So my question to all aquas out there, how can we win with you? The only answer I see anywhere here is that we are supposed to alow you to ignore us as we hope you come wandering back. I would say he doesnt even like me except Im way into astrology and I see account and account here of aqua guys pulling the same thing.

So we know they do this, and then come back. Ok , so how about this, How often do you find that they stay gone and DONT come back. Is that just as common?

And yes we are more like cherished playmates and thats how we look at the people we care about. And my mrealtionship with my mother and my daughter (who is fortunately an aqua herself) is very much like good friends than traditonal boundaries of heirachy. But i think its more special that way.

Long story into a short one. He has been coming to my house, visiting me, talking to me, listening to me, and treated me so well since early this year, and it hasn’t been dying down at all. In fact, I feel as if it’s just getting started. We have been… “Messing around” a lot in the middle of us being there for each other. He actually talks to me about how he feels and it does me good to help him, as he helps me. So he and I are real steady and have become great friends! But… Truly, I would love it if he approached me and made it… Official, in some way or another.

Problem is… He doesn’t want to hurt me. He has been telling me these months since he and I got more involved (after my Libra soulmate and I departed our own ways) that he “holds [me] precious” and can’t allow anything bad to happen between us. He’s really cautious. And he has been thinking so much! To think that he and I would be in a relationship right now, were he more decisive! Plus, he is distant. Well, he keeps a distance, and I respect it, but it’s not an awkward distance. It’s the “you know why we have to be distant and it’s okie, I still love you” type of distance. I have to be honest. I’ve been waiting and after “messing around” and being there for each other so much, it’s perhaps taking too long.

What could I do other than wait so that he may approach me sooner, or at all? He has told me what he feels for me already, and so have I. But now it’s just all up to him. I’ve been myself and I have been very good to him. I have to admit though, I’ve been very difficult, as always, so he was the one that had to approach me (as a way of me knowing whether he truly is interested and meant what he said or not, and he does), but nowdays I’ve been approaching him more, so he was happier. Should I approach him perhaps a tad more? I don’t want to smother him and drive him away… My soulmate left me and… Well, he is my soulmate. I’ve moved on, but my soulmate will always be in my heart, God bless him. And yes, the man I’ve been seeing knows about him and how I feel for him.

Ive found a new aqua guy too, that I find just adoreable. He doesnt get to see me often, but he is just as busy as he claims. He will go a couple of days sometimes without talking or txting me and Im lucky if I get to see him once a week. This kinda drives me nuts, and seems unnormal, how can you possibily get to know someone if you are so far away?

Some of these threads talk about an aqua disapearing for 3 weeks the comming back like its nothing. Seriously? Id naturally assume Id been dumped in that period of time. If you wanted to be with somebody wouldnt that be too long to be away? Seriously! Even if you are not sure if you are looking to build a relationship, why would you wanna go without sex that long?