Aries first date
November 20, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
The challenge of going on a first date with an Aries is that he knows what he wants, and he wants it now. This is not a problem if your agenda matches his in both direction and speed. However, if you like to take things slow, you’ve got a problem in your hands.
Aries is ruled by Mars, the warrior planet. It is assertive, impulsive, direct. Aries, being the first sign of the zodiac, bursts forth, with little regard for its impact on others. In other words, the Aries man has a hard time understanding that there’s a way other than his way.
Granted, a first date can be adventurous, risky, hot. (If you want it to get hotter, massage his scalp, and wear red!) But be prepared to navigate the age-old question, “So you gonna invite me up for a beer?”
The Aries man likes a challenge, but he hates having the door shut in his face. You don’t want him to “ram” against it with his horns — so if you’re not ready for a wild ride tonight, propose a second date in the near future that will ignite his flame.
And if you’re just not interested, be direct … Aries does not pick up subtle signals.
Comment below: How was your first date with an Aries man?
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Aries men are movers and shakers and you must bow down to their dominance or let them think so. He will hurt you and not realize it as he lacks sensitivity to feelings. He will fight and protect you with his last dying breath but should you ever cross him prepare for the most intense battle of all this guy is a Warrior and a force to be reckoned with! Hot and passionate you will feel you kissed a volcano with hot lava..and were ravaged by a beast.
Hi my first date with this aries was a one night date and he never showed interest after even though we saw each other on various occasions. Now about 15 years later we have reconnected and I am at a point in my life that I want the same things as he does. We have not seen each other but have talked about dating and getting together. In the past few weeks we have talked and emailed just about every night. My question is how can I be sure not to push him away or turn him off? I am an aquarious and tend to be on the aggressive side I know he likes the chase. How can I be me and let him chase at the same time. I know we have the chemistry, the same wants and beliefs for the future. I just need to know how to capture his heart.
how can scorpio girl get her aries man back after she thinks he’s about to move on?
i have an astrology related question im a libra sun with a pisces moon, venus in scorpio and mars in virgo. i was being relentlessly pursued by a guy with sun in taurus, moon in aries, mars in cancer and venus in aries. finally i develop feelings for him and tell him and he completely changes. now he’s busy all the time. so i ask him directly if he wants the relationship or not and his reply is yes but i have to understand he’s busy a lot.now, im left going ‘what the hell.’ any insight?
To anonymous …
regarding your first date with the aries that was a one night stand. I totally feel you. I am cancer with aquarius moon and aquarius rising… (alot of aquarius) and had a similar situation…. all i can say is there’s a rythm and a reason to life that we can’t always pinpoint… I suggest you just be yourself… and be honest with him…. show him that you don’t need him and give him his space… think that’ll pay off in the end.
I met this particular Aries man about six years ago. I was 20 and he was 15. I actually had a little crush on his older brother who was my age. Aries would be around and I always thought that when he grew up he would definitely be a heartbreaker! Well, six years later, I am almost 26 and he is 22… we are find each other on facebook. He starts the chase. Turns out we live really close to each other so he invites me to his place where he and some other people were going to be hanging out. We send flirty messages all day. I go to his place… I was a bit late and the drinks had already been flowing for these people. He was very charming, very attentive but not overbearing. His friends were really nice and fun. He made the first move by kissing my temple while sitting on the couch, but it wasn’t until we decided to go to his bedroom that things got steamy. We didn’t have sex, but we definitely fooled around. The next day, no text, no call, nothing. Later that night I text him a simple hope you had a good day message and he wrote that he was in the gym and he would text me after. He didn’t. Oh well! I am not a repeat caller… I will give it a go once but it I am disrespected afterward, I don’t hound anyone. Too bad… he was hot! Funny thing was, before we fooled around, I asked if this was a one night thing or if he was interested in more. He said he was interested in dating. I told him either way was fine, we would fool around anyway, I just wanted to know so we were on the same page.
Aries men suck!
(PS – I am Pisces)
I am a Taurus Woman 22 my aries man 20, we are both extremely independant, responsible driven individuals and well on our way in our careers as if we were accomplished mid-30 yr olds, The first night I met my aries man, we quickly connected and I literally handed him my phone and said put your information in there, after the exchange it was immediate first thing lets do coffee tonight, a complete gentleman and very respectful we saw each other every night for a week straight for coffee dates he was very patient super direct and attentive always making eye contact when having a conversation after the first week he was ready to introduce me to his friends and his family but asked how I wanted to be introduced as his girlfriend or as his friend, I left it to him saying whatever you feel best! From that point we have been inseperablewe waited almost 3 months before getting at all sexual I found myself making out for hours though, simple as that nothing more… and it was well worth the wait… This will be my 3rd Aries bf.. I have done a seemingly good job at turning these playboys into relationship boys, My first love an aries 4 years older we seperated of course becuase we wanted different things in life and I did not want to get married or have kids, my second aries boyfriend a really close best friend but 3 yrs younger, again both hit the fork in the road where you go okay we are going different places.. but I remain close friends with both and remain extremely happy and satisfied with my current… The trick seems to be that they want a best friend where you can be easily included as one of the guys with no huffing and puffing from the instictual girly routine, being witty and clever and sometimes a ballbuster keeps them on their toes tehy like to see the girl in a dominant female empowerment role, they dont like pushover, needy, dependant personality type, but like a girl who is capable of keeping their interests in the bedroom allowing them to please as they want to please and rewarding them with the reinforcement that they are extremely gifted in that department, All My life I have associated and attracted Aries men, and it has fullfilled me greatly!
WELL I AM… AN ARIES WOMAN YES… THE BEST OF ALL SIGNS. I WILL GIVE YOU WOMEN A TRICK TO SCORING A GOOD ARIES MAN BECAUSE THE MEN AND WOMEN ARE MIGHTY SIMILAR. WE LOVE TO GET OUR EGO’S STROKED. ITS SAD, IT REALLY IS, BUT ITS THE TRUTH. THE MEN ARE SOMEWHAT VERY SELF CENTERED SO HEY IF YOU ARE REALLY INTO HIM JUST STROKE HIS EGO, AND AT THE BEGINING LET HIM WIN ALL ARGUMENTS BECAUSE IF NOT HE WILL STRAY TO SOMEONE WHO WILL. SO LADIES DONT BE DOWN WE ARE NOT AS COMPLICATED AS YOU THINK WE ARE JUST REALLY INTO OURSELVES, AND WE LOVE TO SEE PEOPLE REALLY INTO US TOO!
P.S FIRST DATE SHOULD BE LIKE MOVIES, OPERA, OR SOMETHING OF THAT NATURE.
IF ITS LIKE A MOVIE AT YOUR PLACE MAKE SURE YOU HAVE YOUR GAME HELMET ON BECAUSE HE WILL TRY TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. IF YOU ARE INTO THIS THATS FINE BUT SOME LIKE TO GET TO KNOW FIRST. JUST A LITTLE FUN FACT FOR TODAY!
LOVE AND BLESSINGS
-RAUXANNE MARIE
I’m an Aries woman too. We are the best! Anyway, kochic and the women before me are both right. Aries men want the best friend, the slut, the sophiticated, the intellectual, the comedianne- the best! They want a woman who will never let them forget that they are awesome- because deep down inside they really question that (even under all that bravado)- and that you genuinely care.
However, Aries people are crazy. You have to also have the right balance, because too much of one side is also a turn off. Good luck!
Here is the scoop….He is an aries and I am a leo. I am married however, just on paper. Our first date was coffee..we couldn’t keep our eyes of each other. Later that evening we met and it was the hottest sex I ever expierenced. We match really well. I am married, he knows, he seems to have an issue, even though he says he is afraid of commitment. I am confused. He wants me and he is afraid of me…please explain…There is a connection emotionally, physically, and sexually…please advise….
I love my aries man and i am a gemini. Its funny how we met because i left my boyfriend for this aries man. They are sweet and would do anything for the person they are with; until you make them mad. Yes, i had a one night stand with this Aries, couldn’t resist his passion. We are currently married and i love every minute of it
Here’s my experience with an Aries.. We met in town through a close friend, he starts coming on to me then backs away briefly before we meet up somewhere else and dance all night. (exciting dancer btw) When all the pubs are closed, he pushes the idea of either staying at mine or staying at his- no other possibility even after me denying him- there was no such thing as no! Anyway we go back to his as this seemt safer than me walking home and it’s obvious what went on that night. He doesn’t give me a ride home in the morning cos I have to leave earlier than he wanted me too. Then after that i got heaps of texts and calls from him wanting to come see me- he came and saw me once but backed off when i said no and deleted my number so he wouldnt embarrass himself again.
A year later, I’m asked out by a shorter blonder version of him and cruise round to his flat. His friends were really nice except there was a randomly quiet guy hiding his face in the corner. turns out this is Aries Man and I’m dating his brother (Libra- terrible in bed) and also turns out that Aries Man gave his brother my number after getting it off a friend. Libra guy was a complete cheating a****** and I only slept with him to make the Aries man jealous. It totally worked. It was only a week until I get a suprise visit from Aries with coffee and croissants in his hands and we had amazing sex. He invited me to go and stay with him for 3 days at his new place but for most of the stay he was selfish and lazy- he even said so a couple weeks later. He still texts me regularly but I haven’t gone to see him again-It’s just funny that he had to be the winner over his own brother.
Well I am a leo woman, so best match for Aries. i met him three weeks ago one night in the bar…we didnt even speak to each other as i was out with some guy friends. He wrote his number on a newspaper and passed to me secretly. he is extremely handsome, talk, perfect body and good looking australian boy.
he texted me the following three weeks but we didnt meet up until last night. I was staying in a hotel due to work reason. Patties day, so everyone out drinking. he came to see me at 12 in the bar we met. (it was the first time i made my date with him, i have delayed and postponed few of his invites)..
We danced and kissed..it was nice. i invited him up to my hotel. we talked and got to know more about each other. I have my period, so I didn’t want to have sex. we had some raw time in bed..He actually said to me that he wants to take it slow as well..as he wants to know me more..
but still…in the morning it was a bit embarrassed as he asked me if i want to see him again.. i said yes. then i asked him if he would want to see each other again..he said of course..then he left for uni class..
Now its 3 hours after..i feel nervous as i think i might made a mistake already by inviting him up…
do you think we ruin our chance for a relationship yet?
aries people love to be made a big deal off by compliments that come from the heart. make them laugh f***en love laughing and having fun. But don’t stalk or harrass him too much cas trust me he’ll run so fast away
aries people love to be made a big deal off by compliments that come from the heart. make them laugh love laughing and having fun. But don’t stalk or harrass him too much cas trust me he’ll run so fast away
I just started seeing an Aries male and I’m Sagittarius! – We had a GREAT time our first date and I had soooo much fun with his married friends laughing up a storm with the wife etc. – We have art and music creativity in common which is a great thing. I was concerned with having sex too soon…is there a restoration avenue for a long lasting friendship? – He owns his own business with the married man from the ‘couple’ I mentioned , and my Aries left an open invitation for me to come by whenever, hoever, he’s also currently prepping for some big business ventures and I didn’t want to drop by at the wrong time. – I was going to bring food and inspiration…any advice?
I just started seeing an Aries male and I’m Sagittarius! – We had a GREAT time our first date and I had soooo much fun with his married friends laughing up a storm with the wife etc. – We have art and music creativity in common which is a great thing. I was concerned with having sex too soon…is there a restoration avenue for a long lasting friendship? – He owns his own business with the married man from the ‘couple’ I mentioned , and my Aries left an open invitation for me to come by whenever, hoever, he’s also currently prepping for some big business ventures and I didn’t want to drop by at the wrong time. – I was going to bring food and inspiration…any advice?
virgo girl
hhhh Shhhhhh!T yep if i could only have read this a little earlier..it would explain a lot of things..anyway strangely i did that thing with the red..not on purpose..and he liked it and all the time he was touching me and things like that and i was feeling like whooah can we take it slow…and then when the moment came..he was right there in my face coming closer and closer..and i was so mad that ..i turned my face and gave him a little peck on the cheek..maan he was so mad..anyway he kept cool and kissed me on the forehead and then he asked me on a date again but he was so pushy and i thought he was just for sex so i turned him down..so now he has a girlfriend ..but he still writes me every week..asking me to go to his place..i really don’t get it..what do u think?why is he doing it?
Hi all,
Just found this thread after a desperate ( :S ) search for answers online!!
NEED advice please anyone!
here’s the Thing:
Me: Taurus Him: Aries
Me: Single Him: Married (!)
met in town (he works in public transport) became friends – chatted loads everytime we meet – he constantly talks about wife and family –
RECENTLY he shows “interest” in me – tho still talking constantly about wife et al – we have msn chats for hours into the early hours – the other week we have a “thing” round at mine – I am slightly 6th sense-ish, have gotten “vibes” off him for ages that he was heading this way, but ignored them as He is Married!!!
He is still showing “interest” in me in that way, tho STILL talking constantly about wife/family –
WHAT is going on??
I don’t think he is the “cake and eat it” type, however – this is how it looks, doesn’t it???
please, advice!!! :S
or have i missed the whole thing that “He Is A Man” !!!!
My brother is an Aries! Me, too. He says his fave date would have to be something active. Sports, dirtbiking, swimming anything that keeps ya’ll in motion. Or lunch. XD We like to eat. Us ladies enjoy sporty, adventurous dates too. Tennis, vollyball,hiking, or hitting up an amusement park. Make sure to feed us, and make us laugh. We love nothing more then a good time.
Never dated an Aries before, but my first date with one was on Dec 4th. Now he says he’s 100% Aries, but everything I’ve read so far doesn’t sound like him. Which is great since I’m a Scorpio. We went to the movies and I enjoyed his company so I’m hoping there will be a second date.. and third. I’m not complaining but he’s quiet, shy and doesn’t have that many hobbies other than boxing & music, which I’m into also. But what’s the catch.. should I wait for the wild side to show up? Any advice.. sharing is caring
I am a pisces im 18 and my aries man is 20. I have known him for a long time we always had a connection but I never gave him a chance at first cause I thought he would hurt me. But he never gave up on getting with me for a yr even tho I had relationships with other ppl also I am a virgin and I find that i end my relationships because im either pressured or they don’t want to wait so I thought the same would happen with him. But he assured me he’s not like that and he wouldn’t pressure me so I decided to give him a chance it took us two months to make it official and we have been together for 3 months now I finally feel ready to lose my virginity and I told him I want him to take it we tried a couple time cause were both very sexual and he turns me on all the time but everytime we try the intercourse part it goes downhill cause I can’t take the pain he’s patient with me but I don’t know how long that will last were both still very passionate when it comes to that and I surprise him with lingerie he really like that. We have a lot in common but also a lot of differences I am emotional and VERY caring he’s caring and loving but recently I saw a side of him I don’t like. He works two jobs to support his mother so I don’t see him much and its starting to take a toll on him so last wk I tried to understand what was up with him but he ignored me its the first time I been through something like that and it really hurt me I tried to get in touch with him and only got him once there was times I simply ignored it and tried to wait for him to contact me but like I said I am a pisces im very sensitive so of course I am thinking a lot of negative things and wondering if I did something wrong to him. He contacted me to say merry christmas and nothing else I got upset and txt him a message saying I couldn’t handle this and I really don’t want to give up cause I care but im done..he didn’t respond to that which left me heartbroken then he calls me on new yrs to say happy new yr and to ask me what’s up me I let him have it but in a calm way I didn’t shout or yell I was very sarcastic with him and he tried to explain himself says I didn’t do anything wrong and he just been stressed he don’t pick up the phone to explain what’s going on with him he will ignore ppl and don’t understand why I told him I understand he need space he could of just said that to me cause im very understanding he says he thinks about the relationship and he wish he could spend a lot more time with me but he doesn’t have time I told him I knew that from the beginning and I care about him not that I know he have stuff to do..I asked if were still together and he said did I end it yes were still together I asked if he care about me and he said yes he really do then I made him give me a kiss over the phone cause I wanted to see if I could make him do that. I mean I forgive him but I don’t see him the same I still care but that will be in the back of mind is that something I am always going to have to deal with??:-/ a confused pisces