How do you know when a Virgo man likes you?
- He picks the cat hair off your blouse.
- He balances your checkbook.
- He makes your spirulina-and-fruit-smoothie in the morning.
- He shows you the proper way to stretch your quads.
- He adopts you a puppy.
- He edits your term papers.
- He empties your bedpan.
- He cleans your apartment.
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here, here, but going on past experience, I wudnt touch a Leo with a bargepole !!..and Virgos are FINE for friends,, but NOT for lovers, so thats a definate STEE CLEER ladies !!!.. i wont be waiting for a year or whatever for the man i met, hes RUDE as hell, treats u like ur invisible if he sees u on MSN !.. SHAME ON THEM !!! no hearts,and ICE Cold…. from a Lil FISHY X
been there done it wiv the virgo, i wud save ur money,and treat urself to a cream cake n a beer !!!.. u will never figure them out, take it from me, my mum n sis are virgos, U have NO CHANCE !!!…. they think theyre the be all and end all, if a man REALLY wanted u, He’d be hangin his balls out there to WIN UR HEART !!!!!.. goodluck, save ur tears xxx
I agree wholeheartedly SG! Thank you for the reminder, as I sit here contemplating dating versus waiting for him to come around. (Never gonna happen)
Ladies,
Don’t focus to the relationship. This is what women do. Wrong perception! you look needy if you do that and you could scare a guy away from you. Allow things to happen. Don’t force it. leave and it will flow by its own course…and drama free.
But Marie…
If you just ‘allow’ things to happen… without doing anything… then yes, something WILL happen… but what?
I was with my ex (scorpio) for many years… we didn’t do anything in the relationship- and our relationship was great (to others really) we never really argue or complained. when I said that I wasn’t happy… he really didn’t ‘do’ anything about it. Hence, I left.
things dont just happen , men are too lazy this days, and only do something,if they REALLY want it, and if they think theres something better, or still sowing there wild OATS, they wont do bugger all !!!.. u need to read some decent psychology books, like men who love bitches or y men marry bitches,and some quality women BOOSTING books !!! :0) its men with the ISSUES here, y do we stress? i met a scorp 4 wks ago,and hes totally different, all upfront and bang on,,,,so some men make effort, ive had flowers the works !!! but im in denial ! haha coz of the wrong ones ive met in 3 yrs GOODLUCK !!! xx
SweeetP,
There’s no formula on how to be successful in a relationship to a man we love.
Allow things to happen without doing a lots of effort. Once the guy loves you he will do anything. If not, then leave. It’s a bad sign to continue when you’re not happy in a relationship. Women use their intuition to sort out things. We can feel when the guy loves us but sometimes we’re insisting the love that never exist and keep on denying that love wasn’t true. Men behave differently than women. I asked many men what matters them most …they said GOOD LOOKING WOMAN. When I asked women what matters them most They said GOOD PERSONALITY.
You can’t force someone to love you in return. When relationship gets colder and colder. Give space to your partner is the best we can offer. Stop doing things that isn’t work just to get what you want. Let the relationship flow in its course and drama free. Men loves women who loves herself. She’s a happy woman and not needy. She didn’t nag. She didn’t do a things that made her man upset. She’s a complete woman and fulfilled. She never wait a guy to pamper her needs. She’s not needy. She’s confident and smart. The key is…Don’t focus to your man. Focus to your career,life and hobby. If you are in a relationship at this moment then care as much as you want without complaining. Do things easier without complicating. Only those narcissist type of personality has too much issues and creating drama into their relationship which leads to destruction and regression.
Be smart. When you think you need to pull back then do it instead of pushing your guy away from you..be patient. Men loves an understanding women.
Uh oh – I guess I’ll learn pretty soon here how much v-man likes me. I have found myself in the doghouse with Mr. Sensitive, again! We had a wonderful day yesterday and now a truthful comment I made today has rubbed him the wrong way. If I didn’t like him so damn much I wouldn’t care. I am letting him stew in it and will touch bases with him tomorrow. I have spoiled him, I know, but he seems so shocked that I called him on his bullsh*t. Like how dare I notice his faults. Oh well, this may be a make or break moment for us. If it’s break, I’ll miss him dearly, but I refuse to play dumb. I’m already looking forward to making up with him though.
Well here’s a twist to all the remarks about Libra men and Virgo men. I happen to be a Libra woman and have just started dating a Virgo/Libra cusp.
Libra’s so more affection men and woman but if we feel smothered we back way…way..off until we are sure about the relationship. The Virgo guy I’m seeing is kind,sweet and smartwe have a great deal in common. Here’s the twist it’s all most dating a mirror image of myself only a man. He gives me tid bit’s here and there always keeps me guessing and I know I do the same. Will we ever meet in the middle and show our true cards if we really care for one another? hmmm only time will tell. The best advice I can give any lady no matter the sign you are dating is to always be happy, friendly and don’t run them down for thier faults or else you should look for a guy that does make you happy and not camping out by the phone. Good Luck Ladies men are like women never we can never figure each other out. So the game goes on and on……
Urrr… Im a cusp libra/virgo accidently met a virgo four yrs younger, but seems very mature, and we hung out for about three hours saturday(he insisted i break my date and hang with him) i was so intrigued, he makes me laugh and we fromm same hometown.so then he went on the road (truckddriver) we been texting and couple of calls. I joked around and said i missed him (jst kiddin) he acted hurt.. then i told him i was going on a dinner date on tuesday and he responded the next day with strange comment and then no response since..i said ” how is the road treating you and he said:” better than u” I said someone grumppy today.. no response since.. WTF.. HUH? what am i missing here?? we hung out one time and we really click but .. HUH??? I told him i date until i find that specil one,, please help.. i likle him but im just as cautious as him… he said the last girl he dated wanted to be his girlfriend after three months… he wants it to be natural and slow i guess.. sooo why the strangeness now???HELP PLEZ
brwneyz- Ahhh yes, you are officially a card carrying member of the I-Like-This-Viguy-But-Could-Slap-Him-For-Being-So-Strange Club.
You’re not missing anything at all honey, that’s just how they are.
I wish I had a better answer for you. I’m sure if you read through the other posts, you’ll see plenty of stories with the same theme…they’re a bit moody, sensitive and disappear on the regular. As soon as you think he doesn’t like you, he does something that reignites you and gives you hope.
My virgo & I made up…
I am in a relationship with a virgo male who is 20 and white . I am a black scorpio female who is 34(no I don’t consider myself a cougar)we couldn’t be happier. He is the most loving sensitive individual I haved met. He makes a lot of sacrifices for us since his parents don’t care for our relationship. But I look younger anyway. I have to admit virgo men are so beautiful.His blue eyes and dimples get me everytime. I am his weaknessand he is mine. He can’t figure me out and he loves that. He thinks it sexy that I don’t have to care about things. Oh there was a virgo before him that is still in love with me but he wanted marriage and children too soon. I don’t have children and I haven’t been married but I will never know with this one. Ladies virgo guys can be great. Just don’t pressure them.
Congrats scorprio! I agree with you 110%…VIRGOS ARE DA BOMB! lol I was married for 12 years to an emotionally abusive Aquarius. after the divorce, I met my sweetiepie virgo. This man is very, very thoughtful, kind and a wonderful in lover too:). HE’S THE MOST CARING MAN I HAVE EVER MET! I was burned very bad BEFORE and almost gave up on men entirely. My Beautiful Virgo has renewed my Faith and gives me a reason to smile again.
Riiiiight I need some advice please on my virgo man
we’ve been friends for years all through college and there’s always been casual flirting and stuff but we were both dating other people.
we both went to seperate universities but are still in contact…and we’re both single.
We text all the time, meeting for coffee and cinema are always fun cos we can have a laugh (yes i brought a sense of humour out of him – there IS a fun side to a virgo, you just gotta dig for it…for a long time!) and i’m starting to like him.
So all fine and dandy there.
BUT he says he’s still in love with his ex girlfriend and isn’t over her. well obviously, whatever sign he is, this is a run away right now situation…but i’m not sure i want too.
he makes the most wonderful food and cares alot for me with alot of personal details he knows i like (I’m a cancer with a virgo rising) so i don’t wanna leave and i’m pretty sure i can make him want to be with me in enough time.
But he’s not a typical virgo – he’s VERY forward and says things no other virgo would say, seems to be intrigued by my emotional and dramatic nature and never criticises.
thank yooou!!
Advice on what to do / how to approach him to make him want me etc. would be greatly appreciated
my name is Kaiie too.LOL I’m with a virgo-they are awesome. but if u like one in a relationship, that’s tricky. step back, wait till he leaves her. Then make a move. don’t play with fire, or you’ll get burned!
I am happy for you cuddly cancer. May you and that sexy virgo be blessed.
Thanks devious scorpio…lol We are!
I am a Libra, still pretty much in love with this ridiculously difficult Virgo man. When you say “Told him the truth about himself, and got back on his bad side”, that’s exactly right for my sitch. He makes it impossible to just love him. Acts like I’ve done something horrible to piss him off, won’t talk to me for long periods of time, then I’ll get a really hot skin pic of him! Which gets my interest immidiately..but- he want’s to cuddle- so f**king weird about passion, sex, or love making. It drives me insane. Very loving, sexual, person- who only wants him and his attention. Virgo- Libra seems like a bad match.
Didn’t mention how good the sex is..when we finally have it. I can tell he’s amazed by it..but that only lasts while all the lovey chemicals are flowing. He goes right back to ice soon after. He acts like he’s immune to being addicted to me, like I could be to him.
HEy OctLibra!
everything I’ve ever heard about Virgo/Libra match says it is a bad combo. I am currently dating a Virgo too and agree with it all what you said. It’s always ‘push and pull’ with him. He can be a bitterly cold ice cube, then lure me back jus twhen I am ready to give up! It;s SO frustrating! Our sex life is AMAZING, but happens rarely. Most of the time he wants to cuddle ONLY. Then when I get hot and bothered(he gets h*rd) but will push me away…. WTF??!! I do not understand how he can turn into a boulder of ice and play such childish game. Virgos have a lot to offer but it seems intimate relationships(and deep feelings)frighten them.
Dear OctoberLibra
Ya know! Those messages that you just entered was and still is exactly how it is with my Virgo. I’ve started being a bit more cold and a bit more aloof with him and he’ll turn around and do the same thing to me after I think about it. I don[‘t do it to piss him off, I do it because I need to let go of him and get my sanity back, but yet he comes back and everything is great and you’ll s4ee this miraculous change for the better that makes all them backward steps so long ago almost seem like they are all coming full speed ahead for a change and then-boom- he does it again all over again just to make it seems like you did something wrong, like it was you that was possibly being unfair to him. It’s our minds as women; we over think things way way too much and then our hearts suffer for it during it and then come to find out that what we were thinking was furthest from the truth. How do we know when to saw enough. When we look in the mirror and start respecting ourselves and realizing that we matter too and that it is pretty much all about them because of their insecurities. Our feelings matter and sooner or later we’ll realize that we’re better off without them, no matter how good the sex is or no matter how many steps forward we think they’re taking this time around. We have to be the one in control or in this case as he wants us to be-he wants to be in total control of how he wants the relationship to go.
These comments are starting to blow me away!!! I cannot believe all the similarities of the Virgo/Libra Cusp man… My God it sounds like we are all with the same guy! Haha! I think I have reached my limit with mine. I cannot take the up and down anymore. I was so perfectly fine before I met him. I wasn’t even interested in him at first and then one day after all the kind and charming words he got my attention. Now that he has it, he has no clue what to do with it. As everyone attests to in these blogs, he sounds off all those words I want to hear, pays attention and then disappears!!!! I do not fault him for him being him, however, I do fault him for saying things and not following through! Everything has to be on his terms and never a consideration of the meet me half way term. I know that he will pull me back in again – (its not quite over yet-but am getting stronger everyday)but one of these days soon, I will be completely done with it! Good luck to all of you in this same place as I am – strength is within and is coming!
You have taken so many words out of my mind.
“I cannot take the up and down anymore. I was so perfectly fine before I met him.” “…and charming words he got my attention. Now that he has it, he has no clue what to do with it. As everyone attests to in these blogs, he sounds off all those words I want to hear, pays attention and then disappears!!!! I do not fault him for him being him, however, I do fault him for saying things and not following through! Everything has to be on his terms and never a consideration of the meet me half way term. I know that he will pull me back in again”
I love my Virgo with all of my heart, in so many different ways imaginable and it’s so difficult to try and understand just why he has to play these mind games and then turn around to only make me think that I’m the one who’s playing them. WTF!! I mean…Really, are you freaking serious.” Come on, grow up a little and make me feel like I’m a woman that you actually do give a s*** about and tell me in a way that is not so cryptic and challenging for me to piece together. I wish to God that there was a Virgo male who could step up on here and tell us WTF we might need to do or say, because frankly-I think we’re all doing everything right and it’s honestly just “them” being too friggin selfish and insecure and scared.
Wendy,
I agree with you whole heartedly! I am at a loss as to trying to figure out the one that I have. And really, I am wasting so much valuable time in doing so. I just don’t get it!!! I always have believed that people enter your lives for a reason. But this one, why the hell are you in my life. I am a very confident and secure woman and all I have seen since he has come into my life is this little by little breakage of my self-esteem and I will be damned if I let him continue that any longer. It is time to unite and get strong and get rid of this hinderance! I know that there is truly someone out there who is worthy of my being and it is not him! Unless there is some serious redemption and at least the “meet me halfway” action from him, I will no longer let this continue. Thanks for your insight! It has helped knowing that I am not the only one out there dealing with this!
Gemgirl
Thank you so much for sharing your heart wrenching pain and frustration with me, because it only makes me realize more that I am not the only one who is dealing with this. In that same respect on the Virgo male side of it, I feel to myself that maybe I need to be a little more understanding to him and how he needs to learn to communicate and how I might need to learn more about him as a person, a long with his Virgoism traits, to withstand this tribulation if my heart is truly his and submit to being with only him in mind as well as body and soul. I question myself so much when I am with and without him, that it consumes my thoughts. I too have lost little by little self confidence by allowing myself to continue to endure this ridiculous merry go round unscrupulous mind boggling game that he has me in, such as a maze, if you will, that when the step forward that he takes “toward me in making me feel and know just exactly what I mean to him” almost makes it all worth it because I am strengthening my challenging side in myself and being able to pursue and weather the storm with him now, then I will be able to endure the future of being with him once he does finally snap. I am yes feeling all the hindrances, but also love him beyond question. But I have to keep asking myself if I truly love him enough like I say I do to honestly and 150% endure this game of love. Only God knows my true heart and I am giving it to him to help me and ensure me that if I really solely on his hand holding quest for me, that the truth in the end will prevail for me. It just boggles my mind that other men come out of the woodwork at the same time when I am trying to know where I stand with my Virgo, leaving me with despair and questioning just how long I want to actually wait for my Virgo to “open his eyes and heart” to get it. I feel so emotionally drained and lonely when I have to endure the waiting game with my virgo.
Thank you Wendy! I would love to talk with you more about this off-line. Please email me at slang61363@yahoo.com. Thx!
hello to all, i would like to admit that i am a virgo and many times i have dissappeared for no reason,there was no clear reason why i left. i even asked myself the same question.the thing is, i was perfectly in love with my better half, i would leave and miss him so badly that when i felt overwhelmed with the desire to have him around again i would see the need to go back.weird isn’t it? all the time my mind would be entirly on him, never once having the tought of cheating.its like we leave to always have the experience of having or feeling that deeper connection to the person.
It’s nice to hear I’m not the only one hopelessly addicted to someone that might not care I was on fire. Since the last post- he acted as if he wanted me back- a few weeks later, sex, then no communication- like he’s completely over me for good. I really hope to get this out of my system asap, but of course- part of me might always want his love. It’s not worth the damage. I’m sick of feeling incomplete without his love. I hear I’m beautiful from strangers more than he would ever bother to tell me, I could never feel like he is my best friend or an equal partner- so I must be better off without him. But I too, love that Virgo, more than I ever thought it was possible to love a man.
Britni:
Thank you for sharing. I know its very hard to be vulnerable like that only to lose all of yourself for just that one man who you know deep in your soul really feels the same way for you-so you thought. Until the day he finally screws you over beyond repair by doing something so totally out of character (even for his taste) that you literally cannot even fathom to ever go back. Good riddance Virgo male (who cant get your selfish insecure head outta your ass long enough to stop that one person who gave you the time of day that you longed for in your wildest dreams imaginable). Cya-and wouldn’t wanna be ya. You screwed with this foolish woman’s head for way too freaking long.
“He acts like he’s immune to being addicted to me, like I could be to him.”
“Virgos have a lot to offer but it seems intimate relationships(and deep feelings)frighten them.”
“I was so perfectly fine before I met him. I wasn’t even interested in him at first and then one day after all the kind and charming words he got my attention. Now that he has it, he has no clue what to do with it.”
I could have written all the above statements myself. Yikes talk about a trend with these guys. I just started noticing that mine seems to be afraid of me after we have really intense intimate moments (don’t want to get too graphic), like he has to distance himself for a minute just to gather his thoughts. He’s so verbal and expressive during the act then just kind of clams up afterwards. He has made some of the funniest comments during that post-sex time, like he was completey overwhelmed and now in need of a cigarette to calm his nerves (he doesn’t smoke though). He literally goes from hot to cold to warm then back to cold then hot within a matter of days. It’s cute, weird and frustrating all at the same time.
I am hope there are nice virgo men out there { Sorry- I really cannot generalize all virgo men to be the same}…. BUT, the nasty ones are really nasty…. really nasty…. they put a front of being sweet and kind for a while… but give them time, and the evil side comes up.
I just finished my encounter with one….I’ve been friends with this one for three years and this is how how nasty he is… This guy knows I like him very much. We have talked about it….But we decided timing, distance was just not right. We do keep in touch a lot He calls, checks on me..and when I call he answers… he never ignores me….He returns my calls/text immediately. Now, last weekend I was visiting his town and he invited me over to stay at his place. I was hesitant to go at first because it seemed that whenever we met, he did something to just drive me crazy. But my friends insisted that I went. Well, how I now wish I followed my gut instinct? Anyway, I went and guess who else was at buddy’s house? His new found girlfriend. YUP! No heads up, no warning, nothing! So listen, I spent the night listening to people giggle through the night [my room was next to theirs]…and yes, The following day, I had to sit with them and watch them cozy up together and steal kisses here and there… Listen- If this isn’t plain evil….I dont know what is. I have been friends with this guy for 3 yrs and the drama has been ongoing. I am not even going to bore you with what he has put me through so far. But just know, VIRGO MEN= TRADE VERY CAREFULLY!!! No charm in the world can justify the drama these men can put you through!
OMFG! I AM SOOOOOOOOOOO SORRY FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART THAT THAT HAPPENED TO YOU. THAT WAS PURE EVIL AND ILL SPIRITED. Thank you for sharing that with all of us. It takes courage to share something like that with all of us who is reading. I feel you, I have been told many mean things from my Virgo and I just don’t want to play his childish mean boyish game anymore. I mean more and I deserve more. I deserve more respect that what he can give me at times.
Thanks Guys— Wendy Thanks…. Let me tell you, It was soooo bad that it became funny. Every minute I was there, I was pinching myself to check if the whole thing was real…or was I just dreaming. I was thinking- How can a grown 29 yr old woman, beautiful, independent and successful be placed in this kinda of situation? Huh? Was I that desperate?
Anyway- I emailed him yesterday and told him what he did was purely evil and spoke my mind. Guess what– He emailed back right away. I dont know what he said. I have not read the email. I dont know if there is anything he could say to make it alright. I just dont want to be sucked in again. It just hurt too much. I am even thinking I should just delete the email and let this whole thing go. Call it bygones! I have removed him from my facebook, and deleted his phone #…. i think its time for new beginnings!
Oh, I’m so sorry Armour.
What an ass! Definitely read the email, though! I’d personally love to hear his “explanation” for a stunt like that! Who knows? If anything it might give you a good laugh if nothing else!
Just remember: what goes around, comes around…sucks to be him.
P. S. ** Besides, how often do you get to see a Virgo grovel??
Just playing devil’s advocate here – If you all agreed that time and distance would make a relationship hard, that means you all are just friends. You’re free to date, he’s free to date. If you were visiting his town anyway and he offers you to stay at his place, is it his fault that you assumed he wouldn’t have his girlfriend over? I’m sure there is more to this story, but this doesn’t sound like an evil virgo story, more like an avergae dumb guy who just didn’t realize how far deep your feelings for him run. Sorry you were hurt, that sucks. You should probably read the email.
Yes…inquiring minds want to know what’s in that email….