Baby talking to Aquarius man
November 10, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
Man eating shark. Baby talking to Aquarius man. Baby-talking to Aquarius man.
I assume the querent is an adult who wants to coo over her boyfriend. Well, good luck. I cannot think of a sign less susceptible to baby-talk than Aquarius. Now, Cancer … a Crab could get into that, since he wants to be mommied anyway. Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and the Moon governs the mother-child interaction. But Aquarius is incompatible with Cancer in every way. Cancer is an emotional water sign, whereas Aquarius is a mental air sign. Aquarius is ruled by two planets: emotionally-detached Uranus and cold, hard Saturn. Other planets in his chart notwithstanding, I just don’t see how an Aquarius can melt over “baby baby” and “my wittle water-beawah.” He’ll just look at you funny.
Air signs are just not that emotional, and Aquarius is probably the least. Venus-ruled Libra could probably get off on baby-talk because he’s relationship-oriented, and virtually anything that can enhance your bond is fair game, as long as the game is fair. And Gemini … well, Gemini is a little kid, anyway. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, and Mercury governs communication, so you can’t go wrong there.
So “goo goo” over someone else, would you?
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That was very well said!! I agree and I happen to be an Aquarius
Ladies beware an Aquarius Man will mentally drain you… let alone commit to anything. Commitment=Loss of freedom. Just when you think you have figured him out, he will change into a cold fish!Just a hint: Dont pursue him let him call you. You will never hear the word LOVE from him so dont force the issue. Instead watch for small gestures of kindness to show he “likes you” Thses men are also very consensious of money and the value it holds. Offer to pay sometimes.
Ms. Caution, maybe the Aquarius men you speak of have some Capricorn planets in them. My Aquarius ex couldn’t decide whether he wanted to buy the best of everything or watch his savings account grow. He’d constantly buy me expensive gifts even though I asked for something far less expensive. For example, he asked me what I wanted for my bday. I told him a CD. He must’ve heard me say “concert and entertainment system”, because that’s what he bought. And when I said portable DVD player (to replace the one HE broke), he bought me a laptop (well, it does play DVDs). When we broke up, he had the nerve to call me a golddigger. :/
introduce me to this guy, he sounds good
to jara aka blah blah,i guess you must have traumatic experience with the Aquarius guy…but what i want to know really is aquarius man’s character really so that bad???i mean everyone have at least a good side… it not that i am siding with them..it just that are Aquarius people really that so horrible or bad??????i mean i am a aquarius girl and when i read your comments,i realise one thing which is ‘are aquarius girls also as bad as aquarius guys?’i am a bit perplexed right now…..AND i hope you will give me comments,advice or experiences with Aquarius girls……..
who would baby talk someone they know is an aquarian? i am an aquarain girl, and i would kill my boyfriend and make fun of my friends if they talked like a baby to me or others. it’s demeaning i speak english, and am well over the age of 2, which is where all baby talk should stop.
ok i think i know a lot about aquarians. my ex was an aquarian, and so is the one i like now. dont know what atracts me so much maybe because i am lion myself.anyway there is smth i have learned. never say him”I love you for first”never force him to talk when he doesnt want and never force him to commitment.he will do everything himself.just be playfull
I beg to differ. I’m an emotional Cancer woman and I dated a wonderful Aquarian guy for 5 months. I baby talked to him quite a bit and he didn’t mind at all, he liked it that I was so comfortable with him. Was not verbally expressive as most aquarians, but showed it a lot in actions. Was ever the sweetheart and super affectionate! And he loved to be mommied by me. I was lucky to have found a one of a kind Aquarian. Althought things didn’t work out but we are good friends today. But its true, give them the space and they’ll appreciate and love you even more for it. And they do say I Love You, just takes them a lil longer then usual. And when they do, you know they sincerely mean it.
I am a Cap woman dating an Aquarius Man and we often baby talk each other. Although he will tease me, he likes it too, because when I’m in a more serious mood he will ask what’s wrong.
He does drive me crazy with his dissapearing act. Some many comments on this site about the Aquarius man are true but I can’t tell if my man is truely an Aquarius or Pieces because his birthday is at the cut off. I was married to a Pieces and the physical attraching for my Aquarius man is almost the same as for the Pieces man. Any comments to that statement??
Yes the aquarius man will put your heart through the ringer. I met him and I loved him I really really did. Two months were bliss it didn’t matter if he did things his way and didn’t ask me what I wanted to watch. He was a gentleman that was enough for me after the losers I had met. I thought he loved me too but I was wrong. I would listen to him talking for hours and hours and he was brilliant. But you know what…he had his selfish ways. There wasn’t much affection that was all me. He didn’t give back as much as me sure he spent money but that’s not what I need. I have a lovely time with him on vacation I will never forget it. But we parted he had to go somewhere I left I kissed him. I thought everything was ok. But he didn’t call me for 2 weeks…and I can’t take that. First of all my abandonment complex set in…all the songs that I associated with him everything. I cried for about 4hours straight on the 14th day that he didn’t call. I sobbed and sobbed with no hope and no peace. It reminded me of the time a Libra turned his back on me…oh how I have learnt about air signs. My love died…and you know what he called me about 1 hour ago and I was in shock. I told him “I didn’t expect to hear from you” and I couldn’t go over there. He had an explanation..the cat ate the dog etc etc the place got flooded sure. He even sounded like he wasn’t happy. I told him ‘I have to go’
Let the record show I loved him so much…you have no idea what all I had planned for him how blissful his life would have been. How I would have been in his corner how even if he is wrong about some things I would have let him be wrong because I loved him but not after that. ‘I’m sorry I should have called’. Yeah because if you don’t call it means you don’t care or it means that you are f***ING WITH MY HEAD which makes me mad. Did I not love you enough? Did you want for anything? He’s cold he’s selfish he has no heart because after everything that we have experienced…and our last conversation…he knows that I haven’t been treated well by other men. He knows that he was different I complimented him on all the good ways he was treating me…yeah disappearing act you are right.
I accept that I am a fire sign w. water and earth influence. I love passionately and I can’t help it. I won’t smother or intrude but I can’t handle coldness he might as well have stabbed me with a knife. That is the worst thing that could have happened to me. I was hoping that I would die so that I wouldn’t experience that feeling.
But he killed the love I had for him what is sad is that he doesn’t even know and I don’t want to talk to him EVER again. Now I am the cold one I don’t even want him to touch me or to see him ever.
I want him to cry those tears for hours and to feel even a bit of the abandonment and anguish that I felt and still be alive. I doubt it. No it is an impossiblity the aquarian man is not human and never again will I ever associate with air signs not unless I want to spend the rest of my life in a padded cell.
You can’t possibly understand what type of nightmare last night was.
I cano nly say cry me a river Aquarius let me taste your tears and let me taste your blood after you have slit your wrists because nothing else will do. Get away from me fickle insignificant cold creature with no substance…everything that I hate. How could I have not seen this in the beginning?
You play games with me I will hate you forever
i agree with wildrose same thing happened to me and im a cancer woman.as for baby talk he baby talked me more he said he loved me first he hounded me about marriage.then 3 years into the relationship.he just dissappeared not talking to me.the second week he talked on the phone sounding all sad that he should die and i will get the money.i dont know why he wanted for me to feel sorry for him.he hurt me and the kids by walking out.he said that he is messed up in the head.and wants to do stuff for me.he can go to hell.
i agree with wildrose same thing happened to me and im a cancer woman.as for baby talk he baby talked me more he said he loved me first he hounded me about marriage.then 3 years into the relationship.he just dissappeared not talking to me.the second week he talked on the phone sounding all sad that he should die and i will get the money.i dont know why he wanted for me to feel sorry for him.he hurt me and the kids by walking out.he said that he is messed up in the head.and wants to do stuff for me.he can go to hell.
I’m an Aquarius woman dating an Aquarius man, and the only time we’ve ever entered the “baby-talk” department has surely ended with both of us cracking up…it’s ridiculous.I believe it is also important to define “baby-talk”. For example, we’ll call eachother “babe”…but never in a high-pitched baby tone, always keeping it very casual and cool. In past experiences, it has seriously bugged me and completely turned me off, therefore I wouldn’t do it to someone else, no matter what sign. In turn, that may make us Aquarians look like cold-hard-detached-un-loving people when all we want is to be understood and treated like the mature and revolutionary adults we like to think we are.
I’m an Aquarius woman in a “serious” relationship with an Aquarius man, and the only time we’ve ever entered the “baby-talk” department has surely ended with both of us cracking up…it’s ridiculous.I believe it is also important to define “baby-talk”. For example, we’ll call eachother “babe”…but never in a high-pitched baby tone, always keeping it very casual and cool. In past experiences, it has seriously bugged me and completely turned me off, therefore I wouldn’t do it to someone else, no matter what sign. In turn, that may make us Aquarians look like cold-hard-detached-un-affectionate people when all we want is to be understood and treated like the mature and revolutionary adults we like to think we are.
my boyfriend is an aquarius and he calls me baby and other pet names all the time and he does have the other usual aquarius behavior
I am an aquarius guy. I love being baby-talked by my girl. Babe baby honey sweety darling puppy (yeah that too)
I have no cancer/pisces/gemini influence.
Aquarius sun moon
Capricorn mercury mars venus and rising
Astrology does not describe 100% of the personality, otherwise every person with similar sign would be a clone.
and yeah. my girl is taurus. we’ve been in relationship for last 9 years. Our relationship is more like love/hate jealousy revenge challenge etc. (sounds like scorpio isnt it?)
try this. read details of every sun sign very thoroughly. you will find that you do have something of each sign (or atleast of most of the signs)
i tried
http://www.blogthings.com/howscorpioareyouquiz/
i got 100% scorpio 83% virgo 95% aquarius 38% capricorn 20% taurus
@Anonoymous Aqua-Cap, your cappy rising, venus and mars would give you a real earthy sensuality and desire for commitment!
I guess this doesnt apply to the aquarius using baby talk himself! My dad is an Aquarius and when he gets sentimental, he uses baby talk more often then Ive seen other parents with other signs. Im still his ‘baby’ and things like that. I guess it depends on other influences…And my best friend can be very babyish at times, and she’s also an aquarius. It could also be the affect one has on the other. I could be bringing out different reactions in both of them that they normally wouldnt express!
well i’ve been married to my aquarius man for 8 yrs. now they do commitment s*** mine can’t figure me out i intrigue him. i’m 25 yrs. old, 4 kids and i’m a cancer woman and mine likes to be nutured what a weirdo. also not very hard to win the heart of an aquarian….my girlfriend is aquarian too so i guess it varies i guess. plus being bi helps too….
baby talk he loves it i don’t so proves it isn’t always the case, baby talk is for my kids
aquarian men are cold hearted bastards, cheating too, mine cheated twice so far to hurt me, but i’m so filled with darkness he can’t ever touch me i don’t care hehe i laugh cuz u can break them down i learned their secrets, might be the witch in me, aquarians do break. i’m ure typical cancer woman the thing is i don’t care, mine got hooked and still with me, the thing is know the mind game, how to fool, don’t completely fall in love, use their “witty guidelines/terms” on them….reverse psychology is a good trick….
heal your own darkness – you sound unhappy
Wow, you people give Aquarians a bad wrap, I agree, astrology doesn’t define a person, just outlines general traits. Each person is molded by their individual experiences in life. Don’t get involved with an Aquarian unless you can handle the truth. And for the one who the Aquarian cheated on you, he wasn’t serious about you, and maybe only made you think he was to avoid drama. Not defending, but people need to be realistic when it comes to Aquarians. They don’t like to be tied down, but when they commit, they really commit. Aquarians love deeply, but rarely love. If you can get one to fall for you, then you will own their heart, but if you betray them, they will take it away in a heartbeat. Aquarians are protective of their feelings as again they feel deeply. We take each step in life with purpose and planning. Often we miss out on opportunities because of this, but find that we lead our lives in a solid direction. We are control freaks, at least everyone I’ve met is, including myself. We won’t admit it, but it’s true. So back off on the bashing and just accept that Aquarians are detached people who appreciate respect and honesty, not all this drama. As far as the baby talk, Aquarians are playfull yet serious, you have to do these things when they are in their playfull mood and learn to cut it out when they are trying to be serious with you.
im a Scorpio woman who dated an aquarius man for 2 years. first couple months i wasnt interested at all wth his rebellious personality. he liked to leave me by myself in a party while he dance with other woman. when i finally gave up on him, he’d consistenly convinced me tht he wanted to hv a serious realtionship bla bla bla. then i decided 2 gve it try and stayed in the same house. it was hectic!! trust me. when i treated him like a baby, he would liked it at tht very moment, but the next morn he’d say he didnt like it all.and became a very cold person. also im a very expressive of how i felt things but those feelings i could get from him. he’s a very depressed person and like to think so negative abt life. he didnt like also to talk how he felt. made me confused.
and once i got pregnant and we decided not to keep it cos he’s not ready to be a dad. i had to abort it. it broke my heart away. i wanted to have baby so much and i had it.
one night when i invited my gay friend to come over to visit, he asked me whether he could sleep wth him. i said fine (cos i believed he wouldnt do it).but he did!! he gave BJ to my gayfriend and he admitted it. he said he wanted to experience it. I couldnt say anything! i cried and angry at tht time. both of them begged for my forgiveness and my bf promised to go to councelling. even i went also. and we both wanted to fix things. since then i became more suspicious of everything. and my friends urged me to leave him. but i still loved him.and that decision made me lost few friends who couldnt stand his behaviours.
after 2 years of our relationship,we decided not to stay together, became friends, and he decided to be with other woman as a friend but yet he still said tht he loves me. i tried so hard not to call him or to say love words to him . but then these feelings are killing me.it drives me crazy how reality is pulling my nerves. maybe it’s my personality. i just could stand him. the only reason im still with him as a friend, is because i feel angry, betrayed, and want to do revenge on him. so one day, he would come to me and beg for my forgiveness but i would answer : ” no way. im not interested, and f*** off”!!
this whole post is hilarious! Why would any grown ass adults baby talk eachother? I will admit to a certain "talk" me and my bf both do (we're both aquarians) it started off as a joke talking with thick southern accents to eachother (we were mocking britney spears in the video where shes talking about "time travel speed") and then it kinda stuck.. but its still more of a joke. I might say in a thick southern accent "baby when u gnna be home..?" but really people.. the whole baby talk stuff is really just down right creepy! What you do in the privacy of your own home is your own thing.. but don't be suprised if someone is turned off by it.>!
I am a capricorn woman in my mid 30s and my man is an aquarius in his early 20s. We are 12 years apart. My man calls me baby,and I call him baby. We have pets names for each other, but we dont baby talk to each other. My man is very sweet, sends flowers, buys me jewelry, and he tells me loves me. We talk about songs that remind us of each other. I like to send him ringtones of the songs we have talked aout. My guy likes to play around, and pinch me to try to get me to say ouch and tickle me. He and I neither one walk around wth a permigrin. We are both serious and playful. We enjoy each others company, and make each other happy. Yeah he does check out other girls, but we all check out the opposite sex. Its our nature, and sure it makes me jealous, but I do the same thing. Besides I think he likes to make me jealous, so he can get some sort of rise out of me, and I think it makes him feel good. Do I think we will get married one day, who knows, and does it really matter, No. As long as we live life happy for as long as we are together, thats all that really matters. He calls me everyday, to see how my day is going. He text me every morning with a good morning baby. He calls me every nite to tell me good nite. He doesnt tell me he loves me everytime we talk, but he doesnt need to. I know he loves me by the way he treats me. He has a lot of respect for me, as I do for him. So, does it have anything to do with what signs we are, that he is german, or how many years we are apart. No, it is the matter that we love and respect each other, and trust and honesty doesnt hurt either. So, Aquarius’ are just as individual as every other sign. They are who they are.
LOL I looked at it my monitor funny when I read “Wittle Water-Beawah”.
As an aquarius female, who dated an aqua male for four years…and ended up marrying a virgo, i am sickened by all of this crap about air signs being emotionless and always calling the aqua a freak. Its absurd for one. I think a lot of lazy astrologers simply dont have the mental capacity to understand how aquarius thinks so they’d rather call us untouchable and refer to us as hurtful freaks. Whatever, just sending the wrong message is all which completely contradicts the goal in posting info about signs-so that people can understand them.
im an aquarius…i guess our thing is ya gotta show enough love before you get our love. we dont just pass the ’serious’ love to anybody…
well, I don’t have any bad thoughts about aquarians..they have pretty good judgement..I just want to know that if one suddenly stops talking in texting for a couple of days should I just text them a couple of times and say What’s up? or how you doing? or what? we had been going back and forth texting for awhile now and calling each other hon, babe etc..they probably said it more than I did and said they felt quiet a vibe…I don’t understand what happened or changed..it just stopped..we were in the middle of a conversation and it just stopped..I am a little confussed. any advice? Aquarius male Picese Female..not looking for nothing but friendship..they said they felt a vibe and it did seem really good..
Hi Semiblue, Aquarians are like that in the beginning. In the middle. At the end. It’s just the way they are. I dated one for 10 years and just like you said, we would be in the middle of a conversation emailing each other then nothing for a day or two, sometimes more. Then he would come back with “What’s up?” I was like, whaaa…?? It’s just the way they are. Has nothing to do with whether they like you or not. We were very close but he would just disappear on occasion. They need space. They won’t tell you they’re doing it, they will just do it. Don’t text him anymore. He will see that as insecurity. Just say to yourself, hey, ok, and he will get back to you on his own time.
I am a libra female dating an aquarius male…he loves everything I do, I think I bring out the loving side in him, because he is mean and cold to everyone else but me…haha.
I don’t do baby talk but I do spoil him, rub downs, I make sure he’s fed, I make him his favorite deserts, etc…he loves it. I call him penny cuz he’s my number 1. Hahaha. But that’s it.
He is very action-expressive…he doesn’t have to say anything to me, he shows me he loves me.
Not all signs are the same…sometimes we forget that social factors also play in here. And sometimes another person can bring out the worst in you.
Its all love!
I’m a Pisces female and I was with an Aquarius male for about 11 months and all I have to say is that Aquarius men are awful, at least the one I dated. We fell in love, or at least I did, even though he told me he did as well. He wasn’t very experienced in relationships and many times I had to forgive him for things he’d do. His words were always beautiful, but his actions were a contradiction at times. It got really hard, but I did my best with it. He idolized me in an unhealthy way I guess, although many times I told him I wasn’t perfect. I made one mistake, and he pretty much turned his back on me, after all the things I forgave him for as if he was some kind of perfect individual, no forgiveness, no words, no nothing he just let me fall when I maybe needed him the most. I don’t excuse my mistakes but he did so much worse to me at one point that this was all just unreal to me. He tried to get people against me, he did all this while never saying one word to me. without explanation or reasoning. That’s how he loved me, he broke my heart in million and one pieces and he still has the nerve to then tell people that I am the sweetest girl and wouldn’t hurt anyone, one minute he’s trying to hurt me, the next minute he’s saying good things about me? I don’t understand it, and I probably never will.
I’m a Gemini girl and I have a crush on an Aqua guy. He’s very nice and very touchy. I asked him why he didn’t have a girl friend and he was very strait forward. He said sometimes he just takes off for a couple days… by himself. He said his girlfiends never understood that when he gets on thinking mode and they would leave him… he just likes to be alone for awhile. He’s super cute, great body, very nice, very affectionate. I don’t understand why a girl wouldn’t understand that. But, he is true to the Aqua traits. He’s slow to make a move and very careful to approach a girl. It’s almost like he thinks about it for days before he even gives hugs and asks to meet somewhere. Hes flirty but doesn’t know he is. For me, flirting, dating, talking, approaching guys, coming up with cute things to say… is all very natural as chewing gum (as it should be for a Gemini) but I understand what he’s trying to uncover from me before he pursues me, so I go along. As for BABY Talk… hmmmm… I don’t really like too much of it, but he did call me baby once. I kinda liked it, I would call him baby if we were a little more intimate with each other. We’re still on the slow row… going at his pace for now. Till he’s ready to take it a step further… but, he better hurry up, because patience is something I really don’t have much of. But, I like a challenge, so I’ll hang out and see were this is going for awhile.
I want to add that I can see Aquarius guys as not being the type to baby talk, due to that fact that they think alot and are very intelligent. But, on the flip side… if their love interest likes it, I can see it incorporated because they like to satisfy a lover and they like to experiment. I super curious and I’m game for just about anything. Though baby talk can be annoying if done wrong.
I am an Aquarius and sort of dating an Aquarius man. I would only use baby talk in a joking way to chide him. As for negative comments on Aquarians, you women need to chill, step back and reassess your own happiness. Aquarians are mostly happy with just themselves. We really don’t NEED others. But we loving being with others. For us, it’s one day at a time and living in the moment. My Aquarius man and I have a deep bond and friendship. We care for one another deeply. We started off too fast and that put too much pressure on both of us (both just divorced). So we backed off, gave each other space, and now are VERY slowly proceeding forward and spending time sharing thoughts and emerging revelations about ourselves. He makes sexual innuendos, but no advances (yes, as two Aquarians we had the best sex in both of our lives-we are in our 40’s-he calls me a water nymph and sex goddess). Where will we end up? Who knows…but we are certainly enjoying our NOW. Time dissolves for both of us when we are together. I gave him a gift…an heirloom tomato tied in a silk bag. He squeezed it without knowing what it was. His face was priceless and he loved it.
So one of my best friends happens to be an aquarius male. We have been friends for id say a good 2 years but only super close friends the past 9 months. I’m pretty sure i have fallen in love with this guy after spending so much time together. He is so kind, good looking, different, smart and funny and we can just talk and talk for hours and have a good time (how could i not fall in love with this guy!?). Yes he still has those aquariun traits (dissapearing for a day or two, or being a little stubborn and always being “right”) But i don’t let it get to me because i have researched this sign and its only what i should expect anyway. It fustrating but its what is supposed to happen. So anyways, Ive seen other girls in his past (before we became really close) express their feelings for him very bluntly and he had always been very polite about it and never hurt their feelings if he didn’t feel the same. It seemed like he just chose to always keep them guessing whether or not he like them back..when i knew he really had no interest (he always told me if he did or not) and it wasn’t until these girls got so fustrated that they never got a response from him that they really started pushing him for one. Once that happened he woudn’t give them the time of day, got scared and ran off. As a girl, i understand how these girls could be so fustrated to the point they bothered him about it and it sucks that he runs away rather than just telling them he isn’t interested. Seeing this all happen in the background, it all the more makes me frightened to tell him how i really feel about him because i don’t want him to run from me!! he confides in me, he tells me everything, he trusts me, and he always wants to be around me! by reading some other website advises on aquarian male, these are all signs of him expressing his feelings towards me without actually saying them..but i can’t exactly assume its true. He gets nervous and shy when it comes to any affection or intimacy!! bad part is- he can only seem to get really close to me when he is somewhat intoxicated!! but when he is he gets so brave and suddently confidant and he is always kissing me so passionately and holding me in his arms like a man in love would do to a woman he loves.. which all the more confuses me because its not any sloppy drunk kiss or anything which would make better scence to me at least!!! (trust me i know the difference) As a pisces female, i am not very outspoken or blunt enough to tell him whats on my mind but i want this to go somewhere so bad that im pushing my shyness aside and thinking of how to approach this. Any aquarius men out there have any advice of what is going on here? bad or good news for me..i want to know!!! thanx
I would never baby talk to a man. That is so insulting when they do it to me….I hate that. I wouldn’t blame a guy for getting Mad if someone did it to him. It’s almost like calling someone an idiot…It’s never cute.
LibraLady, it isn’t insulting.The Aqua I’m with is babytalking me all the time.Calling me “petal”,”my love”,”babe”,”sweetheart”,”my girl”,”darling” and all other phrases, in fact, he’s just so cheesy sometimes that I had to remind him that I don’t want those lines so often
Hi Vovi
Oh those things are cute, I mean when someone says “Oh did I hurt your wittle feelings?” LoL
My Aqua guy calls me Baby, calls me Angel and My Love, I like that
What I was referring to was how my Libra ex hubby used to talk to me like I was 5 yrs old “oh youre not feeling well? Are you feeling sick to your tummy?” I mean Yick, I certianly was sick after that kind of talk, it was his tone that sickened me….
LOL