Comments on: How do you know when a Virgo man likes you?

By: Lolita

Lolita — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 05:54:54 +0000

Hi guys I am a virgo in love with a Virgo and we do have a lot of issues. Jonah you hit the nail right on the head, a virgo loves a challenge and before they sink their teeth into you they want to know if you are for them. it is not so much tug of war but cat and mouse. As long as you chase they feel you love them, but when the chase stops they wag their tails and say come on lets play where are you and they go lookin for you. As soon as you appear the chase is on again. We do require space we need that alone time to just think to ourselves although most of the time we are thinkingof our loved ones we want our own private to converse with ourselves. Once that time is over we are ready for another came of cat and mouse it just on jerry’s time and we are not trying to make you feel like tom but if you are pushy then thats what happens.

By: LibraLovesBalance

LibraLovesBalance — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 17:55:08 +0000

Wendy: How can you say you love someone that does these things to you? If you like torturing yourself day after day,wekk after week. It’s silly

By: Wendy

Wendy — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 03:16:37 +0000

Thank you Sign of Freedom, I appreciate that. However, I’m not a very good person who practices what she preaches, so to speak. I can’t even keep ahold of my Virgo long enough for him to tell me exactly how he feels other than telling me he misses me after 3 years of this so called relationship. Wish I knew how to get him to open up after all these years. He’s so closed and really makes me not wanna care anymore, no matter how deep my love for him runs through my veins.

By: Sign of Freedom

Sign of Freedom — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 17:25:13 +0000

Wendy you are the shizzz! That is all I have to say!

By: LibraLovesBalance

LibraLovesBalance — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 19:14:04 +0000

How can anyone think they are dating a guy if it’s all via text message? Ladies
come on stop cutting yourself short. So many men out in the world, why would you settle for via text and no real date or a man that’s drives you crazy with his silence.

By: WENDY

WENDY — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 13:26:11 +0000

LibraD:

It’s exactly what it means: “I think the world of you, I really do”

When he does have his heart in the right place, which is to care about you and adore you and miss you and remember his hurt from all the way back to HS, he thinks it might happen again, so he tests the waters and goes very very very slow with these comments that are just enough to make you forget anything nagging he ever said. That’s his way of making it up to you, in a sense. He really does care for you. After the 3 years, I think I know my virgo pretty well, it took him 3 years and me being gone a month for him to even tell me he misses me and then gave me this elaborate erotic massage, which it not his style, but he knew it was romantic enough with all the candle he so perfectly placed neatly everywhere for me just to let me know that he really did miss me and want to see me happy-the romantic way I’ve been on his ass about rather than making me always feel like I’m a friend one minute and then his lover as if we’re in a relationship the next minute. I keeping to my guns this time, though. He can’t play cat and mouse with my heart and he has to realize that some time-and I’m so tired that I’m ready to make him really understand what it means to miss someone. Good luck, just play cool with him and don’t text him-let him text you, but please please please there are enough games in relationships that are just unnecessary-don’t play head games and tell him how you feel and then if he gets cold-back off. But don’t play the push and pull-it breaks too many hearts in the end when nothing is said but silence. You’ll still always be wondering “WTF talk to me open up damn it!”

By: LibraD

LibraD — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 05:24:10 +0000

Thanks for the encouragement! I will hang in….

By: Jafar Rafiki

Jafar Rafiki — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 04:53:04 +0000

@LIbraD:

I think he’s into you, I really do. Make a move on him and see what happens… but play that push and pull till then.. it’ll keep him interested.

By: LibraD

LibraD — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 03:56:48 +0000

I just read all this virgo stuff and I can’t believe how bang on it is! I recently connected with my HS virgo boyfriend. In HS he was so sweet and honest and I ended up breaking his heart back then. Because he nit picked about my eye liner and my clothes etc. Friendly enough parting back then. Well 20 years later we connect. He just does the push and pull thing so much my head is spinning! I could marry him today and be so happy. He is a great man. But as of this week, we are “friends’ …he wants to be my friend…okay….but then he seems to act like a whole lot more. So I try to not text him…then he texts me, so I try to play it cool but it’s so hard. He’s never been married but says he wants to one day. But we are just friends. Not to mention he told me I could use some DDR the other day and I was p’d off! He apologized several times but I had to cool down for a day or so. I forgave him of course and now he is acting like my “buddy”. Like I’m a guy friend. I know he is worth it if he ever decides to let go and just enjoy being in a relationship with me. His mean comments really hurt….and I know he doesn’t mean them but they still hurt me. Then he gets hurt when he hurts me. I see it in his face. Tonight……..he texted “I think the world of you, I really do”. What’s that supposed to mean? Do guys talk to other guys like that?
So confused in the desert.

By: sg

sg — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 08:10:17 +0000

hi there, well doesnt matter what he says he likes, because they DO completely the opposite lol… the one i like started off full on calling, texts the lot, we had a fab first date.. then i let him down on the 2nd one, nothin i cudve done, then he went away, then i contacted him on his bday, then nothin, tried again a wk and half ago RANDOM REPLY….PURE DENIAL….so cold its wrong, but im gutted, dont get ur hopes up :0) ive played hard to get,and opened up and neither works :-S