as I type this, we are not talking.

We are having our umpteenth SILENT fight over the same SILENT issue, which is I think she is trying to say she is ready to settle down but I always seem to want to avoid any discussions about that. The point, folks, is I am waiting on answers from ‘above’. I am intensely family-oriented, my parents have been together 30+ years, she is a great woman, pretty, loyal, smart, has a Ph.D., earns well, has stuck her head out for me, we both have identical careers, longterm life plans, and complimentary personality traits, and trust me I’d kill for her, but …..

…. I JUST DON’T KNOW!!!