This query seems to imply that Pisces men are passive … so passive that they wait for their partner to end the relationship. Putting aside the fact that the Pisces man has nine other planets in his chart making however many angles to each other, it is true that Pisces is not exactly Mr. Action. He is more likely to dream about alternate realities in his relationship — or about his dream man or woman — than to be pro-active about making a change.
Part of the problem — if we may call it that — is Pisces’ ability to go with the flow, to accept his circumstances. Pisces transcends, after all. And if reality gets too difficult — if it imposes its hard edges into his soft-focused life — he may deal with conflict by drinking or daydreaming or escaping one way or another.
Pisces may also martyr himself, choosing to stay unhappy and perceive himself as the poor victim of circumstance over shaking the boat and putting an end to his unhappiness in the relationship.
But, my dear querent, why are you waiting for him to end it?
About Jeffrey Kishner
So here i am again, sitting in bed and writing on this pisces blog.
I am so used to his strange behaviour that i shouldn’t be shocked, but i am, more than that i’m hurt, again!!! He’s a christian, i’m not particularly religious, he’s a pisces and i’m a sagittarius, i like to have fun and don’t take life that seriously, until that is i met my pisces man.
We meet, we talk, he always ends up making sexual innuendo, that to me is a green flag, go ahead, he looks at me out of the corner of his eye and i know exactly what he wants, he just has that look, i know it, i’ve seen it before, come get me look, and he says, come here and i know what for, i approach, knowing that this time will end up pretty much like all the other times, our game of ADVANCE and RETREAT.
We embrace, kiss, this turns to more serious things, i don’t need to go into great detail cos i’m sure you get the picture people, we drink tea hold each other happy and fullfilled, for now.
I get a phone call the next morning, it’s him and i know what he’s going to say, all the usual things how he’s feeling realy bad, realy guilty, about us making love and that he couldn’t help himself that he’s just a man and he has temptations. And that this time will be the LAST TIME that he allows this to happen, incidently it will be the 5th time that he has said that and gone back on his word. Why does he do this? Why? Is it me? He says he wants us to be just friends??? He wants to see me but for nothing sexual to happen??? But i’m so into this guy that i can’t bare to be around him, i get so sexualy charged from just seeing his body and being around him, even just talking, drinking coffee, i could explode, i get mad from not being able to touch him, i tell him this, he apologises, i have to get out, leave.
We don’t text, talk on the phone etc for a few days then he contacts me, i explain how i’m feeling, he explains how he’s feeling, he says that he cannot see me because he is busy with other more important stuff, studying and his music etc, i get realy mad, i want to see him, so i back off, cool down, don’t call, don’t contact, THEN he will contact me and we will arrange to meet, usualy at night we will sit down talk and he will advance on me like a wild man, all over me, kissing touching me full on……
The next morning he is laying his guilt trip on me…….WHY does he do this? I don’t understand him.
First he wants me then he has no time for me and then he wants me again.
I can’t cope with this mans ever changing moods and his need to be alone, what is wrong???
Somebody please help me, i can’t see the wood for the trees xxxxx
@ dawn..he’s using you and u let him. been there and done it.
Good point there. Why are you waiting for him to end it? You have the upper hand in going so. If you both are unhappy being together, why stay? Take initiative and do it yourself!
Im in love with a pisces but he’s dating my best friend. I know he loves me to, but will he break up with her for me? Also how could i get him to love me more?