Does Aries man truly love Virgos
November 22, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
Well, I wouldn’t necessarily set them up on a blind date.
Aries acts on his impulses, without really thinking about, say, the correct spelling in a note or whether the coffee mugs are organized in the cabinet by color. Such sins are anathema to perfectionistic Virgo, who will feel compelled to reorganize the kitchen and type Aries’ correspondence.
The Aries man, in turn, will feel irritated at having his independence squashed, being criticized for his spontaneity.
So, does he truly love Virgos? I don’t think so.
Astrology Lesson:
Aries is a cardinal fire sign. Masculine, or yang.
Virgo is a mutable earth sign. Feminine, or yang.
These two signs have nothing in common.
For the Advanced Reader:
Maybe the Aries man has Mercury or Venus in Pisces, which at least would put him on a similar wavelength with Virgo. Both of these signs are mutable and feminine, or yin. Although there is a polarity between them, they both like to be of service.
Comment below: Have you been in an Aries-Virgo relationship? How’d it go?
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Interestingly enough I am a Virgo female and my husband is an Aries male. I am living testament that the relationship can work. However, it was a trial at first. We butted heads over who would play the dominant role in the relationship and we had to come to terms with each others differences. Once that was accomplished we settled into a nice and easy relationship full of love, commitment and companionship.
There are times that I fuss over his impulsiveness and there are times he says I worry too much and over analyze. I fuss that he is a one man show and he fusses that I work too much. All together we are polar opposites that can not live without each other and still tend to get on each others nerves… so will it work. You betcha it will.
I’m an aries female that just ended a relationship with Virgo male (three years). At first I was so happy to have someone put me on a pedestal, be so calm and steady… but the first time I started feeling nervous was when he made it clear he wanted nothing to ever change… and I freaked inside. I ended up changing so much over time (pretty much everything about myself) that we had nothing in common. Not only that, but he wanted to stop me from changing, and put limits on me. No way. I had to end it.
I’m an Aries female who recently ended a relationship with a Virgo male. There was an overwhelming amount of sexual attraction (even until the very end) between us and for a while we were completely obsessed with each other, but as that fell away into the every day we found we rarely agreed on anything. I went from being his dream girl to suddenly doing nothing right, and I fought defensively and lost my patience with him constantly. With effort I can see how this could be a really passionate, give & take relationship, but from my experience it seems like it takes too much compromise for a typical Aries OR Virgo to reach that pinnacle.
I am a Virgo female and my first love was an Aries male. I have a lot of Leo in my chart and he has Saggie moon and Capricorn. We got along perfectly and even though we married other people, we reconnected and still get along great today. Suprisingly, he had married a Cancer.
I am a Virgo woman and have been married to an Aries man for the past 22 years. We have been extremely happy, harmonious and I feel the love for him as if it were the first time we met and he, obviously, the same. I think the commitment is more important than the idiosyncrasies that people throw into the relationships based on horoscope. This is my opinion.
i had to comment. you said you doubt an aries man truly loves his virgo woman ? i am an aries man who loves , and will forever love his virgo woman . don’t know if you all should read too much into this astrology compatibility crap, from what i read it’s dead wrong most of the time !!
Sometimes an author writes for a general audience and makes grand generalizations. He attracts readers and then leads them to believe that astrology is not accurate because readers come up with numerous counter-examples. Is the author doing a service or a disservice? That is today’s koan.
my first real relationship was also with an Aries. Lots of sexual chemistry till the end. At first it seemed like love but things started to go wrong about 6 months in. He cheated on me twice and I never saw that coming. But eventually he got the courage to tell me. So I guess he cared but couldn’t be faithful when the chance arose. He is self-centered. I tried to forgive him but we fought all the time.
I am a virgo female currently dating an aries with a moon in cancer and venus in taurus. Our relationship works really well. There is a lot of sexual chemistry as well. My venus is also in Virgo so I have a desire to learn all the in and outs of relationships. When I first met my bf one of the first things he told me was that he was an aries. So like a typical virgo and I went and studied this sign so well & applying everything that I knew would keep him hooked that I ended up having him wrapped around my little finger lol. He never knew the extent I went to in studying his sign, analyzing him, learning his in’s and outs until recently but like a typical aries.. he doesn’t care as long as he’s being satisfied lol. I think with his moon in cancer and taurus in venus, he’s actually very appreciative of my efforts and thanks me on a regular basis. =)
Im and Aries woman and very picky. I’ve never been in a real relationship well… when I was 17. now im 22. I get bored easy. im not easily impressed by men. But Virgo men are so sexy to me. We debate, and laugh, and have such an amazing chemistry that I have yet to find with another sign so consistantly. but usually their orderly fashion or innabilty to express themselves the way i do make it fall apart. Im a free spirit with no sense or order. what does organization mean again? lol my car is a mess… and they hate that too….
Hahahaha This description is the exact opposite of how our relationship actually plays out. I’m a Virgo woman who has been with her Aries man for nine years. I am the spontaneous one–he is cautious and over thinks *everything* and is constantly second guessing himself and every decision he makes. And he’s very neurotic, anal, and organized. I’m impulsive and throw caution to the wind and am not the least bit organized.
I am an Aries woman and I have been with a Virgo man for 8 years. I think that as the quincunx of these two signs suggests, a lot of adjustments need to be made to make this relationship work…it just depends if you are willing to make. Fortunately I also have Virgo rising, and we both have the Sun, Venus and Mercury in the 8th house.
I am an Aries female and I was in a relationship with a Virgo male for almost 5 years. It didn’t work out. Even though these signs incompatible, for some reason there is an attraction. Based on my own experiences and everything I have read on the 2 signs, I don’t think these signs should be together.
However many females in my family are Virgos and I have noticed that they are more readily compromise/sacrifice aspects of there own personality for others. So, a female Virgo/ male Aries relationship should have a better shot.
I am a Virgo female and yes we are more readily to compromise/sacrifice all aspects of our own personality for others but how long can we do this when we get continually shot down with everything we say and do,it is always wrong in the eye’s of an male Aries, they are alway’s in the right no matter how much proof you have, they are so two faced it sickens me to hear the words of an Aries cause you know it is a lie, but because they believe in their own highly strung words they can lie without even battering an eye lid, I can’t stand it, they back stab their own mates and then their mates are the best thing in world in front of their face, YES I AM WITH AN ARIES OF 14 YEARS and he is driving me NUTS he only becomes nice again when I try to tell him I am not happy watching the critisizing world of an Aries, I strongly feel I should not be with him and need to get out, the only time he stops yelling at it his kids and actually spends time with them is when we are fighting, and all they can do is keep playing mind games.
I’m a virgo female (moon in aries, mars in virgo, venus in leo). My fiance is an aries (moon in gemini, mars in cancer, venus in pisces). I’m kind of bored, to be perfectly honest, sexually. He just isn’t as attractive as me and not as clean. I have to think of other men who want me to get off. But he is very sweet and loving and I don’t want to hurt him. I’m stuck.
My moon, mars and venus are all in Libra, as a Virgo this week is telling us to go with the flow and thing’s will sort themselves out, this is your thinking time, what do you want to achieve, you could help smarten him up, say something!
We like to help others but remain true to ourselves as at the end of the day where is your heart? If you know where your heart is then you have direction to make a start! I have only been studying astrology for a couple of weeks to find myself direction, maybe you could ask Jeff
I am a virgo female and i am dating a male aries. This is the worst relatioship of my life!!! We fight constantly and can never agree on anything!! I do admit i have a jelosy problem hes to outgoing for me and thinks hes always right about everything! He wants everything to be his way anad im sick of it. My two most seriros relationships have been wit aries and those r the two most relaionships i really hate!! I really doubt me and his culd even be friends!!
Well currently I’m dating an Aries man, actually he’s on the cusp and I’m Virgo. Well the chemistry is soooo strong, we get on so well and he’s so romantic and a real gentleman.
Sometimes I have to pinch myself as I’ve never had a man that treats me like a queen…I hope it’s forever, I’m falling for him.
According to horoscope we’re not a good match but we’re the opposite….so happy. So people don’t believe everything that is said about star signs…IT’S HOW YOU MAKE AND SHAPE YOUR DESTINY.
I am a virgo woman, datin an Aries man. Well as for the sexual chemistry, that is excellent, but we do tend to bump heads alot! Aries men have to have it their way, or the highway. He always has to be right in every situation. He is very combattive. Although we have benn together a while and i doubt that either one of us is going anywhere, we still have many differences. But don’t let anybody tell you that it CAN’T work!
Hello everybody, I’m new to this but i am an aries man (22) dating a virgo girl (21). And the more i read the more fascinated i become, i have noticed that sometimes we do tend to butt heads and don’t agree on things. She always criticizes me for what i do, and i always think I’m doing what is right, and what is right for me. But aside everything my main concern is that we’re not compatible because to be honest i never really believed in signs and all this but the more i look into it, the more i wonder. And to be honest to a certain extent i still don’t believe that love no matter what sign is not compatible i still believe that if you really want something to work yo will give it your all and make it work, but i just want to know how can i make this easier on her and myself on the way. Like I’ve been reading a lot of these comments on here and people are talking about moons in different signs what does that all mean? How can i find mine? And should i be worried? If you can help me i would really appreciate it if not then the comments have still been interesting, Thank you.
Hi there. I’m a Virgo female and the love of my life is an Aries male. It was this instant connection, and we still have that connection. Those silly little butterflies that people have when they first start dating. He could walk into a room and I get the chills, in a good way. The thing I like most about the dynamic of our relationship is that we challenge each other. If I don’t agree with something he says or does, I have no problem letting him know and vice versa. But we work it out.
Yeah, sure, it takes a lot of work. It’s really what you chose to make of it.
Him and I have been together for six years and have gone through hell and back, but we haven’t broken up once. Aries men, as stubborn as they may be, like to be mentally stimulated and Virgos can really make them think! lol They are constantly like “What are you TALKING about?” when it comes to Virgo.
Where Aries is an impulse shopper, Virgo is already prepared with a list.
The best way to keep this relationship together is to be open-minded and communication. Anyway, I love my bf and he loves me – despite our astrological differences.
side note: I don’t think astrology gives Virgos enough credit. Not all of us are anal rententive and anti-social. I’m not! In fact, my bf is the one that over analyzed everything. Don’t get me wrong, so do I. He just comes to a quicker conclusion, where I like to take my time.
It can work out, people! Don’t always believe the “hype”!
Like it or not, theres soooooooooo much chemistry between the two of these signs ;]
Hello everyone,
I have spent the past 3-4 hours doing my research as far as the description of an aries man, his likes and dislikes, and the compatibility between our signs. I am a virgo woman and of course I’m doing my homework so that when tomorrow comes and I engage in my first official date with an aries man, that I know exactly what to do and what not to. I’m not going to lie when according to most websites, the compatibility between an aries and a virgo is null. However I have been reading your posts and I found the light! (well sort of speak) I am very excited that real people with real relationships between a virgo and an aries actually do work out… so wish me luck in meeting my aries guy for the first time in person. We met online and have been talking on the phone and texting and well tomorrow is the “big day”… I just hope all goes well, I really like this guy and want for us to have real chemistry!! I guess we’ll see what happens…
have fun!
he will be quite the mystery, but don’t bother trying to figure him out. lol, he likes to keep you guessing :]
let us know how it goes!
Haha, my girlfriend forwared this site to me in an email, saying “Finally, there are people like us!”
I’m an Aries man and my girlfriend is a Virgo woman. And, honestly, she is the only one for me. Before she came along, I had heard that our signs weren’t compatible so I stayed away from her kind, haha. I dated just about every other sign and found them all BORING (no offense, anyone) – too quick to agree with everything I said or did. Boring! Until, a family friend introduced us and I was smitten; I liked her wit. A Virgo woman has this way of seducing a man with their mind first – and that threw me off! I couldn’t get enough of her. All I wanted to do was talk to her, it was crazy. And she was quick to tell me what she liked and didn’t like about me – unlike the other signs I’d dated. I had no idea she was a virgo until we started talking about it. But this was already 3 months into non-stop talking on the phone, seeing each other every friday, etc.
I didn’t care, I had come to the conclusion that she was it.
To this day, the only opinion that matters to me is hers and I look forward to her challenging my words. We balance each other out. 10 years laters and she’s only one I want; the only one I love.
It’s been an amazing ride so far! Our first meeting was a success… however Leila just as you mentioned, I will do my best not to try and figure him out… he is definetely one of a kind. I have never dated an aries and it’s really weird because one moment he is constantly texting me and asking me what it is I’m doing… and the next he seems as if his mind is totally in another world. I guess that’s just who he is. He has shown what seems to be genuine interest in me but again.. I’m trying to go with the flow because I’m not used to being kept in the dark and he really keeps me in the dark sometimes. He does show a great deal of passion which is most captivating!! I’m taking it a day at a time and I would appreciate all the advise I can get since I really do like this guy. Sometimes I’m not sure if I should just let myself go… Being a virgo I do think and rethink situations to the max… so please help because I really do want to keep this one!! =)
yeah, he wants to keep you guessing. and the moment he feels as though you’ve figured him out…well, he’ll get bored and find someone else to impress, you know what I mean? lol
Keep me posted ;]
Aries Man-
I applaud you, man. It’s not everyday where you find a man that will leave such a great message about his lady the way you just did. Very sweet!
Don’t you mean:
“feminine, or yin”
I had to live up to reputation, you know. Since I’m a Virgo. =D
However, I think because the Virgo loves so much to please, the Virgo will sense the agitation that Aries has for all Virgo’s OCD habits and will probably adapt. I’m involved with an Aries man right now and we complement each other very well, we’ve not got on each others nerves yet and I don’t think we’ll be anytime soon. =P When he needs support I’m there, and when I need to be told something straight out… he’s my one. Personally I favor the Aries because I like my men no-nonsense like.
HI, I am an Aries man, my fiance is Virgo. Things are looking too difficult for me. She does not express herself clearly, and want me to understand what she meant or what is going on in her mind. I dont find her receptive to my problems, my happiness instead she is all blah blah about her every minute details.She acts very nervous, whenever we are together, this is a big Turn-off to me. I find her not gutsy or adventures. Sometimes, i feel like ending this relation, but I cannot, because this would impact our families adversly & results can be catastropic.I feel like ending my life, this is no what I had expected from the life. I had a previous relationship with a scorpio/saggitarius cusp. It was like a dream come true, but we could not continue because of parental problems.
Me & my fiance, often talk on the phone, but when we meet, I simply cant stand her. She is week, thin & lean, allways nervous, she puts me off everytime. Last time we met, I literally shouted at her for 2 hours, for what she is. This has happned before too. I really feel sorry for what I did & had appologised many times to her. SHE BRINGS WORST OUT OF ME!!!I feel ashamed of myself for shouting & yelling at her, during all this, she keeps quite & acts numb.
I really want to make this work.Please Help, tell me how can I make it work.
Dear Jimmy,
You suck. Big ones.
Tiffany
I am a virgo woman in love with my long lost love an Aries man. We are perfect as a couple and will be getting married soon. I think Virgo’s are a challange to the aries man. I know what he likes and gives it to him. I let him know constantly how much I love him and make him my king, he loves that. He has a lot of attraction from women and is very considerate in letting me know that I am his queen and never leaves any room for unfaithfulness. Aries men love exciting women. I am a Virgo and I love excitement, unlike what the sign says about us Virgo’s. I do plan in advance but I am also full of excitement and can be spontaneous. Virgo’s and Aries are a perfect match. I dated several other signs and also another Aries. The best match for this Virgo is Aries. Give it a try these two signs can excite each other and will keep each other in a long exciting life.
Tiffany, how can you say that, be in my shoes, you will also regret. If you cant help, then you also dont have any right to abuse.
My fiance is a dumbh. All she can do is irritate me by doing all the things again & again, which I ask her not to do.She is im-mature, ugly, dumb….
I just regret my decision, I was forced into this relationship by my parents.
I am depressed & dont know what to do….Thats why I wrote here, so that I can find some solution, & not to get abused.
Jimmy,
I said that because you should not be HERE trying to find a resolution or a solution. If you feel the way you do, the CLEAR solution is to break it off with her.
Stop wasting your time. And stop wasting hers.
You should be talking to your parents, the driving force behind this relationship that you HATE, and you should have a bit of a chat with her. Your FIANCE.
If you are about to walk down an aisle, knowing full well that you will not be able to uphold the vowels you speak, then you might as well just quit while your ahead.
Well, actually. It sounds like you’re behind to me.
No MAN would come on some board and call his fiance ugly and dumb. Why the heck is she your fiance if you feel so strongly about her in such a negative light?
Heres you’re solution: dump her. you’ll be happy. and she can go find someone who will appreciate her – faults and all. and maybe – just maybe – you’re karma wont be so bad that you can move on to a fruitful relationship with someone you wont eventually grow tired of, leading you to call her “ugly and dumb” for the world to see.
LAME.
I have been in you’re shoes. And the moment I realized that the situation I was in wasn’t going to work (also called the “AH-HA!” moment), I did what any decent person should.
Sure, you might hurt her in the process. But, trust me, you’re causing more harm keeping quiet than being vocal.
Ok. I take back what I said about you sucking big ones.
But, I will be QUICK to say you do again if you don’t step up to the plate, be a man and do the right thing.
Either love her with everything you’ve got or set her free. Set yourself free.
Since she’s your fiance, it’s all or nothing at this point.
Think about it.
Good luck.
- Tiffany