Hmmmm….my experiences with Aries men:

Aries 1 – I was 20 years old. He was very sexy, took me to the finest restaurants around town, sent lots of roses to my office. He also constantly accused me of sleeping around every day. He called my office every hour to find out “what I was doing”. Crazy jealous. Found out later it was him doing the infidelity. He started fights which often bordered on becoming physical. That relationship would have become abusive if I had stayed.

Aries 2 – I was 30 years old. Fun guy! Very sexy. He took me camping and water skiing almost every weekend with friends. Private pilot’s lisence – we went flying a lot. Very insecure. I have a master’s degree and he has a 2-year technical degree. Never mattered to me, but was a big deal to him. We argued a lot. He broke my heart and married a single-mom secretary within 4 months of our breakup.

Aries 3 – I was 41. He and I never dated, not that he didn’t try. He brought flowers and huge gift baskets into our neighborhood bar, bought all my drinks and sertiously tried to woo me for a year. He was always calling me a goddess. I was always calling him a friend. He has an anger problem. He would blow up at some man over “nothing” after he had a few beers almost every day. I knew that anger would turn on any woman in his life so I kept him as a friend. The bartender saw all the flowers and gift baskets and fell in love with him, though I warned her “He has an anger problem.” They are married now. He has punched her in the face and gone to jail for knocking her teeth out. They fight all the time. He’s better, but still occassionally abuses her. Yells at her a lot and makes her cry. She’s a Cancer. They are both my friends to this day…but would I call them happy? What do you think?

Aries 4 – Only one date…sometime last year. He claimed to be a “honky tonk” man who goes on week-long drinking binges without eating. He claimed he’ll keep doing that until he gets tired one day and blows his brains out…just like his father and grandfather did. Lovely…just lovely. Yep, that was a one date wonder.

New Aries guy now??? We’ll see if he calls for a date. He seems calmer, more secure, and more rational than any of the others I’ve met. Good job, neatly dressed and a nice guy on first impression. He is impressed/attracted to intelligent women, so he says. He overheard me say something about my master’s degree, and was glued to my side for the evening. Maybe his moon and other planets are well aspected.

one thing is trully interesting to me is that i dont organize ! i dont have a problem with cheaos ! i dont care if the cups are organized in any order , well i do find fire sign ppl to be too “fast” to me , & i dont like them in general , an aries guy is definitly attractive .. from a distance how ever airy signz excite me

why are you getting yourself into something you dread and hate??
just break it off and go find someone you really love
are you afraid? scaredy cat.

you think you’re the only one dreading that marriage?
i bet she hates you too. so stop complaining and do something about it.
end it for both of you.

you think you’re going to make your family happy by staying in that
marriage but your life is yours not your family’s
you make decisions for yourself and nobody else.

I said that because you should not be HERE trying to find a resolution or a solution. If you feel the way you do, the CLEAR solution is to break it off with her.

Stop wasting your time. And stop wasting hers.

You should be talking to your parents, the driving force behind this relationship that you HATE, and you should have a bit of a chat with her. Your FIANCE.

If you are about to walk down an aisle, knowing full well that you will not be able to uphold the vowels you speak, then you might as well just quit while your ahead.

Well, actually. It sounds like you’re behind to me.

No MAN would come on some board and call his fiance ugly and dumb. Why the heck is she your fiance if you feel so strongly about her in such a negative light?

Heres you’re solution: dump her. you’ll be happy. and she can go find someone who will appreciate her – faults and all. and maybe – just maybe – you’re karma wont be so bad that you can move on to a fruitful relationship with someone you wont eventually grow tired of, leading you to call her “ugly and dumb” for the world to see.

LAME.

I have been in you’re shoes. And the moment I realized that the situation I was in wasn’t going to work (also called the “AH-HA!” moment), I did what any decent person should.
Sure, you might hurt her in the process. But, trust me, you’re causing more harm keeping quiet than being vocal.

Ok. I take back what I said about you sucking big ones.
But, I will be QUICK to say you do again if you don’t step up to the plate, be a man and do the right thing.

Either love her with everything you’ve got or set her free. Set yourself free.

Since she’s your fiance, it’s all or nothing at this point.

Think about it.

Good luck.

- Tiffany

You suck. Big ones.

,

Tiffany